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John Cafazza Obituary
Bethalto - John Cafazza, 55, Missy Cafazza, 52, and Dominic Cafazza, 12, passed away on Friday, August 13, 2021, as the result of a traffic accident in Bethalto.
John was born on March 15, 1966, in Alton, the son of Anthony "Tony" and Donna (Chapman) Cafazza and they preceded him in death.
Missy (Linton) Cafazza was born January 29, 1969, in Alton, the daughter of Robert "Fuzz" & Lynn Ann (Stotler) Linton. Her father preceded her in death.
Dominic was born on April 6, 2009, in St. Louis, MO.
They were members of Our Lady Queen of Peace Catholic Church in Bethalto.
John and Missy loved to exercise and work out. John loved to lift weights and Missy loved to run marathons. John and Missy both loved to host events and enjoyed the sun and having fun together with family and friends, but they insisted that their guests didn't bring food or drinks.
Missy was a Physical Education teacher at Our Lady Queen of Peace School and taught aerobics at Fitness and Fun for 25 years. She also loved real estate and was employed with Legacy Real Estate in Bethalto and with Southeby's Realty at the Lake of Ozarks, Missouri. One of her passions was painting and décor for others. Everything she did she did with passion.
John had a passion for music and loved to play the guitar. He also was very good at trivia, loved to watch movies with his family and enjoyed cooking and playing sports with his four sons. He loved to lift weights.
Dominic loved spending time with his brothers whom he looked up to and adored. He loved spending time with his friends and buddies and playing soccer and baseball. He attended Wilber Trimpe middle school and was very good at mathematics and loved to learn.
John and Missy are survived by their sons; and Dominic's brothers, Nick Cafazza, A.J. Cafazza, and Vinny Cafazza; Missy's mother, Lynn Ann Linton; John's four sisters and brothers-in-law, Gina & Kevin Branch of Wood River, Chris & Jeff Case of Wood River, Lisa & Dan Soliday of Bloomington, and Laurie & Mark St. Peters of Wood River; Missy's brother and sister-in-law, Mike and Jamie Linton of Bethalto, and several nieces and nephews.
Visitation will be from 3 pm to 8 pm Tuesday August 17, 2021, at Civic Memorial High School gymnasium in Bethalto.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 10 am Wednesday August 18, 2021, at Holy Angels Catholic Church in Wood River with Fr. Tom Liebler celebrant.
Cremation rites will be accorded after the Funeral Mass.
Inurnment will be private.
Memorials may be made to the family or to the American Cancer Society.
Online condolences can be found at www.eliaskallalandschaaf.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for John Cafazza
Jean Lam
August 12, 2023
John, Missy and Dominic have remained in my prayers since the tragic accident. I think of the Linton and Cafazza families often and pray for them often. John was a great man, so kind and welcoming. God bless AJ, Nick and Vinny and the entire Cafazza and Linton families. May your happy memories sustain you.
Kathy Karlas
August 18, 2021
I cannot find the words to express my sadness knowing the pain you all are going through. I hope you can get some comfort in knowing someday your family will all be together again in God´s Kingdom without the pain and sadness you feel in your hearts today.
Jean
August 18, 2021
John was an amazing man. I worked out of the TRV ct office and met him at several meetings and when I travelled to his St Louis office. So welcoming and kind and caring. He was one of a kind and all who knew him, loved him We shared a common bond.. the cardinal.. a sign from his dad who passed and mine as well. I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your Dad, Mom and Brother. God bless you all during this extremely difficult time
Ted and Judy Northway
August 18, 2021
So very sorry for your loss. May God bring you peace and comfort. We send our heartfelt prayers.
John Fowler
August 17, 2021
I don't have the words to take your devastating grief away,they are in God's hands now.Cindy always loved you guys,she will meet them in heaven ,so very sorry
Marky and Bob DiPaolo (Mrs. D)
August 16, 2021
I loved your mom. She was so much fun to work with, I can't imagine the loss your boys are feeling without your parents and Dominic. Dominic and my grand-daughter, Sara were baptized on the same day and they were confirmed on the same day. If there's anything we can do, please don't hesitate to ask. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. God bless you. Love, Mr. and Mrs. D
Marlesha Butler
August 16, 2021
My condolences to the Cafazza and Linton family. Sending you lots of love and comfort.
Bill weiler
August 16, 2021
I had the pleasure of working with John @ The Travelers. Through all the reorgs, changes, etc. John always had his staff best interests at the forefront. He knew "people" were his most important asset and set example for all in his unit. A laugh, a joke, great memories. To John and Missy´s Sons- The Good Lord, Your Dad, Mom and Younger Brother will be with you each and every minute in spirit and help you move forward. Don´t hesitate to ask for help-your support will be overwhelming. Take care. Bill
Loretta Madden
August 15, 2021
Nick, AJ and Vinny, I worked for your dad at Travelers. We travelled together and always had a good time with our clients and friends. I loved that guy. He was a wonderful boss, always so kind, polite, encouraging and funny. Those were some good times. I am so sad for the loss you of your mom and dad and little brother Dominic. Your dad loved you dearly, always telling us something funny one of you did. He was very proud of you too. They would want you guys to go on with your lives, study hard and become someone that they can continue to be proud of, always watching over you from above. Always in your hearts.
Terri Totzell and Tim
August 15, 2021
I taught John at st Bernards in grade school. What an amazing family. Missy I will miss passing you as we run by each other and seeing your smile always made me want to run/walk faster. Always loved you and your beautiful family. Rest In Peace
Melissa
August 15, 2021
Praying for the whole family. Sending love and strength to all.
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