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Alsha Elmendorf Obituary

DELMAR Alsha McCourt Elmendorf, 86, a longtime resident of Delmar, died Sunday, December 7, 2003 after a brief illness. She was born December 13, 1916 in Memphis, Tenn., the daughter of the late Lee Timothy and Alsha Meehan McCourt. After the death of her own mother, she was raised by her father and stepmother, the late Donna Monteserrat McCourt. Alsha attended the University of Tenn. at Knoxville and married the late John W. Elmendorf on February 14, 1936. They were married for 67 years until his death on November 5, 2003. Together, they spent hours in outdoor pursuits, especially fishing and boating. A member of the St. Stephen's Episcopal Church, Alsha had served on the Altar Guild. She loved handcrafts, especially knitting and sewing, giving most of what she made to charity. Alsha was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother and friend. In addition to her parents and husband, she was predeceased by her son, Andrew David. She is survived by her daughter, Donna Elmendorf and her husband Dr. Edward Shapiro of Stockbridge, Mass. and by her son, Lee and his wife Heidi of Latham, N.Y. Additionally, she is survived by four grandsons, Trevor, Joshua, Zachary and Jacob, a niece and two grandnieces. Relatives and friends are invited to call from 3:30 to 6 p.m. on Wednesday, December 10 at the Applebee Funeral Home, 403 Kenwood Ave. in Delmar. A funeral service will be held at 10 a.m. on Thursday, December 11 at St. Stephen's Episcopal Church on Elsmere Avenue in Delmar. Burial will be in the Bethlehem Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to St. Stephen's Episcopal Church, Elsmere Ave., Delmar 12054 or the American Diabetes Assn., 7 Washington Sq., Albany, NY 12205.

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Published by Albany Times Union from Dec. 9 to Dec. 10, 2003.

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Desiree Kelley

December 12, 2003

Dear friends and Family,



Alsha was my neighbor. She enjoyed and appreciated the little things in life. Every year when our Colarado Blue Spruce was decorated with Christmas lights she would say how much she enjoyed looking at the lights through her window.

When I saw her walking her dog she was always very friendly and greet me with a smile.



I will extremely miss her as my neighbor.

The memory of her kindness to her neighbors with always be remembered.



She was a kind gentle soul.



Sincerely



Jim and Desiree

Kelley

Bedrosian Gary

December 10, 2003

She was a wonderful wife and mother. I'll always have fond memories of many visits to a home made gracious by her welcoming presence.

Millie Schmitt

December 10, 2003

My mom, Donna McCourt Schmitt, enjoyed many wonderful letters from Alsha. They always stayed in touch through the years until Mom's death in 1999. Our prayers and thoughts are with Alsha's family and friends.

Fred & Joan McCourt

December 9, 2003

A dear friend and relative lost to fond memories that will never be forgotten. - Fred & Joan

Karen Kugelman

December 9, 2003

Lee and family-I am so sorry-words cannot express. Karen

Lee Elmendorf

December 9, 2003

We'll miss you Mom. Give our love to Dad.

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