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Barbara Rainey Obituary

RAINEY

Barbara S.



Not your ordinary obituary. Most obituaries start in pretty much the same way, this one will be no different. Barbara S. Rainey passed away peacefully at St. Luke's Hospital on July 5, 2015, surrounded by family.

She was preceded in death by parents, Clarence W. and Mabel L. Snyder; brother, John (Johanna) Snyder and grandson, Michael Miller. She is survived by 4 children, Kevin Rainey (Angie), Susan Rainey-Biler (Paul), Joel Rainey (Paige) and CJ Holley-Rainey; grandchildren, Heather, Michaela, Amanda, Jay, Renee, Sydney, Kent, Joshua, Lauren, Christian and Gunner; great-grandchildren and her 4 sisters, Diane C Henn (Dwight), Paula K. Bier (Richard), Marcia E. Dircks (Lehr), Mary C. Caswell (Ken).

Barbara spent most of her school years in Huron, Ohio, graduating from Huron High School. She was also a proud graduate of Heidelberg University and The University of Toledo. After graduation she went on to marry, have children and teach at Shoreland Elementary, Whitmer High School, Regina Coeli and St. Stevens. Barb, was the choir director at Point Place United Church of Christ, Lambertville United Methodist, Hampton Park Christian Church and New Hope United Methodist Church. All before her children imposed a mandatory retirement 2007.

Now, remember we said at the start that this was no ordinary obituary. You see, Barb, Mrs. Rainey, Mrs. R or Mom, as she was known, had an undeniable love and passion for her students. If she wasn't helping them excel both on and off stage, she was shuttling a van load of them to a "must see" show. Whether you needed help with upcoming contests, auditions, Spanish homework or just her world famous "life advice" - there was Mrs. R. She might not approve, but she'd deal with that later. "Barb's kids" believed they could do the impossible and with her guidance, they usually did. She took an odd little show called the "Whitmer Circus" and turned it into must see "Extravaganza", "Varsity Swing Chorale" became "FanFare". She directed the 1st off-Broadway production of Jesus Christ Superstar and The Fantasticks right here in Toledo. Barb was a fixture in the early days of the Westgate Dinner Theater, sang with the Symphony Chorale, created the Toledo Music Theatre; she even did a stint with the New Bedford singers. She used her unimaginable talents to produce and direct mesmerizing high school musicals and community productions, laying the groundwork for many more years of "remember when(s)" to come. All the while molding performers and non-performers alike.

So, now you see why this couldn't be any ordinary obituary; she was certainly no ordinary lady. As her family, we got to share this extraordinary woman with the world and we couldn't be more honored. To us, there will always be a little bit of her in everyone she touched along the way. There will never be another.

Friends are invited to visit after 10 a.m. Saturday, July 11, 2015, at Ansberg-West Funeral Home, 3000 W. Sylvania Ave., Toledo, OH 43613 where services will commence at 1 p.m. With mom's love of the arts, the family is asking that in lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to a fine arts organization of your choice. A few suggestions: The Stranahan Theater & Great Hall, Toledo School for the Arts, The Toledo Jazz Society or any other organization in your area. You may also want to consider a lighthouse preservation project in your area.

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Published by The Blade on Jul. 10, 2015.

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Karole Warrer Sigg

August 1, 2015

Mrs. Rainey, I will always remember you with special gratitude in my heart, from memories of you teaching us Shoreland Elementary kids the original song you wrote after the school fire to being our Choir teacher in high school and directing the Whitmer musicals. You helped shape us morally and we strived to excel as you encourage to be better people. You never knew this but I am a children's choir director today for my church going on my 18th year and I feel indebted to you as my finest example. God bless your family and may they know you will lasts watch over them. Thank you, Mrs. Rainey

Amy Pfaff-Rose

July 11, 2015

Prayers to her family. Ms Rainey was a talented, beautiful person. I'm glad I reconnected with her on Facebook after all these years. She will be thought of often.

July 11, 2015

Mrs Rainey...thank you for bringing out the musical talent in all of us...Rest in peace. We love you.
Lori (Lehmann) Pinkerman - Shoreland '78

Stephanie McNett

July 11, 2015

I have fond memories of Mrs, Rainey. She will be missed.

Betty Greer (Riley)

July 11, 2015

Ms. Rainey opened my eyes to the various types of music - i could never thank her enough for the guidance and support she gave to me - RIP your legency will continue

Scott Harris

July 11, 2015

Mrs. Rainey was one of a kind. I was fortunate enough to be in Fanfare for her last 3 years at Whitmer. She helped laid the foundations for me to become a professional musician and her kindness, wisdom, and encouragement knew no boundaries. I am grateful to have known and studied with her. Thoughts & prayers to the Rainey family and also to our Fanfare family. She was "Mom" to us all and we celebrate her extraordinary life by remembering how she taught us to love one another.
Wish I could be at the service, but sending condolences and hugs from afar. Much love.

Dawn Szabo

July 11, 2015

Mrs Rainey was my music teacher at Shoreland. I always enjoyed her classes. One thing that stands out in my mind is a singing exercise we did: Ta Ta Tee Tee Ta, Tee Tee Tee Ta. It makes me smile to remember her standing in front of the class or sitting at the piano directing us, her students. I have enjoyed following her life through CJ on Facebook. She was one special lady and the love she shared for her family and students will never be forgotten. CJ you are a blessed man to have a mother like Barbara. I love the way you wrote the obituary. Mrs Rainey was an extraordinary lady she will continue to shine in all of our hearts. My thought are with her family.

Michelle Tebary (Lee)

July 11, 2015

RIP Mrs Rainey you will be loved and missed by many student you encouraged over the years.. Thank you for being such a supportive woman and teaching us the love for singing! Hugs to the family... CJ you are an amazing man and father I am so sorry for you loss... hug Gunner a little tighter today!

David Kesling

July 11, 2015

Thanks for the music.R.I.P. You will be missed.

Paige Landry-Rainey

July 10, 2015

My sweet mother in law left the best gift of all, my
Joel! She referred to me as miss Paige, and later, like a daughter... High praise from a lady who everyone knew,thought no one was good enough for HER JOEY!!!! She chose to accept me and love me as her own! I cherish the card that she sent that actually told me that I was like a daughter! High praise now that I understand as the mother of an adult son! GOD SPEED GRANDMA!!! Your light shines through so many lives!!!!! Not a day that we won't remember!!! Much love!

Karen Greulich

July 10, 2015

I met Barb a couple of times through Angie & Kevin. She was a very nice lady. I am so sorry for your loss of this lovely lady!

Gary Ross

July 10, 2015

Be well family, she was one of a kind!

July 10, 2015

Be well family, she was one of a kind!

Penny Collins

July 10, 2015

This woman had faith in my when no one in my family did. She used me in her choirs, her musicals and worked diligently with me for one of the biggest auditions of my life. She also NOT ONLY convinced my parents that the audition was a good idea - Barb enlisted her son, Joel to also work with me. THEN ... SHE WENT WITH ME.

I got in - I got a scholarship - I would not trade any of it for anything (Although I have long since left theatre - I am still active as an artist). She had faith in me.

There is nothing I can say that would come near to thanking her for all she did for me.

July 10, 2015

We send our thoughts and prayers to the entire family. We love you Joel Rainey and you are an example of all that your mom was- outstanding!
Dana, Chip, Myles, Karyn, Ryan, Julia, Emmett and Harper Roeling

Cindy Eberhardt

July 10, 2015

Perfect obituary for a great lady!!! Well done family!

Jamie Miller

July 10, 2015

I hope the burden of her loss is lightened by the knowledge that her bright light will continue to shine through her family and the many many people whose lives she has blessed in so many ways. God Bless.

Joel Rainey

July 10, 2015

Not a day will go by that I won't think of my Mom. She gave so very much to every single person she came into contact with. How blessed we all are for being touched by her grace and love.

July 10, 2015

Barbara was my choir teacher at whitmer high school she was so funny and a great Lady my prayers are with her family

Scott Berry

July 10, 2015

Barb is a very special friend of mine. She is an Angel. Go in peace and travel safely on, may your journey be blessed. May love and joy follow you home. You will be greatly missed.

John Kirkbride

July 10, 2015

Barb will be missed by her colleagues and students in Washington Local.
She was one of a kind!

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