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James STAPLETON Obituary

STAPLETON James R. James R. Stapleton, 68, passed away at Hospice of Northwest Ohio on January 1st, 2010. He was born on February 22, 1941, in Toledo, OH. Jim enjoyed a successful 48-year career within the insurance industry. Starting as a national account manager with The Hartford Insurance Co. in Hartford, CT, he quickly became adept at working large, complex corporate insurance programs. Taking the skills that he learned with The Hartford Jim quickly excelled within his family's privately held insurance agency in Swanton, Ohio. After his father's sudden death in 1967, Jim purchased the agency from his mother and quickly developed a plan to grow the agency into what is now one of Northwest Ohio's largest privately held insurance agencies. With the economic turmoil of the 1980's hurting the independent insurance agency model, Jim was a pioneer in recognizing the need for the industry consolidation and quickly capitalized on this change and from 1983 to 2008 he completed 15 separate insurance agency acquisitions. Jim was an astute businessman and one of his greatest challenges was to perpetuate the business from the second generation onto the third generation and he took great pride in successfully accomplishing this goal with his two sons. An active community leader, Jim saw his role within the community as a facilitator and he enjoyed working on many public initiatives to offer his support. The son of a former Ohio State Democratic Chairman, Jim learned at a very early age how to build consensus on both sides of the political isle. At his death, Jim was chairman of Stapleton Insurance & Risk Management, Inc., and president of Cottage Colony Properties, Sanibel Island, Florida. Over the years he served as the chairman of the Fulton County Economic Development Committee, a director for the former State Home Savings Bank of Bowling Green, Ohio, a member of the Swanton Exchange Club, a member of the Swanton Chamber of Commerce, a 50 year member of the Devils Lake Yacht Club, a member of the Professional Insurance Agents Association, a member of the Insurance Agents Association of Ohio, a member of the American Legion, a member of the Swanton Elks, a member of the Delta Eagles, a member of the Catholic War Vets, a member of the Michigan Lake Preservation League, and a life-long member of St. Richard's Parish in Swanton, Ohio. Jim was a very big-hearted man, and above all, loved spending time with his wife and family on weekends at his cottage on Round Lake located in Manitou Beach, Michigan. He also enjoyed spending many winter weeks in Florida on his boat "U Aint Covered". As a grandfather, Jim was thrilled to share new experiences with his granddaughters and was always actively planning the next great excursion. Jim is survived by his wife of 46 years, Oddlyn; his son, Byrne (Lauren) Stapleton; his daughter-in-law, Ginger Hall Stapleton; his three granddaughters, Kate, Sara, and Lindsey; his sister, Joan Stapleton McKenna of Denver, Colorado, and nine nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents, Rudy E. and Viola M. (Kasper) Stapleton; his uncle, Fr. James A. Stapleton; and his son, James Patrick Stapleton. Visitation will be held Friday, January 8th, 2010 from 2 to 8 p.m. at the Weigel Funeral Home, 204 Chestnut St. in Swanton, Ohio (419-826-2631). A Mass of Resurrection will be held at St. Richard's Catholic Church on Saturday, January 9th, 2010 at 10:30 a.m. with Fr. Dan Zak and Reverend Brian Haller officiating. Memorial contributions may be made to St. Richard's School, 333 Brookside Dr., Swanton, OH 43558 or to Hospice of Northwest Ohio, 30000 East River Rd., Perrysburg, OH 43551. Online expressions of sympathy may be made at: www.weigelfuneralhomes.com

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Published by The Blade from Jan. 4 to Jan. 8, 2010.

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Paul Evans

January 20, 2010

I only new Jim for a year as freshmen at BGSU. He and I were roommates and I only saw him once after that year. He and I had a lot of laughs. As others have said here, his sense of humor was very near the surface of who he was. I had knew that he would be successful as he enjoyed the business classes he was taking and it was almost as though he couldn't wait to get started. I met his parents once and I could tell that Jim had strong family support. It doesn't surprise me that he, in turn, became a good family man. Wish I could have known him longer. My condolences to his family and many friends.

Chris Pilliod

January 18, 2010

Sometimes I feel like I've met every kind in the walk of life, and I can't think of another person who liked to laugh, tell a joke or share a story as much as Jim Stapleton. Wish more were like him...

Jack & Jodi Williamson

January 12, 2010

Dear Oddlyn,

We were so saddened to learn about Jim's passing. Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. We will treasure the time we were able to spend with him at the reunion.

Twyla Wheaton

January 11, 2010

Oddlyn and family,
May you find peace and comfort in this time of the passing of your loved one.
May your memories always bring you loving thoughts and God's love.

Twyla Wheaton
Class of 1959

January 9, 2010

I'm so sorry to hear about Jim's death. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Susan McCullough and Bob Shatzel

January 8, 2010

Condolences to Oddlyn and fa.
Lynn(Babcock)Atanacio, Toledo

January 8, 2010

With our sincere sympathy we would like you to know how sorry we are to read of Jim's passing. God bless and keep you during this time of sadness.

Sal & Tammi Sangregory

January 8, 2010

ODDLYN AND FAMILY, OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO ALL OF YOU.

GOD BLESS,

GEORGE & JEANNE KERN

Bonnie (Smith) Beck

January 7, 2010

Oddlyn & Family,

I was so sorry to read about Jim passing away. You have my deepest sympathy.

January 7, 2010

Dear Stapleton family,
We were saddened to hear about Jim's passing. He will be greatly missed at Round Lake where he has been a fixture for many years. Please accept our deepest sympathy. The Thornburgh Family

Larry and Nancy Bunde

January 7, 2010

Oddlyn, we were so shocked and saddened to hear about Jim. He was a great guy and a better friend. You and your family are in our thoughts, our hearts and our prayers. May God's love make your grief bearable.

Phyllis Simon

January 7, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Tom & Linda Bourgeois

January 7, 2010

We're really sorry to hear about Jim and we'll really miss him during our summers at the lake. We'll definitely keep him in our thoughts and prayers.

January 7, 2010

Oddlyn:

We are very sorry to hear about Jim's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Your Neighbors-John & Sharon Woger

George & Eleanora Lindsay

January 7, 2010

Oddlyn, and families,

Heard of Jims passing and thinking and sending prayers for you all. Keep all the special good times in your heart.

George & Eleanora Lindsay

Cindy Thompson

January 7, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Faye Brandon

January 7, 2010

Oddlyn and family, I'm thinking of you with heartfelt sympathy. My Swanton students have a special place in my heart. You never know the depth of your love until death comes. God Bless You. Faye Brandon

Darlene Terrill

January 6, 2010

My heart goes out to the family of Jims passing he will be greatly missed by alot of us here at the lake.He always was smiling and picking on me as I passed by.He had a kind heart so I realy can feel for your loss.Darlene and Roger Terrill and the end of East Ferndale
Manitou Beach,Mich

January 6, 2010

Oddlyn, Byrne & Lauren,

We are so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always.

Pat & Anna Gallagher

Grace Bauman

January 6, 2010

Dear Oddlyn: Jan.o6,2010
My heart goes out to you, and your family, so sorry to hear of jim's passing,You All Have My Deepest Sympathy.
GRACE (FRANKLIN) BAUMAN

Dr. John Pastorek

January 6, 2010

Dear Oddlyn:

Sorry to hear about Jim. Had a great time with Jim and Chuck Burge in the Florida Keys many years ago. Jim was always fun and the life of a party. Took him out Tarpon fishing, it was his day, he caught a 100 lb + Tarpon. It cost him dearly, dinner and drinks for three of us. Said some prayers for Jim after I read of his death in the Blade online.

Dr. John Pastorek

Islamorada, FL

Jim Nooney

January 6, 2010

Oddlyn, Byrne and Family,

I am so saddened by Jim's premature passing. He had a unique and infectious enthusiam for life that made it always enjoyable to be with him. My deepest sympathies. I will miss him greatly.

Debbie Shelley

January 6, 2010

It is with great sadness that we hear of Mr. Stapleton's passing. He has certainly been on our minds and in our thoughts and prayers. We were there when he became ill and we hoped and prayed, through all the efforts put forth that evening, that everything would be all right. Our deepest sympathies.

Cherie Pilliod

January 6, 2010

I'm very sad to hear of Mr. Stapleton's passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to Byrne, Mrs. Stapleton and the rest of the family.

Norma Jean Taylor

January 5, 2010

Oddlyn, Byrne and Joan and families--My prayers and thoughts are with you all during this time of your loss. Jim loved to reminisence and now is the time for you all to think of the many happy times you shared in his life. Jim will be happy in heaven with all the Swantonites sharing their stories and experiences. May God bless you all during this time of bereavment.

Sally Shoemaker

January 5, 2010

Byrne, Lauren, Oddlyn and the Stapleton Insurance family, my heart goes out to each and everyone of you. Jim was a terrific man and will be missed by all who knew him. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family! God Bless!

Sally Shoemaker

Carolyn Adair/Duffy

January 5, 2010

Dear Oddlyn and Family;
Just want you to know how sorry I am to
hear of Jim's passing. He was a great guy, always has that big smile on his face. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

donna burge

January 5, 2010

oddlyn-my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family today.what a shock...

Shawn and Jessica Kilgore

January 5, 2010

Our deepest sympathies. Jim was a pleasure to work for. A true gentleman. He will be missed.

stephanie wagoner-woodruff

January 5, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with your family - Stephanie Wagoner-Woodruff

January 5, 2010

Byrne & Family,

We were so sorry to hear of your loss.
May your memories and his many achievements during a life well lived bring you comfort during this difficult time.

Our thoughts are with you at this time of sorrow.

Regent Electric Office Staff

January 4, 2010

Dear Oddlyn and Family, Our deepest sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you. We'll always remember Jim as he was at the class reunion last August, so jovial and so much fun. His Dad, Rudy, was my grandparents insurance agent and I remember seeing Jim in church all those many years ago. You have many wonderful memories to cherish...Valeria and Eddie Stratton

Charlie Williamson

January 4, 2010

Oddlyn, I'm sorry to hear about Jim. Although I had not seen him lately, he always came up in my thoughts. He was a great person and I always appreciated his friendship. My heart goes out to you and your family.

January 4, 2010

Our Deepest Sympathies,

Matt & Colleen McQuade

January 4, 2010

I was saddened to hear of Jim's passing. He was an inspired leader, always fair and supportive. My sincerest condolences to Byrne, Oddlyn and the family. He will be missed.

Sandy (Smith) Callahan

January 4, 2010

Oddlyn, our thought's and prayer's are with you and your family. Jim will be missed by everyone who knew him. Ray & Betty kolodziejczyk New Port Richey Fl.

John Kolbeck

January 4, 2010

I was shocked to hear of Jim's passing. Numerous times I had drinks at the Toledo Club with him discussing trust investment services. He was happy with a manager down in Columbus. His smile was great. My condolences to the family.

Janet Craig Azar

January 4, 2010

Oddlyn, I have been thinking about you and praying for Jim for the past weeks. Jim was one of the greatest guys I know. Keep your fond memories in the forefront. He has a great legacy. Janet Craig

January 4, 2010

Joyce and I are saddened to hear of Jim's passing. We would like to extend our condolences to the family and staff. Peace be with you all.

January 4, 2010

Byrne, Lauren and family. The staff of Amazing Space is deeply saddened by the passing of your Father.

Amazing Space, Inc.

Thomas H. and Carol J. Bilang

January 4, 2010

Oddlyn & family,

We were so sorry to read of Jim's passing. We have many great memories of the various snowmobiling trips to Michigan with various families from Swanton of which you and Jim often participated...many times these trips were taken between Christmas and New Years and what good times we had.

Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this sad time.

Tom and Carol Bilang


Thomas and Carol Bilang
1818 Birchwood Loop
Lakeland, Florida 33811

Linda Smith

January 4, 2010

Jim was truly one of the finest men I have ever met, and the best boss ever. He would go to extreme lengths to help an employee in need and will be missed every single day. I can't imagine going back to work and him not being there. My thoughts and prayers are with Byrne, Oddlyn and the family at this tragic time.

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