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Katri Helena "Kaija" Dahlbacka

Katri Dahlbacka Obituary

DAHLBACKA, KATRI HELENA “KAIJA”

Born in Kaustinen, Finland, on November 24, 1918, she danced out of this life on January 3, 2007, at the delightful age of 88, in her home, with her family surrounding her while listening to her beloved polka music.

Mom met her very young and handsome husband Erik at a dance and told her friends, as she pointed, “That one is gonna be my husband!” Thus began a love affair that lasted nearly 65 years and a marriage that lasted almost 63 years, which included world travels and making new friends everywhere they went. Mom and Dad left Finland when there was a threat of another Russian invasion. They made their way via ocean liner to Australia where they built their lives for approximately two years. Dad’s aunt, who had previously immigrated to America, convinced Mom and Dad to come to the States, and they landed in Windsor, California. After a bit of a stay there, Dad’s cousin talked him into moving up to Eureka, where they made their home and built a family.

Mom was a member of the Order of Runeberg Lodge #102 for over 50 years. She was well known for her baking, cooking, sewing and craft projects and served as an officer in various positions in the Order of Runeberg most of her membership life. The Order of Runeberg was very important to her. She and Dad participated in the Midsummer Festival in Ferndale for many years dancing and assisted in hosting the annual Smorgasbord once held at Redwood Acres, helping to prepare and serve foods native to Finland. Upon our parent’s “retirement” they took up polka dancing and spent many years traveling the globe following polka dances and making more and more friends. As her health began to decline, she had the incredible blessing to be able to stay at home and be cared for by her daughter, Lisa. As time went along, it became necessary to find another caregiver to share in the duties, and we had the fortune of finding Gail Holland, who was graciously with us when Mom passed. Gail, we are eternally grateful for your expert, loving care of Mom and of Dad. You are truly a part of our family now. And to Robin Leach, who also shared in the duties of care giving for Mom, we thank you for the time that you spent and the love that you gave. You both mean so much to Mom and to all of us. We would also like to thank those of you who have come forward with such loving, comforting words of support during this very difficult, and sad time.

Mom is survived by Erik, her husband of 62 years; her daughters, Lisa and Sonja Dahlbacka both of Eureka; her grandchildren, Sarah Carroll, Trevor and Morgan Beebe and Levi Jones of Eureka; and her one and only great-grandson, Shyloh Nicholson of Eureka. She was preceded in death by her parents and 10 of her siblings in Finland.

Friends are invited to attend a Celebration of Life at Mom and Dad’s home on Tuesday January 9, 2007, at 2 p.m.

Memorial contributions may be made to the Order of Runeberg #102 Scholarship Fund in her name, P. O. Box 6064, Eureka, CA 95502.

Arrangements are under the care of Sanders Funeral Home, Eureka.

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Published by Times-Standard on Jan. 7, 2007.

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Sonja Dahlbacka

February 1, 2007

Mom... I'm not really a guest, but I thought I would write anyway.

I can't believe that you left us. I know it was time, I KNOW you're in a better place, I know all of that, but it's still such a shock to me that you are gone. I miss your accent so much, the funny things that you said unintentionally, your quick wit, and sinister sense of humor. I miss you. You were such a great friend to me as I grew older, and I appreciate that I was able to tell you everything and I appreciate your wisdom and guidance. I could not tell you all of this in those last moments, because I could not speak through my grief, but I hope that you are reading this now and know how much I love and appreciate you.

Love eternally,
Sonja

Terry and Barb Brightman

January 30, 2007

Dear Eric, Sonja, Lisa, and families, We are so sorry for your loss. We know this is a difficult time for you. Kaija was a wonderful woman, and I have so many memories of her; her smile that showed she cared, her fun personality while having all us kids into her home to play, teaching us how to make what seemed like hundreds of loaves (perhaps really a couple dozen) of bread for the R. Lodge bazaars., and her laughing with me while whispering the secret password that I forgot so I could enter the Jr. Lodge meeting--I was so happy she let me in. ;) I am a better person for knowing Kaija and her kind nature. Terry also had the pleasure of knowing her and thought the world of her. You are all in our prayers and always will be. Love to you all, Terry and Barbara

Jim Beebe

January 12, 2007

Sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jim & Judy Beebe

Alison McManus

January 10, 2007

Lisa, Sonja, and Dahlbacka family,
I recall many fond memories in and around the home of your loving parents. I espescially remember the warmth that your mother showed me and the other neighborhood children. I want to extend my heartfelt condolences at this very sad time. Know that you are all in my prayers.
Sincerely,
Alison McManus

Milissa Gaub

January 9, 2007

Sonja, Lisa and Family,

I am so very sorry to hear about your mother's passing. Although I have not seen you all for many years, I have many wonderful memories of your mom. Having just lost my dad, I understand the profound sense of loss you must feel at this time. Know that you are all in my prayers. Sonja, please contact me when you are feeling up to it.

Milissa Gaub (McManus)

Tim Willits

January 9, 2007

Sonja and Family,
We are very sorry for your loss. There are no "right" words now but know that you are in our thoughts. Fond memories of your mother will always be with us.
Tim Willits and Jim Cammack

Paula Fredrickson

January 8, 2007

So sorry about Kaija's passing. I am so sorry I will not be able to be there for the memorial. I am in Redding with my daughter Lynn. Please know you are all in my prayers. I will see you when I get back to town. My Love and Prayers Paula Fredrickson

Susan Marsh

January 8, 2007

Lisa & Sonja, I am so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. You & your family have my deepest sympathy! Susan (Pitlock)

Jill Ross

January 7, 2007

What a gift it was to have known your mother, Kaija. She always had a kind word and an undescribable "twinkle" in her eyes. I used to love to just listen to her talk....about anything--her stories were wonderful, and had a magical way of transporting a person right into them. Please know that we are thinking of you.
Sincerely,
Jill Ross and family

Lisa Ayers

January 7, 2007

Lisa and Sonja,
I am so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. I am thinking of you both.
Lisa Ayers

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