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Lydia McCauslin Memoriam

McCAUSLIN Lydia E. 4/4/99 - 1/26/09 Merry Christmas to our Heavenly angel on this first Christmas without you. Everyday I think of you and things we've done together. Love and miss you forever. Love, Aunt Dobbie and Justin

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Published by Albany Times Union on Dec. 25, 2009.

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March 16, 2010

MEMORIAM originally appeared in the Albany Times Union on January 26, 2010

McCAUSLIN Lydia E. 4/4/1999 - 1/26/2009 One year ago today our lives changed forever. I hide my weeping eyes and speak little of the heartache that I still feel. You're in my thoughts everyday. Love and miss you forever. Love, Aunt Deb and Cousin Justin

March 16, 2010

MEMORIAM originally appeared in the Albany Times Union on December 25, 2009

McCAUSLIN Lydia E. 4/4/99 - 1/26/09 Merry Christmas to our Heavenly angel on this first Christmas without you. Everyday I think of you and things we've done together. Love and miss you forever. Love, Aunt Dobbie and Justin

March 16, 2010

MEMORIAM originally appeared in the Albany Times Union on April 4, 2009

McCAUSLIN Lydia In loving memory of our niece and cousin. Happy Birthday Sweetheart. We love you and miss you. Catch your purple balloon. Love, Aunt Linda, Uncle Stanley, Bobby and Kevin

February 28, 2010

LYDIA YOU ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS EVERYDAY IN SO MANY DIFFERENT WAYS. WE LOVE AND MISS YOU MORE THAN WORDS CAN EXPRESS.
LOVE AND MISS YOU FOREVER.
LOVE YOUR ENTIRE FAMILY

February 28, 2010

MEMORIAM originally appeared in the Albany Times Union.

McCauslin - Lydia E.
4/4/1999 - 1/26/2009
One year ago today our lives chaged forever. I hide my weeping eyes and speak little of the heartache that I still feel. You're in my thoughts everyday.
Love and miss you forever.
Love Aunt Deb and Cousin Justin

February 28, 2010

MEMORIAM originally appeared in the Albany Times Union.

McCAUSLIN, LYDIA E.
4/4/1999 - 1/26/2009
Merry Christmas to our Heavenly angel on this first Christmas without you. Everday I think of you and things we've done together.
Love and miss you forever
Love Aunt Deb and Justin

February 28, 2010

MEMORIAM originally appeard in the Albany Times Union on January 26, 2009

McCAUSLIN, LYDIA E.
April 4, 1999 - January 26, 2009
Taken too soon-never will be forgotten.
To our Dixie Irish Princess
Today we celebrate the day you were born. We Cherish your birthday with precious memories of the ones gone by. You should be here with us, but sixty-nine days ago you met God. I think of you and miss you every day.
Happy 10th Birthday, Sweetie.
Love You ALways, Aunt Deb & Justin

Sarah Willyard

February 15, 2010

I am in total shock right now. I've been weeping since I read this. It just seems so unreal.
I knew Lydia for a short period of time when she was a toddler. She was a very beautiful little girl with unforgettable blue eyes. She had a very close and loving family who I will never forget...and they loved her very, very much. I know how much their Aunt Debbie cherished her beautiful nieces. My heart hurts for your family so much.
I am so sorry that you were taken from them all, so suddenly. It isnt fair.
Lydia, I know that everyday you are missed sorely.
continue to be your family and friend's guardian angel. I know that I barely knew you, but I was so close to being a part of your family and I will forever miss you.

Sarah Willyard 27 in California

Zack O'Brien

December 30, 2009

hey,
I love lid so much that i gave her my ballon.i hate that she is gone.I have to go bye love ya.

Jen and Bill Smith

December 23, 2009

Lydia,
You are in our thoughts and prayer this Christmas. Your bright smile and infectious laughter is dearly missed.
Love, The Smith Family, MD

zack obrien

December 22, 2009

dear cousins,
I miss you guys.Hey SHOOSHOOs home! I miss lyida sooo much.With her nice long blond hair and her beautiful blue eyes. I will always love ya. And yaya now that your with god I always think about you . Love ya .Bye

November 26, 2009

To my God-daughter Lydia.
This is our first Thanksgiving
with out you. Sometimes life just is not fair. You are in my thought every day, especially today.
You are loved and missed more than anyone will every know.
Love ya Sweetie,
Aunt Deb

Zack OBrien

November 25, 2009

Dear Uncle Dave it is so hard to have lyida go but im okey.When my mom first told me I cryed my eyes out.I miss her so much I think about her all day. I told my teacher and I got to do the plege.I love you.from,Zack

Debbie McCauslin

February 22, 2009

Dave-Carolyn-Katie-Cahrlotte,

What can anyone say when they lose someone, especially a child. Lydia was a beautiful special little girl. With her bright blue eyes & her long blond hair flowing. She is loved & missed dearly.

She will be forever be in our hearts & everyday in our thoughts.
Her memory will live on in each & everyone of us.

The hole in our hearts will never heal
Her memories no one can ever steal.

You know I'm only a call & flight away. Use it when ever.

Love you all
Debbie

christina bambach

February 21, 2009

Dear The McCauslin Family,

I am so sorry for the loss of Lydia.
Lydia was a great friend and still is. Everyday I would tell her i loved her pretty blue eyes,smile,laugh,and light blond hair. She loved everone and everyone loved her. You will always be in my prayers.


Love,
Christina Bambach

Katlyn Martin

February 9, 2009

I knew Lydia along with all the others. She was on my basketball team. She was hilarious.I loved her! She was awesome!

bye Lydia
Katlyn

Jennifer Santos

February 4, 2009

McClauslin Family and loved ones,

Sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God grant you strength during this difficult time.

Beth Wheatley

February 3, 2009

To the McCauslin family,

Your story has touched my heart even though we have never met. I too have a daughter who is 9 and another who is 6, and she is named Lydia. After reading about the accident in a local paper I began to pray for you all. I decided to cut out the article and put it in my devotional book. I lift you all up in pray each night. I pray that God will hold you in the palm of His hand, comforting you and giving you the strength for each day. I also pray that your wonderful memories of your Lydia will overcome your sorrow.
Praying for you,

Amy

February 3, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. A friend once told me this and I wanted to pass it onto you "Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal".

Eddie Miller

February 2, 2009

I am Lydia's cousin(brother) Eddie, I miss her so much. I loved her so much. She will be with me forever, and I can't wait to see her again. I loved that little girl so much. We shall all be reminded how we should treat others on a day to day basis. She has taught me a life lesson. With love and compassion,
EDDIE

Bridget McCauslin

February 2, 2009

Uncle Dave, Aunt Carolyn, Katie and Charlotte,
I can't imagine the pain you must be suffering. I am so sorry for the loss of Lydia. You are all in my thoughts and prayers every day. I love you all. XO, Love, Bridget

Carol Premo

January 30, 2009

I'm so sorry for the loss of your daughter Lydia. I could not beleive it when Liz called me at work crying as she tried explaining to me what had happened. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers. With My Deepest Sympathy. Dear friend of Liz and Steves ---- Carol

Lisa Feehley

January 30, 2009

To the McCauslin Family,

Our deepest sympathy on the loss of your precious daughter Lydia. You are and will continue to be in our hearts, thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. May your faith in God give you strength for the days to come.

Your neighbors,
Keith, Lisa, Nicholas, Isabella, and Miranda Feehley

Mom & Dad Kot

January 30, 2009

Our hearts and prayers are with you. May faith give you untold understanding and acceptance of the patterns our lives take. If there is anything we can do, please let us know. We love you very much!

Jack and Kerry Hoenig

January 30, 2009

We are so sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Tania McCauslin

January 30, 2009

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

julie salisbury

January 30, 2009

dave,caroline,and girls,
we are so very very sorry for your loss.our hearts are broken and feel so empty for you.please know that we are thinking of you at this very sad time.with all our heart felt sympathy and love.
the salisbury family,
julie,joe,laurie,fred,chris and rose.

Jen Frank

January 30, 2009

To the McCauslin Family,

I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Remember that you carry Lydia in your hearts now and forever.

Hugh Hodson & Family

January 29, 2009

Dave, Carolyn and Family,

We are deeply saddened to hear of your loss. We pray that the Lord will sustain you and watch over you during this trying time.

Bernice (McCauslin) Hopkins

January 29, 2009

I am sorry to read of your loss.
When You feel Lonely
When a person you love passes away
Look to the night sky on a clear day.
The star that to you, appears to be bright,
Will be your loved one,
Looking upon you during the night.
The lights of heaven are what shows through
As your loved one watches all that you do.
When you feel lonely for the one that you love,
Look to the Heavens in the night sky above.

Meghan Rock

January 29, 2009

To the entire McCauslin family,

I wanted you all to know that my family is praying for you. Although I did not know Lydia, I had noticed your beautiful family many times in church and witnessed your closeness. Charlotte was my daughter Madison's first friend in Kindergarten and they have remained the best of friends. Maddie told me how Charlotte would hug Lydia every day after recess. I know how much she was, and forever will be, cherished. I feel for your family in every way possible. Please have me on the top of your list to call if you need anything. May God bless you and carry you.

All our love and support,

The Rock Family
Frank, Meghan, Madison and Braeden

Krystal Wilson

January 29, 2009

Lydia, i miss you so much! i cant beleive your gone. i cried so hard! i put a little tribute to lydia on the review thing on a website on a song called my immortal bc it remind me of her. I feel so sad. they couldve chosen a different person.

Dawn Kot

January 29, 2009

David and Carolyn,
Words simply cannot express the depth of my sincere sympathy for you and your entire family. Please take comfort in knowing that Lydia must have completed her mission here on earth and now she is your guardian angel. The bonds of love that have joined your hearts together will keep you close forever. I know you will see her and the many other loved ones she is with now again. If I can do anything at all please do not hesitate to ask. My prayers are with all of you.

Teresa Farrell

January 29, 2009

McCauslin Family, We are praying for you all and hope that your hearts will be comforted by God's loving hands. Lydia is a special child and she will be dearly missed.

Mary Brand Vachula

January 29, 2009

Dave, Carolyn, Katie,& Charlotte, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love Mary, Tom & Family Westhampton, Ma

Emilee Hennessy

January 29, 2009

When My Mom told me that Lydia was dead, I broke down crying. Lydia was my very best friend.We met when we did drama together.It was when she was playing the schoolteacher from the King and I, when we instantly became friends. I just want to let her know that everyone at Resurrection St.Paul school will miss her.

Goodbye Lydia.

Lynda Porcaro-Smith

January 29, 2009

Dave,
It has been along time since we have seen each other, Mom & I think about you often and especially now we are thinking about you and your family and how sorry we are to hear of your precious loss. We know nothing we say or anyone else says can help you right now but know you are thought of with love and we hope in time you and your family can start healing. Love and prayers, Lynda & Pat Porcaro

Sherry Campman

January 29, 2009

McCauslin family,

My deepest sympthay. I have been friends with Jim for many many years. When he told me of your loss, well I just can't imagine what your going through. May God bless you.

Bernie Schott

January 29, 2009

David and Carolyn:
words cannot express our sorrow. You will be in our prayers. Your neighbors, Bernie, Sherry, and Jenna Schott.

The Allison Family

January 29, 2009

Dave, Carolyn and Children (and to the entire McCauslin Family),

We are truly sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May God Bless All of You

Sheri (Kot) Monroe

January 29, 2009

Dave,
I don't even know where to start to express how sorry I am for your loss. I hope you take some comfort in knowing she is with a lot of good loving people up there. There is nothing I can say that is going to make this any easier for you but I hope you take a little bit of comfort knowing she is with George and your parents. I am sure George has taught her all about a ‘kluck in the head’ by now. Please know across the miles I am here for you and your family and you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Joel Vazquez

January 29, 2009

David and family,

I am deeply sorry for the loss of your daughter Lydia. May the Lord fill you with strength and understanding in this bitter moment. My sincere condolences to you and your family.

Christine Keezer & Family

January 29, 2009

To the McCauslin Family: My deepest sympathies to you and your family at this most difficult time.

James Lee

January 29, 2009

May God comfort you and give you peace and understanding, as you weather this difficult time of mourning and loss. Rest in His strength and know that you are being lifted up in prayer by so many people.

With sympathy,

Jim Messina

January 29, 2009

David & Family

Very sorry to learn of your loss.

Lisa Markovitz

January 29, 2009

Dear McCauslin Family,
Our hearts break for your pain in the tragic loss of Lydia. My daughter Anna is Kathryn's friend and we were so upset to hear the terrible news. Please know that so many are praying for your family and Lydia and I hope that love and concern can help you somewhat. God bless you all.

Bruce Stephens

January 29, 2009

David and Carolyn,
I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter at such a precious age.

My heart-felt sympathies,
Bruce & Marsha Stephens
(and the rest of your reserve friends in Atlanta)

Laurie Kot

January 29, 2009

David & Carolyn,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your daughter. My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Tanya Roach

January 29, 2009

June, Toe & the entire McCauslin Family,

I am deeply sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Love Tanya Roach

Lorene Tompros

January 29, 2009

"What we once enjoyed and deeply loved we can never lose, for all that we love deeply becomes a part of us." Helen Keller
May your wonderful memories of Lydia overcome the pain of your grief.

Joanne Rizzo

January 29, 2009

Kevin & all of Lydia's family,
Please accept our most sincere condolences. I know God needed a special angel in heaven. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Fondly
Joanne & Joe Rizzo
Mary Bolognino

Shantell Vogel

January 29, 2009

To the McCauslin family,
We are so sorry for your loss.
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
John & Shantell Vogel

Tanya Crowley

January 29, 2009

David,
You and your family are in my thoughts, I am deeply sorry for your loss. Tanya

Kim Smith

January 28, 2009

David, Caroyn, Katie and Charlotte,

Our deepest sympathy through this tragic loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers for strength and understanding. Lydia was such a beautiful girl in many ways. Memories of her will always be close at heart.

Kim and Chad Smith

Kathleen Patentreger (Fritz)

January 28, 2009

Dear David, Carolyn, Kathryn and Charlotte,
I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your darling daughter. My heart and prayers go out to you in such a difficult time, love, Kathleen

Patti & Dan Fritz

January 28, 2009

David, Carolyn, Kathryn, Charlotte
So very sorry for your great loss, our hearts goes out too you all. So, so very sorry. May God be with you.

Pat & Dan Jabonaski (Fritz)

January 28, 2009

Dear David, Carolyn, Kathryn and Charlotte,

Our family is truely sorry for the loss of your Lydia. Our prayers are with your family.

Jason Wells

January 28, 2009

Dave and Carolyn,

Blythe and I are absolutely heartbroken over the loss of Lydia. We cannot imagine how hard this is for you and your family, and we are so very sorry that this tragedy has happened. Please know that you have our deepest condolences, and that you and your family are in our most heartfelt prayers.

The Wells Family

January 28, 2009

Dear Carolyn, David, Katie and Charlotte,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. May God grant you strength and hope in the days to come.
The Franklin Family
Marietta, Ga.

“The Lord is near to those who are broken-hearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” Psalm 34:18

Nancy and Conrad Stenglein (Fritz)

January 28, 2009

David Carolyn, Kathryn,and Charlotte,

We are so sadden by the loss of your daughter Lydia. You are in our hearts and prayers. Thinking of you all at this very sad and difficult time

Patrick Guiheen

January 28, 2009

Dave ,Carolyn . Our hearts and prayers for you during this saddest of times, Pat, Deb,and Kids

Robert Neiles

January 28, 2009

Dave and Family, my prayers and thoughts are with you. The lose of a child is devastating, know that her spirit will be with you always and she will help you and your family in this journey of life. Peace and Love!!!!

Meg Rathbun

January 28, 2009

To The McCauslin Family,
My prayers are with all of you to give you strength. I feel like I've known Katie, Lydia and Charlotte personally because I work with their Aunt Debbie and she has shared so many stories of those beautiful girls. God Bless you all and Debbie remember I am only a phone call away if you need anything.

james&barbara fritz

January 28, 2009

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Jennifer, Bill, Delaney, Nolan and Brennan Smith

January 28, 2009

Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends
will leave footprints in your heart!
~Eleanor Roosevelt

We miss Lydia so much!
Our deepest sympathies to Charlotte, Katie, Caroline and Dave.

June McCauslin

January 28, 2009

Dear Dave And Carolyn We love you guys.And we will be there for you always.What ever you need.We will always remember lydia and love her forever.Love June And Bob

Famliy Friend

January 28, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

Cynthia Goldberg

January 28, 2009

To the McCauslin Family,

My heart is aching for you because I know what you are feeling now, having lived through this recently in my own family. I am a friend and co-worker of Debbie and my prayers are with you all at this difficult time.

JACK ALLISON

January 28, 2009

To David and Carolyn, I am so sorry to hear about your loss, David i seen you a couple years ago at the Irish fest, this was just terrible to hear. My prayers are with your family.

Ashley Pung

January 28, 2009

To The McCauslin Family-

Our son, Mason, was in Lydia's class. He loved her so much. He spoke of her often and since this tragedy he continues to talk about her-how nice she always was to him and how pretty she was. She made such a wonderful impression on him and she will be greatly missed.

On Monday morning, the class had booklets on the student's desks with lists that the kids made about what they were 'thankful' for...I found some peace in this tragedy when I read Lydia's 6 things that she was thankful for...#1 was her family and #2 was "to see the Lord"...Lydia IS with the Lord now and that gave me some peace in this horrible situation...

We explained to Mason that he now has a beautiful Guardian Angel watching over him in Heaven.

Our hearts go out to your family at this most difficult time. Please know that your family at Resurrection-St. Paul School is here to help in whatever way we can. Please know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

The Pung Family
Ashley, Fred, Mason & Casey

Erin Dannhardt

January 28, 2009

David,Carolyn,and girls,

I am so sorry for the loss of Lydia. My heart and prayers are with you all.

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