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for Jerome Bour
Mike Jarchow
August 9, 2008
I am so sorry for you loss. I met Jerry at work 9 years ago and he always made me laugh and was one of the nicest people I knew. He was a quality man. He will be missed.
Dennis Jones
July 29, 2008
My prayers go out to you and your family Tom.
Jami Perrault
July 21, 2008
I worked with Jerry at the Cottage Grove Target store back in the early 1990's. I was notified of his passing from friends last week and unable to attend the visitation or the funeral. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I hope your family can take comfort in knowing how many people's lives and hearts he touched. My deepest sympathies.
Dustin Waller
July 20, 2008
Dearest Gilda and family,
My heart is heavy for you and your family in this difficult time. Please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Jonathan Picard
July 19, 2008
Dear Tom & Family, I am sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Roger Cochran
July 18, 2008
Dear family, l never new Jerry, but l was deeply moved by reading this guest book for Jerry. l can tell he was a great husband, Father, and friend to all he met. May we all strive to be more like that in our every day living. May God richly bless you and allow Him to fill the void in your hearts. Fellow BNSF switchman in the Galesburg lllinois switchyard , Roger Cochran
Jen Rice
July 17, 2008
Jerry was a wonderful colleague. Each day that we had the opportunity to work together he made me laugh. I remember the first day i returned to work after my father had passed away... i was sitting outside of the "hump tower" with tears in my eyes. Jerry put his hand on my shoulder and sat with me for 20 minutes. He had an amazing way of comforting people. I am forever grateful for his friendship. He was a wonderful man. His family will forever be in my prayers. God Bless.
Danielle Curtis
July 17, 2008
Jerry will always be in my heart. I didn't know him well, or even see him as much as others did -but when we did hang out he was always so funny, he picked up on little details and could crack a joke on just the littest things. Jerry exploited your weakness, and made your weakness become funny, no matter what it was. <3
Mark Garvey
July 17, 2008
I remember Jerry as a childhood friend. While watching my daughters laugh and play, I often think back to my days as a little boy growing up in south Maplewood. I cherish those times spent with Jerry.
Annita Fleming-Bending
July 17, 2008
To the family of Jerry Bour Jr:
My deepest sympathies to Jerry's family in this time of loss. I was shocked to hear of Jerry's passing.
Jerry and his family lived across the street from us for many years. Though most of my memories of Jerry are childhood ones, they are good memories.
May you find peace knowing that Jerry has returned home and found his place with Our Lord.
Lynda, Jenny, Diribe, & Lyle at American Bank
July 17, 2008
Abby & Family,
We are very sorry about your loss.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
paul gunderson
July 16, 2008
Gilda our thoughts and pryers are with you.
Paul and Rosa Gunderson Local 1177 Willmar MN.
Diane Kuhlmann
July 16, 2008
Dear Gilda,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
TODD STOCK
July 16, 2008
YOU ALL NEED TO KNOW THAT JERRY WAS A GOOD FRIEND OF MINE, HE WAS THE ONE TO COIN THE PHRASE " BLUE CHIP " FOR ME. HE ALWAYS TOLD IT LIKE IT WAS, I WILL MISS HIM HUGE.
Keith Rasmussen
July 16, 2008
Jerry was a friend and coworker. He will be (and already is) sorely missed. My deepest sympathies go out to his family and friends.
Mary Murphy
July 16, 2008
I feel so fortunate to have met and forever been touched with Jerry's friendship, love and acceptance. Tony (my husband) and Jerry were the best of friends, and I was let into their circle the first night I met Tony at The Freight House. I admit at first I was a little intimidated by Jerry's height and wise words but I was quick to overcome this. I have suffered with Depression for many years of my life. Until I met Jerry I never met anyone who understood and never judged me. Through several hospitalizations Jerry was not only there for Tony but for myself with visits and phone calls and words that will forever be etched in my heart. I am only sorry I could not be there for Jerry as he was for me.
I love you Jerry and will never forget you! Please never forget me!
Mary
Aunt Judy & Uncle Glen Wolf
July 15, 2008
Gilda, Gabby, Holden and Amie,
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
We Love you all.
Julie Ackerman
July 15, 2008
I am shocked and saddened to hear of Jerry’s death. May all the joy, laughter, and kindness that Jerry has brought to others surround him, and cradle him in peaceful slumber. On black nights, the stars of heaven are bright enough to illuminate the earth. In your dark despair, may the memory of how Jerry touched your life shine and fill you with light.
Lynn Derwa Barzan
July 15, 2008
To all who loved, laughed, cared, and shared your life with Jerry, our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Our sincere sympathy on the loss of your son, brother, dad, friend.
Don & Lynn Derwa Barzan and family
(Don Derwa's Sister)
Tony & Deb Wickham
July 15, 2008
Dan, Abby, & Family,
We were so sorry to hear about your loss. We hope that you find comfort in your memories of Jerry and in the family & friends you have around you. You will be in our thoughts.
Terry and Wendy McNamara
July 15, 2008
Dan, Abby and Casey,
We are very sad for you and your family and wish there was something we could do to help ease your pain. Time,family,friends and lots of good memories will get you through this. We love you and are here if you need anything.
Jodi Dahler (Sether)
July 15, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Rob & Kate Saba
July 15, 2008
To Jerry's Family,
We were lucky enough to meet Jerry through softball and enjoyed his wit, wisdom and wisecracks that made each game a unique experience! He loved our dogs, especially our Yorkie, and we looked forward to seeing him at each game with a new outfit for the dog. We feel very fortunate to have had the opportunity to meet Jerry - he touched us with his humor and kindness and we will forever miss laughing with him.
Jeanette Murphy
July 15, 2008
I knew Jerry, almost 10yrs ago through my brother, and he left a permanent impression on my life. Such a sensitive, caring & gentle soul who I will always hold dear to me. I can't believe he's gone. May he rest in peace. My deepest sympathies to his family and many friends
Ellie Schmidt
July 14, 2008
To the family and friends of Jerry Bour Jr:
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Jerry, my deepest synpathy goes out, to his wife, his beautiful daughters, his brothers Tom, and Dan, and all who loved him.
I have known Jerry for years, as he had grown up across the street from me. I had babysat many times for the Bour kids. I even remember the times his parents sent him over for haircuts from me.
This is a big shock to me when I heard of Jerry's passing. He was always such a nice guy.
Jerry you are now at rest and in the arms of your mother!
May God Bless you, and your loved ones left behind!
Jina Penn-Tracy
July 14, 2008
To Jerry's Loved Ones-
I met Jerry many years ago in our writing group. We are about the same age, and frequently he marvelled at my little children and often voiced his longing for his own family. I am so glad, even with his untimely death, that he got to experience the love of his own children, and those sweet moments of fatherhood. I know it must have meant the world to him and was a lifetime of experience all of its own.
Jerry had a full sense of his own humanity, and of the humanity of all of us around him. May he be blessed with the knowledge of how fully and completely he is loved, and may he carry that knowing with him into his peaceful rest. We love you Jerry.
July 14, 2008
Pauline Johnson (Palecek)
July 14, 2008
I'm so sorry for your loss. You're all in my thoughts and prayers.
Terry Murphy
July 14, 2008
I'm very sorry and sad for the loss of Jerry, and I will always remember him in my thoughts and prayers.
July 14, 2008
July 14, 2008
Melissa Seagraves
July 14, 2008
Tom, dan and families,
So sorry to hear about your loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. No words can cover the feelings and tears, but the memories can endure forever.
(Missy Jackson and family - Robbie, Hogan, Daniel and Ellie)
July 14, 2008
Heidi Swanson Lehti
July 14, 2008
To all those who were lucky to have known Jerry,
The world has lost someone who can be called truly irreplaceable. Jerry’s take on life was like no other. He was always able to look at things and give you a wise and unique approach to it. Jerry told it like it was. His heart was large for those he let share it. His brilliant creativity was shown is all his stories and novel. He was someone who had many facets to his personality. Some of us were lucky enough to know all his sides. I am at a loss to express my feelings. I can only say that my life is less without him in it.
My sincere condolences,
Heidi Swanson Lehti
Shane Bennett
July 14, 2008
I met Jerry about 10 years ago through mutual friends playing softball. He was always so much fun to be around and was with out a doubt one of the funniest people I have ever met. He was also extremely kind and caring. I will really miss him. To his family; my deepest sympathy, thoughts and prayers.
Cheryl DeWolfe
July 14, 2008
Dan, Abby and Casey
I was very sadden to hear about Jerry. So young. What a loss.
Try to remember that healing takes as long as it takes.
Love Cheri
Nick & Rachel Gardner
July 14, 2008
I recently told someone that Jerry was one of the nicest, most sincere people you could ever have as a friend. And in this sad time, he will be remembered as this wonderfully caring person. He will be missed terribly - our thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Jerry @ Craguns Guy Weekend 2007
July 14, 2008
Barbara Bourquin
July 14, 2008
Gilda, Words can not bring Jerry back but memories are forever. Always remember the good times that you shared with him and your children. He will always be there in your heart and his spirit will live on to guide you and your family through the good times and the bad times. May god be with you during this sad time in your life. Barb B (Tony's sister)
Tammy Schlomka
July 14, 2008
Thomas & Family
So sorry for your loss
Mary and Jim Freiermuth
July 14, 2008
Dan, Abby, Casey, Gilda and Aime, we were so sorry to hear about Jerry. Our prayers are with you all. Please know you can count on us for anything, don't hesitate to ask if there is something we can do for you.
Tony Murphy
July 14, 2008
I am extremely saddened by the passing of my good friend Jerry. He was the most caring genuine man I have ever known and he had such an influence on who I am today. He was a truly unique and remarkable person and I will miss him greatly.
Doug and Nicole Noe
July 14, 2008
To the friends and family of Jerry, our thoughts and prayers are with you. Jerry was an amazing friend and father. We will miss his quick wit and friendly sarcasm. He was a wonderful friend to us both.
wendy johnson
July 14, 2008
Dan, Abby and Casey,
We love you three so very much and you are in our thoughts. What ever you need...just let us know.
Wendy, Jer, and Wayne
Kathy Ahner
July 14, 2008
I am so sorry to hear about your sudden loss - how tragic for you and your young family. Thoughts are with you.
Jerry And Gabby at the State Fair
July 14, 2008
Ashley Nusskern
July 14, 2008
Dan, Abby, and Casey-
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s normal routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends that are all around you. Just remember all the love, laughs and memories. My thoughts and prayers go out to you all.
Natalie McGuire
July 14, 2008
the Bour family
I'm so sorry to hear of you loss, you all will be in my thoughts and prayers
Ian Graham Leask & family
July 14, 2008
To Jerry's family and friends:
We are all speechless, dumb with a desperate desolation. A voice we loved to hear, a wisecracking face, has been snatched from our own lives, leaving us immeasuably the poorer. This is a time to count our own blessings and to embrace one another in friendship and support.
Franklin Hickman
July 13, 2008
To the Bour Family. May God bless you and keep you safe during this troubled time. Life is his gift. Remember the good times. My family and all the famlies of the UTU share your grief. God Bless you and keep you safe.
Patrick Wandersee
July 13, 2008
To the Family of Jerry.
I can not say enough of how great Jerry was to work with. He will be greatly missed at work and our hearts go out to all of you.
Brian L. Hunstad/ Legs. Rep.
July 13, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of loss.
Please except our condolences.
The UTU Brothers and Sisters of Local 1177,Willmar,Mn.
Grant and Crissy Peterson
July 13, 2008
Dear Dan, Abby, and Casey
It is difficult for us to put into words are deepest sympathy for your loss. I know this is a very difficult time for you. May you find comfort knowing that countless people care and are praying for all of you.
Jim McLean
July 13, 2008
I am so sorry to hear about your loss.I worked with Jerry the first couple of years he was with the railroad. He was a good guy.
John Van De Walker
July 13, 2008
My deepest sympathy goes out to the family of Jerry. He will be deeply missed.
DeeDee and Craig Armstrong
July 13, 2008
To Jerry's family and friends,
We have been so saddened and heart-sick over Jerry's death. Jerry was a devoted friend, and had such a kind heart. He was smart as a whip, quick with a smile, and had wise words to share. You are all in our prayers.
July 13, 2008
Gilda, Gabby, and Holden
May you have strength and each other during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
John and Nancy Summers
July 13, 2008
Dan, Abby and Casey
We are so very sorry for your loss.
We will keep you in our prayers.
Kelly Carey
July 13, 2008
Gilda, I'm very sorry for your loss. If there's anything I can do, please don't hesitate to call. You've got a friend in me if you want to talk or hang out or anything.
Preston Crews
July 13, 2008
We are so saddened by this tragic loss of Jerry Jr. I remember holding him when he was just an infant!
Our prayers for all of you!
Preston & family,
St Paul
Dan Hauser
July 13, 2008
To Jerry's family and friends:
He will be missed greatly and remembered with great fondness. Jerry was always there with a laugh and a helpful word.
Julie McCarthy
July 13, 2008
Dan, Abby and Casey - I am so sorry for your loss, I know how close you were and how much he was a part of your life. I know how much Holden and Gabby meant to him, and I grieve for their loss. I loved his intelligence and his humor. He is going to be missed by so many with so much regret that we did not have more time with him. All my love and prayers.
Judy & Gary Craypo
July 13, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Jolynn McGuire
July 13, 2008
Dan, Abby, Casey, Gilda, Holden & Gabby,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Jerry was such a wonderful father and loved nothing more then Gabby and Holden. He will be missed very much.
The McGuire's
Erin Vermilyea
July 13, 2008
To the family and friends of Jerry -
Words can not express how sorry I am to hear of his passing. He brought so much love and laughter to everyone in all situations! He was a great friend and will be forever missed!
Love,
Erin (& Eric) Vermilyea
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