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Laing, Jeffrey Michael SANTA FE, N.M. We grieve the loss of Jeffrey Michael Laing who died on March 20, 2018, in Santa Fe, N.M. He taught English for 40 years in New York State and New Mexico. Jeff was a loving husband, an enthusiastic teacher, and an excellent friend. He is survived by his wife of 48 years, Jacqueline; his stepmother, Eleanor Laing of Albany; stepsister, Debra Dunbrook and her husband, James of Albany; stepbrother, Robert Ludwig and his wife, Dr. Susan Baum of Albuquerque, N.Y.; cousin, Lois Snow and her husband, Joseph of New Milford, Conn.; cousin, Pam Considine of Fort Myers, Fla.; cousin, Barry Considine and his wife, Jennifer of Troy; and cousin, Joseph Snow Jr., his wife, Sarah Hamilton, and his daughter, Aurelia of Washington, Conn. Jeff was born on October 15, 1948, and was raised in Troy. His parents were Marion Laing and Robert Laing, both deceased. Jeff began teaching in 1972 in Schenectady. He was a graduate of La Salle Institute in Troy, Siena College in Loudonville, and received his Ph.D. in literature from the State University of New York at Albany. He and Jacqueline moved to Santa Fe in 1982, where he taught at a number of high schools and colleges in central and northern New Mexico. He taught for a year in Eindhoven, the Netherlands, on a Fulbright Teacher Exchange and for a year at the University of St. Andrews in Scotland as a visiting professor. Jeff loved to travel. He was generous, gentle and thoughtful. He was a storyteller and loved to discuss literature, politics, and sports. He authored over 100 articles on the arts and culture. He was passionate about baseball history and published two books and numerous articles on 19th century baseball. Funeral services are private. A memorial Mass and a celebration of Jeff's life are being planned. For those who might wish to do so, donations may be made in memory of Jeffrey Laing to St. Elizabeth Shelter and Supportive Housing Programs, 804 Alarid St., Santa Fe, NM, 87505.

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Published by Albany Times Union on Mar. 25, 2018.

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Mike Crivello

May 2, 2018

I met Jeff at the AP Reading in New Jersey back in the late 80s. Hanging with him at the Reading into the 90s was an annual enjoyment. I'll miss our sharing baseball prognostications and frustrations each year via postcards. A great teacher and friend. My sympathy to Jackie and the family.

Paul F Twardy

April 1, 2018

Jeff and I were classmates at Siena College, Class of '70. He was always a quiet, gentleman scholar. To read now about his strong influence on his students, and his success as an author, is testament to a life well-lived. My condolences to his family.

Virginia Oppenheimer

March 30, 2018

I'll remember our play reading group forever! Those were great times.

Lorie Honor

March 29, 2018

Mr. Laing was my English/Literature and Latin teacher in the late 70's at the all female, Notre Dame H.S. on Staten Island. Mr. Laing was pretty much a saint. He was kind, interested, and all togetether un-unflappable. His Gothic literature class was so modern and edgy. I am so sorry to hear of his loss and grateful to be able to remember this lovely man. Deepest sympathy to Mrs. Laing and family.

Joann Spivey ghant

March 29, 2018

Mr lainge was one of my favorite teachers this really broke my heart

Julie Hetherington Wood

March 28, 2018

I was fortunate to have studied English Lit with Mr Laing at Notre Dame Academy on Staten Island, and remember him fondly. My sincere condolences to Mrs Laing, and family

Laura Olsen Vetter

March 28, 2018

I was lucky to have studied literature and Latin with Jeff while I was in high school back in the '70's. He was a huge influence in my life, and I am heartbroken to learn of his passing. Sending my love and prayers, Jackie. I picture him at a Heavenly bar, chatting with Eugene O'Neill and some of his favorite baseball players.

Sheila Devitt

March 27, 2018

Jeff has been a family friend for over 30 years. He & Jackie both nurtured my love of reading, and of theatre. They generously encouraged me, by sharing plays and novels, and inviting me to visit theatres with them. Jeff's theatre reviews and artist profiles for www.santafe.com shone a light on many performing artists & their work in Santa Fe, and beyond. I am grateful for his friendship, and will miss his wry political commentary & humor. My heart is with Jackie during this time.

Roman Gallegos

March 27, 2018

Deepest condolences. I will miss visiting and hearing Jeff's stories.
Glad I was able to be part of Jeff's friends and neighbors.
He supported my efforts during graduate school.
Jackie.. my friend..I am here for you!!
Roman

Rosemary D'Errico

March 27, 2018

Jeff was an wonderful teacher who inspired so many- I will always have thirteen ways of looking at a blackbird because of him. Thinking of you, Jackie

Heather Nordquist

March 25, 2018

I was a student of Jeff's in the early 90's. He made British Literature fun. So sorry for your loss. He was truly an inspiration to me and so many of his students.

Suzanne Clayton

March 24, 2018

Remembering Jeff and his unique and funny perspectives on things. My condolences, Jackie.
Love, Suzanne

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