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Helen Okun Obituary

Helen Elena Okun died February 6, 2005. She was born in 1915 in Budapest, Hungary, and immigrated to New York City in 1920. Her father, Adolph Katchko was a famous cantor, composer of Jewish liturgy and teacher of cantors. Her mother was a dramatic soprano, who studied for the concert stage. Helen had one of the first Bat Mitzvah ceremonies in the U.S. Her beloved deceased husband, Cantor Morris Okun, served Temple Beth-El with distinction for close to 50 years. During that period, she was Senior Choir Director for over 40 years. Throughout her years at Temple Beth-El, she directed the junior choir, as well as the junior congregation services, taught students for Bar and Bat Mitzvah, and taught Hebrew, music, and Biblical History. She sang solos at weddings and also served as a wedding director. She presented numerous programs, both as a soloist and a director, performing cantatas and choral works for many organizations, including Hadassah, Grand Group, Beth Sholom Home, Richmond Jewish Community Center, Jewish Women's Club, Beth-El Sisterhood, and the National Women's League. The Synagogue honored her as a woman of valor and again at her retirement from teaching Hebrew School. She achieved all of this while simultaneously fulfilling the innumerable tasks and responsibilities of loving wife, mother, and grandmother. She was wise, caring, loving, and giving. She is survived by her daughter and son-in-law, Judith and Louis Belinkie; her son, Dr. Philip Okun; four grandchildren, Joel and Sherry Okun, Michael and David Belinkie; great-granddaughter, Maggie Okun. Funeral services will be held 2 p.m. Tuesday at Bliley Funeral Homes' Central Chapel, 3801 Augusta Ave. Interment Beth-El Cemetery.

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Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Feb. 7, 2005.

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Florence C. & Donald A. Lahy

February 21, 2005

Helen will be dearly missed by many people. To us, she was a wonderful neighbor and friend. We remember seeing the students arrive at her home for Hebrew lessons, which she taught for so many years. We extend our sincere sympathy to her children, grandchildren and other family during this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Merideth Ann Gray Watson

February 21, 2005

Judy and Philip,

This caught me completely off guard. It feels like just yesterday we enjoyed listening to the three "Okuns" singing together at Temple Beth El. Your Mother was a very precious individual.

You are both in my prayers.

Merideth

Karla Adair

February 16, 2005

We will sure miss Helen at Beth Sholom's Campus. She was one of the most upbeat ladies, and never had an unpleasant word to say about anyone. She is now singing again with her favorite Cantor.

Rick Bialac

February 9, 2005

Helen, I was happy to "getting to know you." They didn't mention you were also a great-grandmother to Maggie Okun. That's where I first met you.

Marie Collins

February 8, 2005

Helen will be missed greatly by her Beth Sholom family. She was a gentle soul and was always gracious.

Esther & Meir Binshtok

February 8, 2005

We were so sorry to learn of Helen's passing. The legacy Helen and Cantor Okun left will long be remembered. Not only were they part of my growing up years, but they were part of our wedding. Helen's kindness and caring will be remembered. May all the good memories be a comfort to Judy, Phil, and the entire family.

Cheryl Sporn Gross

February 7, 2005

Words cannot express how I felt when I heard that Helen had died. Her death signifies the end of an era at Beth-El. Without Helen and Cantor Okun I never would have been bat mitzvah myself, nor would I have developed my love of the Hebrew language and Jewish choral music without their guidance. Not to mention that our wedding (Bill's and mine) went off without a hitch thanks to Helen! In the past two years whenever I went to the Gardens to visit my family, I always went looking for Helen, and she ALWAYS knew me! Last October I marveled at how she was still able to daven the whole Kabbalat Shabbat service by heart. I am very sad. I will miss her very much. My sincere condolences go out to Judy, Philip, and all the family. I'm sorry I can't be there for her funeral. HaMakom Y'nachem Etchem B'toch Aveilei Tzion v'Yerushalyim. Much love, Cheryl

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