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Barbara Mehringer Obituary
Barbara graduated from St. Michaels School, Stonington High School, and Mitchell College. She enjoyed traveling as a flight attendant for Eastern Airlines and later worked as a nurse.
Barbara was the mother of three wonderful daughters, Gretchen (Brian) Stalters, Gwyn (Chris) Veglas, both of Norton, MA and Heidi (Michael) Macina of North Stonington, CT. She was the very proud grandmother of six cherished grandchildren, Cameron, Corey and Brandon Stalters, Andrew (Kassidy) Veglas and Jack Veglas (fiance Hannah Goldman), and Michelle Macina her granddaughter, all of whom she loved so very much.
She was the most unselfish grandmother who volunteered tirelessly to help her children and grandchildren in school, sports and the arts. She spent countless hours volunteering for St. Michaels Parish, enjoyed working on Genealogy as well as quilting and sewing.
A private family burial will be held. In lieu of flowers please donate to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital or Stand Up for Animals, Westerly, RI. Gaffney-Dolan Funeral Home, Westerly is handling arrangements. For online condolences go to www.gaffneydolanfuneralhome.com
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Cheryl Buzzi Stakley
5 hours ago
Dear Gretchen and family,
I'm very sorry to hear about your Mom. I bet you have many special memories to keep you and your family strong during these times of great sadness.
I'm sending you a big hug right now and know I'll keep you all in my prayers.
Once again, I'm so sorry for your loss, Gretchen.
Kimberly Peluso-Luciani
Earlier today
Heidi and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing, I have memories of cold winter days ice skating near your house, she always had a smile on her face and was always kind to us kids. May God bless you and your family.
Kim Peluso-Luciani
Gail and Fred Shawyer
October 4, 2025
We're so sorry to hear of Barbara's passing It seems like only yesterday we were neighbors Our condolences to Charlie ,Gretchen,Gwen & Heidi sending prayers from Gail and Fred
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