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Catherine Sivilli Obituary

Catherine Asbell Sivilli Born July 28, 1955, died tragically September 7, 2007 near her home in the Tucson Mounmtains. She leaves behind her heartbroken husband, Richard; twin sister, Cindy (Gerry); brother, Paul (Esther); parents, Paul and Marie; brothers-in-law, James (Joan), William and MIchael (Rosa LInda); sister-in-law, Donna; Richards parents, Mario and Florence and many dear nieces and nephews. All loved her more than words can say. She attended the Boston Conservatory of Music for two years before taking a trip in 1977 to Arizona where she met and fell in love with her husband, Richard. She never returned to the east except to visit and remained a desert lover till the day she died. She later graduated from the U of A with a degree in horticulture and also received a post baccalaureate in teaching which was to remain her career and the passion of her life. She had the guts to stand up to anyone int he way of furthering the education of her kids. She always gave 100% of herself to whomever or whatever she devoted herself to. She loved plants and gardening, hiking, camping, rock climbing, reading, music, traveling locally and internationally, opera, gourmet cooking, entertaining and most of all her friends. She volunteered at many local organizations and always extened an open hand. There will be a service at 10:00 a.m., Thursday, September 13, 2007 at BRING'S MEMORIAL CHAPEL with Dr. Wayne North officiating. She was the love of my life and will be unbearably missed. My thanks and love to all our friends and family who have stood by me in this dark hour. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Continental School District No. 39, P.O. Box 547, Green Valley, AZ. 85622. Please specify donations are intended for her 8th grade Washington, D.C. trip. Friends may call from 5:30 p.m to 7:30 p.m., Wednesday, September 12, 2007 at BRING'S MEMORIAL CHAPEL, 236 S. Scott.

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Published by Arizona Daily Star on Sep. 11, 2007.

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Susan Moreno

September 5, 2024

Rick,
I wanted to reach out and tell you of a recent synchronicity. I was traveling through the LA airport yesterday and saw a women who looked just like you late wife. While I was checking my emails upon return, I received an email from Legacy reminding of Catherine's loss and happen to notice she had a twin! It's something I had forgotten and am pretty convinced it was her sister I saw!
I know these kinds of reminders can be difficult, but I hope you are doing well. Would love to get together anytime for coffee.
Susan Moreno

Susan A Moreno

September 5, 2024

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Amber Pitello

May 27, 2008

Dear Rick,
I was shocked and saddened to recently discover the loss of Mrs. Sivilli. I was privileged to be one of her students many years ago at Green Fields. As the heart mourns the loss of a beautiful soul we can take some comfort in having had the honor of knowing her. My deepest sympathies.

Liz (Sippel) Gerdsen

November 22, 2007

Rick, you may not remember me. I'm one of your old hiking buddies from Salpointe. I did not know Cathy, but I felt very sad when I read that she had died. It is obvious that you and everyone loved her very much. My thoughts are with you.

Nancie Winham Jarvis

September 25, 2007

Very, very sad to hear of Cathy's passing. The Asbell twins and I grew up together in a small rural New Hampshire town and graduated from high school in 1973. It seems like light years ago now but we were idealistic young people then, eager to strike out on life's journey. I knew from Cathy's kindness and ambitions, strong work ethic and upstanding character that she would proceed to accomplishing much in adulthood. My heartfelt sympathy is extended to her loved ones, family and friends. May God's presence provide comfort and peace.

Bobbi Jo Ellis

September 24, 2007

Dear Richard,
I was shocked to hear of Cate's untimely death. My two boys, Weston and Wade, were inspired by Cate's teaching at Continental last year. I enjoyed getting to know her, especially during the trip to Washington D.C. and the planning of the 8th grade graduation. Cate was always calm, strong and shared an infectious smile. I'm sorry for your loss.

September 17, 2007

Dear Rick and members of Rick and Cathy's family,
We mourn with you and are holding you--and Cathy--in our thoughts and hearts.
Some years ago, Cathy sent us a condolence card in which she included Walt Whitman's poem, "A Noiseless Patient Spider." Now these lines have been providing comfort once again:
"Till the bridge you will need be form'd, till the ductile anchor hold,
Till the gossamer thread you fling catch somewhere, O my soul."
With love,
Tom Kreyche & Lizzy Longsworth

Paul Weiner

September 15, 2007

Rick,

My drive down Camino de Oeste will never be the same again. It will forever cause me to pause, think of you, your loss and the preciousness and fragility of life. We are neighbors. We met years ago briefly and though I'd never met Catherine my family and I have held you in our hearts and thoughts over the days of the past week. We are so sorry for your loss. We are here and available as part of your extended community.

Prudence Eppers

September 15, 2007

I was shocked and so very saddened to hear of "Cate's" passing. We joined our alto voices in the Tucson Masterworks Chorale and it was always such a pleasure being around her. She and her smile will be missed.

Jane Wilson-Ballou

September 14, 2007

It saddened me to hear the news of Cathy's passing. How well I remember her sitting beside me in the FMRHS band, both of us in the clarinet section. It has been 34 years since our graduation, I haven't seen Cathy or Cindy since 1973, however when news arrives of this nature, we are all family.
Know that you and your families are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jane Wilson-Ballou

Irene Ayer

September 14, 2007

I am so sorry for your loss and my thoughts and prayers are with you. Cathy's Aunt Irene Ayer, Portland Maine.

Katie Suedkamp Ballenger

September 14, 2007

Dear Rick and family,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I didn't know Cathy, but I know that you and your family will miss her greatly. My prayers are with you all.

Salpointe Catholic High School

September 13, 2007

The Salpointe Catholic High School community extends deepest sympathy to the Sivilli family. You are in our prayers at this very difficult time.

Becky Brown

September 13, 2007

I am deeply saddened about the loss of Mrs. Sivilli. She instilled in my grandson a love of science and a desire to achieve. I will forever be thankful for her. She inspired so many students at Continental School. They will find another teacher but never a replacement. Thank you for allowing her to share her life with the lives of Continental School science students. This is for Dillon Bledsoe, one of her students.

Susan Moreno

September 12, 2007

Rick,
I am so shocked and saddened to hear of Cathy's tragic passing. She was so kind when we last spoke about my son at the Bed and Breakfast in Bisbee. We never understand when a loved one passes so suddenly, but please believe that she continues to sit beside you.
My deepest, heartfelt sympathy.

Holly Weber

September 12, 2007

How incredibly fortunate we were to have had Cathy touch our lives! We shared many a game of backgammon and glass of wine. Her love of life was infectious and who will ever forget those smiling eyes? The world has lost a special person. All our love, Holly & Jeff

We love you both!

September 12, 2007

Chuck and Kay Harbert

September 12, 2007

Dear Rick:

We were shocked to hear of Cathy's untimely death. We enjoyed our times together and will very much miss her laughs and smiles. Our hearts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

With deepest sympathy,

Chuck and Kay Harbert

Ralph and Eva Barreda

September 12, 2007

Cindy, Gerry and Cathy's family,
Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very difficult time. May the love of friends and family and the peace of God be with you all. May the memories bring you comfort.
With sincere sympathy and sadness,

Linda Kayden

September 12, 2007

I sang with Cate in Tucson Masterworks Chorale, and worked with both her and Cindy on the Board. She was always full of light, love and encouragement. I will carry that image with me.

Cindy Coco

September 12, 2007

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Cathy was certainly a special person who always lifted my sprits by just seeing her smile. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time. With Love, Cindy Coco

Kathleen Kearney

September 12, 2007

I was so sorry to hear of your loss this morning. Although I only met Cathy once, I've known Cindy for a long time and know how she loved her sister.

Lisa Ponder-Gilby

September 12, 2007

I am very saddened to hear of Cathy's sudden death. I sang with her in the Tucson Masterworks Chorale as a fellow alto. She was one of the kindest people I met in the Chorale. Her friendly personality always brought a smile to my face. She will be very sorely missed by those who sang with her.

Lisa Ponder-Gilby

Beverly (Neal) Bean

September 12, 2007

I can't tell you how sorry I was to hear about my cousin, Cathy - It was so good you were all together in N.H. for a few days this summer. Although your hearts are broken, may your memories bring you comfort in the days ahead. Please let me know if there is anything I can do. Love.

Maureen Bike

September 12, 2007

Dear Rick,

Please know how deeply saddened John and I were to hear of the tragic and untimely loss of your dear wife, and our wonderful friend, Cathy.
She was the definition of "spunk." I remember her playing handball at the TRC with a broken collarbone - but she could have cared less - it was just all that fun that she needed to have! What a joy to have been part of her life.

Sincerely,

Christine Hagadorn

September 12, 2007

On behalf of the Tucson Masterworks Chorale our sincere condolences for your loss. Cathy was a valued member of the chorale and will be missed greatly. What a wonderful smile and she always had cheerful and encouraging things to say. We know she is singing in the choir in heaven or playing in the orchestra.

Deborah Daun

September 11, 2007

Dear Rick:

I was so saddened to learn of Cathy's passing and so very sorry for your loss.

Ken Helm

September 11, 2007

Dear Rick,
I'm so, so terribly sorry! Since learing of Cathy's passing, I've been remembering all the great times we shared, over so many years. What a terrible, tragic loss. Love, Ken

September 11, 2007

Dear Cindy,

We love you and will support and cherish you for now and always.

Love,
Marguerite, Francine and Marilyn

margie norem

September 11, 2007

Dear Rick,
I was shocked and saddened to learn of Cathy's sudden death. I was happy to see you both and reconnect this past summer. During my tumultuous post doc Cathy was a new friend and a good friend. She was a fine person in every way that counts. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Sincerely,
Margie Norem

Fred & Elaine Ayer

September 11, 2007

We were deeply saddened to hear the news about the sudden death of Cathy. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Quinton Priest

September 11, 2007

Richard,
I'm so sorry for your loss, our loss really. I worked with Cathy at Green Fields, and she was indeed the model of a teacher for alll of us. She also helped design our landscaping in the backyard. Plants she reccommended are still thriving there.

Quinton Priest

September 11, 2007

Richard,
I'm so sorry for your loss, our loss really. I worked with Cathy at Green Fields, and she was indeed the model of a teacher for alll of us.

L. Caraboa

September 11, 2007

Dear Sivili Family and Friends, Cate will be dearly missed. I feel thankful to have known her as a colleague. She touched many lives serving as a teacher. Goodbye Cate.

Joanne and Francis Stevens

September 11, 2007

Our heartfelt prayers go out to all Cathy's family. In their teens, Cathy and Cindy babysat our children on occasion, to the delight of our children. We pray that the years of good memories will help to ease your grief as time passes. Our prayers are with you at this sad time. Love to all from Joanne and Sonny

Nancy Ayer

September 11, 2007

Our hearts and prayers are with all that loved Cathy in this terribly difficult time. We are so very sorry for your deep loss.

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