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Aubrey Alexander Gary Jr.

1935 - 2025

Aubrey Alexander Gary Jr. obituary, 1935-2025, Mechanicsville, VA

BORN

1935

DIED

2025

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8014 Lee Davis Rd

Mechanicsville, Virginia

Aubrey Gary Obituary

Aubrey Alexander Gary, Jr.

October 12, 1935 - December 27, 2024

Aubrey Alexander Gary, Jr. (Alex), of Mechanicsville, VA, passed away on December 27, 2024 at the age of 89. Alex was a Richmond native, growing up in Highland Park and moved to Mechanicsville in the early 1950's after he served in the Army during the Korean Conflict. He graduated from Concord College, Athens, WV with a Bachelor of Science Degree in Accounting. After graduating, he worked in the oil industry as a controller. He retired from Crown Petroleum after many years of service. He was a long-time member of Gethsemane Church of Christ. He enjoyed telling amusing stories from his life experiences and kept us laughing with his quick wit. He is survived by his wife, Shirley; and stepchildren, James Heath (Janet), Byron Heath, Robin Kahn (Will); stepdaughter-in-law, Carlene Heath, five stepgrandchildren; five stepgreat-grandchildren; and cousins, Lewis Brandt, Dr. Phillip Brandt and Frank England. He was preceded in death by his parents, Aubrey A. Gary, Sr. and Countice Brandt Gary; cousins, Dr. Charlie Brandt, Billy Brandt and Buford Isbell; and his stepson, John Heath.

Family will receive friends on Friday, January 3, 2025, from 5 to 7 p.m. at Bennett Funeral Home Mechanicsville Chapel, with funeral services at 2 p.m., on January 4, 2025. Interment will be at Forest Lawn Cemetery following the service. His wife would like to thank Hospice of Virginia for their kind support.
Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Jan. 2, 2025.

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Tommy and Mary Ann Atkinson

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