Search by Name

Search by Name

Robert Rustay Sr.

Robert Rustay Sr. obituary, New Cumberland, PA

Robert Rustay Obituary

Robert Allen Rustay Sr., 65, of New Cumberland, took his last ride on Sept. 30, 2025. He was born on Nov. 30, 1959 to the late Harold and Ethel (Stile) Rustay.

Bob was counting down the days to retirement where he could finally spend more time with his beloved wife, who he called his Queen, and his motorcycle, which he affectionately nicknamed his "mistress." On weekends, he could frequently be found in the garden or out taking long rides with his wife. He loved spending time at the range with his sons and grandson exercising his right to bear arms, or enjoying a steak with an ice cold beer in his hand. He recently adopted a new puppy, Harley, who quickly stole his heart. He enjoyed playing fetch and spoiling her rotten with the best toys available. He loved America, cold beer, the New York Yankees and the Beatles, but most of all he will be remembered for how much he loved his wife and his family. Everyone he met was a new friend. He had a giant heart and a passion for what he believed in. He was never afraid to stand up for what he thought was right.

Bob's life of love and laughter will forever be cherished by his wife, Mary (Tyson) Bowers; his sons, Bob Jr. (Maria), Dan (Cheri) Rustay, and his stepsons, Josh (Katie Baker) Bowers and Kacey (Marisa) Bowers. He leaves behind his grandchildren, Robert, Shaunna, Cali, Chase, Iver, Troy, Dash and Camden. He is also survived by his sister, Linda Unger; niece, Tracy Unger-Gabor; and nephews, Geoff Unger and Michael Serra.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Times Leader from Oct. 4 to Oct. 5, 2025.

Memories and Condolences
for Robert Rustay

Not sure what to say?





5 Entries

Elizabeth and John Griner

Yesterday

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you know the peace and comfort that God provides out of His deep love for each of us.

Briar Brelsford

October 4, 2025

Bob was one of the gentlemen that trained me when I started as an optician. Bob was full of life and energy. He was a good man and incredibly genuine. I didn't know him very long, but he made a lasting impact and without his patience training me, I wouldn't be working as an optician. I hope his family and loved ones are able to find peace. He's gone way too soon.

Suzy Raineri Koshier

October 4, 2025

My heart is broken for the family,he was truly the best,we lived around corner from him,I played with him since we were little and stayed friends with him thru hi school,he was a great,and funny person who could always make people laugh and a joy to be around him, Rip Bobby,you were one of the good ones,

Noelle Pierangeli

October 4, 2025

I knew Bob from My Eye Doctor. He was always smiling, friendly and extremely helpful. He was just a great human being. My heart goes out to his wife and entire family.

Ed Loucks

October 3, 2025

God bless my friend, tell Hogi I said hello, I'm sure you will both be having a wonderful time again, good memories!

Showing 1 - 5 of 5 results

Make a Donation
in Robert Rustay's name

Memorial Events
for Robert Rustay

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Robert's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Robert Rustay's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more