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Elaine McNeil

1955 - 2026

Elaine McNeil obituary, 1955-2026, Chesterfield, VA

BORN

1955

DIED

2026

Elaine McNeil Obituary

Elaine Marie McNeil, born February 18, 1955, passed away peacefully on March 18, 2026.

Elaine is survived by her loving spouse of 37 years, Daniel McNeil; her son, Matthew Elam, and his wife, Erin Elam, along with their daughter, Lorelei Elam; and her son, Eric Elam, and his wife, Katee Elam, along with their children, Ellis and Avery Elam.

Elaine deeply loved her family and was the heart that held them all together. Her warmth, strength, and devotion will be cherished and remembered always.

A celebration of life will be held for family and friends on April 18th from 1:00 PM to 3:00 PM at the Harbour Pointe Clubhouse, 5710 Promontory Pointe Rd., Midlothian, Virginia 23112.
Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Mar. 29, 2026.

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