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FOLEY Joseph Dayton Foley, M.D., age 88, formerly of Jacksonville, Florida, died April 1, 2007, in Central Florida. After retirement, Dr. Foley moved from Jacksonville to Central Florida, to be near his 3 sons, Joe, Jr., Doug, and Greg. Dr. Foley was born in Opp, Alabama, on May 8, 1918, the middle of three children of Joseph and Alice Foley. Dr. Foley was a graduate of Pensacola High School in Pensacola, Florida, and attended Southern Missionary University in Collegedale, Tennessee. He then attended the California College of Medical Technologies in San Gabriel, California, and became a Radiological Technologist and a Medical Technologist. But he was determined to become a Physician, and despite his lack of funds he made a long-shot application to medical school at Loma Linda University, in Loma Linda, California. He believed God helped him gain acceptance to medical school. In his autobiography, which he titled "Dirt Poor, Determined, and Successful", Dr. Foley said that on his medical school application he wrote he was "self-financed", although at the time he "did not have a dime". He paid his way through medical school by borrowing small sums of money from many people, by harvesting grapes with migrant workers in the vineyards of Southern California, and by popping popcorn for theaters at the Anderson Popcorn Factory. Dr. Foley received his hard-earned Doctor of Medicine degree in 1948. His internship was at the Gallinger Municipal Hospital, in Washington, D.C., and his residency was at Peninsula General Hospital, in Salisbury, Maryland. He believed that his medical degree provided a God-given opportunity to help others in an honored profession, which he did to the best of his ability throughout his long and distinguished medical career. While attending medical school he met and fell in love with Esther Jewel, and they were married on December 28, 1944. His love for Esther was apparent to all who knew them, and their love affair continued throughout over 63 years of marriage. He often called her "Lovey", and recently said that 63 years was "much too short a time to be married to Lovey." Dr. Foley served his country as a Captain in the U.S. Air Force, and was stationed at Eglin Air Force Base, near Pensacola, Florida. Dr. Foley opened his private practice of medicine in Jacksonville, Florida in July, 1949. He practiced medicine in Jacksonville for almost 50 years, most of that time from his office at 2549 Park Street. His wife, Esther, was his first receptionist at the Park Street office, where he charged $3 per office visit when he began his successful practice. His hospital affiliations included St. Vincent's Medical Center, Baptist Medical Center, and Wolfson Children's Hospital. In 1974, Dr. Foley became a Charter Fellow of the American Academy of Family Practice. From 1981 to 1987, he was Chairman of the Dept. of Family Practice at St. Vincent's Medical Center. From 1987 to 1989, he was a member of the Medical Center Planning Committee of St. Vincent's Medical Center. Among medical colleagues, Dr. Foley was known and admired for his diagnostic insight, including his often uncanny ability to diagnose and treat elusive medical ailments. In 2005, the Florida Medical Association formally recognized Dr. Foley as a "Distinguished Physician", and "A Physician Who Cares". Dr. Foley loved people, especially the thousands of patients he cared for in the Jacksonville area for almost five decades. A picture of every baby he delivered hung on his office walls, framed in either blue or pink. Dr. Foley always had prayer with each patient before he operated on them. Dr. Foley enjoyed pipe organ music, gardening, boating and water skiing on the St. Johns River, football (especially the Jaguars), and most of all, golfing with friends and family. His favorite golf memories were of golfing trips to Gatlinburg, Tennessee, Calloway Gardens, Georgia, and St. Andrews, Scotland. Dr. Foley was a Christian, and he loved God. A picture of Jesus was always prominently displayed in his home and office. His favorite scripture was Philippians 4:8. His favorite Books in the Bible were James and Matthew. His favorite hymns were The Old Rugged Cross, and Amazing Grace. He was a long-time member of the Jacksonville Seventh-day Adventist Church, where he was active as an Elder, as Chairman of the Building and Plans Committee, as Chairman of the School Board, and as Medical Director of the Florida Conference of Seventh-day Adventists. He was the keynote speaker at many "Stop Smoking Clinics" in Jacksonville. Dr. Foley loved his family, and his fondest memories were of family times together. He always led by example and provided his children with a loving home, a quality education, his good advice, his time and his good humor. Dr. Foley said his greatest hope was that his entire family would be together in Heaven. During the last month of his life, Dr. Foley was lovingly cared for by his daughter-in-law, Carol Foley, RN, at her home with son Joe, Jr., in Apopka, where he passed away. Dr. Foley is survived by the love of his life, wife Esther, who lives in Central Florida; son Joseph Jr. and wife Carol, of Apopka, Florida; son Douglas and wife Rebecca, of DeBary, Florida; son Greg and wife Jill, of Maitland, Florida; daughter Debbie, of Los Angeles, California. He is also survived by six grandchildren, Joseph III, Jeremy, Douglas, Tiffany, Brandon and Nikki; one great grandchild, Hannah; and a sister, Gwen Shupe, of Vancouver, Washington. Viewing for family, friends and former patients of Dr. Foley will be held on Thursday, April 5, from 12:00 noon to 2:00 p.m., at the Deltona Seventh-day Adventist Church, where son Douglas Foley is Pastor, located at 1717 Catalina Blvd., Deltona, Florida 32738. Funeral services will immediately follow at the same location, with officiating by son Douglas Foley, and by brother-in-law, Arthur Dale Leach. Burial will be in the Highland Memory Gardens, Apopka, Florida. In lieu of flowers, the Foley Family suggests that cards be sent to Esther Foley, in care of the Deltona Seventh-day Adventist Church at the address above. Please Sign the Guestbook @ Jacksonville.com

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Published by Florida Times-Union on Apr. 3, 2007.

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Donna Patterson Buckner

April 10, 2007

Dear Mrs. Foley and family,
I am one of the 7 Patterson children that Dr. Foley delivered. He has always been very special to us and when we mentioned his name, it invoked a sigh of reverence from us.

I wanted to share a fond memory of Dr. Foley with you. Prior to my wedding on Sept. 5, 1981 I went to see Dr. Foley for my blood tests. He wished me well, and I told him I was going to send him an invite to my wedding. Well, he showed up and waited as long as he could (the wedding was delayed because of a mix up with priests being on the golf course and not at the church) and wished me well, telling me that since I did not have a dad (my dad died 2 years earlier) he wanted to be there to make sure my new husband was going to take care of me. I felt as though he was filling in for my dad; that was very special to me. Dr. Foley was a wonderful man and I am glad to have know him! May God bless all of you!

Alice Lloyd

April 7, 2007

My husbands family was Dr. Foley's patiance for a long time 'I became one in 1962. I always thought the world of him.
He delivered our daughter in 63 then our son in 70. After my son was delivered he knew how much my husband Johnny wanted a son, so after he was born my husband told me that Dr.Foley came running down the hall yelling to Johnny "it's a boy" " it's a boy" he weights 8.6 lbs . So you know my husband was happy. When he told me he wasn't going to deliver anymore I told him that I would not have anymore then and I didn't. My family loved him very much he will be well missed but I know GOD has him sitting by his side now. Our prayers and thoughts go to Ms. Foley and the family

Sylvia Barthlow Gower

April 7, 2007

Dear Mrs. Foley and Children,
My family were patients of Dr. Foley's for many years which included my mother and father and us four children. I was probably 9 or 10 when we started going to his office. I am now 61. He was truly one of the most caring physicians I have ever known. I never forgave him for being out of town when my first born was delivered in May of 1967. However, when my second child arrived he was there to bring her into the world so I sort of forgave him. He took care of my girls and we continued as his patients up until almost the time he retired. I like other patients remember how he loved you and his children. I am sorry for your loss. May the passing ot time bring you peace and comfort during your loss.
I will always remember Dr. Foley fondly and will look forward to a reunion in eternity with him.

God bless you all,
Sylvia Gower

(My parents were Edgar & Doris Barthlow and I am sure they were there to welcome Dr. Foley. Heaven is sweeter because Dr. Foley has arrived.

Paul & Jeanette Birkeland

April 6, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Jeannie Herndon - Lepley

April 5, 2007

Dr. Foley took wonderful care of my parents, Mr & Mrs Alton Herndon Sr, up until my father's passing in 1992 and then Dr. Foley's retirement. We feel your lost, Dr. Foley was so kind and warm and took time listening to his patients. There will never be another one so special. God bless you and your family.

Mrs. Deborah Allen

April 5, 2007

Dear Ms.Esther and Children,
May the grace and strength of our Lord be with you.
Many folks were richly blessed having known or been attended to by Dr. Foley.
I remember getting out of church one Saturday, at the old SDA Church in downtown Jax..Ms. Esther was coming across the foyer and someone commented on her pretty hat, Dr Foley came out of the sanctuary and said, 'She's pretty with or without the hat!'..then he ran ahead of her to open the door...
I will always remember the look of love on his face as he gazed at her. I must have been about 13 yrs old and will always treasure that glow in his eye toward his dear wife.
I remember also, my husband's aunt would see Dr Foley only. He referred her to a specialist and she wouldn't go. She said,'Other doctors were not like 'him' !, and that was that.
He loved and cherished what God had gifted him with and served others with that abundance.
He was also so proud of and 'in love' with his children. The way he spoke of them, the tone and quality of the words chosen, reflected the thankfulness in his heart.
May we all reflect upon his kindness, compassion, dedication, and faithfull example. May we try to emulate a God-favored existence in this world, as Dr Foley did. Many were truly blessed by him and we thank our Lord Jesus for it.
Prayers for you, dear family.

chris nettles

April 5, 2007

dr Foley was our family doctor for a very long time chris,linda,timothy nettles,we all cried when he retired now we all prayed for him and his family.timothy thought that he was the only doctor in the world and would not see another.our thougts and prayers go out too his family

The Patterson Family

April 4, 2007

Dr. Foley was our family doctor for many years. Seven out of eight children of our family were delivered by this fine man. We kept him our family doctor until he retired. May the Lord Jesus bless this wonderful example of a Christian and may he find peace in Heaven.

Christi Garrett

April 4, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with Dr. Foley's family. I remember how much he was devoted to his wife and was fortunate enough to see them a few times after his retirement. He of course looked as wonderful as he always did and was always smiling. He brought me into this world in 1959 and even though my name is Christi, he always called me Chrissy, which endeared him more to me. I have always spoken of him as my 2nd father which he never knew. There are many stories I could share where he made me laugh and others where he soothed me. He always knew exactly what to say and do. Even though he isn't the Great Physician, he was truly a great physician. He was the one who told me I was quite pregnant in 1980 and if it were not for him, I wouldn't have the beautiful daughter I have today. Though there are many tears being shed, those who know him are confident he is with our Heavenly Father and our Savior Jesus Christ.

Glenna Thompson

April 4, 2007

Dr. Foley was our family doctor when I was a little girl and became my family doctor as an adult. He delivered my first 2 children, both girls, and when I became pregnant with the 3rd child, of course it was he who confirmed my suspicions. Dr. Foley, with a little sadness behind the twinkle in his eye, said, "Well, the good news is that you are going to have another baby; the bad news is that I am not delivering babies any longer." I just looked at him, and said "In that case, I am not having it." He referred me to Drs. Hayes, Mein, and Jost, but they could never take his place. That 3rd baby, a boy, was taken to Dr. Foley anyway, as his family doctor. I know Dr. Foley is up in heaven looking down on all those babies he delivered, and all of us who were part of his family of patients. I hope he says hello to my dad, who is up there, too.

Robert DePrairie

April 4, 2007

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Russell Caldwell

April 4, 2007

Esther and faamily,May God comfort you in your loss. I remember how active Dr. Foley was at Jacksonville First SDA Church and the leadership he provided as a church elder when my family and I first joined the church in 1970.

Robert & Susan Mayo

April 4, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Foley clan (most importantly our very dear friends Joe and Carol). My prayer for you all is Phil 4:7 "And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."

The Watson Family

April 3, 2007

Our prayers are with you and all of your fmaily in this time of grieving. May God comfort you and give you peace beyond understanding in this time of need.

Edward Woodham

April 3, 2007

I was one of Dr. Foley’s first patients in Jacksonville. Mrs. Foley was painting the waiting room. I was delivering prescription blanks provided by a local pharmacy. I doubled over in pain. Within a short while he was operating on me at St. Luke’s Hospital. “Alright gang let’s ask for some help as he began to pray, oh what a comfort to me. From that day on he was our family doctor, THE FAMILY DOCTOr of our entire circle of friends.
He was one of a very few people that my wife trusted without hesitation, and I might add the only person whom she would tolerate calling her”Lizzie” which he did regularly.
I remember the anguish on his face when he told us of our
daughter’s diagnosis of leukemia, and the tear in his eye at her funeral, He set me straight on the difference in spiritual behavior and the chemistry of the physical body.

My life is surely richer for having known this man of God.

E. L. Woodham
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Geneva Remley & family

April 3, 2007

A fine man and a very good physician.He was our family doctor for a long time.

Faye Lloyd

April 3, 2007

Dear Esther Foley,
Dr. Foley was our family doctor for over 40 years. There will never be another doctor to take his place with our family. My husband, John, was born the same year as Dr. Foley and he has congestive heart failure.
Your greatest consolation is knowing that he has gone to be with his Lord and Savior.
I would love to read Dr. Foley's book if I knew where to buy a copy.
He was a wonderful and caring doctor and he really loved his family. John and I send our deepest sympathy to all the family.

Joann S Diddell

April 3, 2007

Our Dear Dr. Foley is now in Heaven. What pleasure we have in knowing that he is safely home. We loved Dr. Foley and he was our doctor for over 25 years. He always knew what to do for us and was so understanding of not only our health problems, but personal issues. He was always so happy and I never minded waiting in the waiting room to see him because I knew that he would know the problem and take care of me. His bedside manner was more that the title- I could talk to him and he would always take time to listen and not hurry me in or out of his office. Many doctors today could learn from him and how he approached his patients. He always had that twinkle in his eye and that incredible smile.

I also know that he loved his precious wife and family and spoke of them often. My prayers are with them.

Dr. Foley always knew the answer and if he didn't, he would send you to the next best- but he always had the instict first of what might be your health problem. He will always have a special place in my heart.

By reading the paper- I now know what he was so special.

May God bless your family during this difficult time.

Betty Culp

April 3, 2007

Dear Foley family:
Dr. Foley was my family doctor for over 20 years and when he retired I missed him so much and still do to this day.I know you will miss your husband and your daddy as he was such a great christian man and all my family loved him so very much..He is now walking the streets of gold and is at peace..God bless all of you as you will be in my thoughts and prayers...

Debbie Glenn

April 3, 2007

Dr. Foley was our Family Doctor for 40 years. As well as our Parents Doctor when they also moved to Jacksonville. Surely he is with his family that has gone before him in heaven. Dr. Foley was a Compassionate, Loving, Dedicated and Wise Doctor. He was truly a special unique and caring Professional Doctor. Our family was one of his first patients when he returned from service. We send our regards to the family and friends.

Dorothy Green

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