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Joshua Tyler Jay

Joshua Jay Obituary

JAY - Joshua Tyler, 21, passed away September 4, 2008. Joshua was born January 8, 1987, in Tulsa, OK and had lived in Atlanta, GA this past year. He was in the process of moving back home and was more than excited to be around family and friends again. Joshua is survived by: his parents, Donny and Janice Jay of Oklahoma City; brother and sister-in-law, David and Cristan Jay of Annapolis, MD; brother, Jonathon Jay of Broken Arrow; sister, Brittany Jay of Chickasha; grandmother, Jacquetta Hampton of Tulsa; great-grandmother, Juanita Payne of Chickasha; and grand- parents, Yvonne and Paul Sipes of Elk Port, IA; and many aunts, uncles and cousins. With a creative mind and a free spirit Joshua will be missed and loved by all those who knew him. Service: 2 p.m., Saturday, September 13, at Regency Park Church of the Nazarene, 8707 East 51st. Joshua Tyler Jay
This obituary was originally published in the Tulsa World.

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Published by Tulsa World on Sep. 12, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Joshua Jay

Sponsored by Dad, Mom, David, Jonathon and Brittany.

36 Entries

Johnny Gonzales

December 7, 2017

Miss you little cousin.

Aaron & Brittany Bolerjack

October 13, 2011

We still remember...love you and your family!

April 1, 2010

monty bigdogg H

sergio pabon

October 11, 2009

i miss you man!!!

September 28, 2009

Josh,
I truly can't believe you have been gone a year and it has not gotten one bit easier having you gone. I miss you as much as the day you left us. There are days I feel I truly can't go on but somehow find the strength in hopes of seeing your beautiful face once again and holding you in my arms. I love you son and my heart will forever be broken.
Love you
Mom

Hunter Stark

May 13, 2009

Cant believe your gone, your family is in my thoughts and prayers Miss you very much man!

Jacquetta Hampton

March 4, 2009

Keep your eyes out for Spencer. You will have company. All dogs go to heaven.

Love
Nana

Mary Ann & Lonnie Layman

January 13, 2009

It has been three months now and this won't get any better for me to write ,there is just no words I can say about your lost. I think about signing this book every, every day but the words just don't come to me. Because I know what a close family all of you are. God Bless you all, & may God make your Hearts grow stronger everyday for each other.

Janice Jay

January 11, 2009

Joshua,
We missed you horribly during the holidays and your birthday. It wasn't the same and never will be. We try and make it through each day the best we can but there is not a single solitary second that goes by that you are not in my heart. I love you so much and can't wait for the day for us all to be together again.
I love you son
Mom

Jacquetta Hamptona

January 9, 2009

Well, Nana made it another year. But you will always be "forever 21".
Love you very much.

Nana

Holli Skuza

January 8, 2009

Happy Birthday Josh, I wish you were here to share this day with your mom, dad, nana, Brit, John and David, but I know you are happier where you are.

jacquetta hampton

December 30, 2008

Josh, we all missed you so much this holiday. Words cannot express how much.

Nana

Lloyd Payne

November 20, 2008

There are no words to express the sorrow i feel and the grief I have .
I will Love and Miss you Forever.

Uncle Lloyd

Amy Emrich

November 20, 2008

Josh,
I can't believe you left already, I am still in shock, it's been more than a month, I cried but feel like you are still here somewhere.
One day you came into our life and just made it shine with your sweet shy smile. We were able to share so much in such little time, music, places to see (maps), dreams, careers, etc. Can't forget the day you volunteered at the salvation army in wichita falls, and you bought a suitcase for 15 cents. You were ready to go! and didn't even have a ticket or a passport but you had a map and a dream to follow! I think of you everytime I hear reggae on my radio, makes me wonder if you are tuned in on the same station, dancing along the Jamaica beaches. Paula and Hugo say hi and miss you very much. I still have your picture on my refridgerator, I know I will see you some day... in heaven. I will recognize you from the suitcase... I will always love you and I will always believe in you.
You will always be in my heart, in my thoughts and in my prayers and you know it.
Love you forever...
Aunt Amy Emrich, Paula and Hugo

APRIL DAMPF

November 6, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Jacquetta Hampton

October 15, 2008

Can not stop thinking about you today. Love and miss you sweetie.

Nana

David Jay

October 12, 2008

Josh,
I can't put onto words how much I miss you. There isn't a day that goes by that you are not in my thoughts. Just know that i'll always be your big brother and you'll forever be in my heart.

Juanita Payne

October 8, 2008

Joshua, you were my third Great Grandson you were so cute & sweet & such a good little boy.
We all loved you so much. I think of you every day & I can't believe you are gone. I love you for ever & always.
Your Great Grandmother Juanita Payne

Teresa Payne

October 5, 2008

Joshua, We think of you every day, we all miss you terribly especially Tess her heart is broken, to have lost a cousin she felt to be a kindred spirit. You will always be in our thoughts and hearts. What a wonderful person you were. We love and Miss You Aunt Teresa, Uncle Rex, Johnna, Tally, Tessa, and Jaimy

Jacquetta Hampton

October 4, 2008

I have always been there to try and help when anyone of my children or grandkids had a problem. This time, it was totally taken out of my hands. It has been a month today and the tears will not stop flowing. I love you very much and miss you. You have a lot of family to meet again, Papa Jim, Pawkaw, Tuffy Nana and Papa Jay. Goodby my sweet boy, I will miss you forever.

Nana

Josh Jay...forever in our hearts!

October 3, 2008

Fran Wood

October 3, 2008

Josh,
So handsome and that smile could melt any heart. I see your face everday, I'll never be able to erase it from my mind. We miss you and love you! I know your Tuffy Nana and Papa met you at heaven's gate...you are very special to your Tuffy...... to everyone really and you won't be forgotten! One day we there will be some shouting and rejoicing and that will be the day when we see you again in Heaven...what a good day that will be! I can't wait to give you a much needed hug.

Aunt Fran

Holli Skuza

October 2, 2008

Janice, Donny, David, Jonothan and Brittany, My family and I think about you guys every day. I talk about you guys and Josh and we laugh about stories of you all, and we cry too. I think of each one of you every day and hope each day brings a little more peace and healing, but I know it's too soon and it'll never fully be...until you meet again. I love you guys. Holli

Gordon Payne

October 2, 2008

Janice and Donnie, It breaks my heart to see you hurt so much. I pray that time will help you find the peace you need and I know God will answer all your questions some day. Josh was just about the cutest little boy ever, and we'll all miss him forever. Uncle Gordon

Sheila Raczynski

October 2, 2008

Josh,
My children and I will never be the same. We feel your loss so much even though we didn't see each other very often. Our memories of you in Watertown are even stronger now. You were such a gorgeous young man and I know you are in heaven and we will all see you again someday. Say hello to Pakaw for us. We love you Josh. Aunt Sheila

Donny and Janice Jay

September 30, 2008

Joshua,
Your dad and I miss you so much. Our hearts are broken and our lives will never be the same. Your brothers and sister miss you terribly. There is a hole in our hearts and will never be filled till we see you again in heaven. I hope you are finally at peace my precious dear son. We love you and miss you so much. You are with us every second of every day and I miss your sweet smile. We love you.
Mom and Dad

Johnny Gonzales

September 19, 2008

Uncle Donny and Family, I love you all and send my prayers out to your family in this time of grief. I remember Josh most as a young boy,and although it wasn't as often as wanted,I loved spending time with my cousins. Joshua Tyler Jay, you will be deeply missed and in my heart and thoughts forever.

Linda hotaling-Houx

September 15, 2008

Donny and Janice and Family,
I and so sorry for your loss. Mine and my family's thoughts and most precious prayers are with you and your family at this time. I often think of you guys when ever I go into walmart wondering if I am going to see you there. Prayers and Blessing to you and your family. Love you all!
Linda Hotaling Houx
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Phillip & Rosanne Bolerjack

September 15, 2008

Dear Jay Family, Our hearts break for you. We remember Joshua as a smiling, happy boy who always made our Andy laugh! Please know that we are sorry for your loss; our prayers and our love are with you.

Brent Sloan

September 12, 2008

Donny I have not seen you in some years. I am grieved by your loss. My God rest your weary heart and ease your mind allowing you to see all you had with your son.

Kimberly Grogan

September 12, 2008

I live next to where the accident happened. I didn't know Joshua but I have two daughters, one the same age as Joshua, and I can not imagine what you are going through. I just can not stop thinking about you and feel like I need to let you know I'm so very sorry for your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and friends in this difficult time.

BEN CARR

September 12, 2008

There are no words to express the sorrow i feel and the grief i have . I LOVE YOU AND WILL MISS YOU FOREVER , UNCLE BEN

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