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Thomas O'Rourke Obituary

Thomas Patrick

O’Rourke Jr.

aka Koh-Koh-Now

Passed on February 27, 2009 at the age of 23. Thomas was born October 15, 1985, to Thomas O’Rourke Sr. and Stacey Abbott in Arcata, California. Thomas was almost 12 pounds when he was born and along with that weight, he was born with the biggest, kindest, most loving heart you would ever know. He always greeted and departed his family with a hug, a big kiss and the words “I Love You”, He always let us know how much he loved us. He was called Kocky in fun and he loved to joke and tease and always had a fast come back.

Thomas was a lifelong resident of Hoopa and a proud member of the Yurok Tribe. He loved his culture, and there were very few brush dances or jump dances he did not participate in.

He was a family man. He became a daddy two years ago when Buckley, then age two, came into his life. Tom took him in and loved and cared for him as much as any man could care for his own child.

Thomas was a passionate Raiders fan. He loved football and had been collecting football cards since he was about four years old. During his spare time when he wasn’t watching football games he was playing his video games.

Thomas worked for the Hoopa Roads Department and loved operating heavy equipment. His co-worker said that he knew the first time Thomas got on a piece of machinery that he had a special talent for running it. One of his lifelong aspirations was to attend Heavy Equipment School

Thomas has entered the spiritual realm and will join those who have gone before him: His great grandparents, George and May Abbott, Kenneth and Hazel Keller, his grandparents, Richard O’Rourke Sr. and Lorraine O’Rourke, Uncles: Robert Robbins, Harold Blain Marshall, Richard O’Rourke Jr., Michael John O’Rourke and Dennis O’Rourke; Brothers, Delmar James and Redsky Rojas and cousin Traci Melendy O’Rourke.

He will be greatly missed by; his son Buckley, his mother Stacey Abbott and Heath Jackson; his father Thomas Patrick O’Rourke Sr. and wife Sherry, his brothers and sisters, Charlene O’Rourke and Brandon Wiggins, Madolin, Gino, and Phillip O’Rourke, Windy Rojas and Jude Marshall, Sundance Rojas, Stormy and Robert McConnell, his grandmother, Madolin Keller who he loved very much and called Gram Dingy, his grandparents, George and Lynn Abbott, his Aunts and Uncles; Carol and Jeff Hutton, Cessie Abbott and Paul Toe, Steven Abbott, Leonard Abbott, Daniel O’Rourke, Carole and Vernon Lewis, Kay and Rudy Inong, Valerie O’Rourke, Patti and Roger Gibbens, Lawrence O’Rourke and Elizabeth Leach, Margo and Dick Robbins. He will also be missed by his niece, Tesla O’Rourke, his nephews Anthony Rojas, and Isha-Kom McConnell and his cousins, far too numerous to name.

Pall Bearers will be Gino O’Rourke, Sunny Rojas, Talbert Alvarado, Jim Bob Melendy, Daniel Tracy, Ranold Pearson, Don “Sugs” Colegrove, and Wes Crawford. Honorary pall bearers: Tiger O’Rourke, Mike O’Rourke, Rick O’Rourke, Dick Robbins, Phillip O’Rourke, Melvin Marshall, Merv George II, Lenard Abbott, Steve Abbott, Roger Gibbens, Jude Marshall, Paul Toe, Yadao Inong, Richie Nixon, Josh Salinas, Dagoberto Lopez, Glenn Moore II and Dylan Jensen.

Visitation will be held at Paul’s Chapel in Arcata, CA, from 4pm to 5:30pm Tuesday March 3, 2009. Wake will follow at the home of Taralyn Offins 917 Dowler Drive, Eureka, CA, (707) 954-0538. Services will be held at the Neighborhood Facility in Hoopa, CA, at 12pm Wednesday March 4, 2009. Thomas will be laid to rest at O’Rourke family cemetery at Tulley Creek, Weitchpec, CA.

Care is under the direction of Paul’s Chapel, 1070 H Street, Eureka, California.

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Published by Times-Standard on Mar. 3, 2009.

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March 11, 2009

To the Abbott and O'rourke families:
You are in our hearts and prayers, may the creator be with you all at this time. Another young Indian man has been taken from us.....Thomas was a remarkable individual, the kind of young man every parent would like their child to be just a little bit like.
All our Love and Prayers...
STAY STRONG !
-The families of Francene "Bucky" Colegrove and Ronald "Dean" Powell

Linda Hoffman

March 11, 2009

I am sorry for your loss, I didn't geet to make it to the funeral or the wake, but you were in my thoughts on the day of the funeral. I wish that I could of been there.Love Cousins Chub and Lena

Amanda Pratt

March 5, 2009

Thomas was my classmate of mine since elementary days. I was a little out there back in those days, saying and doing crazy things.
I remember this one time in high school, we were cutting class, waiting for the bell to ring and I was being silly. I told him he reminded me of a leprechaun with his red hair and very Irish name; I told him I was going to call him Lucky Charms. He chuckled, thought a bit and said "Well your crazy so I'm going to call you siwwy wabbit"
Just the way he said it cracked me up. Then he took it to another level and said "I'll call you Trixie instead"
It's just something that I remember fondly about him.
I saw him almost everyday around lunchtime and he always threw that huge grin. I'm really sorry that he had to leave us. My deepest condolences go out to Stacy & her family and to Thomas Sr. & family. Tom was a great guy. He won't be forgotten, we all loved him very much.

kapoon

March 5, 2009

Stacey, Tom and Sherry,
I am truly saddened for your loss. You are in my prayers everyday and may creator help you thru these difficult times.

Laurel, Shekky, and Zacchariah

March 5, 2009

Dear Tommy-Stacy-and the rest of the family,

We are very sorry for your loss. We know that it is difficult to hear words about your son, but he was well loved, and we want you to know that you are not alone. There are no words to make this sorrow easier for you to bear. All we can do is pray for you. We feel your sadness, you are in our thoughts, we send our love and hope to you.

Nikki Colegrove-Valentine

March 4, 2009

I didn't know Thomas that well, but the one thing I always noticed about him was he was always smiling. He was always very respectful and friendly. I truly feel that the community has lost a great person.
My thoughts and prayers go out to his family...

Julie,Terrance and family

March 4, 2009

Tom,Stacey and Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our hearts go out to the O'Rourke and Abbott Families.
If there is anything we can do for your families please let us know.

Julia McCovey

March 4, 2009

To the O'Rourke & Abbott Families,
I am so very sorry for your loss. I can remember when he was born. My deepest sympathy to all of you, you are all in my prayers.

Billee Willson

March 3, 2009

Tommy and Stacey, You and yours are in my prayers.

Will Hostler

March 3, 2009

Tom Sr. and Family
I'm very sorry for your loss and my prayers go out to you.

Leo and Stacy Canez

March 3, 2009

May all the memories of Tommy guide you through your heartache. He will remain with you in your hearts and in spririt. Much prayers and strength.

Marietta Banta

March 3, 2009

To Tom and the entire O'Rourke Family, to Stacy & family,
I am heartsick to hear of your loss. May you find strength in the days ahead. My thoughts and prayers are with you,
Marietta

Charlene Roubidoux-Betsillie & Family

March 3, 2009

Tommy Sr. & Family Members:
Our sincere thoughts & prayers are with you all during this very difficult time. Always remember the happy times and his words "I Love You." He is now with his loved ones who have gone.

James Gensaw Sr.

March 3, 2009

Aa-wok Thomas, skue-yen-ee pey-gerk, Thomas was a very good respectful young Yurok man who many people looked up to and respected, I am so sorry to hear about your loss, My heart goes out to the whole family. Keem-son-nee-ne-pek

Brandice, Robbie & Baby Maile

March 3, 2009

Dear Tom Sr, Stacey & Family,
It was a true honor to have known Thomas he was a beautiful man inside and out. Our prayers and thoughts are with you always.

Megan McCovey

March 3, 2009

To the Family of Thomas,
There are no words to explain how sad and sorry I am for your loss. He was my friend, classmate, and always managed to make me smile. Kokonow will always be in my heart.

mr. & mrs. Mattews

March 3, 2009

To the family,
Tommy was a great guy. Always full of life and laughter. He will be greatly missed. i will always remember seeing him and his girlfriend at the river.laughing and having fun.many wishes to her as well. your in our thoughts.

March 3, 2009

Dear O'Rourkes and Abbotts,
Words can't express how heavy your hearts must be. I just want you to know that I truly love all of you and my prayers are with you. Always your friend, Gael.

Gary & Deborah Markussen & Family

March 3, 2009

To the O'Rourke and Abbot Families,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time in your families life. May calm and peace surround your family in your time of need.

lewie whipple

March 3, 2009

Thinking of the family.

Yolanda Latham

March 3, 2009

Dear Charlene

I'm sorry to hear about your brother. I remember his bright red hair. You are in my thoughts. Please let me know if there is anything I can do.

Wendy Wilson

March 3, 2009

Dear Stacey,
I can't think of anything to say to make this sorrow easier to bear. I'll see you tomorrow at the service, and my prayers are added to all those already offered.

Merv George, Jr.

March 3, 2009

To the O'Rourke & Abbot families,

I am deeply saddened to hear the news of my good friend. My familiy's thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time. I will see you tomorrow at the service.

To Tommy Gun,

I am gonna miss seeing your smile and hearing your jokes in the weight room. It was an honor spending time with you and getting to hear your stories. May the wind always be at your back....may the sun always keep you warm....may the weights always be light....and may you always have a smile on your face! From all of us at the Black Widow Dojo....goodbye Tommy Gun..........:(

Eva Thompson

March 3, 2009

Dear Tom & Sherry and family
My prayers and heart goes out to your family at this time May Peace with you:
With Love from my family to yours
Eva Thompson and family.

Barbra Cooley

March 3, 2009

Tom Sr. and Family, I'm truly sorry by this tragic loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, in your time of grief. May your memories bring you all comfort. I will keep you all in my prayers.

Carolyn Lewis

March 3, 2009

To the family of ToMas
He was one great kid, kind, fun always had his big smile. Always polite. He will surely be missed.

Natalie Van Pelt - Scott

March 3, 2009

I am truly and deeply saddened by this tragic loss. I was very honored in knowing Thomas and to have him as a friend. We shared a lot of memories. My deepest condolences go out to the family through these tough times.

Rose Sylvia

March 3, 2009

Tom & Family,
I don't have words that will give you comfort at this time for your great loss (the world's loss). I just wanted to let you know I love you and will keep you all in my prayers.

Rick Moorehead

March 3, 2009

Tom Sr.and Family, I'm sorry to hear of your loss.I know that you have many fond and happy memories to help you get through your time of grief. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family

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