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Veronica Cottingham Obituary
Veronica attended Blissfield Elementary and Middle Schools and graduated high school from Notre Dame Academy. She also graduated from the University of Michigan in the College of Engineering. Veronica was the first African American to be employed as a civil engineer for the city of Toledo's Engineering Services.
Veronica is missed by her sisters, Angela (Cottingham) Lee, Rebecca Cottingham, and Laura Cottingham; her brother-in-law, Reginald Lee; her grandparents, Duffy Dunham, Elizabeth Dunham, David Cottingham, and her grandmother, Marguriet Cottingham, who preceded her in death; her special girlfriends, Joy Wilkins, Lalonya Paige, Leslie Bouldes, Essie Ekaah, Gail Saldano, and a host of family and friends.
The Cottingham family would like to extend special thanks for their tremendous care to the following: The Medical University of Ohio, 4ABCD staff, Nate, Dorothy, Libby, Amanda, Angela, Terri, Bixby Hospital, Shane, Sherri and Corrine.
The Cottingham family will receive family and friends at the House of Day Funeral Service Chapel from 4-7 p.m. on Friday, February 17, 2006, and the funeral service has been scheduled for Saturday, February 18, 2006 at 10 a.m. at First Church of God, 3016 Collingwood Blvd., Toledo, OH.
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for Veronica Cottingham
Susan Montgomery
March 6, 2006
To the Cottingham family,
I was so saddened to hear of Veronica's passing. I had the pleasure to serve as Veronica's academic advisor in chemical engineering at Michigan. She was such a lovely young woman, always positive, always smiling. I admired her persistence and positive spirit, and was so proud of her when she graduated. She made your day every time you saw her, and I will forever cherish warm memories of our times together. Know that you're in my thoughts.
Kim Bradford
March 6, 2006
To The Cottingham Family;
I had the pleasure of meeting Veronica through her big sis Angie (Rose Bud) at UM. When I found out about Veronica's passing via a UM Alum this past weekend, I was truly sadden. I could envision her smile and her bubbly demeanor as we ran into one another on campus. I loved talking to Veronica. She was a ray of sunshine that I shared many conversations with such as majoring in Chem E to switching majors to her work with the Reach-Out Mentoring Program. Veronica will truly be missed. I remembered seeing her take part in the UM Gospel Chorale performances that always uplifted me. To the Cottingham Family and Angie, my prayers are with you. Please treasure the good memories and remember that we will see her on the other side.
God Bless and Take Care!!
Kim Bradford
Alma Sanders
February 26, 2006
The Cottingham Family I would like to express my condolences on your loss. I will kept your family in my prayers. John 14-18 I will not leave you comfortless:I will come to you.
God Bless You All
Michelle "Shelly" (LaMere) Salkeld
February 25, 2006
Angela and family--I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Veronica. Although it has been years, I have fond memories of Veronica and your family from Blissfield. Know you are in my thoughts and prayeres during this time.
Tamara Bolden
February 24, 2006
Sorry to here about your lost. Just remember that God is with you in your time of need and so am I.
Sr Sally Marie Bohnett, SND
February 22, 2006
All of us here at Notre Dame Academy are with you in prayer as you mourn the loss of Veronica. Be assured of our love and support.
Sister Margaret Ann Polta
February 22, 2006
Dear Connie and Family,
I was saddened to hear of Varonica's passing. I'll always remember her as a happy, beautiful young woman. May the love and support of family and friends and loving memories of the gift Varonica was help to comfort you at this time. You are in my prayers.
Sister Mary Margaret Ann, SND
Min. James L. Jones
February 20, 2006
The Cottingham Family,
I was deeply saddened to hear of the passing of Veronica. In the short few years that I knew her, I realized how very special she was. We may not always understand when death comes by our way, but we can hold to the fact that God knows and He is in control. Earth hath no sorrow that Heaven can't heal. My prayers are with you. God bless.
Angela R. Logan
February 20, 2006
May the God of all comfort be with you at this time, and may you take courage in knowing that “Earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal.” My thoughts and prayers will continue to be with you as the days and months go by.
Love always,
Angela
Tom Dobb
February 20, 2006
Cottingham Family,
We were so saddened to here about the passing of your daughter Veronica. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during these trying times. God Bless you and your family.
Tom & Po Dobb
Irvay Stoner
February 19, 2006
To the Cottingham Family,
Our sincere condolences and prayers go out to you. May the God of all comfort hold you in the palm of His hand and may His spirit grant you peace.
God Bless,
Ron & Irvay Stoner
Mandy Straubel (Myers)
February 18, 2006
Aunt Connie, Uncle Fred, Angie, Laura & Rebecca: You will always be a part of my family and a part of my life. I wish you peace, comfort and the joy that can come from all of the wonderful memories the world has of Bubbles.
All of my love,
Mandy
Brenda Hailey
February 18, 2006
Cottingham Family:
Veronica"Bubbles" was so loved by our family and we will miss her beautiful smile and loving affection she gave our family, especially our Ebone'.
Our prayers will continue to go forth to the our Father in heaven on your behalf. May the Prince of Peace grant you his Peace, Love and Confort during this season of your lives.
With Much Love,
The Hailey Family
Toledo, Ohio
Michael Moore
February 18, 2006
I am very sorry to hear about the loss of Veronica. She was such a pure and beautiful soul. I always admired her poise and overall niceness. She was truly an angel on earth and she will never be forgotten. I know she is with God now looking over all of us.
Maryland Thorbourne
February 18, 2006
To the Cottingham Family:
I express my heartfelt sympathies to the family on the loss of your beloved daughter Veronica. Although I did not have the pleasure of meeting and knowing your family, it is through my cousin Gwen Marshall of W.Va, that
I heard the news and wonderful thoughts and description of her. What a blessing to all who had her in their lives.
Helen Bruce Dimond Pat's sis bro
February 17, 2006
Connie my love and heart goes out to you. i feel your pain as i lost my daughter with cancer also. if need to talk call. my love to you and your family god Bless (((((((HUGS)))))))
Alyson Powell
February 17, 2006
To The Cottingham Family:
"Grace to you, and peace, from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ". Philemon 1:3.
Sincerly, Marcia Allen and H.Alyson Powell
Ernestine J. Armstrong
February 17, 2006
Dear Cottingham Family:
I am sorry to hear of your lost we will miss your daughter also.
May bless you on your lost.
Ernestine J. Armstrong
Emilie Harmes
February 17, 2006
Cottingham's -
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time. Know that many lives were made better by having Bubbles in them, even if only for a short time.
Patti Jacobs
February 17, 2006
Fred,
I was very sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter. She will now be peace and free of pain. My thoughts go out to you and your family.
John & Teresa Laing
February 17, 2006
We love you guys so much! We join our faith, love, and tears with you. Veronica is home in the arms of our perfect Father and I can only imagine the beauty of that homecoming! Let us know if there is anything you need!
Jeannine LaSovage
February 17, 2006
Dearest Ones,
Precious Princess Veronica. Her love for Jesus ever evident in her radiant smile and compassionate eyes. Veronica led our UM Reach Out Science Clubs for 4 years. She especially loved directing a program at Pastor Davis' Ypsilanti, MI Community Church of God. Veronica and her Reach Out UM leaders gave birth to our mentoring program that still grows today. She now knows the impact she made for the Lord in her everyday life while at the UM.....she gave me an angel coin to keep in my billfold to remember the Saints and angels that are ever near when we suffer for Christ and have hard times. I cherish this coin- moreover, I cherish my times with Veronica. How she taught me so much about faith, and "walking the talk." Thankfully, we will one day be with her again- for eternity!
Jeannine LaSovage
Patti Jacobs
February 17, 2006
I am very sorry to hear of your daughters passing. Please know that she is finally at peace and will feel no more pain. You will be in thoughts and prayers.
Laura Johnson
February 17, 2006
Dear Family,
Each day with Veronica at UT was a day from heaven! Those who never knew Jesus before knowing Veronica, knew Him after spending time with her! As Christ told us, "They will know you are mine by the way you love others." We knew this of Veronica---we still do. What a bright and awesome angel she is!
She will be missed by all who were touched by her.
My deepest sympathies,
Laura Johnson
Matthew & Tiffany Baccus
February 17, 2006
So wonderful is the celebration of new life, so fortunate the opportunity to live that life as we see fit, and when that life has completed its existence we witness the greatest wonder of God as he summons that life home. Please except these flowers as a symbol of the life of a truly beautiful person. We are truly sorry for your loss.
Sincerely,
Matt, Tiff, Grant, and Olivia Baccus
Jerome Lee
February 17, 2006
There is no amount of words that I can say that would bring immediate confort to you and your family at this difficult hour in your lives. I really, really know what you are going through and I will keep you in my prayers. Please know that you can call me anytime I can be of assistance to you.
Joette Oxner
February 17, 2006
Veronica:
I take it that God had much different plans for our future but who am I to question. Words can not express the way I feel at this time. Although, I am grateful for God being the God he is. One thing I do know for sure is that I will see you again.
Loving you always.
Joette
Dorothy Roseman
February 17, 2006
To the Cottingham family,
In the short time that I knew you, it was clear that your faith in God was very important to you. It is in that faith that you will find strength and comfort to get you through this difficult time. It was a pleasure to have known all of you even if only for such a short time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Patty Stammler
February 17, 2006
Dear Family,
We all loved Veronica when she worked with us tutoring for the Learning Enhancement Center at UT. She brought her Bible with her and I could tell she was a committed Chrstian girl. I was so happy for her when she got the job with the city of Toledo. What a wonderful girl and witness for her Lord. My thoughts and prayers go out to you all. Veronica was a vital and winsome human being and she made this world a better place.
George Robinson II
February 17, 2006
To my extended family,
Veronica was a darling individual who always kept her trek of reaching God as her mission in life. Through this cause she was able to touch so many individuals during her walk with us on earth. To Mother Cottingham, Mr. Cottingham and the sisters, it is with the deepest sympathy I write you today. Veronica held an everlasting light with me and my family. She was a pivotal, inspirational, and charismatic individual whom I'm glad that God placed in my life through our past relationship. May our Awesome God hold your entire family on his broad sholders during your time of need. The Lord has something marvelous planned in all his activities. This was one of his acts. I will allways love and miss her, ever so deeply, and will continue to use her daily walk as a pattern to follow in my quest to see the Savior, as well.
with much love,
Tonya and Roberto Baccus-Williams
February 17, 2006
To the Cottingham family,
We express our condolences to all of you, as we too mourn the loss of Bubbles. She had a wonderful spirit and a contagious smile. Our thoughts, prayers, and best wishes to all of you during this time.
Yolanda Robinson
February 17, 2006
To the Cottingham family, Our prayers are with you during this time. I met Veronica through my son George. From the first time I met her you could sense and see a beautiful spirit. I enjoyed our conversations. May you fine comfort in knowing she believed and lived her faith.
Dale Neumann
February 17, 2006
Fred, Sharon and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family during this transition of your blessed daughters journey to be with our Lord. God Bless, Dale
Jarvis, Shelia, Nollie Brown
February 17, 2006
Cottingham Family
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Mary Harris
February 17, 2006
To the Cottingham Family:
May God carry you all through this time of sorrow. Isn't it a blessing to know the Lord?
You all will be in my thougths and prayers--Mary D. Harris
Lydia Lindsey-Gant
February 17, 2006
Fred and Connie and the girls, you are all in my thoughts and in my prayers.
Kerwin & Madelyn Manning
February 17, 2006
Hey Family, our hearts are hurting right now because Veronica is such a special young woman. Our souls are joyful, knowing that she is in the presence of Jesus...pain-free, no more tears! Just know that we love you and wish we could be there with you. Prayers are going up on the West Coast!
Jacinda Lee
February 17, 2006
To the Cottingham Family:
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Debbie Nutt
February 17, 2006
Cottingham Family,
I am praying for God's peace, comfort, and strength to fall upon all of you. I understand your pain in the deepest sense, the pain of losing someone so dear to our hearts. I hope I can support you as you all have supported me. I love you all very much.
Renee Sinha
February 16, 2006
Dear Rebecca:
So sorry to hear of your loss. Remember, God is now watching over her.
Yulanda McCarty-Harris
February 16, 2006
I am not surprised that Veronica's favorite saying is Joyce Meyer's quotation of "Is your fruit being squeezed?" Truly, truly she is the embodiment of all the fruits, and believe me she made sure that each were overflowing in abundance. (This is evident by all the testimonies written on this guest book."
I miss you, I miss you, and I will regret forever that I did not get to say good-bye. But I will see you again, my sister - my beautiful, African sister. For I am, too, saved by grace, and born of the Spirit.
It is not often that a woman of your character and spirit crosses by and you happened to cross my path working at the City of Toledo. I remember you coming by the Purchasing office dropping off the first bid book you had put together at the City. The book read, "For technical questions regarding the specifications of this project contact Veronica Cottingham, Engineer." Although, you were young in your profession you were not just an engineer in the making but a great and qualified engineer - a role model for many of our young sisters.
May you rest in peace my sister and may God continue to give your family strength and mercy through this time of need. I love you....and I will see you again.
Melissa (Eisenmann) Mirelez
February 16, 2006
Mr & Mrs Cottingham-
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I have wonderful memories of playing basketball with "Bubbles" in middle school and always enjoyed being with her. She was a wonderful person. The thoughts and prayers of my family are with you all at this time. May God grant you peace.
TERRI LUCIO
February 16, 2006
MY PRAYERS AND LOVE TO THE ENTIRE FAMILY,VERONICA(BUBBLES)YOU AND YOUR FAMILY HAVE TOUCHED MY HEART SO MUCH-YOU WILL BE MISSED,THE DAY THAT I HAVE MET YOU IN ER AND GIVEN YOU THE CAT I KNEW YOU WERE SPECIAL PERSON,WILL MISS THE TALK'S WE HAVE SHARED TOGETHER WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. YOUR FRIEND TERRI.
Ashlee Myers
February 16, 2006
Laura and Cottingham family
We know what a difficult time this must be for you and your family. Laura I remember in high school when I was having a bad day and you would say a word to cheer me up. My word for you is to keep the faith. I thank you for that. I know that your sister is now looking down and watching you and your family. You and your family are in me and my family's prayers.
God Bless all of you always.
Ashlee Myers and family.
Riley Battle
February 16, 2006
I remember when Bubbles and her other sisters would come over to my grandmothers house and hang out...we were children then but you could always see she had a light. I am deeply sorry for your loss.
Todd Trudell
February 16, 2006
Fred, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
judi artiaga
February 16, 2006
To the Cottingham Family,From the Artiaga Family,
In the short time we spent with you at M.U.O., we knew it was more than coincidence.Your prayers brought us peace and comfort when we all needed it most, and today we hope to bring comfort to you through our many prayers during this difficult time. God Bless you all. The Artiaga's
Carol DeGroff
February 16, 2006
To the Cottingham Family:
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I did not know Veronica personally, but I knew much about her success & love of life & Christ through her sister Angie whom I worked with at Owens-Illinois. Knowing Angie, I knew of the love of her family and their great love of Christ. That love is a blessing to all. My prayers are with your entire family.
Kevin and Shilease Hofmann
February 16, 2006
Fred and Connie, you and your family continue to be in our prayers. Veronica is a beautiful and special soul. Her spirit and that smile will be dearly missed, but never ever forgotten. We pray that you feel God’s love and comfort around you during this difficult time.
Tim Macke
February 16, 2006
My prayers are with you and your family Fred, hope to see you soon.
Veronica in Children's Ministry
Corey & Nicole Robinson
February 16, 2006
To the Cottingham Family: Veronica was a blessing in my spiritual guidance she led me in her words of encouragement and in her actions. She was the most soft-spoken loving person I've ever met. I'll miss her in Children's Ministry she always had a kind hug waiting for me. She was truly a blessing!
God Bless you in this time of grief,
Nicole and Corey Robinson
Wendy & Randy Wright
February 16, 2006
Fred and the Cottingham family,
I was so saddened to hear of your loss. I know how much you all loved and cared for your daughter. It was always evident in our meetings. But, I also know that faith will get you through this tough time. God does not fail. Please accept our sincerest condolences and we will keep your family in our prayers.
Sr Mary Jo Szpila, SND
February 16, 2006
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your dear daughter and sister Veronica. I can only imagine your grief. All of you are in my prayers and thoughts. May you know peace beyond understanding in the midst of your great sorrow.
Patricia McLemore
February 16, 2006
It is with fond memories that I remember Veronica and your whole family and the love you all demonstrated to everyone. May the Lord bless each one of you and keep you in his arms during this time. Peace and Love.
Victor Ramsey
February 16, 2006
My prayer and love to the entire family. Veronica will be sorely missed. Here at the Capacity Building and Construction Program. Her zeal and warm smile made it a joy to be in her presence.
Sandra & Doland Brown
February 16, 2006
As spoken to the church of the Thessalonians (I Thess. 1:1-3)... Grace be unto the Cottingham family, and peace, from God our Father, and the Lord Jesus Christ. We give thanks to God for your family; we make mention of you in our prayers; remembering your works of faith, and labor of love, and patience of hope in our Lord Jesus Christ.
Veronica glowed with beauty internally and externally. We feel inspired and blessed to have known her. We pray that you find confront in knowing that though Veronica is absent from the body, she is present with the Lord (2 Cor. 5:8). Fred and Connie, you have performed a wonderful job in rearing her. May God forever comfort you and your entire family. ... with our love ..
Saria James
February 16, 2006
Bubbles you were a blessing to be around. You were a role model of the woman that I want to become. I'm going to miss you very much but I won't be sad because I know that your in a better place. We all love you!!! Know that our tears are tears of joy because you are in a place of no more suffering. We will meet again Bubbles. Love Always Your Girl Saria
Therese Nwokolo
February 16, 2006
Our prayers are with you during your time of bereavement. Even though I didn't know her, I heard many wonderful things about her. God be with you now and always. GEAR UP (The University of Toledo)
Michelle Shanteau
February 16, 2006
May God's blessings envelope your family during this time of grief and adjustment.
I will miss Veronica's sweet, positive, disposition - I enjoyed our discussions about all kinds of things. She was becoming a competent engineer exhibiting willingness to learn and do whatever it took to get her project done. I know she is with her Lord and her spirit is a new angel. She touched my heart and I will never forget her.
Gwendolyn Marshall
February 16, 2006
Dear Cousins:
My deepest sympathy. Bubbles will always be remembered as an outstanding young woman who truly left her mark on this world.
Gwen
Ray and Delores Lindsey
February 16, 2006
To the Cottingham family:
We extend our sympathy to each of you. I worked with Veronica on Wednesdays with the children. She was very creative with her lessons.
She loved the children and was faithful until she became too ill to come.
We love you.
Brother & Sister R. Lindsey
Dr. Brian Randolph
February 16, 2006
It is with profound sorrow that I learned of Veronica's passing. She is a beautiful soul that always brought out the best in those around her. Her memory and accomplishments will continue to influence aspiring engineers. I feel blessed to have known her.
DoLand G. Brown
February 16, 2006
My prayers is that the Lord will comfort and keep you during this time and you'll find peace in knowing that your special prize is safe in the arms of Jesus.
Karen Allen
February 16, 2006
Veronica,
Sometimes in life we get blessed by angels. Praise God! I experienced an angel! Bubbles (Veronica) you are the perfect example of how a life can be a blessing to others. You accomplished everything God set forth for you. You preached the gospel, loved and reached out to everyone, lived a Christian example, and most of all, loved the Lord. May the example of your life lead us all. God strengthen and comfort the Cottingham family in the coming days. My prayers and love are with you all.
Aimee's Mom.
Brenda Jackson-Cross
February 16, 2006
In behalf of the Capacity-Building in Construction Program, we will miss Veronica's sweet smile and her enthusiasm to mentor young people. May God grant you grace and peace.
Roye and Yolanda Robinson Durden
February 16, 2006
The Durden Family wishes to extend our deepest sympathy. Veronica was a special light in our family. We're so glad that George and Veronica's path crossed so we could meet her. May God continue to bless the family at this difficult time.
Carmen Watkins
February 16, 2006
Connie, may God bless and keep you and your family through this time of great sorrow. My prayers are with you. My son, Daniel, also sends his love. Though, it's been some time since we've spoken, you will always have a special place in our hearts.
Carmen & Daniel Watkins
Aimee Laramore
February 16, 2006
Beauty, Grace, Elegance, Spirtuality, Intelligence, Sensitivity, Love...A beautiful tribute to the power of God and the quality of womanhood. With fond memories of learning your nickname and escape lunches where I learned as much as I was able to share. I am blessed that my daughter has warm memories of the Cotillion, Angie's wedding, 4th of July Fireworks, and warm hugs on the Heman furniture, because of you - Veronica. To the Cottingham's who have taught us so much about love, family, sisterhood and faith - Jeremiah 29:11. Veronica's legacy, love, and spirit remain as a testimony to what a loved, blessed and highly favored woman can become. I am glad that we are a part of your family, and that God saw fit to connect our lives, forever. Shalom, Shalom - Peace upon peace to you. All of our love, Lydia, Noah, Andrew, Aaron & Aimee Laramore
David & Keesha James
February 16, 2006
To the Cottingham Family: We praise God for the life of Veronica and bless him for allowing us to know her. You are in our thoughts and prayers, today and in the days to come. We love you, David and Keesha James, Saria, David Jr. Jonathan and Janel.
Everleaner Bouyer
February 16, 2006
May God be with you and your family in these hard times. God Bless.
Patsy Dimond-Spencer
February 16, 2006
Veronica(Bubbles),You have always been one of my little angels. I love you very much, your Aunt Pat
Mickey Rzymek
February 16, 2006
Very are very sorry to hear about your loss. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Mickey Rzymek
Jessica Kapp
February 16, 2006
Fred, I am so sorry to hear about your daughter. I have been thinking and praying for your family. I hope you can move forward knowing that she is in peace.
Thomas & Krista McCrory
February 16, 2006
Cottingham Family,
It is with great sadness that we hear of the passing of Veronica. What a wonderfully accomplished, and truly inspiring life she lead.Our hearts are heavy, knowing how much she will be missed. Her legacy will continue to lead others in the direction of love, kindness, and selflessness. Please know that we are keeping your family in our hearts and in our prayers. The McCrory Family
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