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Clyde E. Stafford, Sr. Clyde E. Stafford, Sr. was born in a small town in Louisiana called Denham Springs near Baton Rouge. Clyde was a man who loved the simple things of life; no fancy frills for him. As he always said, "He was from the country; let's keep it that way." He enjoyed the days of Cub Scouting, and eventually was a Scoutmaster for many years in Troop 600 in Parkland. He also was a member of the Henry A. Greene Lodge #250 in Lakewood, WA for 44 years. He served as Worshipful Master of the lodge on more than one occasion. He spent many years in the Job's Daughters as Associate Guardian, as well as being a member of the Order of Eastern Star #198. He was a life member of the Scottish Rite. He was also a member of the Lakewood Elks Lodge for many years. Clyde is survived by his wife June of Tacoma, two brothers, Allen (Dorothy) and Roy (Louise), of Denham Springs, LA, his son, C. Edward Stafford, Jr. (Janice), and his daughter Julia Egersdorf (Steve) of Haleyville, AL. He is also survived by his grandsons Erik Smith (Nichole), Devon Stafford of Lacey, and a granddaughter, Karisa, of Alabama. He loved children, and had two great-grandchildren, Cameron Lawson, and Emma Kaye Smith. His extended family includes Scott Leifester (Melodie), Chris Leifester (Gina), and grandchildren Nicholas, Andrea, Matthew Leifester, and Donovan Buhain and Alexis (Lexi) Leifester. He also had many young baseball players who called him "Grandpa" and Clyde drove them all over the state and to Oregon to participate in games and tournaments. Those young men will be the casket bearers and it is now their turn to carry their Grandpa home. Clyde had served in the United States Army for 21 years and was a veteran of the Korean War. Upon his retirement he began work for the Boeing Company and retired in 1997 after 23 years. He served his country with pride, and he served his employer, the Boeing Company, with pride and loyalty. Clyde was a loving and giving man, and there wasn't anyone he would turn away if they were hungry and needed his help. He always loved to camp outside during the early years as well as enjoying the travel trailer. In later years, he enjoyed the comforts of the motor home lifestyle with his wife June, and enjoyed the company of some dear friends, his "camping buddies." He loved visiting the national parks and he enjoyed meeting new people and hearing their stories. Clyde's last trip with June was her retirement trip in September of this year, and when he got so ill with pneumonia and other complications in New Mexico, he didn't want to give up. He wanted to come home. The last few days of his life he was never alone, as his family lived at Franciscan Hospice House with him. It was a special time for us to reminisce with stories about him and remember the many "one-liners" he was famous for during his lifetime. He will be missed by his loving family and many dear friends, neighbors, his brothers and sisters in the Masonic Lodge and the Order of the Eastern Star. Clyde, you were a special man and your family and extended family loved you most dearly. In lieu of flowers, please make any donations to the Hospice Programs.
Published by News Tribune (Tacoma) on Nov. 28, 2007.

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Karisa Egersdorf

December 18, 2007

My grandpa was one of the greatest men I have ever met. I didn't really know him very well since I have always lived so far away but I still loved him very much. I always looked forward to seeing him when I could and going to my brother's baseball games with him. He always made things fun for me. There was something about him that everyone loved. Sometimes he could be a little harsh about things but it was always for the best. I love him very much and miss him lots. Since I didn't get to say goodbye I know that one day I will get to say hello again. He will always be in my heart. I love you grandpa.

Sherry hicks

December 14, 2007

Dear Erik, Joe and I just learned of your grandpa's death. We used to have so much at baseball games with your grandma and grandpa. Remember Matt and Chris? We would watch you guys play and we would sit in our lawn chairs. You were always the apple of both their eyes and I know Clyde has a special place in heaven. Joe and Sherry Hicks

Erik Smith

December 12, 2007

Thank you so much everyone for your wonderful praise and reflection of the greatest man to ever walk this earth. He taught me everything I know. I love him so much and miss him very deeply. I will never forget about him. May we meet again someday in a better place. I LOVE YOU GRANDPA!

Julie Stafford - Egersdorf

December 4, 2007

As I remember the love that I saw in his eyes,
My fathers love, a kind that never dies.
I remember his touch, brushing across my face
I long so much... for just one more embrace
He's far greater than any man that I know,
He's not just my Dad, he's my hero

I would like to thank everyone for their kind words and prayers. They are greatly appreciated. To my family... I hope this will let me write enough to share with you my experience during the funeral. At 4 pm (central time) I lit a candle that I had placed on my counter at the restaurant with a collage of pictures of Dad and I, and some flowers. I had a few moments of silence and reflection. But then the restaurant roared back to life and I had to get to work. A little while later, within the hour, things had calmed back down and I sat down and looked out the front windows (they are large) and saw the most beautiful sunset I have ever seen in all my life. The colors were breathtaking. The pinks and oranges and purples all twirled into the clouds. I thought of taking a picture with my phone but I just sat mesmerized, sad.... yet tranquil. Then, believe it or not the radio busted out with a couple of back to back songs..... Holes in the floor of heaven, and Love without end, Amen. It still gives my goosebumps to think of it. Steve looked at me and said, "How ironic, someone better than us had a hand in this". And he is right. I have grown so much spiritually with this loss of the world's most amazing man. I know that he is still with us, and I know he is so loved and that we will all be together again someday.

Patti Silvesan Johnson

December 1, 2007

June, words will never be able to express the sadness of such a wonderful man passing. Please keep close in your heart all your loving memories of Clyde. He made you so happy and put such a big smile on that beautiful face of yours. He also was so fortunate to have a wonderful wife like you. Clyde is home now, and in no more pain. You will see him again in a better place. It's just so sad to see him go just when you finally get to retire and was free to do all your traveling and visitng. Remember all those smiles and the laughter...he was an exceptionaly wonderful, caring man.

Tela & Michael Jones

November 30, 2007

My dear friend June,

I was so shocked and saddened by the passing of Clyde. You are in my prayers, may God bless and keep you.

Dianne Dew

November 30, 2007

To My Sister June,Her Family & Clyde's Family
Our entire family would like to express our sympathies and love to all on the loss of dear Clyde. The past few years he brought happiness and love to my sister and her family. Surely, he will be remembered for extending the same to his brothers and their families, his son & wife, daughter and family, and the many individuals he encountered in his lifetime.

I only met Clyde twice on my trips to Tacoma a number of years ago. I had a few nicknames from June's side of the family (ding-a-ling, blond bombshell, etc.), however, Clyde never really tagged one on me. I'm sure he had one in the back of his mind but was waiting for my third trip out West! As he once said on the phone to me - "that trip will be a real kick!" A blend of Northern wit and wonderful Louisiana southern humor. June and Clyde did talk about making a trip North in 2008. Sadly, plans change so quickly.

June describes Clyde as "the gentle giant", therefore a passage from one of our Mothers writings seems fitting:

Oh, I hope when I'm gone
And folks no longer see my face,
That the deeds I've done have helped someone
And the world is a better place.

I have tried to help my fellow man,
I've served -and worked with odds.
I tried to follow my Christian faith
And I've known there is a God.

For I know that there he waits somewhere
To count the good and the bad.
I think of the good and how I've stood,
And the success and love I've had.

Now, I walk the long path toward the end
And no one will walk with me.
I'll simply open that final door
And I will close it quietly.

Rest in Peace, Clyde.
Blessings and Love to all.
TEAMO June

Sister- Dianne W. Dew, Dannemora (Mountain), New York

Karen Grove

November 29, 2007

June and family,

My condolences. June, it was such a joy to see the love between you and Clyde. May you receive comfort from friends and from God.

Rosalie Nelson

November 29, 2007

June and family I was so sorry to hear of Clyde's passing I remember him from the baseball games he was such a big influence on the boys lives. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you May God bless you and yours

Love Jim and Judy White

November 29, 2007

Dearest June and Family:

We are so sad to hear about your loss and want to express our deepest condolences. Our hearts go out to you during this difficult time and the days ahead. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. May God surround you and bring you peace. May your many wonderful memories be a source of comfort to you always. Clyde was a wonderful Man and I loved sharing stories of how we were both blessed to find "keepers" :-) He will always be in your heart June, always.

Mel and Donna Hasbrouck

November 29, 2007

What to say when a dear one departs this earth and ascends to that greater glory we've all heard about but never experienced?

But think! One day, we who remain behind will have that same ultimate opportunity. And when it is our time, there will be someone we know who is there already, waiting to lead the way.

Somewhere, up on those frilly clouds floating high above the earth, there is a motorhome putting through glorious forests of pine and spruce and cedar with Clyde at the wheel. He will have the campsite all prepared, the campfire ablaze and a welcome sign out that says: "Join me when you are ready."

Sooner or later, we'll all swing by and say, "Hi."

Until then, enjoy the trip, guy! Enjoy the trip!

Diana Barker

November 29, 2007

Dear June,
I was so saddened to hear about Clyde's illness and ultimately his passing. Clyde was one of those special people whose presence will be sorely missed by those left behind. Please know that you and yours are in my thoughts and prayers.

June Stafford

November 28, 2007

Clyde and I lived our lives for each other. Our relationship, friendship, and love was so special to both of us. One could start talking and the other could finish the sentence. He was a special husband; always caring, sharing and wondering what he could do next to please me. He was a gentle giant. Always and Forever in my heart, your loving wife, June Stafford

June Jamison

November 28, 2007

June,
I'm so sorry to hear about your wonderful husband, Clyde. May God be with you during this time of sorrow. I'm so glad you both had time together after your retirement. I'm thinking of you and praying for you. Take care.

Eddie Stafford

November 28, 2007

He was the kindest, most generous man I've ever known.
His compassion, love and friendship touched everyone who ever met him.
We will miss him dearly.

Eddie Stafford

November 28, 2007

Thank you for your kind words about my father.

Bob Sweem

November 28, 2007

Clyde was a wonderful person, fun to be around. He will be missed.

Diana Erickson

November 28, 2007

Clyde was a very special Grandpa, not only to Erik but to ALL his baseball boys. What an inspiration to all of us. He was tough but gentle, with a great sense of humor serving him throughout his life. His sense of honor, commitment and loyalty was always evident in the way he lived. We will remember him with love and respect. Erik, Nicole, June and family, please know we love you too, and will be here for you when you need us. Clyde, go with GOD. Diana(Mom), Red, Daniel, Amber

Patty Rush

November 28, 2007

Eddie,
Sorry to hear of your fathers death. We are here for you at RFP if you need anything...

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