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LaVersa Holder Obituary

HOLDER -- LaVersa. Our beloved mother and grandmother, LaVersa Lousie Holder, is at peace and wrapped in the loving arms of our Lord. She died Sunday, September 4, 2005 at home. She was 71 years of age. Her funeral is set for 2 p.m., Friday in Fitzgerald Funeral Service's Southwood Colonial Chapel, located at 3612 East 91st Street South, Tulsa. Burial will be at Calvary Cemetery located on the adjoining property. Rev. Jessica F. Moffatt of the First United Methodist Church will officiate. Friends may call at the funeral home until noon on Friday. The casket will be closed for the service. LaVersa was born October 13, 1933 in Toledo, OH. She attended Friends University in Wichita, KS and lived in Blackwell and Ponca City, OK from 1963 until 2003. She owned and operated Hillcrest Manor and Blackwell Nursing Home for over 20 years until her retirement. She resided in Tulsa at the time of her death. Her parents, Oshel W. and Lola E. McAfee preceded her in death. Survivors are her 3 children and their spouses, Randy and Teddie Holder, Bixby, Cindy and Andy Gelmers, Tulsa, and Ann and Steve Foerster, Oklahoma City; as well as 7 grandchildren she loved so much, Sarah Welker and her husband, Lee, Peyton Holder, Madison Holder, Alex Gelmers, Megan Gelmers, Ashley Foerster and Price Foerster. A memorial in LaVersa Holder's memory has been established to provide Bibles to the victims of hurricane Katrina relocated to Oklahoma. Contributions may be sent to LaVersa Holder Katrina Bibles, First United Methodist Church of Bixby, 77 East Breckinridge, Bixby, OK 74008. The Bibles will be inscribed with a notation in LaVersa's memory. Southwood Colonial Chapel, 291-3500.

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Published by Tulsa World on Sep. 8, 2005.

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April Brunk

June 14, 2020

I didnt find out till years later that LaVersa had past away, she was like a second mom to me! She was an amazing person, loved by so many. She Let me and my kids into her life and I will never forget the friendship she gave me. I am so very sorry for your loss. She loved her family so much and wanted the world for you guys!!

Jim and Maxine Sanders

September 12, 2005

Hello to all of you. We were so sorry to hear of your mom's untimely death. We lived in Wichita so many years when Laversa was just a teenager. She was very close to us and we were present when she and your dad were married. We were very close to your grandparents, Lola and Oshel for years, being in Wichita when Oshel died and we went to see them at their lake home and had wonderful times. We remember all 3 of you in your growing up years. We always kept track of them and you in Blackwell and went to see them, your grandmother and your mom after Lola was in the nursing home there. We loved them all and are so sorry you have lost your mom. If you have a minute we would love to hear from you about her death.

Love to you all, Jim and Maxine Sanders - [email protected]

Gina Lenon

September 8, 2005

LaVersa was a wonderful person,I began working for her in 1991 as a CNA, then later became one of her nurses. She will be greatly missed. God Bless.

Jon Fowler

September 8, 2005

Steve and family,



Phyllis and I are sorry for your loss. We will keep you and your family in our prayers.



Regards,

Blackwell Nursing Home

September 8, 2005

Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you during this time.

LaVersa contributed alot to the Blackwell Community and she will always be remembered and greatly missed. Sincerely, Blackwell Nursing Home Staff

Terry Alexander

September 8, 2005

My Mother and I have you in our daily thoughts and prayers.

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