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Ethel Pochocki Obituary

Ethel Frances Pochocki, renowned Maine children's book author, passed away in the company of her loving family on Wednesday at the age of 85.

Ethel was born Sept. 17, 1925, in Bayonne, N.J., daughter of Chester and Ethel Pochocki. Her passion for books and writing began during her years working at the New York City Public Library. It was while raising eight children that she turned to writing in the early-morning hours. Her writing career began when she won an essay writing contest about her experience taking in inner city kids with the Fresh Air Project in New York City. Through the 1960s and '70s, Ethel contributed numerous essays and poems to the leading Catholic publications of the time, including Marriage Magazine, St. Anthony Messenger and Abbey Press. Her writing shifted to the world of children's literature, where she has left an unparalleled legacy of truth and beauty. Her early works shared stories of unsung heroes and saints, meant to inspire children of all ages toward a life of service and compassion. Pochocki's profound poetry graced the pages of Echoes and Church World in Maine and national publications, including America and The Christian Science Monitor. Her numerous award-winning books include her collaborations with Maine illustrator, Mary Beth Owens, with the Gazebo, Penny for a Hundred and Rosebud and Red Flannel. She also collaborated with award-winning illustrator, Barry Moser, on Blessings of the Beasts and the Mushroom Man. Her contributions to children's literature were recognized by the Maine Library Association with the 2008 Katahdin Award for Lifetime Achievement and the 1991 Lupine Award for outstanding children's literature. Her classic, Penny for a Hundred, was recognized as a notable book of 1996, by the Smithsonian magazine. Her works are part of permanent interactive exhibits at the Bangor Children's Museum, Maine Botanical Gardens in Boothbay and the Children's Memorial Garden at the Camden Library. Her imagination and creativity unleashed in her kitchen created pies, breads and meals, with a flair of old world elegance. She proudly rejected modern technology and delivered her gifts to the world on a manual typewriter.

Ethel is survived by her eight children, Therese Parr and her husband, Gerard, Baltimore, Md.; Julie Terray, Brunswick, Maine; Carol Zatek and her husband, Adam, Scranton; Martin Marbach and his wife, Denise, Philadelphia; Peter Marbach and his wife, Lorena, Hood River, Ore.; Charles Marbach, Cape Rosier, Maine; Lucy Bradford, Harpers Ferry, W.V.; Rosemary Marbach, Boston, Mass.; and 12 grandchildren, eight great-grandchildren; and eight beloved cats.

A service celebrating Ethel's life will be held at a future date. Donations may be made in memory of Ethel Pochocki, to the Belfast Veterinary Hospital, 193 Northport Ave., Belfast, Maine 04915; or phone: 207-338-3260. Friends may share words of condolence to the family at www.brackett funeralhome.com.

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Published by Scranton Times on Dec. 7, 2010.

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Peggy Adair

December 26, 2010

Amen Ethel Amen
Who will I write to in the middle of the night now?! Please all you children, whose mama loved cooking for you all when you came in droves, find the apron I sent, created especially for Ethel, by my sister, Sandi Dutton of FancyApronStrings.com, after she, too, fell in love with Rosebud and Red Flannel. Note the applique in ...red flannel on that rosy old-timey apron. Wear it and keep the oven warm in your mom's spirit. She was a good friend to me for a few years, as my life's transitions rocketed on. We wrote back and forth and enjoyed sharing our stories. Amen Ethel Amen

Claire Chasse Williams

December 11, 2010

Our children have lost a very gifted author. Thank you Ethel for sharing your gift, the art of writing. My deepest sympathies go out to all of her beloved family. Ethel will be missed by all who had the pleasure to know her personally or who had the pleasure of reading her stories.

Jennifer Read

December 9, 2010

Hearing Ethel's name after many years of not being in touch reminded me of my delight in her as a person and in her writing, especially her Once upon a Time Saints

Ken Fanelli

December 8, 2010

I will miss this wise, witty and delightful lady who brought so much joy and laughter into our lives....

December 6, 2010

Ethel's light will never dim for she has left footprints in many hearts. I will miss my dear friend.

"Darling" Barbara, Gardiner, Maine

Fran Hodgkins

December 6, 2010

The children's book community has lost a shining light. Thank you for your wonderful stories, Ethel, and my sympathy goes out to your family.

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