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Bette Gilchrist Obituary

GILCHRIST, Mrs. Bette Diebold, passed away peacefully on Thursday, May 5, 2022 at Westminster Canterbury in Richmond, Virginia. She was born on June 15, 1939 in Gayville, South Dakota. She was one of two children of Mr. Charles Diebold and Mrs. Gladys Diebold. She was predeceased by her brother, John Diebold; and her husband, Bruce Gilchrist. She is survived by her sons, Mark Nanavati and Jay Nanavati; and five grandchildren, Charlie, Kate, Will, Pierce and Luke.

She was graduated from Gayville High School in Gayville, South Dakota, Augustana College in Sioux Falls, South Dakota (B.S.), the University of Colorado at Boulder, Colorado (M.S.) and Virginia Commonwealth University in Richmond, Virginia (M.R.C.). She taught biology for many years at Stonewall Jackson Middle School and Patrick Henry High School in Hanover County and at John Tyler Community College.

Bette was intellectually curious with a quick wit. An avid lover of nature, her friends and her family, she retired in Richmond, Virginia, where she was a proud member of the Richmond Friends Meeting.

A memorial service will be held at the Richmond Friends Meeting House on Friday, June 10 at 7 p.m. Her ashes will be placed at Crabtree Falls, so she can continue to enjoy one of her favorite natural wonders. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the National Audubon Society, 225 Varick Street, New York, New York 10014.

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Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch from May 13 to May 15, 2022.

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Carole Kennedy Harris

July 29, 2022

My condolences to Bette's family. My mother, Dulcy Harris, lived next to her in Parson's Health Care, and we have known Bette at Westminster Canterbury for several years. I was so fond of Bette. On another occasion when both she and my mother were on the same hallway in Health Care, we had breakfast together every day for the week of my visit. Before she moved to Parsons, I saw her walking in the outdoor gardens often at Westminster Canterbury and we always exchanged a few happy words. I'll miss her very much! I've donated a contribution to the National Audubon Society in her memory.

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Kathie Garner

May 15, 2022

We were Friends, and neighbors ,on the Northside of Richmond.

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