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Julian Stafford
November 5, 2019
Yes, Jay was great supervisor and more of being a dear friend and colleagues. May continue to rest and power and internal peace/
Julian Stafford
November 30, 2014
I am truly sorry for your family loss. As a St. Paul Public Schools Guidance Counselor, Mr. Jay Ettinger facilitated and helped me to discover my voice, which catapulted me into becoming an urban superintendent. For this, I am exceedingly grateful to him for my career advancements. Mr. Ettinger was always respectful, fair and kind to me. I loved his caring sense of humor. I have fond memories of him as our Director of Guidance and Counseling. “Jay” will be solely missed.
God Bless, Julian Stafford, Ed. D.
Tom King
November 15, 2014
Jay was one of the most caring educators I ever knew. He kept working longer just to help more kids. He also had a great sense of witty humor. RIP, buddy.
Paula and Jim Nessa
November 12, 2014
Dear Steven and family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept our deepest sympathy.
November 12, 2014
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends -Psalms 23:1-6. Phoenix, AZ
Tom Fargo
November 12, 2014
Jay was my mentor and friend, he made working in St.Paul rewarding.
Marlene Ziemski
November 11, 2014
I was a St.Paul School Counselor who was lucky to have worked with Jay. He was a caring, warm, and loving person. I'm sorry to hear of your family's loss and send my deepest sympathies to all.
Nell Lance
November 11, 2014
Jay was a dear friend at the bridge table. He was brilliant, funny and always lit up the room. He told stories of growing up on Laurel with Irish families as neighbors. It was a privilege to know him.
Rachel Trockman
November 11, 2014
I want Jeanne Ettinger to know she has my sympathy for her loss and the loss experience of this family. Jeanne is greeted as my friend and colleague. Milt was most valuable mentor and colleague.
Jeff Feldman
November 11, 2014
I loved laughing with Mr. Ettinger and hearing his booming voice. He made all the guys laugh and was always curious what was going on in our lives. You had a wonderful father Mark and Steve!
November 11, 2014
Jay was always a pleasure to work with. Our condolences to his family.
Arleen and John Schilling
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