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Phyllis Harder Obituary

Harder, Phyllis HAMPTON, N.H. Phyllis Harder, 82, of Hampton, died Tuesday, July 17, 2007 at the Haven Health Center at Seacoast where she had resided since 2002. She was born in Green Island, N.Y., August 10, 1924, the daughter of the late Philip and Eleanor (Carson) VanBuskirk. She was a graduate of Healty High School in Green Island and Albany, N.Y. Business College. She was employed as an accountant for Cluett & Peabody in Troy, N.Y. for 15 years, retiring in 1988. Mrs. Harder was an active member of the Valley Falls, N.Y. Methodist Church and former superintendent and teacher of Sunday school for many years. She resided in Valley Falls for over 40 years. She was the wife of the late Edward E. Harder who died in 1963. Family members include one daughter, Miriam E. Denio and her husband Thomas of Hampton; three sons, Edward E. Harder Jr., and his wife Sally of Saratoga, N.Y., Kenneth J. Harder of Nashua, N.H., Gordon F. Harder and his wife Michele of Broadalbin, N.Y.; her brother, William Van-Buskirk of Atlanta, Ga.; nine grandchildren, Thomas Denio and his wife Christine, Nathan and Jeremy Denio, Adam Denio and his wife Jessica, Kate Snyder and her husband Michael, Luke and Kristin Denio, Samantha and Scott Harder; two great-grand-children, Taylor and Nicole; several nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her siblings, Eleanor Peets, Edith Hammond, Marion Baschand, Erma Davis, Frederick and Kenneth VanBuskirk. A graveside service will be held Saturday, July 21 at 11 a.m. in the Oakwood Cemetery, Troy, N.Y. Relatives and friends are respectfully invited. The family request that flowers please be omitted. If desired, donations may be made to the Hampton Free Medical Clinic, c/o John Kaminski, MD, 23 Stickney Terrace, Hampton, NH 03842. Assistance with the arrangements, Remick & Gendron Funeral Home-Crematory, Hampton. www.remickgendron.com

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Published by Albany Times Union on Jul. 20, 2007.

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Cornelia Harder

July 20, 2007

That is Cornelia Hawley Harder!

Cornelia Hawley

July 20, 2007

Cornelia Harder sends her greatest love and condolences to Phyllis and all family. Cornelia has added her picture here in the photo album.

Scott S Harder

July 20, 2007

Sorry to hear of Phyllis passing.
I'm sure we met when I was a young boy, but then again more recently at the anniversary celebration of Nancy and Jimmy O'Brien.
I remember Phyllis as a woman of strength, character and a welcoming smile.
Phyllis husband, Ed was my fathers brother Gordon Albert Harder (who died in April 1979). My mother Cornelia (maiden name Hawley) lives here in Portland Oregon with 3 of her children, Pam, Bill and myself, while Laura is in Juneau Alaska and youngest Kip is in Hawaii.

Beth Denio

July 20, 2007

Fond memories of Mrs. Harder giving us cookies and milk as we waited for my parents to pick us up from religion. She was always so sweet and wonderful to us. I send my love to the family.

Helyn Onyon (Inglis)

July 20, 2007

To the family of Phyllis Harder: I was so sorry to hear of her passing. We have been friends since grade school and we graduated together in l941. I have many happy memories of our school days and I am sure she will be missed by all who knew her...May God Bless...

Tom and Joanne Geren

July 20, 2007

We are so sorry to read of the passing of your Mom. Joanne and I are praying for you and Tom and the Harder family. Your mom was always a great person. We wish You and Tom the best in your time of grief. God bless the Denio and Harder family.

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