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Matthew Slate Memoriam

SLATE- Matthew E. 30, passed away January 16, 2008. A Dignified Alternative-Hatcher Cremations.

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Published by Florida Times-Union on Jan. 20, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Matthew Slate

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February 16, 2010

I have to say Matt has an uncanny manner of putting things in perspective and putting you in your place. I received a notification e-mail on Friday February the 12th informing me the guest book was to be taken off line. I was under a great deal of pressure due to project deadlines and upcoming presentations for work and felt completely overwhelmed. I received this e-mail and the subject line was "Matthew Everett Slate". I immediately opened and was sent to the guestbook. I was reminded of what is truly important in life. Matt always had had a way of breaking things down to their most basic elements and did so again that day. I did not have the pleasure of knowing Matt for the number of years that many of my friends did, but I cherish every second and the life lessons he was able to teach me in the most basic ways. He did this again on Friday and I am sure he will continue to do so for the rest of my life.

Matt- Thank you for allowing me to be a part of your life and touching mine.

Dad,Candy,Cole

January 16, 2010

He Only Takes the Best

God saw you getting tired,
and a cure was not to be,
so He put His arms around you
and whispered, "Come with Me."
With tear filled eyes we watched
as you suffered and slowly faded away;
although we loved you deeply,
we could not will you to stay.
A golden heart stopped beating,
hard working hands at rest,
God broke our hearts to show us,
"He Only Takes the Best."

Matthew's First Day Home

May 23, 2009

Matthew's Christening Day

May 23, 2009

Innocence

May 23, 2009

Matthew at Sixteen - Relentless Big Brother

May 23, 2009

High School Graduation

May 23, 2009

Shelley Dent

May 22, 2009

My dearest son,

The time has finally come for my letters in your memory to end. If my grief has shamed you, let others know it was the grief of a mother and not the dignity with which you lived your life. Forgive any unkindness I have shown others in your death, and bless all those you loved. Never a day will pass without my thinking of you and may time pass swiftly until I see you again. I love you Matthew.

MOM

Candy and Dad

February 17, 2009

Matt,
We've missed you so much. Your Dad and I think of you and talk about you everyday. We can't believe that it has been over a year since you left us. I read this and couldn't help but add this to your book.

If we could have a Lifetime wish and one dream that could come true
we would pray to God with all our hearts just to see and speak to you.
A thousand words won't bring you back, we know because we've tried. Neither will a million tears, we know because we've cried,
You've left behind our broken hearts and precious memories too, but we never wanted memories, we only wanted you.

We Love You and Miss You.

Nicholas Crouse

February 10, 2009

You took so much with you when you went away.
So much that now you'll never know.
So many simple joys.
So many of my favorite things.
so many memories, now just bittersweet reminders.
Reminders of the times we shared.
Reminders of the too long gaps in between.
Reminding me constantly of all the things I should have said.
The words seem so simple now.
So easy to form yet so hard to say.
I hope you know I loved you though,
And you changed my life in so many ways.
I hope you know how much I miss you,
And that I will for the rest of my days.

A brother's love is an undefinable thing.
A bond that can never be broken.
A brother's love is eternal.
Love,

Nicholas S. Crouse, your mother's son, your brother.

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Jenny Puestow-Holland

January 20, 2009

It is hard to believe it has been a year since I heard of Matt's passing. In that time, I've meant to write something to express to his family and friends how very sad I am. It is just very hard to put such sadness into words, particularly to many people I've never met. I first met Matt at USA Tae Kwon Do, when he was just 14 or 15 years old. He was the same age as my younger brother and they reminded me so much of each other. A chubby, goofy, fun, and sweet kid...he was just like a little brother to me. It was such a delight to see Matt mature into such a considerate and successful young man. He was truly a good friend. The world certainly lost a great man. So, to all Matt's family and friends, I am so sorry for your loss. I am grateful to have known him for the time I did.

Lindsey Farrant

January 19, 2009

Matt,

A year after your death, and I am still at a loss for words; words just can not capture how much you have meant to me. I think about you everyday – and thank God that it is usually with a smile as I remember a funny story.

I enjoy sharing our stories with your nephews. It took nearly a year, but I can finally talk to David about his Uncle Matt; I tell him that one day he can be a Gator just like you!

Please know that though your time here was much too short, you will be with me forever.

Love, Lindsey

Caron & David Materna

January 17, 2009

Dearest Matt...how very much we have missed your sweet smile and warm charm during this past year. Our world is smaller without you with us, but our family will cherish you always. Thank you for your immeasurable gifts.

Shelley Dent

November 5, 2008

My dearest Matt,
This has been the most painful time for all of us, our family got together for your birthday. We know how thrilled you would be with your Gators yesterday. Your Aunt Laurie gave me a book to write down any memories, no matter how small. People say memories fade with time, but I can picture you walking in the front door right now with that grin on your face with a different story for each of us. You, Tom and Cole challenging each other to all day chess matches. while teasing your sisters and playing with David and William Everett. It seems so possible still and that is how you will always remain in my dreams. Happy Birthday. Love, Mom

shelley dent

October 21, 2008

My Baby,
People told me it would get easier with time. but I can't see ever getting to that point. I can only see my little boy who could draw the solar system at age three. I think of the passion you would have regarding the election every night when I watch the news. The small things like getting raisin toast at the Stand & Snack in San Marco before nursery school. Thirty wonderful years of memories are not enough to relive. I pray nightly you are in a place so wonderful that waiting for your family is like a blink of the eye. I miss you more than I thought would be possible and await your birthday, Thanksgiving and holidays with dread knowing the party never started until you got there.
Loving You every Day,
Mom

Candy Slate

September 16, 2008

My Dear Matt,
Last Sunday was the first home Jaguar game. I so miss you sitting to my right so we can yell, scream, high five,and hug each other during the game. However, you WERE there with me and your Dad. Everyone around us missed you too.
It's been eight months today and you've been with me all day.
I Love You, Son

Candy Slate

May 31, 2008

My Dear Matthew,
I so wish you were here today. You and Cole use to talk about how you both would be together on Cole's 21st birthday. You would always reassure me that you would watch over him on his
Big Day.......and be the BIG BROTHER....... Well I know you will be his Angel today. I Love You and Miss You Baby.......Mama Candy

Spread YOUR wings and fly..........

March 8, 2008

I LOVE MY BOYS!!!!!

March 8, 2008

Matt and Cole Slate.....Brotherly Love!!

March 8, 2008

Jim & Brenda Matthews

February 28, 2008

Our Dearest Shelley & Tom:

There are no words that can express our deepest and warmest thoughts which go out to you and your precious family members. We think of you so often and pray for comfort and peace to come to you daily. We so enjoyed those many holidays and special occasions when we gathered in Hawthorne with Matt joining in with the celebrations. It was always an honor to have Matt's calm and precious demeanor adding to those affairs. Matt's spirit will live forever in those persons who were fortunate to have known him. All our love to you Shelley, Tom, Lindsey, Scarlotte and Cole!

Kristina Sammons

February 20, 2008

Each time I open Matt's Guest Book, I am paralized to publish. No few words can describe Matt's Life or my Love and Friendship for Shelley. I know she is fighting by instinct just to take a breath and there is nothing I can do to mitigate her pain or her anguish. Death is such an unexpected and unwelcome guest. No time is better or worse. Guilt, fury, sorrow and rage together with an aching lonliness that will not go away.
Dear Shelley, I hold your sadness in my heart. Matthew was a bright and shining star whose light will never dim in my memories.
With Sweet sad tenderness, I Love you all.

Shelley Dent

February 17, 2008

Dearest Matt,

We were together as I saw you draw your first breath, and regret with all my heart I couldn’t hold your hand with your last. You were the first blood relative I ever knew. We bought your first skateboard and surfboard together, you were my best friend I don’t know what happened when you went away to school. The only answer you would give me is “Mom, let me do what I need to do and want to now, so I can take care of you later, and my kids can spend their vacations with you.” Son, we ran out of “laters”. So, if you can help Mom now, please ask God to let me feel your presence every now and then. Let me see you in Lindsey’s children’s eyes. Give me strength to look at your pictures and listen to you favorite music. Help me with my anger and guide me in wisdom for your brother and sister’s sake. I want moments of pleasure remembering you and not the guilt I feel if I am distracted by your loss for a moment. No one could have asked for a more wonderful, playful, intelligent boy. I thank God you finally found love with Nicole and her daughters, if not for that, this would be unbearable. I should have known you were to good for this world. I will never again fear death for you will be waiting for me

Love Mom.

Candy Slate

February 16, 2008

Matt,
You KNOW how much I love you. We had the perfect relationship. Gators, cooking, nice things, the love of children and our love for each other. I will always love you. Candy

February 16, 2008

Nicole Papas

February 14, 2008

Matt was the most amazing man that I have ever known. He has taught me so many things in life and I am so blessed that Matt was a part of my life and always will be. I can not begin to thank him for all the wonderful things he done for me and my girls.
From teaching Haley to swim, finding her first Sharks tooth, helping her with homework and watching Gator games together telling her that one day she will be attending UF just like he did. Matt never missed one of Madison's soccer games, he taught her how to ride her bike and how to throw a football. We are truly blessed with all of the special memories we have shared together and I thank him for being our everything.
I miss my Matthew...but I take comfort in knowing that he is our special Guarding Angel and always will be watching over us. I love you Matt....ALWAYS AND FOREVER~ Nicole

Jan McIntire

February 7, 2008

Shelley,
I have been praying for you and your family. I cannot imagine what you are going through at this time. What a wonderful young man Matt was. One thing I remember was speaking with him at your's and Laurie's parents 60th wedding anniversary, I said to Matt how great you looked and he responded, "she is so happy today". I know he would want you to try to continue that for him. Read Isaiah 26:19. Matt is with God and so very happy. Just know our love goes out to you and the family.

Laura Marsland

February 7, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers go out to Matt's Family, friends, and to Nicole and her girls. He was a fun person to know.

Jenny (Puestow) Holland

February 7, 2008

My heart is heavy upon hearing the news of Matt's passing. He was such a kind, thoughtful young man. My world is a better place for having known him. My thoughts are with his family and friends during this difficult time.

Jaqueline (Jaqui) Frasco

February 4, 2008

Shelley,
Not a day has go by that I have not thought of you.I have you and your family in my prayers. I pray that God's has you ALL firmly in his loving grasp. Hold onto God's hand and all the memories you have of Matthew. I send my love to you, Tom and all your children. Love, Jaqui

Paul Dent

February 3, 2008

I will always remember Matt as a very good person, even as a kid Matt was always friendly and when I would stay with Tom and Shelley we would play video games and he would always beat me but he would always take the victory and say you will get better and beat me soon. I think the one memory that always stood out with him is when I was in college and came to Waldo with Heidi and I gave him some "fruit punch" which was actually Mad Dog 20/20 he always talked about that when I saw him. It was a topic at Scarletts wedding, he will never forget that night. :) He is laughing now as I type this.

Beverly West

February 2, 2008

Shelley,
I am so sorry for your family's loss. I am so glad that I got to see Matt at your mom and dad's 60th anniversary celebration in June. What a handsome, smart, loving, and mannerly young man. I can not imagine the depth of your grief as his mother. No mother expects to lose her children before her.
The good thing is you still have another handsome son and two beautiful daughters.
I pray the lord will comfort you and your sweet family, and that your grief will soon become tolerable. ( By the way, I also noticed how sweet and loving your husband, Tom was during this difficult tragedy).

Love & Prayers to you all.

Aunt Beverly

Debbi (Sorrells) Mann

February 2, 2008

I can see by reading others words about you that you were truly a wonderful, caring, loving and giving person. I never knew you as an adult, which sadly is my loss. But, I knew you as a child, and from the minute you were born you gave joy to everyone around. While your sudden and untimely death seems so unfair to someone who is so young and has so much to live for, even in death you gave of yourself. Through your kind, generous and selfless act of being an organ donor, you live on, not only in the hearts of the many that know you and love you dearly, but also in those individuals that benefited from your gift to them, not to mention their families and friends. My heart goes out to everyone that knows and loves Matt and especially to my cousin, Shelley. I pray that everyone will find peace and comfort through God and his eternal love during this difficult time.

Greg Dent

February 2, 2008

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

HAROLD SORRELLS (UNCLE)

February 1, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you and all of the family Matt. I remember mostly when you were very young and knew then you would make a fine man. Life can be so short and so many things are left unsaid
such as the most important word we all fail to say often enough. We all need to remember to say "I LOVE YOU" to each other as often as possible. May "GOD" cradle the entire famly in his arms and shower them all with "LOVE".

Sandie Smith (Sorrells)

February 1, 2008

Matt
I remember the day you were born. Your Aunt Laurie had called me and told me she had to get to (if I remember correctly) Robert's parents house fast as your mom was in labor! I was less than 1/2 hour away and as I pulled up to Laurie's parent's home, she came running out to say....he's here! I rushed her to Robert's driving faster than I should but your Aunt Laurie had to be there and be there now! That is what I remember the most... how much you were loved even when you were just born. Not just by Laurie but everyone! I'll keep that memory with me forever!

At that time I don't think I had begin to date Don. Just before Don & I married he had realized that he went to school with your father. It always amazed me that we live in a big city but in a way it is a small world.

With my love,
Aunt Sandie

Sharon Brownlee

February 1, 2008

So sorry for the the loss of a family member. Obviously, Matt lived a very full and wonderful life and his impact on so many is obvious. May the good Lord continue to provide strength to his immediate family and get them thru this very difficult time. Matt's sudden passing is a reminder to us all that life can be short and that we only get one crack at making it the very best we can.

Janice Melton

January 31, 2008

Dear Shelley and Family,
My prayers are with you and all of Matt's family. Praying for God's comfort and peace to be with you during this time. You are loved.
Janice

Jessica Eliazar

January 31, 2008

My heart goes out to all of Matt's family and friends during this time of loss. Shelley, Tom & Lindsey, I know how important Matt was to all of you and how much you all will miss him. Please do not hesitate to contact me if anything is needed.

Julie Happy

January 30, 2008

To the family of Matt that I did not know, I am so sorry for your loss. I can barely type this for crying as I can not even fathom what you must be going through. Tom and Shelley, I never knew Matt as an adult but his sister raved about what an awesome human being he was. Shelley, as the woman who helped raise our daughter together, you must be a very strong woman, although you probably don't feel like it right now. You and I have been through alot and I feel like it gives us a special bond. If you need me I am here and "keep your face to the sunshine and you will not see the shadows"

norma hagan

January 29, 2008

Candy, I recently learned that Matt was your stepson. I didn't have that connection when he was on HAB's prayer list. I'm so sorry for the tragedy. He was way too young for his life to end. Give me a call (398-8862) in the near future. Would like for us to get together and catch up. Norma Hagan

Laurie Tidwell

January 29, 2008

Our hearts are overflowing with pride and love for you
Our hearts ache to hug you, or just hear your voice

How are we supposed to go on with our lives as before?
Then we realize, you wouldn’t want us to
You want our lives to be better than they were before

We promise to love each other more deeply
We promise to never be too busy for a call or a visit

Your life blessed us
Your loss changed us

In our hearts forever

Your family,

Mommy, Daddy Tom, Lindsey, Kevin, David, Cole, Scarlett, Dave, Aunt Laurie, Uncle Chip, Beau, B.J., Grammy and Boompa

T. Lowell Dent

January 29, 2008

January 2008

Dear Matt,

So many things you left behind are now beautiful memories. In those memories, I see you in a million thoughts I’ve had. Those tender thoughts you left me often come to mind. That quick smile will always be with me. An empty space now fills my heart; my boy, my child, my man, my grandson. You have gone, much too soon, into a beautiful world where golden dreams are spun.

Matt, I’ll see you in a garden, the precious flower you are. Please linger in my garden Matt, with that soul so young, so free.

You are God’s special angel. He wrapped you in His arms and took you off to heaven to live with Him, up there.

Matt, old buddy, you made Lowell’s (Lala, Grandpa) chest thumping proud. BSBA from my alma mater (UF) with honors, member of the Business Review, followed by an MBA, finance then a law degree from FSU where you represented the USA in Ireland as president of the prestigious Law Review. As Grandpa says, “Matthew Slate, you are the Crème de la Crème.”

Thanks so much for the phone call, Matt; I am sorry we missed our lunch date. Very soon we will all sit together; you, dad, Tom and me. All our turns will soon come, mine especially, and God’s perfect plan will be revealed to all, up there in paradise.

I will always love you, Matt.

Lowell (Lala, Grandpa)

Mayme Crouse

January 28, 2008

Shelley, my heart goes out to you for your loss. I can not imagine what you must be going through. I look at things simple sometimes and just imagine Matt in heaven doing the things that he loved the most. I love you, you are in my prayers, and remember anytime you need someone to talk too I am there for you.

Stan and Mayme Crouse

January 28, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family in your time of grief. May your memories of Matt bring you comfort.

Lindsey Farrant

January 28, 2008

Matt was so many things to so many people. As you can see from the guestbook, he touched the lives of everyone he met. His family will miss him deeply. We are not complete without him.

Kersten Schroeder

January 28, 2008

Matt, you will be missed. I knew that any time I saw you; I was going to be having a good time. Mexico will never be the same without you. I will always remember the good times and I will always remember that you did everything with a smile. I hope your family has the strength to make it through this difficult time. It gives me comfort to know that you touched so many lives and that so many people have cared enough to reach out and help your family through this difficult time. You will be missed. -Kersten (Dundee, Scotland)

Seth and Gina Wardell

January 27, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Christie Lewis

January 24, 2008

Matt was such a sweet, free spirited young man with a tender heart. He will be greatly missed. My deepest sympathies to the Slate Family.

Amy (Inman) and Johnthomas Cumbow

January 24, 2008

Matt will always be remebered with a smile. We will continue to keep Matt's family, Nicole and the girls in our thoughts. Hoping to those closest to Matt, that comfort can be found in knowing how many friends loved and cared for him.

Chelsea and Matt

January 23, 2008

Matt was such a wonderful person and friend to so many people. We will greatly miss him. Our thoughts are with his family, Nicole and her girls. Love, Chelsea Edenfield and Matt Schuler

Natalie Jenkins

January 22, 2008

I can't even begin to explain what Matt meant to our family. I am so thankful that he was in our lives so that we can see what true loyalty and kindness mean. We will miss him like a brother, and my deepest sympathies are with his family.

Becki & Tim Charboneau

January 22, 2008

Nicole, my heart goes out to you, the girls and Matt's family. We have been praying for you during this difficult time.

Amy Barnett

January 22, 2008

Dear Robert, Candy, Cole, Anne and Bill,

Our entire family grieves with you. We each have precious memories of Matt that bring many smiles. We adored him. May your memories and love of friends, family and our heavenly Father comfort you.
Love, Amy and Bill Barnett

Cari Coppenbarger

January 22, 2008

I knew Matt in college and a couple of weeks ago I got the pleasure of running into him again and hug his neck. Always smiling and happy with the world. Nicole, my prayers are with you and your family.
God Bless You!
Cari and Alexis Coppenbarger

Karen Gammon

January 22, 2008

Robert, Please know that our hearts ache for you, Matt's mother and your entire family. We only knew Matt through your office over the phone, but he was so very kind. He was a pleasure to work with - always! We will pray for your strength to get through this. Sincerely, Regions Contractors, Inc.

Jeff Edwards

January 21, 2008

Robert and Family,
We at BSF recently learned of the passing of your son, Matt, through a mutual friend. We offer our prayers and condolences to you and to Matt's family and friends. May you be able to find strength and peace in recounting the blessings of his days.

Heidi Drashin

January 21, 2008

Matt, I will miss you!!! You have been a best friend to everyone you knew. Your family, Nicole, and the girls are in my thoughts.

Myra Graham

January 21, 2008

Robert, Candy, and Cole,
Our hearts are broken for you and your family. Just know that God is in control and He is always there for you.
Myra and Al Graham

Robin Patterson

January 21, 2008

Robert & Candy
May you all find comfort in the wonderful life Matt lived and find in time a way to get past this tragic loss. Know my thoughts & prayers are with you all during this hard time. Robin

Michael Bellamy

January 21, 2008

I was sad to hear of Matt's passing. I have great memories of him from School and would see him from time to time here in Tallahassee. He was a lovable guy for sure. God Bless your family and know that he lives on within all of us.

Sonya Beyer

January 20, 2008

Matt was a great friend to me over the years. I will never forget his amazing spirit. My heart goes out to his family and Nicole.

Jeff, Alyson, Jordan, Emily and Katie Kessler

January 20, 2008

Robert, Candy and Cole,
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family and friends during this difficult time. Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Julie Burke

January 20, 2008

We just found out today. We are sisters in Louie and you know what we mean. He knew it and loved it. We are so so so saddened...He was such a personality. I cannot believe such an alive person is not alive. We are greiving but we will remember the vivrance he had forever. He touched many people. We need to live life as he would have wanted....

Justin Spottswood

January 20, 2008

I have so many great memories of Matt. A wonderful, hard working individual. My 5 year old son, Ascher, also had the opportunity to meet Matt. We will miss Matt tremendously and my prayers are out to him and his family.

Angel Hancock- Pecaro

January 20, 2008

Matt was a wonderful person from the inside out! I got to know Matt in Tallahassee and we become very good friends, traveling back and forth from Tallahassee to Jacksonville together~ A shoulder to lean on, Game day get togethers, Just a wonderful person~ We lost touch through the years after Tallahassee- and it was always great to run into each other when I would make visits home. Matt, you will always be in my thoughts and God Bless your family.

kim jones

January 20, 2008

Matt was such a caring, happy go lucky, smiley, genuine friend. He will be missed. My heart goes out to all those dearest to him.

MARCUS SAMMONS

January 19, 2008

I REMEMBER MATT AND HIS BROTHER AND SISTERS,WHEN HE WAS ABOUT 12 YEARS OLD.WE ALL HAD A GOOD TIME OUT ON THE FARM.(A GREAT TIME) I HAVENT SEEN MATT IN MANY YEARS, BUT I SEE TOM AND SHELLY.I WISH THE FAMILY THE VERY BEST. I WILL ALLWAYS VALUE YALLS FRIENDSHIP. LOVE YOUR FRIEND MARCUS

Timothy Ponder

January 19, 2008

My prayers are with you guys. Draw your strength from Christ.

Sharon Fortson

January 19, 2008

May GOD be with all of Matt's family and give you strenght. I have wonderful memories of Matt as a child and young man. My prayers are with all of you during this time.

The Simpkins

January 19, 2008

Robert, Candy and Cole,
We're so sorry for the loss in your lives. We love you very much and will keep your family in our prayers.
David, Melanie, Grant and Caroline Simpkins

John Stoner

January 19, 2008

I did not know Matthew, but I know his grandfather, Bill. From what I have heard he has the same spirit of the Lord our God that Bill has. I say "has" because Matthew is alive and in the presence of the Lord. To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. He is now part of that great cloud of witnesses that observes us. We will all see him one day. May your hearts be comforted in Jesus name, and may the peace tht passses all understanding overwhelm you.

Jonathan & Brandy Garza

January 19, 2008

May God comfort you, your family, and friends during this time of reflection and sorrow. God Bless!

Linda Wilson

January 19, 2008

Candy, my thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your family.Linda Avery Wilson, Live Oak, Fl

Branden, Nancy, Charley & Sydney Cannone

January 19, 2008

As friends of John & Lamarge, we are keeping your entire family in our prayers. Hearing how Matt, thru this tragedy, has helped so many is truly a testimony to us all. "You do not realize now what I am doing, but later you will understand." John 13:7

Laura, Andy, Lydia Lane

January 19, 2008

May the many loving prayers of all sustain you through this time of great loss. We love you dearly and will keep you close in our thoughts and our prayer.

Bobby & Kelly Knott-Cusack

January 19, 2008

We are so sorry for your loss. Matt was a great guy to be around...always smiling & alot of fun!! Our thoughts & prayers are with your family & with you Nicole.

Jeremy Weil

January 19, 2008

We are all deeply saddened by the loss of an amazing friend. Remembering Matt will provide strength and courage throughout this tragedy. Our hearts go out to Matt and Nicole's family and friends.

Glenda Miller

January 19, 2008

Matt...You will truely be missed.Nicole...We are all here for you.Much love-

Kim McCann

January 18, 2008

To all whom Matt's life enriched, in so many ways: I met him when he was just a little boy and served as the ring-bearer in my brother's wedding to his aunt, Nancy Slate McCann. His immense zest for life and his love of all kinds of people was evident even as a small child. I and my kids send our love to all who cared for him and will miss him. Kim McCann, NYC

Debi Hurlbert

January 18, 2008

Robert & Candy,
Nothing can prepare you for the loss of child but we know that you cherish every memory and moment that you were given with Matthew. What a wonderful legacy he's left to have blessed so many others with the gift of life! With love & prayers for all of you, Chip & Debi

Jeff and Heather Feltman

January 18, 2008

Nicole, my heart goes out to you and your girls. We are praying for you and Matt's family.

Amy Loftus

January 18, 2008

In the 17 years I have known Nicole, I have never seen her happier than when she was with Matt. God bless him for touching Nicole, Madison, and Haley's lives. We are all fortunate to have been touched by Matt, a true person, with a pure heart and soul.

Neil & Kristina Powell

January 18, 2008

I hope to never miss my my friend, Matt, as I pray for him (and hopefully with him) to God every day. We always challenged each other as friends, surfing buddies, finance majors and fellow gators. I know that Matt has a strong faith, and I pray that he will watch over the rest of us. Matt so dearly loved Nicole, her kids, and his family - my heart truely goes out to you. God bless, our brother, Matt, and Gooooo Gators!

Alan and Katherine Ridge

January 18, 2008

Every time I think about a memory of being with Matt I start smiling. There is no doubt that Matt enjoyed life to the fullest. He will always be with us and will never be forgotten.

Our prayers go out to Matt's family, Nicole, and the many friends that love him.

God Bless,

Page Waugh-Toal

January 18, 2008

Matt we will miss you so much and feel so lucky to have been a part of your life. We will think of you often and smile when we do.
Love Page and Liam Toal

Kristine & Scott Dippel

January 18, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with Matt's family, my very dear friend Nicole and her girls, and all of Matt's friends. Matt will be in our hearts forever.

Nicole and Dustin Brown

January 18, 2008

Matt you have been such a special friend for so many years. You are such a wonderful person, and we will miss you dearly. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

William Barnett

January 18, 2008

Matt,

Thank you for many wonderful memories. I am eternally greatful for your friendship and encouragement these past 13 years. It has been a privaledge knowing you and being your friend. My thoughts and prayers are with all your loved ones.

James & Lisa McCormick

January 18, 2008

We will miss you Matt. You were a great friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

angie tekin

January 18, 2008

a tragedy a sorrow only lightened by the gift of life you and your family so selflessly thought to give. you will live on matt, but always missed. god bless your family, i pray for peace.

Sharon Ephrem

January 18, 2008

Dear Sweet Family,

May God remind you of the many happy memories of your dear Matt. My family has ask God to comfort you at this time.


Crown Point Baptist Church Family

Joanna Steciuk

January 18, 2008

With deepest sympathy, may your heart and soul find peace and comfort.

Alex Walker

January 18, 2008

Matt was simply an amazing man. The love he showed for Nicole, Hayley and Madison is undeniably amazing. It seems so unfair that he left us all too soon. He is missed and loved by many. I'm thinking and praying for Nicole, Matt's family, and anyone who knew this kind person.

Jessie & Danny Jazrawi

January 18, 2008

Matt was a sweet and loving person and we will miss his smile. All our love.

Karen Fitzgerald

January 18, 2008

I only met Matt twice in my life. On both occasions he presented himself as a friendly, personable young man. A son any parent would be proud of. Funny how meeting a person only twice can leave such an impact. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time.

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