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Memories and Condolences
for Benita Garland
Sponsored by Lillian E.Garland a loving sister.
May 1, 2021
Benita, Benita, Benita, my cousin Widget, it's taken me a long time to acknowledge your transition. I will always remember you as being full of grace, kindness and compassion. What a beautiful legacy to leave behind.
Tracey Bush-O'Neil
Ny
April 28, 2021
My Beloved Cousin, Benita. Pulling up on that time of year. I cannot believe it has been 13 years. Still polite to wait until the 3rd so it wouldn´t be our Aunt Leila´s birthday. You´re ere always her fav to take to her Workshop Picnics. We were always together. Even when we were apart. Although you, Poke and Potta are my younger cousins, you were always like my little sisters. And it was my duty to protect y´all. Even at the risk of bringing harm to myself. Ain´t nobody messin´ with my cousins! I stayed on Clinton Ave so much my Mom would call me to come home for dinner. I be like, I´m at Aunt Jeanette´s. We already had dinner and back on our bikes riding all over Albany or walking to the ball park. Then back to the house steps. The conversations those steps heads, lol. I LOVED BEING WITH MY COUSINS. Losing you was the second worst day of my entire life. Second only to losing Nikita. I loved you then, and love you now. You´re born into family. "Friends" come and go. FAMILY IS FOREVER! How you used to say " Damn Skippy!" Rest Up, Cuz. See ya later.
sneat bey
May 14, 2014
Schnetter Chapman-Bey/sneat We live next door on Clinton ave, as children,we laugh,cry an play together,I love u my sister, I c u soon
Jezsire Garland
April 27, 2010
I love you and Miss you more than ever Aunt Benita! there is never a day wher i dont go thinking about you! you are missed by everyone and I know your proud of me and Phiana because we accomplished High School and now where going to college to make something of ourselves! we will make you proud! LOVE&MISSYOU!
Mosi bundu
October 9, 2009
I don't know how I missed the notice/obituary, I have checked the Times union since 2000 after returning to SC. The other day I did a search for Garlands in Albany NY and found Lillian, she told me of the loss the Garlands have experienced with Rod , Greg and Benita. I love the family, I had a crush on Benita, she was such a greta person and dancer, so lovely, I was so happy that she would dance with me..it's a year and something sice your gone Benita, we all love you who knew you, some better then others but the love is still the same..RIP..
Mosi A. Bundu
aka Freddie Lyles formally of Albany NY..
Tracey (London) Commerford
November 16, 2008
To the Garland Family, Thank you for sharing Benita with the rest of us. I knew her a long time ago as a child and till this day I have never forgotten what a special person she was. I was always struck by her kindness and compassion for others. I hope you will take solace in knowing that although she is no longer here physically she will always be present in your heart.
Sabrina
September 20, 2008
Hello Widget (Benita),
I know it's taken me some time to show my respects, but you out of all people should know sometimes it's extremly hard to say goodbye to someone you have known for many years. I won't say it's goodbye, i will say it's a new beginning for all of us. Hey! tell my dad (Wolf) to give me my monthly call... See you in our next life.
To the Garland Family:
Stay Strong and my deepest thoughts & prayers go out to you all.
from a old family friend
Carolyn
July 22, 2008
Benita,
Life is what it is...God knows best.
I just had the courage to write without losing it. You meant more to me than you know, always helping. In the last 2 years with my losing my nephew, Lil Emmett & then my sister, Thomasina.
You were there for me and I will always be there for your family.
Sleep on princess.
Felicia Green
June 6, 2008
To The Entire Garland Family:
I am sincerely saddened to hear of your loss of Benita. I remember her beautiful smile and vibrancy. She always struck me as an extremely smart woman with class and distinction. I am sure you miss her and will see her again. Your family has been so gracious to so many in their loss, I pray that God will grant you one hundredfold of peace and mercy in this time.
God bless you,
valerie king
June 4, 2008
DEAR GARLAND FAMILY, I'M SADDEN AND SHOCKED TO HEAR ABOUT THE PASSING OF BENITA, I MET BENITA A COUPLE OF YEARS AGO,SHE WAS A VERY, KIND AND GENTLE PERSON...GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY........
Judy French
June 3, 2008
Solacement and prayers to the Garland Family. Benita will live on in the fond memories of all who had the pleasure of meeting her. My thoughts and prayers are with you!
Gregory Garland
June 2, 2008
aunt benita i miss u so much when i wake up it's just me and grandma here it use to be us 3 and will always be us 3 i love u and i cant wait un-till the day we meet again i love u so much!!!!!!!!!!!
Trenese Ogletree
June 1, 2008
My deepest sympathy to the Garland family. Take care and continue to love one another.
May 31, 2008
TO THE GARLAND FAMILY: I WAS VERY SADDEN TO HEAR ABOUT BENITA. BENITA HAS TAKING CARE OF ALOT OF FAMILIES, IN THERE TIME OF SORROW. NOW IS HER TURN TO BE TAKING CARE OF. GOD WILL TAKE VERY GOOD CARE OF HER, MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
ROCHELLE BYRD (VA)
rachell mccallister
May 30, 2008
to mother and father there are no words to say but god no all things please let that be your light at the end of the tunnel to the rest of the familly my prays are with you love always
DeBorah Gibson
May 28, 2008
To Cliff,
My heart was so saddened to hear of the recent passing of your beautiful sister Benita. I would often see her from time to time and she would always remember me from when you and I used to hang out when we were younger. She would always keep me up to speed on how you were doing. She cared deeply for her "little brother" and I am sure she will continue to keep her eye on you from up above! Please give my best to Potta and Poke and the rest of your family. May she rest in Peace.
Love -- Bora
MELODY TEASLEY
May 27, 2008
TO THE GARLAND FAMILY; I AM VERY SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT THE LOSS OF BENITA SHE WILL BE MISSED. MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU IN THE PALM OF HIS HANDS. MELODY
May 23, 2008
To the entire Garland Family. We were sadden to hear of the Passing of Benita. But we rejoice in knowing that the physical suffering and pain has ceased. She was a beautiful person with a kind and caring spirit. Benita will be sorely missed. We find comfort in knowing that "To be absent from the body is to be present with the LORD". Please be encouraged and know that Benita is present with the LORD!
We will be praying for the entire family as you go through this your time of bereavement.
The Moulton & Brown Family
Sonya H.
May 22, 2008
To Potta and Pokie, Garland Family:
I am so sorry for your loss. I know you and your sister were very close and that's the way Sister's should be.
You never saw one of you without the other..
I can remember when I first met all of you when we were all teenagers. Funny how TIME flies!!!
Your sister is at REST and has no more worries.
I will keep your family in my prayers.. May GOD bless you...
.
Tina Wright
May 22, 2008
I grew up knowing 3 beatiful young ladies. Polkie,Potta,and widget. each of them have made my childhood fun and exciting in their own special way. Widget will be missed but never forgotten by me. My condolences to the family an may god keep you and bless you for all the days of your life.
Deborah Burke
May 20, 2008
To the Garland Family:
In your time of sorrow, my family sends their deepest sympathies. My sisters and I attended Mercy High School with Benita, and she and I were in the same graduating class. I will forever remember her kind eyes and bright smile. She will smile down on those she loved forever.
Deborah (Caraway) Burke & Family
Earthene Tolliver
May 20, 2008
To The Garland Family,
I'm sorry to hear about the loss of Benita. May God bless and keep you in this time of sorrow. She will be truly missed. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Earthene and family
Mrs. Tracey Bradley-Shaw
May 19, 2008
To The Garland Family, God Bless you all, sorry for your loss. Benita, will always have a place in our hearts.
Cara Quaglieri (Bronx) & Jackie Portee (Staten Island)
May 19, 2008
Dear Garland family: Our deepest condolences to you at this most difficult time.
God Bless.
Theresa Bland
May 19, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Karin Winbush
May 17, 2008
Know that your daughter was healed spiritually by Jesus' sacrifice of love when she trusted Him as Savior in her life. You and family are in my prayers. Be encouraged to know that her eternal existence with the Lord has already begun ....
Shirley Dennis
May 16, 2008
To the Garland Family
Remember the times of joy, laughter and how well Benita served the community with her lovely smile and professionalism. My prayers and condolences are with you.
Stephanie M Cummings
May 15, 2008
Dear Potta and Garland Family,
On behalf of my grandparents Mr & Mrs Leonard & Eugenia Cummings, Sr of Schenectady, NY and I, we wanted to send our sincere condolences to the entire Garland family. They would often comment how pleasant both you and Benita would be to them while attending many of their own friends' Homegoing Services. They always maintained how professional, kind, and compassionate Benita was to them in passing. Please know we continue to pray for all of you during this difficult time and I'm sure your closest friends and family are only a footstep away. Yours in Christ,
Michelle Smalls
May 15, 2008
To the Garland Family;
Benita is at peace. I will keep your family in my prayers. May God continue to use you as a vessle.
Michelle Smalls, Lane & Taylor Family
rosina thomas on behalf of the Walker, Turner and Thomas families
May 15, 2008
The battle is over...
Victory is won.
Please know that we love you and you will always remain in our hearts.
Thank you for all you have done, both professionally and personaly. Keep your hand in the hand of the man who stills the waters and calms the see. There is truly a bright side somewhere. Don't rest until you find it. Benita found it. Remember the love that surrounds you.
Yvonne Smith
May 14, 2008
To the Garland Family: My deepest sympathy goes out to you. The precious angel that was lost shall never be forgotten.
Gail Teabout-Jones
May 14, 2008
Dear Garland Family
We (The Teabout Family) have been praying for you all and we are sorry for your loss. God is in control, hold his hand and he will lead and guide you. God Bless
Gail Teabout-Jones & Family
Regina Wright
May 14, 2008
To the Garland Family: My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you all in the loss of your loved one. She was truly a "Gift from God" and will be missed by us all. May God continue to watch over you and keep you during this time and always.
DOMONIKA HARRIS
May 13, 2008
My thoughts and prayers to the family.
The entire family has always blessed us with love during our time of need. May God bless you and your family with the love and strength in this time of sorrow.
R.I.P. BENITA
Annette Johnson-Marbley
May 13, 2008
Words cannot express the sorrow I feel for the lost of your daughter, sister, aunt and friend. Benita (Wigget) was a beautiful person inside and out. I'm truly glad that she crossed my path in this life. You are all in my prayers. Sincerely.
karim Adeen-Hasan
May 13, 2008
I met Benita 27 years ago, and my how time has past. I observed her as a beautiful shining angel, an achiever who was multifacited and seemed to be able to achieve anything she decided to do. Benita loved her family, career, education, belief in God and her community. Yet in spite of all these gifts, she was a much better person, one who I can honestly say, my life is so much better because I got to know her through the years, and I am a better person because of that. May God rest her soul and continue to comfort her family.
Cynthia Johnson-Bowman
May 13, 2008
Dear Lasone and Family,
"Earth has no sorrow, that heaven can not heal." The family is in my prayers.
Jeannette Stasack
May 12, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I met Benita not too long ago as one of her homecare nurses although I only knew Benita for a short time she touched my heart the moment I met her.
God bless you!
Robin Allen-Bowens
May 12, 2008
TO THE GARLAND FAMILY,
MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. AND AS YOU FACE THIS JOURNEY, KNOW THAT GOD WILL GUIDE YOU AND GIVE YOU THE STRENGTH THAT YOU NEED . MAY GOD BLESS YOU
Sara Cook
May 12, 2008
To The Garland Family, Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you at this time. The Garland Family has been a pillar of strength for so many families, including mine. May you find comfort in knowing Benita is at peace.
Joyce Turner McKiever
May 12, 2008
Mr. and Mrs. Garland and family,
Extended condolences on the loss of Benita, one of your precious gifts. Benita was a wonderful professional woman loved by so many. As a parent, my heart goes out to you. I will pray that God grants you His perfect peace, comfort and strenghten you at the beginning of each new day.
Your sister in Christ,
Joyce Turner McKiever
Regina Dixon
May 12, 2008
To Lasone, Rodney, Gregory & The Whole Garland Family. My Family knows all too well your pain. With the lost of so many of our family members and only 2 months ago we lost our mother. The mourning continues, the pain is so deep that it feels as though it will never end. That's the physical and mental pain but our Hearts know that God Knows Best!
Please know that God being the Mercuiful All Knowning God will guide your family through.
Keep your eyes to the sky always and you all shall see Benita with All The Love that she shown to so many.
May God Remain With You All, Always.
Sincerely,
Regina, Patricia, Annie and Bruce Dixon. Lonnell & Louis Williams.
cheryl R
May 12, 2008
Your family has been so heavenly graced by God, and this grace has been proven by the comfort that you all have provided to so many people. Benita is at peace right now...and in a better place! Love is provided to you and yours!
Sonia Middleton
May 12, 2008
To The Garland Family,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Your sister was a beautiful person, and she will be missed.
May God Bless You and Keep You,
Sonia Middleton and Family
Mamie Turner Maxwell
May 12, 2008
I extend my condolences to you, and my prayers that you may be comforted through losing such a beautiful loved one. May the Lord in his infinite glory touch your faith and keep you all strong. Pray, for a family that prays together stays together. I'm still filling the lost of my mom. But knowing that one day we will be together again helps me through another day. God knows what he's doing so we have to lean and depend on him.
cheryl whittingham
May 12, 2008
dear garland family,
beautiful benita's birthday and mine are two days apart---i was born on november 14. but ten years separate us--i was born in '55 ...so i didn't have the blessed pleasure, of 'knowing' ms. garland. from all accounts, she was beauty, class, intelligence and "black power, pride and inspiration" personified. a saved soul. a child of the King. may she rest in peace...
and garland family and friends of the family, look to the hills for your strength, which cometh from the Lord. the Maker of heaven and earth.
prayng for God to keep you all in His tender, loving arms of mercy and healing.
cheryl whittingham
Rev. John B. Killikelly
May 12, 2008
Dear Brother and Sister Garland and Family,
You are ever in our thoughts and prayers, during this hour of bereavement. It is our prayer that the Holy Spirit of God will comfort and strengthen all of you during your time of mourning.
Our Heart felt Love & Sympathy
Pastor John B. & Sister Killikelly
& the Bethany Baptist Church Family
Be comforted by the Word of God in Proverbs 3:5-6
Michael Kemp-McCoy
May 11, 2008
To the Garland Family:
My heart is saddened for your family's loss. May God hold you close in these troubling times.
Kemp-McCoy Family
R. Ari Northington
May 11, 2008
Beautiful Widget was a pillar of comfort to so many families in the capital district for most of her short life. Her service to the community is well regarded. Her professionalism was unparalleled and her caring spirit was unquestionable. Let her life serve as an example to us all. God has blessed us with the privilege to be touched and inspired by Benita E. Garland.
May her soul rest in peace.
R. Ari Northington (formerly Regina King-Wilson) and Jennifer (Angel) Newsome
Darryl McCoy
May 11, 2008
My heart and prayers go out to the Garland Family. Benita will be missed but her spirit of love will last forever.
Kenneth & Anita Henry
May 11, 2008
It's very hard to express your feeling when a loved one is loss with this message we are sending our deepest sympathy may peace be with you
RUTH GRAHAM
May 10, 2008
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Lillian, Meischa and Kyoda
May 10, 2008
God saw you getting tired and the cure was not to be, so He put his arms around you and whispered "come, live with me." with tearful eyes, He watched you suffer and saw you fading away. He loved you dearly. He could not make you stay. A golden heart stopped beating, you're hard working hands put to rest. God broke our hearts to prove to us, He only takes the best. God will love you and keep you, may God grant you enternal peace.
Patricia Greenlee
May 10, 2008
To the Garland Family, I was sadden to hear about your loss. I pray God's peace and comfort to you at this time. You are in my prayer and in my heart. Just remember that Jesus will fix any broken hearts. With love.
Carmen Cunningham
May 10, 2008
To The Garland Family,
My heart goes out to you all in this time of sorrow. Benita was always so deeply concerned and her spirt showed that. Her professionalism and spirt will be missed. I will never forget her smile and willingless to serve my family when we came though the Garland Family's business. May God continue to provide your family with the strength needed to carry on, God Bless you all.
Machell Perrin-Kippins and Family
May 10, 2008
To Potta and Family, I am very sorry to hear about the lose of your loved one. Widgett was a very sweet and thoughtful person my prayers goes out to you and your family.
chaney family
May 10, 2008
real saden to hear of your passing.do remember how you were overly kind when my grandmother passed to my family.you will be very much missed.
CLIFF & WILLIE T. TOLBERT,TERRY CAROL, TIMMY, MELBA TOLBERT TONY& GETT, LORRAINE JONES
May 10, 2008
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Dorene Barnes
May 10, 2008
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Garland, and Family,
I'm very upset at Benita's passing, I was looking for her to recover from her illness. I will always remember her beauty and how classy she was no matter what was going on. I know that she is a bright and shining star in heaven.
With love and blessings to the entire
Garland Family,
Dorene Barnes
Dionne Abbott
May 10, 2008
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.
Larry Johnson
May 10, 2008
To The Garland Family:
I extend to you our prayers and deepest condolences on the loss of your beloved daughter and sister Benita E. Garland. May God continue to Bless each of you during your time of sorrow.
Lisha Woodard-Anderson
May 10, 2008
To the Garland family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of sorrow, Benita was a beautiful person.
Joeanna Hurston-Brown
May 10, 2008
Ben, Jeanette & Family
Over the years your family has played an important role in my life and the lives of my children. Through your caring and guidance we have lived through the loss of a beloved son and brother, father, uncle and of course our dear friend and your uncle, Candy Man.
During your grieving know that our prayers and thoughts are with you all.
Fondly
Joeanna Hurston-Brown & Family
Tina Hendricks-Webb
May 10, 2008
Dear Garland Family,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. We sang in the young peoples’ choir at Sweet Pilgrim Baptist Church and Benita and I graduated from Plattsburgh State together. My families, both the Harris’ and the Hendricks’ have known the Garlands my whole life. Life will be different without her; she truly is an angel and now suffers no more pain. I have prayed for the family and please know that you are in God’s hands and he will not let you go. Please never forget that we love you all.
With Love,
Tina Hendricks-Webb
stephanie phillips
May 9, 2008
To Potta and Family;
I offer you all my comfort, faith, and prayers in your time of need.
Your family has always been there for everyone elses needs and now a time has come for you.
Should there be anything that you need please call on me.
Love you all
Stephanie Turner-Phillips & Family
Donnell (Larry) Middleton
May 9, 2008
To: Potta and the Garland Family
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring comfort
Audrey Abbott & Family
May 9, 2008
With our deepest sympathy.
May God bless you and your family.
Thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Linda Farmer
May 9, 2008
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
Desiree Mallory-Ferguson
May 9, 2008
Dear Family:
It is with deepest condolences that I humblely express my sorrow for your lost of a daughter, sister, aunt, niece and friend. I knew her as Widget and when Pokey and I would get into some foolishness in our high school days, Widget was always the "mature" one who let us know what time it was. Life is short but hers was a life fullfilled with dignity and grace. I feel as if I was a big sister to her since we are only 2 months apart to the day. Dearest Benita, Widget, you will be missed and cheerished.
Mary Lewis
May 9, 2008
TO Ben Garland and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of sorrow. May God continue to comfort you!
Joyce Lewis
May 9, 2008
To the Garland Family,
God has truly called home one of his Angels. I can remember her beautiful smile and grace. You can be at peace to know that Benita has entered into heavens Golden Gates.
Joel and Adeidra Pierre-Louis
May 9, 2008
Potta and Family:
GOD Bless you during this most difficult time. May your life-long memories of Benita keep you smiling until you are together again.
Peace and Love,
Princella Echols
May 9, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, in your time of the loss.
Please accept our deepest sympathies
May 9, 2008
Rodney and Family
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you. God will take care of you.
we love you!
Ida & Johnnie B Jones, Larry & Brenda Jones & Cynthia Jones-White & family
Barbara J Norwood/Watson
May 9, 2008
To the Garland Family, I am sorry to hear of your lost. May God Bless you and your family at this time. I am sorry I am unable to be there at this time due to illness. I will contact the family at a later date.
Mary Booth
May 9, 2008
To my friends, the Garlands. I love you all. Please accept the comfort of the Holy Spirit at this time.
Benita left sweet memories in all our hearts. Have peace knowing you gave your very best in love, care and atttention to her needs. God Bless you all. Mary Booth, Tempe AZ
JoJo White
May 9, 2008
To the entire Garland family,under theses extreme circumstances my blessings are extended to you all.MR. Garland as a child playing baseball for you is when I had the opportunity to meet your beautiful family. Your sons and I became the best of friends,much love and blessings to you Rodney and Gregory.
Dellena Mayben
May 9, 2008
To the Garland Family,our prays,and sympathy go out to your family, from our family.Cliff,our prayers our with you,if there is anything we can do for you to ease your pain please give us a call.To my friend Pouda I am here for you if ever need to talk,or you need someone to just listen.We are solid rock women,but every now and then we to lean on a friend,don't hesitate to call me or just stop by.That's what friends are for.You've always been there for me,and I'll always be here for you.GOD needed an angel,and called upon Benita,she answered his call and left here to go be with her GOD and receive her wings.She's FREE. To the Entire Garland Family,Our prayers are with you,now and always.With Love and Sympathy,Dellena ,B and the entire Hilton-Mayben Family.
May 9, 2008
To The Garland Family:
We would like to send our deepest sympathies out to your family. The Garland family has always been a major part of our history here in Albany and any loss to your family is a loss to all of ours. From our days together at Camp Saddle Lake, which seemed like yesterday, to the days where we all have had, at some time, leaned on them for their support in our own troubled times. Benita (fondly known as Widget) was always a positive person and she will be missed.
Sincerely, Dakim Rucker, Fatimah Rucker and Star Burrell
JANIE JONES(GREEN)
May 9, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Connie Lee
May 9, 2008
Dearest Family,
I was truly saddened to hear of the passing of Benita. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are that God will strengthen you during this time.
Love The Lee Family
Erinn Serriano
May 9, 2008
Mr.and Mrs. Garland & Family,
Widget was a phenominal woman,friend, colleague,and person . She offered inspiration, and kindness in everything she did. I am thankful to have known not only Widget but your entire family.I send my deepest condolences,and will keep you all in my prayers. God Bless.
Gayle Gay (Willis)
May 9, 2008
My sincere prayers go out to the Garland Family for their lost. All I can remember is how pleasant your family has always been to mine (Willis'). She was truly a blessed person here on earth, So I can only imagine how blessed she is right now. Glory to God!
Rhonda Scott
May 9, 2008
To the Garland Family - I am so sorry to hear of your daughter's passing. She fought a good fight of faith in this battle. Please know that you are in my prayers and may God Bless you and keep you in perfect peace.
The Quattlebaum Family
May 9, 2008
Our condolences to the Garland Family.
No words can express the sorrow of the passing of a daughter or a sister. But know that God has placed her closer to Him so that her good works her on earth can be remembered and bring a twinkle to your eyes when you think of Benita.
May God’s loving-kindness and comfort bring you peace during your time or mourning.
Cleva Davis
May 9, 2008
Garland Family I hope and pray that the sad memories fade soon: leaving only the happy ones that you must have shared with Benita. Your family will remain in my prayers.
Jasper McGill Sr
May 9, 2008
To the Garland family:
I was sorry to hear of the loss of Benita , please know that I am praying for your family .
Pastor Vivian D. Armstrong
May 9, 2008
Remember
Remember me when I am gone away,
Gone far away into the silent land;
When you can no more hold me by the hand,
Nor I half turn to go yet turning stay.
Remember me when no more day by day
You tell me of our future that you plann'd:
Only remember me; you understand
It will be late to counsel then or pray.
Yet if you should forget me for a while
And afterwards remember, do not grieve:
For if the darkness and corruption leave
A vestige of the thoughts that once I had,
Better by far you should forget and smile
Than that you should remember and be sad.
By Christina Rossetti
The Poetry Foundation
La'Taunya French
May 9, 2008
To the Garland Famly,
I'll never forget the day I met Benita, she came to the Doctors office where I worked and while I was taking care of her I asked her was she related to the Garland family, and she said, Mr. Garland is my father. After that I said to her no wonder you have such a beautiful spirit. We talked as though we knew each other for years. We laughed and encouraged each other during our conversation. She truly had a sweet spirit that touched anybody she came in contact with. My prayers are with you, and just remember God has picked one of his precious flowers to place in heaven. Love you all
Debora Banks and (Rosalyn's Family)
May 9, 2008
Remember
Remember me when I am gone away,
Gone far away into the silent land;
When you can no more hold me by the hand,
Nor I half turn to go yet turning stay.
Remember me when no more day by day
You tell me of our future that you plann'd:
Only remember me; you understand
It will be late to counsel then or pray.
Yet if you should forget me for a while
And afterwards remember, do not grieve:
For if the darkness and corruption leave
A vestige of the thoughts that once I had,
Better by far you should forget and smile
Than that you should remember and be sad.
By Christina Rossetti
The Poetry Foundation
Forrest(RISS) Barnes/Ellis Family
May 9, 2008
To the GARLAND FAMILY:
My prayers are with you in this time of bereavement,word can not express how sorry i am for your loss. "BENITA will be dearly missed" My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve,GOD BLESS YOU ALL !
Stephanie Brace
May 9, 2008
To The Garland Family,
We are very sorry to hear of your lost, Benita was always a wonderfully beautiful person, her smile and kind words where always comforting. I have just so many memories of just seeing her past thur the community.
May God Bless you all and keep you all in his loving arms during this time.
Ms. Stephanie Brace & Family
Jarina Bryant
May 9, 2008
To the Garland Family:
I pray that God will comfort you during this very difficult time. May her memories be a lightning of fresh air that will carry you thru your day. Her spirit is still with you and you will see her again. As the song says we will understand it better by and by. God Bless and God knows what you are going thru and he will take care of you.
Anjie Taylor
May 9, 2008
To the Garland Family, May God Bless U. May the God of all grace, who called us to His eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after you have suffered a while, perfect, estblish, strengthen,and settle you. -1 Peter 5:10. Thank U 4 My friend. Anjie Taylor & Family
May 9, 2008
To the Entire Garland Family,
Our prayers and sympathy go out to you in the loss of your loved one. May God's love comfort you and take you through this time of berevement - for certainly you have supported so many others in their time of loss. The Petty Family
Frances Allen
May 9, 2008
To Jeanette, Ben Garland and Family:
My Prayers are with you and your family during this sad time. May the thoughts of knowing that friends share in your sadness. My Deepest Sympathy.
Geraldine & Willie James
May 9, 2008
To Ben Garland and Family:
In the loss of some one so very special no words can make the sorrow go , but may it ease your mind to know that we understand and will fondly remember Benita and keep you all in our hearts and prayers.
essie kirkley/family
May 9, 2008
my deepest sympathy goes out to the garland family.
Carleena Samuria
May 9, 2008
enjoy being in the presence of the Lord. Rejoice there'll be no more suffering or pain. You'll be missed. You remain in our hearts
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