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Mr. Christopher M. Comstock

1985 - 2013

BORN

1985

DIED

2013

Christopher Comstock Obituary

(News Article) Christopher M. Comstock, whose quest as a boy for a double-lung transplant - and then his recovery - captivated a community, died Tuesday in the Cleveland Clinic. He was 28.

Mr. Comstock learned this spring that he had Stage 4 colon cancer. Doctors cautioned that his condition was treatable, not curable, but he eagerly underwent chemotherapy. He even took a break from his hospital stay to hold a July 4 fireworks-watching party at his downtown Toledo apartment.

"Chris has always been a fighter," his mother, Kathy Comstock, said. "He's always said from day one when he went through the transplant as a little-bitty boy, 'If I have one day to live, fight for me.'

"He was very positive and kept thinking about the next thing he wanted to do," his mother said.

"It made him sad and scared him, but part of him believed, just because bad things have happened to him in the past 20 years, and he survived. He'd been on his deathbed many times, and he got back up to go to a baseball game."

Mr. Comstock was a graduate of Bedford High School and received a bachelor's degree in sports management from Siena Heights University in Adrian, where he played outfield on the college baseball team.

He later received a certificate in broadcasting from the Specs Howard School of Media Arts, Southfield, Mich., and with his interest in sports, hoped to do game commentary and play-by-play.

He worked in the team sports area of Dick's Sporting Goods at Westfield Franklin Park mall, and aspired to move into management.

He was born April 18, 1985, to Kathleen and Ronald Comstock and grew up in Temperance. He was a healthy 6-year-old on Christmas Day, 1991, when he took a sulfa-based drug prescribed for bronchitis. In reaction, his skin blistered, and he was hospitalized for a month.

His outward symptoms cleared, and physicians suspected asthma when he began to run out of breath easily. Only later was his breathing trouble traced to the drug reaction, his mother said.

In mid-1992, doctors prescribed a double-lung transplant as the boy's only chance at survival. By August, he and his mother were at an apartment near St. Louis Children's Hospital, where the transplant was to take place, and waited.

They endured a false alarm in May, 1993, which in the moment was fine with Chris.

"I had bowling that night and bingo the next day," Chris told The Blade then. "Besides, I won two dollars in bingo."

Then on a Saturday about a month later, a pair of lungs became available. Two weeks after the transplant, the boy was released from the hospital, besting that facility's previous short-stay record for a child transplant patient.

He went to physical therapy and was active and happy as he dealt with setbacks - an allergic reaction to medication and, later, an infection that developed around his incision.

He returned home in mid-November, greeted by a large brontosaurus cut-out in front.

The community rallied to help defray the family's medical expenses, raising nearly $70,000 through a 26-hour telethon and benefit events held over the year that young Comstock was in St. Louis.

The boy's checkups in St. Louis grew less frequent over time, although drugs he took to prevent his body from rejecting the donor lungs also suppressed his immune system and made him susceptible to illnesses others fought off, his mother said.

He followed the Detroit Tigers and Red Wings and the University of Michigan Wolverines. He played volleyball in Temperance and indoor soccer in Maumee.

He disliked conflict, and when others argued or were angry for no reason, "he tried to smooth it over," his mother said.

"He wanted everything to be cool and smooth and wanted everyone to get along - maybe because of the troubles. He knew what was important."

Surviving are his parents, Kathleen and Ronald Comstock; sisters, Andrea and Jaclyn Comstock, and grandparents, John and Regina Meszaros.

Visitation will be from 2 to 8 p.m. Friday in Urbanski's Bedford Funeral Chapel, Temperance, with a Celebration of Life service there at 6 p.m. Funeral services will start at 11 a.m. Saturday in Our Lady of Mount Carmel Catholic Church, Temperance, where he was a member. Visitation in the church is to begin at 10 a.m.

The family suggests tributes through the Bedford Community Foundation to Bedford Heart of Hope, which pays medical expenses for children with catastrophic illnesses in Bedford Township.

Contact Blade Staff Writer Mark Zaborney at:[email protected] or 419-724-6182.
Published by The Blade on Aug. 8, 2013.

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Wendy

August 11, 2013

Sorry for your loss!! Its hard to loose a child..Christopher sounded like a fighter !! Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Lyn Gamber

August 10, 2013

To the Comstock Family it is so sad to loose a love one, especially a child. May you always remember how much he loved you all and remember as long as you remember him he will always be with you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Rick and Lyn Gamber

Skip and Amy an Ryan Nearhood

August 9, 2013

We were so sorry to hear about Chris we remember his big smile and him and Ryan playing in the back yard Amy and myself can't imagine what you guys feel. Our prayers our with your family.

Madonna and Bob Jeffers

August 9, 2013

To the Comstock Family: Words are so inadequate at this time. We did not know your family or Chris but we come to love that young man through your e-mails concerning his journey. It was a journey. A road no one can truly understand. Chris was so full of life. He lived each moment to the fullest and he appreciated life so much. The Good Lord came and took Chris to be with him so Chris would not have anymore pain and suffering. That is a wonderful thought knowing Chris is no longer suffering or in pain. He is in a beautiful place. He is home in eternity. I am certain all of our family welcomed Chris. Bert's grandfather, John Patrick Foran, will watch over him as well as our entire family. John Patrick was my brother and he too died from Cancer. Only if someday they will find a cure and a cause. Our hearts are heavy for you. Just know we are thinking and praying for all the family. Love and Prayers, Madonna and Bob Jeffers, Huntington, IN.

August 9, 2013

Kathy,Rock,Andrea and Jaclyn,
We were so sorry to hear about Chris. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this very sad and difficult time.
Sherri and Howard Blakeman

Steven Heslet

August 9, 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.

Cathy & Kevin ORourke

August 9, 2013

Chris has been a great kid/friend and asset to our Katie, he was always so fun to hang around, so positive. He will be really missed.

Schana Yacks (Mugg)

August 8, 2013

Kathy, Rock and girls,
I remember Chris as the sweet little boy that lived next to us as kids. It sounds like he grew to be quite an extraordinary man. I'm praying for you all through this difficult time. Matthew 11:28-30

Schana Yacks (Mugg)

John Gryca

August 8, 2013

Our heartfelt sympathy to your family. May God keep you in His care.Sincerely,John and Clara Gryca

Cindy Spohn

August 8, 2013

May god bless you in your time of sorrow. I remember all the baseball games Chris shared with my son Brian. Chris had a great impact in a lot of lives. We feel so blessed to have been a part of his life around the baseball diamond. Greg and Cindy Spohn

DEBBIE RUSSELL

August 8, 2013

HEAVEN ACQUIRED AN ANGEL....GOD BLESS YOU ALL AS YOU SAY GOODBYE TO A WONDERFUL MAN....REMEMBERING THIS IS TEMPORARY, ETERNITY IS FOREVER... GOD BLESS,, DAN AND DEBBIE RUSSELL NAPLES, FLORIDA

Michael & Carmen Godfredson

August 8, 2013

Dear Kathy & Rock, What a Beautiful Tribute To Chris. Our Hearts & Prayers Are With You & Family. Mike & Carmen Godfredson, Webberville, Mi.

Marcy Combs

August 8, 2013

The Comstock Family,
So sorry for your loss.
The Combs Family

Jean Tomalis

August 8, 2013

Dear Kathy and Family,
It was with great sorrow to see that Chris has died. He was very special and fought bravely. May God grant you all the blessings and comfort you need.
Sincerely, Jean Tomalis and Family

Wanda & Frank Westenkirchner & Family

August 8, 2013

We are so sorry to hear about the loss of Chris. Remembering him back at the beginning of his long battle in elementary school, we will always remember his smile and yours whenever we would see any of you. His spirit inspired those around him even when he didn't know it. Thinking of your family and wishing peace for Christopher.

Deb Wolke

August 8, 2013

Kathy and Rock, what a beautiful tribute to Chris. I feel honored to have been part of your support team at work. Your devotion to Chris has been inspirational to behold. I know you have many treasured memories to hold closely to help you through this time, and forever. He was a remarkable young man, from a family full of love and faith. I am privileged to have known you, worked with you and loved you.

Jen Godfredson

August 8, 2013

May you find strength in the face of this. Our hearts are with you all.

Kelley Guldenpfennig

August 8, 2013

Kathy, I was so sorry to hear about Christopher. Please know your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Miranda wanted me to send you a big hug!

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