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for Jay Dubendorfer
Peter Herrick
January 28, 2009
Dear Sue, Chad, Cori, and Clay,
I was very sad to hear the news of Jay's death. I will always remember him being a part of my childhood whether it was playing in your back yard, or playing baseball. He will be deeply missed and my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Nancy Miller
January 26, 2009
Dear Sue and family,
I was so shocked to read of Jay's passing. I worked with him at WLS warehouse for many years and enjoyed many laughs and good times. I still remember how happy and excited he was on the birth of each of your children. He came to work and shared all his funny little stories as they were growing up. Our prayers are with you all during this sad time.
CHRISTOPHER LAZETTE
January 25, 2009
I was very sorry to hear about the passing of Jay. I grew up with him playing football and base ball at Wernerts park.We all had a great playing with Donnie, Kenny,Glenn Slusher, Loren Gase,Gary Riebe and the whole gang.My prayers are with your family.
Chris LaZette( New Port Richey, Fla.0
Lis Herrick
January 25, 2009
Dear Sue, Cori, Chad, and Clay,
I was deeply saddened to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
richard--diana morrison
January 25, 2009
jay was a great dad and mentor.he will be missed.our sincerest condolences.
Gary & Peggi Dubendorfer
January 25, 2009
Our extreme sympathy to you and your family. I used to see Jay and his brothers more often when I lived in Toledo. Since moving to Florida, we have lost touch. I remember Jay playing Little League football and he was an excellent runner. My sister has kept me up to date about Jay's illness. I only regret that I didn't get to see him. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jeanne Cousino (Relford)
January 24, 2009
Sue and family, I knew Jay years ago when we were at Whitmer, I will always remember his great smile and his friendly demeanor with everyone, I am so sorry for you and your family loss, please know that Jay touched alot of lives throughout the years, he has a special place in many hearts and minds, I will keep you and your family in my most sincere thought and prayer during this difficult time, his sense of humor I;m sure will live on through your children, take care and God bless you during this difficult time.
Matthew Mutchler
January 24, 2009
To the Dubendorfer family,
We are sorry for the passing of Jay. Coach Jay was my 8th grade football coach at Jefferson. Also, he was involved with the program at Whitmer as I moved up. He was a kind, caring coach that expected the best out of me every time in practices and games. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Matt and Kelly Mutchler
Danny Duvall
January 24, 2009
Ken, Donny, Todd, Sue, and all of your Families, We are so sorry for the loss of Jay from this world. New life will begin again for Jay, and All his loved ones, too. Our Family, shares our sadness at this difficult time, and wish the best for each of you.
The Duvall Family.
PAM FINCH(Marge&Frank Holubs daughter)
January 23, 2009
TO THE DUBY FAMILY--My thoughts and prayers are with you. I have known Jay my whole life and especially remember the fourth of July parties. Time is so short and needs to be lived to the fullest. May the memories of Jay help you through this time. Sue, May comfort and peace come to you and your whole family.
Ashlee Morse
January 23, 2009
Cori and Family,Im am very sadened by the loss of your dad I only new him from comming into my work but he was a very nice man and very funny my condolinceses go out to your family.
Bev and Ron Martin
January 23, 2009
To the Dubendorfer Family - My memories of Jay go back to when he first came to Washington Local in 1970. He was always helpful with my requisitions and provided advice as to what might work best in a specific situation. And most of all his presence at our football meetings, clinics, scouting trips and parties. Jay always took the time and gave his best effort to help the program reach its full potential. (at present in St Marys, GA)
Greg Hale, Ph.D.
January 23, 2009
All,
I played footvall at Wernerts with Jay and his brothers and I am honored to learn that Jay carried on the tradition as a coach much like his father. The Dubendorfers were fierce competitors on the field yet they took me the less talented one under their wings and did their best to mentor me a long. I can still remember getting blocked by one of the brothers and having my legs cut off from under me. Love and peace be with you all.
Jo Salvage
January 23, 2009
Sue - Many people are praying for you and your family during this difficult time. I've heard so many wonderful stories about Jay. Your memories of him will be with you forever.
Ginger Post
January 22, 2009
I am very sorry to hear of Jay's passing. I personally did not know him, but I heard many, many wonderful things about him from other people in the Washington Local District. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Karen Cousino
January 22, 2009
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Jay was a great guy. May all your great memories, outweigh your saddness. He will be truly missed. We love you
Karen and Wes
Gene & Sandy Wasielewski
January 22, 2009
Dear Sue and Family,
Gene and I are sending our deepest sympathies to you at this time. We both enjoyed and deeply cared for Jay. I first met him when I started teaching at Jefferson and he worked in the warehouse. He also was a favorite of our son "Jay" because he would let him help with the boxes, etc.. Gene, of course, worked with Jay while they were in the Maintenance Dept. He was well thought of by everyone that worked with him and knew him. Also, as you probably remember, Gene played for your wedding reception. How fortunate we all were to have had the priviledge of knowing Jay. Because of him our lives were richer and definately more pleasant. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
LaVesa Stateman
January 22, 2009
May the grace of God be with you through these difficult times. My prayers are with you.
JIM & DEBBIE JOHNSON
January 22, 2009
SUE, CLAY & FAMILY,
we are so sorry about your loss. he was a wonderful person. never a dull moment with Jay. He had a great personality. Our hearts go out to all of you. Jay was envolved in so much and loved his sports. He will truly be missed.
Jim Wray
January 22, 2009
Todd - Jay was an admired and inspirational guy, both in the days of the old neighborhood and throughout his life. He was a terrific role model for the young men in the neighborhood and I know we are all grateful to have known him.
On behalf of the Wrays, may Kenny, Donny, yourself and all of your families know that we share in your sorrow and that Jay will be prayed for.
tim, jennifer,courtney and andrew grady
January 22, 2009
Our family would like to send our deepest sympathy to your family. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers,
Kelly Orwig-Boseley
January 21, 2009
I want to send my deepest condolences. I worked with Jay about 25 years ago when I briefly worked at the Washington Local School district office with a school/work program with Whitmer High School during my senior year. Jay was so wonderfully kind and I remember his sweet and gentle demeanor. May God bless you during this grieving time.
donna schumacher
January 21, 2009
Dear Sue and family,
I send you my profound sympathies
for your loss. I always remember Jay
as a big teddy bear & always laughing
Even if I can't be with you now you
will be in my thoughts & prayers.
Brian and Patti Reineke & Family
January 21, 2009
Sue and Family
We are so sorry for your loss.
Our hearts are heavy for all of you.
Please know that your all in our thoughts and prayers.
Abbey McCracken
January 21, 2009
Sue, Chad, Cori, and Clay,
I was so deeply saddened to hear of Jay's passing. He was a great man, so brave, and so strong. I still remember him being around for all our junior high basketball games Cori, and later for such things as dinner at your house before senior year Homecoming. I know there are no words to heal the wounds, or give you true comfort, as I just experienced the loss of my father in August. As much as we don't want to suffer the loss someone so significant in our lives, we also take comfort in knowing that they are better now, pain free, and safe in the arms of our Lord. Your family is in my every thought and prayer.
Abbey (Kramer) McCracken and Family
Julie Greenwood-Kruzel
January 21, 2009
Mrs Dubendorfer - you may not remember me, but I attended Jackman Elementary when it was the talk of the school that Miss. Jennewine was getting married. When I attended Whitmer, I "co-oped" at the WLS Warehouse where I met Jay and then later on the football fields of Jackman where my son played. He was one of the nicest men I ever knew - always with a kind word and a smile. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Kimberly Spoerl-Spielman
January 21, 2009
Sue, I am so sorry for you and you family's loss. Jay was such a wonderful person and I feel blessed to have known for most of my life. He was a wonderful football coach and more than that he was a friend to the boys. They all loved him. Though life sometimes takes you away from the people you love, be consoled in the fact that you will again one day be reunited in Heaven. My sincere condolences to you and your family.
Bob Wood
January 21, 2009
To Ken, Don and the whole family. I want to share my condolences and say how sad I was to hear the news. Sports was a bond that alot of people had with Jay and mine started in grade school on the football field. I know you are very proud of him and I was proud to have him as a friend.
January 21, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. Jay was one of my patients at Toledo clinic and he always brought a ray of sunshine to the room. I loved his spirit and his energy. He amazed me by continuing to work and having a such a positive attitude. Im sure he will be missed and remembered by many people.
Laurie Gaynor
Jana Soltman
January 21, 2009
Sue,
I am so sorry for your loss. What strength you both showed during his long battle with cancer. I hope the grief and tears that come when something reminds you of how special he was soon turn to a smile and joy at the memories he left. My thoughts are with you.
Corey Koser
January 21, 2009
To the Dubendorfer family, I will always remember the impact Jay made on my life as a coach and as a friend, some of my fondest memories when playing football for Woodward include him, he will be dearly missed.
God Bless your family.
Connie & Marty Brumbaugh
January 21, 2009
Dear Sue, We were so saddened to hear about Jay. He was one of "our special kids" and was such a team player and so loyal. We are thanful that we were able to talk with him when we came to our grandson's game at Woodward/vs Toledo Christian. In fact, we talked so long that he missed his ride! We knew the family a long time since Ev babysat for Brooke & Brett when there were teacher's meetings. He was so proud of you kids and spoke of the kindness and caring you showed for him. We will miss him. God Bless. Love, Connie & Coach Marty Brumbaugh
Marty & Connie Brumbaugh
January 21, 2009
Dear Sue, Marty and I send our love to you all. Jay was "our kid" who was always a team player and a loyal friend forever. He was so proud of the accomplishments of his children and cherished the love they showed to him. His Mom was Brooke and Brett's babysitter when their Mom had teacher's meeting, so we have known Jay longer than "most of our kids". How lucky we were to have had the chance to talk to him last football season at Woodward after our grandson's game there with Toledo Christian. Jay's goodness will remain with all of us forever. God Bless, Connie & Marty Brumbaugh
Ritzenthaler
January 21, 2009
To the Dubendorfer family,
The Ritzenthaler family was very saddened by the loss of Jay. As we just lost our Papa (Jack) back in September from cancer, we understand what an emotional rollercoaster you all have gone through. Papa & Jay actually went through some chemo treatments together and boy did we love to hear the stories when Papa got home! As he (papa) was very saddened that he had to go knowing what Jay was going through also, the companionship was tremendous at such a devistating time during treatment. Once again they are sharing the stories from the old days of friendship with Ken & Ev, the Dube & Ritz kids growing up, and how cancer got the best of both of them. They were both fighters to the end with their sense of humor, of course!
RIP Jay
Love,
The Ritzenthaler's
John Jr., Alisa, John III, Jakob & Emily
Jerry Masters
January 21, 2009
Jay will always be remembered for his kindness to others. I had the good fortune of working with him and value his positive attitude and caring. My sympathy to the family.
Kristy Aeschliman
January 21, 2009
Sue,
So sorry to hear about Jay. You and your family will be in my prayers.
-Kristy Aeschliman
Patrick Hickey
January 21, 2009
The entire Washington Local School family extends our deepest sympathy to the Dubendorfer family. We thank Jay for his many years of service and for showing us how to be courageous and dedicated in the face of immense adversity. Our prayer is for your family to have strength and to depend on each other, your friends, and your faith during these trying times.
Diane Dooley
January 21, 2009
To the Dubendorfer family...you are in my thoughts and prayers. I was neighbors with Jays' parents and sure miss them as well.
Mark and Carol Barton
January 21, 2009
We would surely be there if we could. We both have many fond memories of Jay. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you!
Sheryn [Vaughan] Hogan
January 21, 2009
Todd: The family of the late Charlie Vaughan [Whitmer carpentry instructor for many years] extends their sympathy to you and your family in the death of your brother, Jay. May he rest in peace and free from pain.
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