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I miss and love you DAD
Krystal Summers
December 14, 2010
Dear Daddy,
My beautiful, amazing, brave, strong, courageous, daring, funny, controlling, “live your life to the fullest” DAD,
I really don’t know where to begin; I have so much to say to you. I guess I will start where WE began. I know it was December 2, 1985. I was given life on that day and I can only imagine how much joy it gave you the day I was born. I hear stories of what a proud father you were and I see pictures that tell me a story of how happy you were to be a dad, to be my dad. I remember loving my daddy, you were my world. My daddy was all I needed and all I wanted.
Dad, as I grew up you were such a constant in my life, you were always there and when I looked for help or advice you were the one I would turn to. You were also the one I would run from, the many, many times I made stupid decisions. But at the end of the day when I didn’t know what to do, or where to go, or how to deal with something, it was you I called on. You were my strength, my inspiration, and my motivation.
I have always strived to be like you, to handle my life the way you did. If I was faced with a decision in life I would ask myself, “how would dad handle this? what would dad do?” Or I would just call you and ask, “Dad how do I fix this computer, or how long do you cook hard boiled eggs, or what kind of TV should I buy?”
On November 16th, I received the news I never wanted to hear. My daddy was gone. My heart was broken and I didn’t know how to breathe. I said over and over,” I still need my daddy” but as the days pass and I began to cope with this void, this broken heart, I began to realize I didn’t still need my daddy, you had already given me everything I needed in life to be a great person, to do great thing, to live a life filled with family, friends, and joy. You had already instilled all of my morals, my determination, my strength, and my faith. You live on in my heart, you are with me every day. I am the woman I am today because of the amazing father you were to me. I have been told my whole life, “You are such your father’s daughter” and I couldn’t be more blessed to be that. This is my beautiful gift. Goodbye daddy, I will think of you every day, I will miss and love you forever, and I will be looking forward to the day WE meet again.
Love your amazing, brave, strong, courageous, daring, funny, controlling, “live your life to the fullest” Daughter,
Krystal
Petrina Davis
December 2, 2010
Dear Valerie and Family,
I am deeply saddened for your loss. It is still hard to believe. It's like suddenly the entire world changed now there is a void and I am so very sorry. I sincerly hope you find peace in your memories and I know Steve loved you and the kids so very much, it was apparent to every one. Take care, you are all in my prayers and may the Dear Lord bless you all.
Valerie Summers
December 1, 2010
On November 16, 2010 I lost the love of my life and a wonderful man. He is so very missed more than words can say. Thank you everyone for your kind words, the have meant so much to me. I will go on and take care of myself he way he would have wanted me to. Love to evryone.
Steve I miss you every day, you can never ever be replaced. I don't know where I would be today if not for you! I love you now and forever.
Valerie Summers
December 1, 2010
I was so blessed to have this wonderful man in my life. He made me the happiest I have ever been, when he wasn't driving me crazy about something. I don't know that the hole that has been left will ever be filled, but I cherish so much the time I had with him.
Steve I love you so much and you will never be forgotten.
Sarah Caffrey
December 1, 2010
My heart goes out to Valerie, Krystal, and Gabe. I wish I had some wise & encouraging words to ease the pain. I feel such sorrow in my heart. I spent a lot of time at your house when I was younger and I always thought Steve had it out for Krystal and me. I was so sure that he just wanted us teenage girls to be miserable (truth be told I think us two girls were the ones driving him nuts)! We thought we were so smart but he was always 2 steps ahead of us. Now that I am grown and a parent myself, I see that that couldn't have been further from the truth. Steve was a GREAT father and truly wanted what was best for his kids in every kind of way. Parts of him will forever live on through his kids and even through me. In my eyes he was everything a father should be and I am so grateful to have had in my life during those years.
All my love and thoughts are with you three while you cope with your loss.
Ginny Rountree
November 30, 2010
I was shocked and saddened by the news of Steve's untimely passing. He was a great co worker and I will fondly remember how we laughed together at him calling me Gina when we first met at PHS. Steve will be greatly missed by all of us who worked with him. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jeff & Jackie Traw
November 30, 2010
Valerie, we know there are no words that can soothe the pain of the loss of a loved one, but know you are in our thoughts and prayers and may you find comfort in the Lord and your memories. We are here just around the corner if you need us.
Michelle Barraza
November 30, 2010
Valerie, I was shocked to learn of Steve's passing. He was always kind and friendly whenever I saw him. I hope your wonderful memories will get you through this difficult time. You and the kids are in my prayers.
Xandria Bautista
November 30, 2010
Valerie, my prayers are with you during this most difficult time. Words are hard to find but my heart feels your pain. God Bless You & Your Loved Ones.
Gina French
November 30, 2010
My deepest condolences to Valerie and family. Steve was a wonderful and funny person. May God bless you in this time of sorrow.
Monica, Estrella, Jasmin and Melody Munoz
November 30, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time of great sorrow. May you find some comfort in the wonderful memories of Steve.
Brigid Gray
November 29, 2010
Valerie,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. Steve was a wonderful man and will be truly missed both as my friend and for everything he accomplished at work. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Shawn Hernandez
November 29, 2010
The world has lost a wonderful person. God bless you all in this time of sorrow.
Matt Grant
November 29, 2010
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Nansi Naranjo
November 29, 2010
Valerie, I have no words to express how sorry I am for your loss. You are a bright light that I hate to see dimmed by this tragedy. Peace and love to you.
Patsi Ponce
November 29, 2010
Valerie & family, may the memories u all have of ur loved one help u through this very difficult time. U r all in my thoughts & prayers.
Aaron Smith
November 29, 2010
My condolences to the family. May peace fill your void.
November 29, 2010
I am sadden by your loss. Sending a hug of love.
April Leon / Phoenix, Az
Shawn Hernandez
November 29, 2010
I don't know if I ever met a nicer person in my life. In loving memory of a wonderful man. I hadn't seen Steve or Krystal in a while but my heart goes out to you all.
Sylvia Goodwin
November 29, 2010
Valerie, please know you and your family are in my prayers. I am so sorry for you loss. May the strength of the Lord sustain you and your family during this time.
Rick Harrison
November 29, 2010
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
November 29, 2010
Services are being held at Shepherd of the HIlls Lutheran Church, 8799 N. Northern Ave, Tucson, AZ at 10:00 am on Tuesday the 30th of November.
Mark Hendershot
November 29, 2010
I had the pleasure to work with Steve for a couple years building the state's community corrections applicaiton. Steve made immeasureable contribution, was always helpful, fun and people mattered most. His good work and friendship lives on.
Regina Thompson
November 28, 2010
Val I was sad to hear of Steve's passing. He was a funny man who brought much kindness and happiness to everyone he touched. My sincerest sympathy to you and your family. Always Regina.
Diane Bixby
November 28, 2010
Val I was so saddened to hear of Steve's passing. He was a wonderful person and will be missed by everyone who had the pleasure of being around him. My sincerest sympathy to you and your family . You will have him in your hearts always.
Donald Tebo
November 28, 2010
The world has lost a fine man.My sincere heart felt sympathy to Val and the rest of a great family.RIP Steve
Cheri Daniel
November 28, 2010
My love and prayers are with you, Valerie, and with all those that loved Steve. I never got to meet Steve, but the love and joy he brought to your life was always present. That love will remain with you forever.
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