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Michelle (Barnier) White
February 17, 2010
Maria & Family,
I just heard about the passing of Paul. I am so very sorry for your loss and know that there is not much one can say at a time like this that will make you feel better. Hold on to the memories of him very close. His love will live on in you for eternity.
Geoff Yudien
February 16, 2010
Dear Elaine, Maria & Matt,
I'm so sorry to hear of Paul's passing. I always enjoyed seeing Paul's smile in the mornings, back when we were Ridge St. neighbors, you were just starting up the bakery in your kitchen, and I was doing the Waterbury bread runs.
Paul will be missed. My thoughts are with you!
Bill and Marion Green
February 12, 2010
Dear Elaine,
Marion and I were deeply saddened to hear of Paul's passing; what a shock, and loss.
While time and distance has separated us all, we remember all the good times together.
I remember in Mrs. Sargent's English class where we had to read MacBeth, and reading that 'life is but a walking shadow, and then is heard no more'. In Paul's case, he will be heard and remembered, as he will live in our memories and in our hearts.
Sincerely hope that you will find peace through the loss of your husband and friend, and this difficult part of life. Perhaps through the love and support of family and friends you will move forward.
February 12, 2010
Dear Elaine, Matt and Maria,
I was very sad to hear about Paul's sudden and unexpected departure. He was such wonderful man and neighbor.
I will never forget the welcome you all extended to me and my family when we became your neighbors more than twenty years ago.
I like to offer my heartfelt condolences to you. Paul will be greatly missed.
Sincerely, Johannes Otter
Cope Bradley
February 11, 2010
"Dear Manghi family, I send my love and sincere condolences to you. I was devestated to hear of Paul's death. He was a wonderful man and friend to me. My heart and prayers go out to you."
Michelle Gardner
February 11, 2010
Dear Elaine, Maria and Matt,
I am stunned by the sudden loss of Paul... what a wonderful man, what a wonderful family. I can only imagine your pain and loss, Elaine, after so many years together... my heart goes out to you. Paul will live forever in our memories as the sort of person it is a privilege to know.
Peace to you all, Michelle, Sophie and Stella
February 11, 2010
Dear Elaine and Family,
We are so saddened by your sudden loss of Paul. He gave us the kind, quiet stuff of your bread while, Elaine, you gave us the sweet toppings.
In his weekly stop for sandwich bread, Steve forced himself to go through the doors of your bakery last week with Paul's apron (so appropriate)tacked to the outside door. He knew there would be a large and tall empty space where Paul used to move in the background. Yet Steve needed to see you and express our sadness--and get his weekly bread. Somehow, we knew you'd all be there. We hope you find comfort in continuing to bake the bread that so many in this part of Vermont appreciate and count on.
We will miss seeing the two of you bicycle by our home this summer. Elaine, please wrap yourself in all the love and comfort of your family and friends.
Sending you our deepest sympathy,
Ann Marie Giroux and Steve Litkovitz (East Montpelier)
Mari and Ralf Schaarschmidt
February 11, 2010
Elaine, Maria, Matt and Family, please accept our sincere condolences during this time of deep sadness. We didn't know Paul well, but one couldn't help feeling his gentle spirit and kind heart. You are all in our prayers.
The Schaarschmidt Family
Janet Van Fleet
February 10, 2010
I just got back from Japan to this sad news. What a wonderful man Paul was. I send heartfelt condolences to Elaine and their children.
Henrietta Jordan
February 10, 2010
Dear Manghi Family, It was with great sadness that I read of Paul's passing. May he and you find the peace that passeth understanding at this painful time and may you be comforted in your grief.
Lynn Orton
February 9, 2010
Dear Manghi Family,
I am so sad to hear of Paul passing on, He truly was so kind and caring,
It was a pleasure to know him. Wishing you all fond memories to help the healing process begin, Lynn Orton (Hillcrest Foods)
Aaron Ancel
February 9, 2010
Elaine, Matt and Family,
I am so sad for your loss. I have fond memories as a kid of pulling fresh baked sticky-buns from trays, guided by Paul's soft voice. Whenever I walk by the bakery, I remember the good work done inside by Paul and family.
Sincerely,
Steve Stoufer
February 9, 2010
Paul was my father in law, my family, and perhaps most importantly, my friend. Although deeply, deeply saddened by the loss of his life, I have been forever enriched by knowing him. The value of any relationship seems to be best symbolized by how values and interests grow together and become more in tune. With that, I would say to the whole of my family here in Vermont, in Virginia, in New Jersey, and across the country, how fortunate I am to have all of your values from which to draw and learn from. In this most difficult time I am perhaps most comforted to know that I will continue to learn from you all and, from Paul. I am learning more and more everyday the importance of community, of humility, and of faith in others. Although Pauls presence will be sorely missed in all of our lives, his soul and his values will continue. His young grandchildren who met so very much to him have already learned much about life from him. Elaine, Maria, Mat, Alice, Gene, and Aunt Maria, please know that Paul will forever be with us. He has been and will always be an influence on our lives and the decisions we make. I am so very thankful to be a part of your lives and I am most thankful to have had you and Paul be a part of mine.
My mind, my heart, and my soul are with you all, peace.
February 8, 2010
Dear Manghi Family,
I was saddened to hear of the passing of Paul- our world in Montpelier is a small one my brother Stafford lived above the bakery and through him we exchanged a christmas tree from our tree farm for bread we did this for several years. I also know through my own life that a small town can offer comfort and pain. I n my life the quote I recite in a time of need is this: COURAGE IS FEAR THAT HAS SAID HER PRAYERS. May your memories and love guide you in this time of loss.
sincerely,
Elizabeth Scoville-Kappel East Montpelier Vt
Wendy Farber
February 8, 2010
Dear Elaine and family,
My family and I send you our deepest condolences. In Yiddish, there is an expression of someone being a "Mensch". It means the best person you can be with a heart that is open and giving. Paul was such a person!
I enjoyed being around you both when I briefly worked in the bakery some 20 years ago.
I will always remember one time that you and Paul rescued me from a too long cross country ski in E. Montpelier where I ended too far away from my car and too tired to ski back.
All of us feel your loss.
With love,
Wendy Farber and family
Ellie Blachly
February 8, 2010
Dear Elaine,
I feel so sad to hear of Paul's death. I haven't seen you for a number of years, but you and Paul were a wonderful, warm presence when I moved to 28 School Street with my two little girls. We needed the sweetness you offered, both in personal terms and in the practical form of bread and rolls. We were just talking about the two of you the other day, when my youngest turned 21, remembering the rolls for five cents.
I wish you courage in the difficult days ahead.
February 7, 2010
Dear Elaine,
As longtime customers of Manghi's, Emily and I were extremely saddened to hear of Paul's passing from life. Your bread is a staple in our lives.
Please accept our condolences to you, your family and the staff at Manghi's Bread.
With Sadness,
Daniel and Emily Neary
East Montpelier, Vt.
February 7, 2010
Elaine and family,
I remember the neighborhood potlucks as a young girl on Ridge St. Now, being older I realize what a sense of community those gatherings brought among neighbors. I remember Paul and Elaine being a central part in bringing people together. Thank you for those memories.
Fondly,
Elisa Otter
Shirley Howie
February 7, 2010
Elaine and family,
May you find comfort,strength and peace in the days ahead. Paul was a wonderful, kind and caring person who enriched the lives of all who knew him and he made the world a better place for all of us. I will always remember him with deep affection.
With love and sympathy,
Shirley Union Howie
Jane Stoufer
February 7, 2010
Dear Elaine and Family,
I was so sorry to hear the news when Don called the other night. I know how close the family was and is and take comfort in the fact that you are there for each other now. I so enjoyed my last visit to VT and the tour of the bakery and the "winery". I am glad I had the chance to know Paul and send you my deepest sympathies. Rejoice in the memories you will carry forever.
With Love,
February 7, 2010
Dear Elaine and family:
Needless to say you and Paul have meant a great deal to us since Steve and Maria married in 2001. We are deeply saddened by Paul's passing. We hope you will know what a powerful factor Paul was in our lives. We hope that you, Maria, Matt, Alice and the rest of the family will take comfort in knowing the peace that comes from a wonderful life full of devotion and contribution. While we are so sorry we cannot be with you we do want you to know that you are all in our hearts.
Fondly,
Don and Mary K. Stoufer
Bonnie Hazelton Oakman
February 7, 2010
Elaine, I was so saddened by the news of Paul's passing. Peter called me yesterday. Floods of high school memories came into my mind. We all had such good times together. My prayers go out to you and your family during this time.
Maria Lamberti
February 6, 2010
Dear Manghi Family, I do not know you and am not sure I ever had any of your breads, but I know your name just by working in Montpelier over 15 years.
From what I have read in these passages it appears that Montpelier has lost a great community leader and friend. It also sounds like Paul's life's teachings should be used as the dough/yeast starter for others.
My sincerest sympathies to all of you.
John Goodrich
February 6, 2010
Matt and Maria, I am so sorry to learn of your loss. You and your family provided so much for our schools and town.
John Goodrich
PJ Plastridge
February 6, 2010
There are just no right words to say at a sad time like this.Our wonderful 28 School Street will always hold many fond memories for me and one niece in particular who was spoiled by having "MR. Pauls" round peasant bread every Friday.Knowing Paul & Elaine were always next door was a comforting thing for me, you both always made the days brighter!To you, Elaine; Maria, Matthew and Pauls parents my thoughts and prayers are with you. For you Paul my friend,God speed,you will be missed.
Walt Stoufer
February 6, 2010
Dear Steven and Maria,
Cousin Don informed me by email of the untimely death of Maria's dad at too young of an age. My condolences are conveyed, as is my hope that you will accept the strength, that is unlimited from the Lord, in coping with this loss. Death is a profound experiance for we survivors, and there is absolutly nothing we, who are here on earth, can do to alleviate the trauma and gain immediate comfort. It simply takes time - which grinds on and on unrelentlessly.
I think that the Lord is the key, as He was in my case when my darling Ritty died. I hope you'll use Him to help you through your days of challenge and sadness.
Love
Uncle
Walt Stoufer
Roland and Brenda Pepin
February 6, 2010
We were shocked and saddened to read of Paul's passing. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Damariscotta Miller
February 6, 2010
Dear Elaine, Maria, and Matt- what wonderful babysitting and baking experiences I have had with your family and I am thinking of you all now and always... Damariscotta
Mike Capron
February 6, 2010
Elaine, I was so sorry to here that Paul passed away. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Karen and I extend our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Sending warm, healing thoughts to lift your spirits and help you git through your time of sorrow.
Carolyn Herz
February 6, 2010
Dear Elaine and family: We are shocked and deeply saddened by Paul's death. We have been touched by Paul in so many ways: stopping in after school when the children were little for rolls; seeing you and Paul out at the Adamant theater; and, above all, by Paul's unfailingly kind and gentle presence. It is hard to imagine our neighborhood without him. You are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. Carolyn, Jonathan, Ethan, and Seth
JAMES DYLAN RIVIS
February 6, 2010
Dear Elaine and family.
Bread is the staple of life, the foundation of our diet and an absolute delight to enjoy.Nothing exemplifies all that is good in life more than the smell of freshly baked breads.
The bakers of bread are, equally, at the heart of our community as they labor at their ancient craft while most of us are asleep.
Paul and Elaine's Manghi's Bakery laid the cornerstone for all the great artisan bakeries we now have available to us here in Central Vermont.To me,Paul exemplifies all those solid qualities which I miss so much from my childhood in Kirkbymoorside, Yorkshire. People like Paul work without a lot of fuss and noise,expressing only the occasional wry or well thought comment as did my cabinetmaker/joiner grandfather, our village cobbler, farrier, butcher, farmers and womenfolk.The labor in these essential crafts, especially in times gone by, is carried out with a reverence for the process of simple,hard,consistent manual work and it's just rewards.
Paul impressed me as being 'from another time', perhaps because this once small boy from a moorlands village counts the sound of the anvil, the handsaw, the smell of leather, fresh meat pies and fresh breads as being at the core of the best of his memories.
My sincere condolences.
Rita Garcia Bassett
February 6, 2010
Elaine:
Please know that I am thinking of you during this difficult and untimely passing of Paul. My thought and prayers are with all of you. Please extend my sympathy to the family.
Arlene and Jim Clark
February 6, 2010
Dear Elaine and family,
Reading through all the entries written here, Jim and I would echo the same wonderful sentiments. Paul was
more than a fine baker ~ he was a marvelous person who made Vermont a better place. I know you will miss him terribly, but God will give you strength for each day. You are surrounded by a large caring community who share your sorrow. We commend Paul to God's everlasting love and keeping.
Mae Lamb Deyette
February 6, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
February 6, 2010
I did not know Paul, but I know his bread very well. It is the best!
Sad to hear the news, and my sympathy to the family.
Mark M.
E. Montpelier
Janet Ancel
February 6, 2010
Dear Elaine, Maria and Matt--
Paul's warmth and steady presence was a gift to us all. I have wonderful memories of stopping by the bakery with Aaron or Andrew and having Paul offer some little treat.
With prayers and love,
Janet and Steve
February 6, 2010
Dear friends,
As a relative newcomer in Montpelier, I have come to equate community with Manghi. People like you stand for all this is good here. My heart is full of gratitude to Paul and to all of you.
Ginny Catone
February 6, 2010
Elaine,
Elaine, I am shocked and very sad to learn through today's headline in the Times Argus of your unexpected and untimely loss. You and Paul and your family and your wonderful, homey local bakery have brought so much to our town and our parish communities over the years. Paul will be hugely missed by so many of us. I join countless others in my thoughts and prayers for you and your children during this very difficult time, Ginny Catone
February 6, 2010
Elaine,
Elaine, I am shocked and very sad to learn through today's headline in the Times Argus of your unexpected and untimely loss. You and Paul and your family and your wonderful, homey local bakery have brought so much to our town and our parish communities over the years. Paul will be hugely missed by so many of us. I join countless others in my thoughts and prayers for you and your children during this very difficult time, Ginny Catone
February 6, 2010
Dear Elaine, Maria & Matt,
So sorry to read of Paul's passing. May the good memories give you strength. He has left a lasting impression for many in the Montpelier community.
Always,
Kathy on behalf of the Duprey family
Gray & Scott Gatlin-Williams
February 5, 2010
Maria, Elaine and Family, we are very saddened by the news of Paul's passing. Although few, we recall great times and wonderful conversation with Paul. We specifically remember a great dinner party at his wonderful home with lots of "Uncle Charlie"! What a great guy. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Love from Scott, Gray and Reed.
Scott,Gray,Reed Gatlin-Williams
February 5, 2010
Maria, Elaine and Family, we are very saddened by the news of Paul's passing. Although few, we recall great times and wonderful conversation with Paul. We specifically remember a great dinner party at his wonderful home with lots of "Uncle Charlie"! What a great guy. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Love from Scott, Gray and Reed.
February 5, 2010
Elaine, I'm so sorry to hear about Paul. I live in PA, now. I', married to John Stockton who now has ALS. My name is Terry Brigham Dodson Stockton. Again i'm so sorry and you are all in my prayers. e-mail [email protected] or 610 779 9669
February 5, 2010
Elaine:
We were so shocked and saddened by this news. It was so good to see you both last summer and we really enjoyed talking and reminiscing. Our thoughts are with you and your family. Keep in mind that he's now in a better place.
With much sympathy,
Ron and Joan Bradley, Swanton, VT
Emilia and Graylyn Johnson
February 5, 2010
Dear Elaine, Matt & Maria,
Graylyn and I are very sad to hear the unexpected news of your loss. Paul was a wonderful gift to our community and, I'm sure, an irreplaceable part of your family. We mourn with you. Make sure to call on us if you need anything. Elaine, you know where Graylyn works--so don't hesitate to ask him for anything you might need. We're thinking of you and wishing you the best. Love, Emilia and Graylyn
Andy Boutin
February 5, 2010
Elaine and Family, I am very saddened by the news of Paul's passing. You and Paul have brought so much more than just fantastic bread to us: A sense of community, of sharing, of caring for the children that stop by for a warm roll and the embodiment of mastering and enjoying a craft. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Sandy Webb
February 5, 2010
Maria and family: I just learned now of your dad's passing, and although I never personally knew him, I am sure he was a great dad and a greater person, expecially since I know his daughter is. I am so sorry for your loss and your family will be in my prayers to bring you peace and comfort in the Lord's arms. Love always from Sandy Webb, NECI.
February 5, 2010
Elaine and Family,
We are sorry and sad to hear the news of Paul's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
The Staff at Hunger Mountain Co-op
February 5, 2010
Elaine and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of Paul's passing. I enjoyed every Tuesday that I would come to your bakery to pick up bread for my store. Both you and Paul always had time to speak to me not only about how business but also how life was.
He lives on in our hearts and memories.
Sincerely,
Jeff Warner, Moretown Vt.
February 5, 2010
Elaine and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of Paul's passing. I enjoyed every Tuesday that I would come to your bakery to pick up bread for my store. Both you and Paul always had time to speak to me not only about how business was but also how life was.
He lives on in our hearts and memories.
Sincerely,
Jeff Warner, Moretown Vt.
Jane Osgatharp
February 5, 2010
Elaine and family-In the past few years we have casually talked about getting together to do things-but, we didn't follow through. I arrogantly thought that there was always time. Paul, you, Maria and Matt are precious to me. Please take care, all of you. I know how hard it is.
Jane Osgatharp
Montpelier & Merida, Mexico
February 5, 2010
Elaine, All of us at the Northfield Savings Bank were saddened to hear of Paul's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
The Staff of the Montpeleir Office
Donna Jerry
February 5, 2010
Dear Elaine and family, our thoughts are with you at this time of loss.
February 5, 2010
The Manghi Family,
My prayers and sympathy are with you all as I read of Paul's passing.
I have many memories of the Manghi family.
Wayne Staples
February 5, 2010
Elaine,
I am so saddened to hear of Paul's death. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Cheryl Poor
Kenric Kite
February 5, 2010
Dear Elaine,
This town will not be the same without Paul. I am deeply sorry. He will be sorely missed.
Dian Kahn
February 5, 2010
Dearest Elaine and Family,
We have such fond memories of enjoying you as neighbors when you lived in Montpelier and enjoying Paul's lovely homemade wine. Manghi's Bread has been such an asset to the community and the warm rolls loved by our children. We are so sorry for your loss... and our loss.- Dian and Billy Kahn
February 5, 2010
Elaine,
I was stunned and saddened to hear of the death of your husband. It was such an inspiration to see how well the two of you worked together.
I hope that happy memories will someday ease your pain. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Carol Haupt
February 5, 2010
Dear Elaine, Maria, and Matt,
I am SHOCKED to read that Paul has died. You and all your family will be in my fervent prayers over this most difficult time. Know that you are surrounded by friends who love you all.
Sherry Stimmel Brattleboro, VT
Diana Edwards
February 4, 2010
Dear Elaine,
My thoughts are with you and your family. While we did not know each other well, I remember our hurried visits at your bakery back in the 80's. I remember thinking how wonderful it was that you and Paul always seemed to enjoy what you were doing. One loaf at a time, you were inspirational. Thank you. I am so sorry for your loss. Diana Edwards
Sam Colt
February 4, 2010
Dear Mrs. Manghi,
We are so so so sorry for your loss and are holding thoughts and prayers in our hearts for you all. Hoping you are brought small moments of comfort somehow.
Much much love from Sonny and his Family
February 4, 2010
For Paul's family: I am so sorry to hear this, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Vicki Lane (Montpelier, VT.)
Donna Murphy
February 4, 2010
Elaine - I was so very sorry to hear about Paul. His passing brings back so many memories for me of meeting you both, working in the bakery and being fortunate to have your friendship. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
love,
donna
February 4, 2010
Dear Elaine and family, we are stunned and saddened at the news of Paul's death.
Please know that we are thinking of you at this most difficult time. Tom and Theresa Lever
Jon Bouton
February 4, 2010
Elaine, Paul's kindness, strong morality and the relationship you share are what come to mind when I think of him. I'm honored that he touched my heart and is in my memories. -
Terri Dukette
February 4, 2010
Elaine, Maria, Mrs. Manghi and Gene,
I cannot tell you how sorry I am to hear of Paul's passing. Just know my thoughts and prayers are with you and the rest of your family.
Terri Dukette
February 4, 2010
Elaine & Family,
My Dad just called me and told me about Paul. I am so sorry . Our thoughts are with all of you.
Deb Thomas Jordan
Harrison, Maine
Marianne Lynch
February 4, 2010
Elaine, Maria, Steve, Hazen, Stella, and Matt, We are so sad about this news and wish we could ease your pain today. You are all in our thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time. Much love is coming your way - Mari, Jim, Kyle and Colin Lynch
February 4, 2010
Elaine and family,
Through your work you both have given us so much joy. Our thoughts are with you.
Mark Perry
February 4, 2010
Elaine & family ~
Please know that all of us are thinking of you and that our thoughts and prayers are with you. Your loss is felt far and wide. We are here for you should you need anything at all.
Sincerely,
Mark Perry & family
Jim Taylor
February 4, 2010
Elaine I can't think of two nicer people on this planet than you and Paul. Out deepest sympathies to you and your family; I will remember him as a fantastic high school and college classmate. He was as sincere and considerate as anyone could be.
February 4, 2010
Elaine & Family,
Nancy and I were deeply saddened to hear of Paul's death.Last summer at our 45th reunion you and Paul and our classmates were rejoined by our past school days. It was a good and memorable event that I will not forget.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Robert & Nancy {Bell} Goodrich
Karen Flood
February 4, 2010
Reaching out across the miles.
Elaine, Matt, Maria, Steve, Hazen, Stella, Alice, Gene and Maria: You are in so many hearts and minds today and will be in the days ahead. Paul will be forever in my heart.
With love and deep sadness at the loss of my friend, but grateful for his having been in my life.
Liz Sykas-Ringgenberg
February 4, 2010
Elaine and Family,
We are so saddened to hear of Paul's death. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. With much love; Liz, Wendi and Persephone
February 4, 2010
We offer our deepest sympathy to Elaine and the family, Paul will be greatly missed by friends and the community. Sincerely, Wayne and Elizabeth Morse
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