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Thomas Lancaster Obituary
August 25, 1944 - January 18, 2025
Thomas Leitch Lancaster III, beloved husband, father and grandfather passed away at home peacefully after a short illness on January 18, 2025 at the age of 80. Leitch is survived by his wife of 50 years, Clare M. Lancaster, children Thomas L. Lancaster IV (Christiana), Robert Bolling Lancaster II, and grandchildren; Emily Caroline Lancaster, Thomas L. Lancaster V, Mary Turner Lancaster and Robert Bolling Lancaster III.
Leitch was a graduate of Virginia Tech and self-employed in the building business for 50 years. He started his career renovating houses and converting apartments to condos in the Fan District of Richmond. He eventually formed a partnership, Parker Lancaster, with Russell J Parker III. Leitch sold his business to his partner in 1989 and moved to Wilmington, NC where he continued to build homes. He and his family returned to Richmond six years later.
Leitch loved to play golf and hunt. When retired, he did it with great enthusiasm, but nothing gave him more pleasure than being with his grandchildren, crabbing, boating at Wrightsville Beach, and enjoying his family and friend's company. Leitch never met a stranger. He was a kind, wonderful person. His sense of humor and optimism will always be remembered by friends and family.
A service will be held Wednesday, January 29, 2025, 11 a.m. at St. Stephen's Episcopal Church, 6000 Grove Avenue, Richmond, VA. In lieu of flowers, please donate to The Riverside School, Tunnel to Towers Foundation or St. Stephens Episcopal Church. Leitch's service can be live streamed at - St. Stephen's Episcopal Church, ststephensrva.org.
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Gerry
July 16, 2025
I would like to share this with his family and friends. The Shankers, golfing buddies at The CCV, "Honored" Mr. Lancaster by allowing his lovely wife the honor of hitting the starting shot on the first tee. I believe Leitch was smiling and looking down on us , as he guided the ball right down the middle of the fairway still having fun and laughter with his loved ones. Rest in Peace my friend, we miss you. Gerry Ransone
Bob Buerlein
July 15, 2025
Keep´em on the fairway!
- Bob Buerlein
David Biesemeyer
February 28, 2025
Leitch and I were in the Army together at Ft Polk and Ft Sam Houston in `68 and `69. He was a great friend and a natural leader.
David Biesemeyer
Gerry Ransone
January 29, 2025
It was my pleasure to serve this kind gentle friendly man for over 20 years at The Country Club of Virginia. I never saw him without that wonderful smile and a hint of laughter. He made golf fun !! We will miss him and hope his family and friends find Peace and Comfort in all the fun memories he leaves behind.
Gerry Ransone
Tyler & Julie Grimes
January 29, 2025
Your friends at Wrightsville Beach will forever cherish his smile and zest for life. Heaven has welcomed a true gentleman, and we are grateful to Jesus for embracing him in His kingdom.
Clare and the boys, please let us know if you need help at the beach.
We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
Mike & Carter Andrew
January 28, 2025
Clare/Family: Sorry to hear that Leitch has passed. He may be gone in person, but he is now an Angel, sitting on your shoulders when you are awake and resting in your hearts when you sleep! Thoughts & Prayers, Mike & Carter Andrew
Bonnie Agee (your devoted Banker from yesteryear)
January 27, 2025
Clare and family - what a loss for your family and the community. I can easily see his casual, comfortable style in my mind´s eye, and the joy in his voice when he talked of those of you whom he loved. I know it was difficult to let him go but you can be sure you will carry his spirit for the rest of time. My love to you, Claire, and sympathies to all of you.
Boyd Johnson
January 27, 2025
Sad to hear this news. He was always good company.
Barbara Daane
January 26, 2025
Barbara M. Daane & family. We needed more time.
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