Robert Allen Rustay Sr., 65, of New Cumberland, took his last ride on Sept. 30, 2025. He was born on Nov. 30, 1959 to the late Harold and Ethel (Stile) Rustay.
Bob was counting down the days to retirement where he could finally spend more time with his beloved wife, who he called his Queen, and his motorcycle, which he affectionately nicknamed his "mistress." On weekends, he could frequently be found in the garden or out taking long rides with his wife. He loved spending time at the range with his sons and grandson exercising his right to bear arms, or enjoying a steak with an ice cold beer in his hand. He recently adopted a new puppy, Harley, who quickly stole his heart. He enjoyed playing fetch and spoiling her rotten with the best toys available. He loved America, cold beer, the New York Yankees and the Beatles, but most of all he will be remembered for how much he loved his wife and his family. Everyone he met was a new friend. He had a giant heart and a passion for what he believed in. He was never afraid to stand up for what he thought was right.
Bob's life of love and laughter will forever be cherished by his wife, Mary (Tyson) Bowers; his sons, Bob Jr. (Maria), Dan (Cheri) Rustay, and his stepsons, Josh (Katie Baker) Bowers and Kacey (Marisa) Bowers. He leaves behind his grandchildren, Robert, Shaunna, Cali, Chase, Iver, Troy, Dash and Camden. He is also survived by his sister, Linda Unger; niece, Tracy Unger-Gabor; and nephews, Geoff Unger and Michael Serra.
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Elizabeth and John Griner
Yesterday
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you know the peace and comfort that God provides out of His deep love for each of us.
Briar Brelsford
October 4, 2025
Bob was one of the gentlemen that trained me when I started as an optician. Bob was full of life and energy. He was a good man and incredibly genuine. I didn't know him very long, but he made a lasting impact and without his patience training me, I wouldn't be working as an optician. I hope his family and loved ones are able to find peace. He's gone way too soon.
Suzy Raineri Koshier
October 4, 2025
My heart is broken for the family,he was truly the best,we lived around corner from him,I played with him since we were little and stayed friends with him thru hi school,he was a great,and funny person who could always make people laugh and a joy to be around him, Rip Bobby,you were one of the good ones,
Noelle Pierangeli
October 4, 2025
I knew Bob from My Eye Doctor. He was always smiling, friendly and extremely helpful. He was just a great human being. My heart goes out to his wife and entire family.
Ed Loucks
October 3, 2025
God bless my friend, tell Hogi I said hello, I'm sure you will both be having a wonderful time again, good memories!
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