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Clyde C. Cole Jr.

1932 - 2021

Clyde C. Cole Jr. obituary, 1932-2021, Jenks, OK

BORN

1932

DIED

2021

Clyde Cole Obituary

Clyde C. Cole Jr.

Our beloved father, grandfather, brother and well respected Tulsa leader, Clyde C. Cole Jr. passed peacefully from this world January 21, 2021, at 88 years of age. We are saddened by his passing, but eternally grateful for his long life of love and service and for the assurance that he's now resting in the everlasting arms of our Lord.

Clyde was born May 4, 1932 in Chickasha, Oklahoma, to Clyde and Alta (Lassiter) Cole. He was a solid student and excelled in sports including track, basketball and his favorite, football. Clyde attended Northeastern Oklahoma A&M on a football scholarship and was a starter on their first undefeated team. He then received a second football scholarship to Eastern New Mexico University in Portales, where he achieved his Bachelor's degree and, more importantly, met Marcia Anne Johnson. They were subsequently married, and became pregnant while he was enrolled in law school. Needing a career more than another degree, Clyde applied for the Chamber of Commerce manager job in Guymon, Oklahoma. He knew immediately that he'd found his true calling, and a short while later set his sights on the Metropolitan Tulsa Chamber of Commerce executive director position. Over the next eleven years, he and Marcia had four children (one daughter died in infancy) and he held Chamber positions in Oklahoma City; Columbia, SC; Enid, OK (five years) and South Bend, IN, before arriving in Tulsa early in 1967, where a fifth child was born. During his 31 year tenure as President of the Metropolitan (now Regional) Tulsa Chamber of Commerce, Clyde was instrumental in the economic, social and cultural development of Tulsa and northeast Oklahoma. His focus was on improving quality of life through forward looking programs like Goals For Tulsa and Leadership Tulsa, and initiatives like River Parks, Tulsa Performing Arts Center, Tulsa Community College and University Center at Tulsa, which evolved into OSU and OU campuses. Clyde's vision for and establishment of a public/private partnership through the Chamber attracted numerous major industries and employers to the area, including Whirlpool, Kimberly Clark, Hilti, American Airlines, Metropolitan Life and State Farm. His economic development efforts for the region were global in scope and took him all over the world including Japan and Russia.

In 2012, as a result of a fall, he suffered a traumatic head injury and brain hemorrhage. With the amazing care, love and support of his daughter, Dedi, Clyde fully recovered and the family sees the last nine years as bonus time with our Dad.

Clyde was a lifelong sports fan, especially of local college and Dallas Cowboys football. He was an avid reader and huge history buff, particularly Civil War, and enjoyed genealogy as well. Next to Tulsa, his favorite location was his summer home in Red River, NM.

Our family were among the earliest members of Kirk of the Hills Presbyterian Church, where Clyde served as deacon and elder. At the time of his passing he was a member of Southminster Presbyterian, Tulsa.

He adored and was extremely proud of his ten grandchildren, and loved spending time with them. We all will miss and remember him as our loving, funny, generous, kind, smart Dad and Gangy.

He is survived by his sister, Marilyn Findley of Fort Smith, AR; children, Clyde Cole lll of Tulsa, Dedi Skipper and son-in-law,Mark Skipper of Sand Springs, Doug Cole of Longmont, CO, Mark Cole and daughter-in-law, Shona Cole of Magnolia, TX; and ten grandchildren.

The family plans to hold a public celebration of Clyde's life later this year.

Memorial Contributions may be made to Herman and Kate Kaiser YMCA of Greater Tulsa or the Lewy Body Dementia Association.

Leadership positions held: Board member - U.S. Chamber of Commerce, American Bank of Tulsa, Indian Nations Council of Governments; President -Southern Association of Chamber of Commerce Executives; Session member - Kirk of the Hills Presbyterian Church.

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Published by Tulsa World from Jan. 26 to Jan. 28, 2021.

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Carmen Couch

February 3, 2021

Having been a Board Member of NEO Development Foundation since 2003 I was fortunate enough to to serve with your father on the Foundation Board...Clyde was an asset in his service to the Board & NEO and wonderful to work with. He was a true gentleman, humorous & oh so kind. His presence has always been missed since resigning from the Foundation Board & I´m certain his legacy lives on through his children...my condolences on this sad loss

Richard L. "Rick" Shepherd

February 1, 2021

I send my very best to Mark & Dedi Skipper and to Clyde Cole III. The time for everything approaches, arrives, and departs. We hold our departed loved ones in our hearts, and pray we will be reunited once again through our faith.

Sharyn Rusher

January 30, 2021

I attended NEOA&M in Miami, Ok. with C;yde. We were friends there and when I moved to Tulsa in l963 we renewed our friendship. We went to reunion events and also went out to lunch with another friend, Nancy Ferguson I visited him in Montreau and also at the retirement place near 51st and Lewis. He loved his cabin in New Mexico and talked often of it and his daughter DiDi. He was a good friend. Sharyn

Nancy Ferguson

January 30, 2021

Shared many happy memories of Claude over the years. My deepest sympathy to the family.

Priscilla Iven

January 29, 2021

I took care of Clyde for almost 2 years, I will miss seeing him and making him smile.

Kyia burgess

January 28, 2021

Ill miss you mr cole taking care of you overnight getting you up in the mornings getting your coffee you glad to see me when i come in the room he always called me his son an his eyes would be so bright when i come in ill miss you Mr. Cole rip ill see you when i get there you where a very special person to me an always will be.

Ken Lackey

January 27, 2021

Clyde, did a wonderful job leading the Chamber and Tulsa through some very difficult times. He was the right person at the right time and Tulsa will miss him and so will I.

Linda Bresnahan Williams

January 27, 2021

Clyde was a dear friend. He will be missed and thought of kindly.

Robin Siegfried

January 27, 2021

So sorry to the family of the passing of Clyde. Clyde was a make it happen guy and did so much for so long for the community, City, and County. I was involved with Clyde at the Chamber of Commerce. Please know that the Siegfried family of prayers are with the family at this difficult time.

Rick L. Weddle

January 26, 2021

Sorry to hear of Clyde´s passing. I worked with him at the Chamber in the 1980s. He gave me my start in the economic development profession and taught me much. There was only one Clyde Cole. He will be missed.

Herbert Nance Sr.

January 26, 2021

Mr, Cole, was a fine person, I worked with Mr. Cole on the IFR Rodeo back in the late 60th and the IFR Finals in 1971. Clyde help the Jaycee's bring in the first IFR Rodeo to Tulsa. I always enjoyed visiting with Mr. Cole. Herbert Nance Sr. first IFR finals Rodeo Director

Sandra langenkamp

January 26, 2021

Did the most by creating positive efforts on behalf of Tulsa´s quality of life for all

James (Jim) Means

January 26, 2021

Worked with Clyde many years.
He was a great champion for Tulsa!
One of the best at what he did nationally. He has been a driving force for Tulsa for 49 plus years!
He will be missed.
He was a friend.
RIP

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