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Ruth Bongiovanni Obituary

Bongiovanni, Ruth ALBANY Ruth Bongiovanni, 63, of Albany passed away on Sunday, October 26, 2008 at St. Peter's Hospice. She was born in Maryland on January 24, 1945. She was the daughter of Virginia Wood and the late Harvey Harding. She graduated Hicksville High School in 1962 and Fredonia State in 1966. She started working for NYS as a social worker in 1969 and progressed through the state, specializing in Medicaid eligibility until retirement, where upon she worked as an independent consultant for various states. She was also an active member of the Cathedral of Immaculate Conception. Survivors include her mother, Virginia Wood of Roanoake, Va.; sister, Fay (James) Antalek of Stuyvesant, N.Y.; brothers, Harvey (Kathy) Harding of Fla., Robert (Patricia) Harding of Long Island, N.Y., and Lawrence (Regina) Harding of Va.; she also leaves behind several nieces and nephews; and her special friend, Charles Tedeschi. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday at 9 a.m. at the Cathedral of Immaculate Conception, 125 Eagle St., Albany. Relatives and friends are also invited to call, Wednesday, 4 to 8 p.m. at the Frederick Funeral Home, 633 Central Ave, Albany, NY, 12206. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Community Hospice of Albany, 445 New Karner Road, Albany, the American Diabetes Association, 7 Washington Square, Albany or the Cathedral of Immaculate Conception.

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Published by Albany Times Union from Oct. 28 to Oct. 29, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Ruth Bongiovanni

21 Entries

Terry Civello

October 22, 2020

Ruth and I became fast friends when I met her when she represented NYS at a Medicaid meeting in Manhattan. Her presentation was brilliant and I immediately offered my commitment to assist the state to successfully carry out the intricacies of the program and ensure coverage for all eligible clients. Whenever I was in Albany, I stayed at Ruth's house. During the week, she was a VERY early riser...before sunrise. But, she made it up on the weekends when only the aroma of bacon cooking would rouse her around noon. We went fun shopping at Cohoes...where we nearly bought out the store because it catered to larger women. When she worked in the city, she'd stay with me and even brought down a mattress for a new futon I'd purchased for her.
Ruth's humor and laughter were engaging. When I learned she'd passed, my life lost the joyous frivolity Ruth brought into it. My condolences again to her family. Ruth was one of a kind.

FRANK TEDESCHI

November 12, 2008

Fay and Chuck, again my deepest feelings of sympathy on Ruth's passing. She always opened her home and her heart to me and was a delight to talk to. I know how her passing will leave a void for you and for many.
My love and deepest sympathies to you in this time of grief.

Sandy Borrelli

November 5, 2008

Ruth was a kind, compassionate lady who will be missed by many. My deepest sympathies to you.

Mike & Pat Thomas

November 3, 2008

We are so sorry to learn of Ruth's death. We have known her since 1968 and always appreciated her caring ways. Our deepest sympathy.

Beth Foley

October 30, 2008

To Ruth's Family and Chuck,
I am so sorry to hear of Ruth's passing. I will always remember her smile and her laugh. We took many trips together visiting most of the counties in the NY and other parts of the country. She took me under her wing and always took good care of me on our travels. She will be missed. My thoughts are with all of you.

Gayle Shinder

October 30, 2008

Fay - My deepest condolences.

Laura and Ed Gilligan

October 30, 2008

Dear Chuck, Ruth's family and friends: We were so sorry to hear of Ruth's passing. We knew her from Cathedral, and especially came to know her from Renew 2000 when she welcomed us along with other parish members into her home for prayer group and reflection. She was such a warm, spiritual, affectionate, giving person, and we will miss her so much. The funeral service - with Father Pape, the Choir, Glen Osborne, Bob Sheehan and others - couldn't have provided a more wonderful and touching tribute to her life. Our hearts and prayers go out to you.

Drue Sanders

October 29, 2008

To all of Ruth's family and Chuck,
Ruth was not only one of my favorite client's but also a very dear firiend who will be sorely missed!
I always enjoyed her company not only here at the store but boating on the Hudson!
She trusted me to design whatever I wanted for her and as a result she challenged me to do the best work for her!
I know how much she cherished her family and Chuck - I send my deepest sympathy to all of you
Fond regards,
Drue

Michael Cathers

October 29, 2008

I had the pleasure and honor to work with Ruth for many years at the old NYSDSS and to call her a friend for years after. The world has lost a truly kind soul. I'll miss her laugh and her friendship. Rest in peace, Ruth.

Trudy Dalton

October 28, 2008

Dear Chuck and All of Ruthie's Family:I was so sorry to hear of Ruthie's passing.She was always the first to extend her hand and smile whenever we met.She was truly respected by our county and my personal "hero" when she reformatted the MARG for the NYS Medicaid program.One great lady I had the privilege to know and she will truly be missed by all!You are in my thoughts and prayers.Sincerely Trudy Dalton(St. Lawrence County DSS)

Teresa Civello

October 28, 2008

To Ruth's Family and Chuck:
I worked with Ruth when I was with NYC Medicaid and we became friends. I would visit her every so often and we would have a great time. Ruth's joyfulness, laughter, and generous heart will be missed by all who knew her.
Sincerely,
Terry Civello

Teri Schmidt

October 28, 2008

Everyone always says "You did a lot for Ruth". Honestly, I feel that she has done more for me than I could have ever done for her. Ruth was a friend, a second mother, a boss, a proof-reader for college papers, a teacher, a provider of much respected guidance, a tour guide and a religious guide. Always cheerful and looking for any excuse to get together with friends and family and to meet new people. Ruth was an intelligent, caring and forgiving woman. She will be missed dearly by many and I am truly fortunate to have been a part of her life.

Marilynn Porter

October 28, 2008

I worked with Ruth in NYC and later when she moved to Albany. I am very sorry to hear of her passing.
Ruth always approached life with eagerness and enthusiasm which inspired me.

Kathleen Jackson

October 28, 2008

My deepest condolences. Ruth was a wonderful person to know and work with.
Kathleen Jackson

Jim, Cheryl, Matthew & Ryan Antalek

October 28, 2008

Jimmy and I are going to miss our many trips with Aunt Ruth to Turning Stone. She taught me how to play Blackjack and would always laugh when I took the risk she said not to take and the dealer would win. Didn't listen to me, did ya!, she'd say and laugh.

Judy Meagher

October 28, 2008

To Ruth's family and Chuck - I am so sorry to hear of Ruth's death. She was such a wonderful, kind person with a great sense of humor. We not only worked together at the old State DSS, but with Fox Systems & traveled together to work on several state projects. She will be greatly missed.

Julie Lawton

October 28, 2008

Dear Mrs. Wood, Ruth's Family, and Chuck,

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad and difficult time. Ruth was a kind and generous friend who was always there for a friend in need. She loved a good party and hosted many of them herself. To me, she was one of the best things about choir. I'll miss her a lot.

KEVIN WHEELER

October 28, 2008

RUTH YOU HAVE BEEN THERE FOR SO MANY OF US. WE WILL ALL MISS YOU VERY MUCH. THANKX FOR ALL YOU LOVE AND SUPPORT AND HELP OVER THE PAST 30 YEARS. BLESSINGS TO CHUCK & AMANDA. TO THE REST OF RUTHS FAMILIES, WE SHARE IN YOUR GRIEF. WITH LOVE, KEVIN J. WHEELER

Joan Johnson

October 28, 2008

Chuck and Ruth's family: My condolences on the loss of a truly fine lady. I enjoyed many good times with Ruthie and consider myself fortunate to have known her. We will all miss her.

Bette M Marsh

October 28, 2008

I am so sorry to hear of Ruth's passing. Please know that you are all in my prayers. Ruth was a dear friend for many years and we shared many happy times together. I looked forward to seeing her every summer when I returned to Albany and am so grateful that I was able to do so this past summer. Ruth had so many friends and I am honored to have been one of them. She will be missed by all of us.
Bette and Don Marsh

October 28, 2008

To Chuck, and to Amanda V.,
I'm sorry for your loss.
Maureen Pagano

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