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Beverly Schilling
August 6, 2025
Happy Birthday John I haven't written in your legacy for awhile it's too painful IMiss you so much l know you are still near me every day when that Cardinal comes on my deck I love you!!
Beverly Schilling
August 6, 2025
Happy Birthday
Blake
June 17, 2025
Grandpa,
I recently discovered some old VHS tapes with you in them. Seeing your smile and hearing your voice was the perfect dose of joy and euphoria I needed.
I'm now 31 years old (yes, you read that correctly), and still maneuvering through life, figuring out my future endeavors. Also, doesn't help my sanity that our Twins, Vikings, and Wild have yet to bring home a championship, but I think we're close to seeing one.
Grandpa, please give me a sign you're with me. Please give each of us in the family a touch of your presence. We could all use a moment of your acknowledgment to give us that extra boost to continue to push forward. 20 years of you being gone, and not one of us doesn't feel that void to this day.
I love you and STILL miss you dearly Grandpa.
- Blake
Todd
October 3, 2024
Hard to believe it's going to be 20 years in a few days since you left Dad. There is a large void in my heart that has never been filled and never will be. I carry as much anger and confusion today regarding why you were taken as I did 20 years ago. I miss you dearly Dad and I know you are with me in the woods...
Bev
November 8, 2021
John,
Well today is the big "80". I didn´t think I would make it this long,but I did. We went out Friday for a great dinner as Jackie was leaving for out of town today
These last years since you been gone have not gotten any better I still miss you and long just to hear your voice or feel your touch. I hope it won´t be too long before we are together again,Please pray for me.
I LOVE YOU!!
Blake
November 1, 2021
Grandpa,
As I'm avoiding my night of strenuous school work, for some reason I had this random thought of you. I decided to search the internet to see if I could find your obituary, and here I am.
Of course there are many things I could update you on but this would turn into a novel. Even now, at the age of 27, I still have these moments where I find myself thinking about you, as I'm sure everyone else in the family has. But most of those moments where I think about you, are moments where I'm struggling or find myself in tough life obstacle. "Man, I wonder what Grandpa John would say". I knew you as a child and I cherish those memories, but I wish I could have you here in my adult life. I dream about the conversations we would have, and I know I would absolutely love and appreciate any advice or opinions you would share.
17 years since you've been gone, that's wild concept to wrap my head around. You still continue to leave a lasting impact on everyone, even the 10 year old me you last saw.
I miss everything about you. I'll never stop missing you. If you happen to read this or hear my prayers, feel free to give me a little acknowledgment, I could use some good old fashion Grandpa takes.
I love you Grandpa.
Watch over all of us.
- Blake
Todd Schilling
October 1, 2020
It's coming up on 16 years without you Dad and I miss you as much as I did the day that you left. This time of year is always tough as I relished our hunting time together and I continue to uphold our tradition of getting out although it's just not the same without you. You are and always will be in my heart...
-Todd-
August 7, 2012
Happy "71" Birthday Dad! Wish you were here. I miss you as always.
Love and hugs
Jeanine
August 5, 2011
Happy "70" Birthday Dad! Missing you everyday.
Love and Hugs,
Jeanine
November 3, 2010
Hello Dad,
Well I made it to the big "5-0"! Doesn't feel to bad as Anne generously arranged for my best birthday ever. I thought about you alot today for some reason. Probably because you were somehow taking jabs at me today for officially turning old! Thanks for being with me today Dad...Love, Todd
August 6, 2009
John,
yesterday another birthday for you and miss being with you on your special day. I hoped you liked jeanine amd mine singing happy birthday to you at the cemetery. It felt good like you were there saying Geez!!!!!! My heart still aches for you and always will.
Your Pal,
BEV
August 5, 2009
Happy Birthday Dad!
A big 68, cannot believe how time just slips through our fingers. We missed you during all the graduation activity for Kaila this year. She REALLY missed not having you there. You were one of her biggest fans. I will be sad when she leaves for college, but proud at the same time. Times are tough now, but I remember the tough times you and mom endured. This keeps me going. I miss you everyday and look forward to seeing you again soon.
Love You Dad!
Jeanine
Todd
October 5, 2008
Hello Dad,
It has been four (4) years today and it still doesn't make sense to me why you are gone. I miss you greatly and I long for your voice and wisdom. If I have not said it enough...Thank you Dad for all that you stood for and all that you taught us. I am very proud to be your son...
Beverly Schilling
August 5, 2008
Happy Birthday John,
Well its your 67th birthday and I am still here and missing you more every day. I have tried so hard to come to terms with you being gone but it seems like I can't. I am listening Otis Redding song I been loving you to long to stop now.
John ,sometimes I think I just can't go on my life is so empty, except for the kids and grandkids. But they have their own lives and they try so hard to help. But the pain in my heart won't ever go away until I see you again.
I meet a friend he lives in the building and we do a lot together I think you would like him he really takes good care of me but its not the same as you. We eat together and keep each other company when other wise We would each be a lone He lost his wife to cancer. some how I think you know all this and aprove . Well Happy Birthday again.
I Love and Miss you. Please send me a little message because I want to know your still with me. How about another sun flower seed. You took the last one away.
Your Pal,
Bev
Jeanine
August 4, 2008
Looking Great!
Jeanine
August 4, 2008
Happy Birthday Dad! (Aug. 5th) Wow how the time here on Earth goes fast. Life is forever changing and with the change comes obstacles to hurdle. I try to imagine how the Lake would be looking today. You and Mom would be sitting out on your Gazebo and planning what next task to help beautify the home. I continue to struggle with your absence in my life and pray that we will all be together as family one day. Have a wonderful birthday, because you always deserved it. I love you and miss you incredibly.
Tschuss!
December 16, 2007
Grandpa....
I know you dont look at this... But the fact that im leaving something must mean that you know im doing this. It has been a long time since i have said anything about you, but you are always in my heart in anything i do... I have so many questions, but yet so many regrets... I was always able to talk with you about everything, and now its just being said in my head what i want to talk with you about. I know you dont hear everything or maybe nothing, but i do always think about you in all my actions in life. I can finally write this here my feelings and love, because i have now found my love in life and i know you would be proud of me. Maybe not in every thing i have done but i have turned things around to where i know you can say that is my grandson. I miss you to death and wonder what it would be, feel, and ponder you still here with us... I love you to death and hope you are as happy in your new world.
Love, NICK
Jeanine
November 9, 2007
Dearest Dad-
The colder weather is upon us, and knowing that the fall season was your favorite, my memories of you are so clear. The boys started to deer hunt this year and I wish you could be a part of that. I am often amazed in how many conversations I have each day all include some part of your life with me. I miss you so much every day I find myself angry. I pray each night you have found peace and continue to watch over Mom and all of us. We all struggle differently right now, and could use your strong support. I love and miss you tons, Dad.
Tschuss!
October 23, 2007
Hello Dad,
Just checking in. Although I send you a message every day (which I hope you are getting by the way) I still shake my head when I think about you. I just can't fathom why it had to be you? I continue to struggle with trying to come to grips with this. Thank you for building the cabin as it is one of the very few places I can get away to and actually relax and take my mind off of things. I need your guidance with many different issues so when you have a chance, let me know your listening...
Love, Todd
Bev schilling
October 10, 2006
John,
Well its two years since you have left me and it is our anniversary and I miss you just as much as the day you left. I am starting to move on like I know you would want me to. Todd took over the house and I know you are happy about that. I'am sorry but it is so very painfull for me to go there. Every where I look I see your beautiful work and the happy years we would be sharing together.Its not the same without you that house was for you and me not just me. I know the kids love it and are happy when they go up their and I am glad. My heart aches for you so much I can't stand it. I have meet a lot of nice people where I'am and they are helping me a lot. I know that you would want me to move on and be happy. I also know that I will never find the true happiness we shared our last 45 years together some good and some hard but we got thru them and that is what made our marriage so special. We never gave up we came close but somehow the Lord helped us thru the bad times. I don't know why all this happened to us,but I know their is a reason for losing each other. I know we will be together again and so until then stay close to me. I will move on and I will try hard because I know you would want me to. I always remember when I said to you I hope I die first because I could not live with out you,and you said" Yes you can your tough and I made you strong you can do anything"
Well" Happy Annivarsary Sweetheart" pray for me. Tell the next time.
I Love You,
Bev
October 8, 2006
Hello Dad,
I can't believe it has been two (2) years already. I still have the same pain as I did when you left. I sure could use your strong guidance lately. It has been a tough road to hoe but I always think about your statement that "everything will work out". Right now, those words are a big reason why I keep plugging away at the many hurdles that have found their way to my path in the last year or so. I will continue to stumble, but I know you will be there to pick me up, dust me off, and point me in the right direction.
I miss you Dad...
Todd
Todd
March 6, 2006
Hey Dad,
There is so much going on lately that I don't even have time to make sure I've completed one task before going on to another. It's times like these when I remember you telling me to slow down and enjoy what I have. I don't know if I can slow down Dad because I'm afraid of what might happen if I do. I do know that you are with me quite often though as I sense you with me especially when I am driving. Perhaps you are there to keep an eye on me as it has been quite hectic and I could use some of your guidance. I continue to brainstorm on ways to keep the cabin in the family. It would mean alot to me if I can find a way to do it.
I'll leave you for now Dad, we'll talk in the truck soon...Say hello to Kirby...
February 26, 2006
Hi Dad-
Every now and then I feel the need to have to talk to you like we used to. I don't feel I say "Dad" in the same context anymore. It is so much more referring to the "past". I really hate it. People say that each year gets a little easier. I believe it gets a little harder. I look so forward to seeing you again and getting away from all of this. You made me realize that life is truly not about what others do for me, but what I can do for others. Those, of-course, who really deserve it. Is this why, God chooses to take the best in one's life, first? Many situations have surfaced where I try to determine how you would handle it. This is why I truly believe that you are in a wonderful place, full of peace. I had a dream not too long ago, you reassured me that you were happy and that everything was o.k, and needed to go home. I was convinced you figured out how to come back and send me this message. I miss you Dad, and my heart still breaks for you. Until later.....
Love
Jeanine
Jeanine
December 26, 2005
Merry Christmas & Happy New Year Dad!
Another holiday come and gone. We missed you, as usual. I have made it my family tradition to attend mass at St. Bernard's on Christmas Eve each year. It really feels like I am going back home. So many good memories.....It was different this year without Todd and Anne at our Christmas Eve. We missed them! Todd and Jackie gave each of us different gifts in memory of you. It was very special! Life continues to go on, but my outlook has changed since you left. I hope I will find peace with all of this soon; as I know you are living in peace. I miss you every waking day, that some days are truly a struggle to get going. Stay close and send me a message. I love you Dad!
Tschuss!
beverly schilling
December 6, 2005
John,
Its way past the one yearof your passing,my birthday,and our 46th wedding anniversary. I can now feel like I can write in your book again. I had the mistake of thinking that when we reached the year of your passing it would be some what easier.Oh how wrong I was,if anything it seemed worse,the first year I was in a daze but since the year I can really see that this is not a bad dream but it is very real. I don't think I can ever not feel your loss,I miss you so much that some days its like I just can't go on it is a horrible feeling. I panic when I think that you won't be waiting for me when I come home or hear your voice on the phone say "yae its me" or" Mother". This time of year is especialy hard because I know how much you loved christmas how you wanted to decorate and shop and always saying "come on lets get busy I don't want to be wraping presents on Christmas Eve" and always making sure everyone got the same amount of presents and oh how you could wrap gifts so beautiful and I would put the ribbon on and the tag. This year is going to be so sad,so lonely,without you. PLEASE don't leave me until I can handle it stay close let me feel your presence and your smell. Tell everyone Merry Christmas and pray that we will be together again with our Lisa. I Love You and miss you so very much." Merry Christmas sweetheart".
Bev
Todd
November 29, 2005
Hello Dad,
Well, I recently lost another strong male in my life. My boss (Chad)was killed in a car accident on Friday. Chad was a mentor of mine who did a lot for me at Knutson. He is a big reason that I am in the position I am there. I am very grateful for what he did for me and I will miss his guidance. Please take some time to show him the ropes up there. He'll be glad to tell hunting stories with you but he may not stop talking! (Just a heads-up for you). We missed you at Thanksgiving as we will at X-mas. Pay us a visit in Florida over the Holidays...
-Love You-
Jeanine
November 27, 2005
Hi Dad-
Happy Thanksgiving! I will not be with the family this year, perhaps a break from my large brewd of eaters will help Anne and Todd with the meal. This time of year is sad, I think due to the change in weather and everything seems to darken and go in hiding. I miss you alot during this busy time of the holidays. It was always so important to you that no one be left unnoticed. You and mom always made a special trip to see how we all decorated our trees. (I think you were seeking new ideas) Just wanted to say Happy Thanksgiving and "thank-you" for your life in me.
Love you Dad and I will write soon.
Todd
October 23, 2005
Hey Dad,
As I sit and wait to see what will happen to our home in Florida, I am saddened that you never made it down there. I was so looking forward to you and Mom staying down there for a couple of months, relaxing and enjoying your retirement. I feel very cheated that I was not able to provide you with that opportunity. I enjoyed visiting with you on Oct. 5th in our hunting location and I know you were there with me as I sat on the log in your favorite spot. I'm still not doing very well with all of this Dad but I will get through it one way or another. In the meantime, Anne & I will be going down to Florida to access the aftermath of the hurricane this coming week, and if the tree I planted in your honor is still standing, I'll know it's because you were there holding it in place.
As always, thinking of you...
Jeanine
October 18, 2005
Hello Dad-
Whew! I think we made it through this last troubling few weeks. I missed you so much on my birthday (yours and moms anniversary). I kept waiting for your call on the phone reminding me how "old" I was getting. The memories of this time last year are somewhat of a blur, but the sadness and reality of it all re-surfaced. The colors of autumn are fabulous and I know you loved this time of the year. You probably have a much better view of them from above. Mom is well but misses you terribly. Happy Fall, I love you dad!!
Jeanine
September 13, 2005
Hello Dad-
I have been anticipating with much anxiety the first anniversary of your passing. I am not sure what I should be doing that day. I only wish I could have one more conversation, but I am realizing this will not happen until we meet again. I miss you so much. My heart feels like a piece is missing and cannot seem to find it. Your birthday and Father's Day were very hard to enjoy, I tried to honor you as peacefully as I could handle. I think of you often during my teaching days as I try to share the wisdom you shared with me, to my students. I hope you are happy with my life and my choices in living each day. You always knew what to say that made me feel safe and sure of what I was doing. I really miss that. I pray our family stays close together as you always cherished. I love you dad!
Jackie
August 17, 2005
Hi Dad!
I haven't written since the week you passed mostly because I prefer to visit the cemetary. I missed you horribly on your B-day and wished I could have given you another one of those Menards Cards you received in multiples each year!
What I've decided is this: I can't wrap anything for your gifts any longer, but what I can do is promise that I will "Live Well" in your name. I know you do not want us to stop living because you have moved on; there is too much work for us left here to do. Many days I feel like I haven't moved past that fall day. But, for you I am going to take time to notice the rainbows, I'm going to watch the birds, I'm going to thank God for the beautiful sunrises & sunsets, I'm going to stare up at the stars on a clear night and I am going to make you proud that I am your daughter. Happy B-day!
Bear hugs....Jackie Lee
Todd
August 8, 2005
Although I visited you on Friday Dad, I still want to say "Happy Birthday" and that I miss you terribly. Also, I hope that was you the other night in my dream. I believe it was and I Thank You...
Jeanine
July 14, 2005
Hi Dad-
Summer is here and the heat has been unforgiving. We made our annual trip to Pinehurst and finally had some decent weather. Mom stayed with us and once again was reminded of many memories you and her shared those many years with us kids up at the "lake". I was with Mom at your lake home on Father's Day. I thought that's what you would like. Coming home and pretending it was just another day took a toll on me. I am careful to not become too emotional around the others any more, so I typically unload on my family. Not necessarily a good thing to do. I was constantly thinking of you today as I was busy getting the boy's football gear organized. I know how you loved football. The boy's have mentioned many times how they wish you were going to be there to see them play. I wish you were here too, to watch my kids grow and play. You were such a STRONG, SMART, Grandpa, according to them. I am baffled how life has changed, but I am trying to remain peaceful. I miss you terribly and I really look forward to being reunited. I need you to tell me that things will be okay.
I love you dad!
Bev
June 20, 2005
John,
Yesterday was fathers day and what a sad day. I was at the lake and it was the first time that I would of liked to stay a lone there. I had a feeling that you wanted me to stay also,but I had a vacation bible school that I helped out at. Iam glad that I went it so nice to see all those sweet little children having fun and they were so appreciating of the snack we made for them.
I know that you know that I'am going to a senior group for depression because I just couldn't and still don't know why God took you and left me.I wish it would of been the other way around.My life now is so empty and lonely and no matter what I do it still aches. The kids were filled with pain yesterday and it brought back the feelings of how much they Loved you and miss you. I don't have to tell you how I feel because I know that you know. I'am trying very hard to live without you and try to remember all the happy and loving times together. But those bad days at the hospital and the way you looked keep coming back to me.I'am so sorry that I was such a basket case that day. I wish now that I would of just sat next to you and held you. We didn't even have a chance to say Good Bye but it wasn't good bye it was see you soon.I know you will be waiting for me with that beautiful smile and arms reching out to me. Always stay close and thank you for loving me so much.I am so lucky that I had you for my husband,friend and protector.I will always Love you.
Bev
Todd
June 19, 2005
Happy Father's Day Dad...
This has easily been the toughest day for me since your passing. I could not contain my emotions for any length of time today. It just tells me that you are with me because I couldn't do anything without thinking of you. It was nice sitting with you today for so long under the grand tree protecting your resting place. I felt very serene talking with you and sensed that you did as well. Not until I left you did my emotions run rampant. I contained myself as best I could with Anne, Brock and Hannah as I met up with them after visiting you. They were very understanding of me today and we had a very nice time together.
I feel very alone for some reason Dad. I no longer have that strong male counterpart of mine. We were quite a team Dad and I'll do my best to carry on without you, my hero. For now I just want to tell you how much I miss you and that my heart aches as much as it did the day you left me. I'll work through this somehow but I'll certainly accept any help you can send me.
I Love You Dad...
Jeanine
June 3, 2005
Hi Dad-
Well Kaila graduated from 8th grade last night. We missed you. She mentioned how perfect it would have been if you would have been there. I told her somehow I thought that you would be there checking things out. I have two days left of teaching. I look forward to the summer break. I will be spending alot of time with Mom. We miss you tons. I love Dad!
May 25, 2005
May 25, 2005
Hello Dad!!
A random entry to say I miss you so much. I love you!
Jeanine
Jeanine
April 28, 2005
Hi Dad-
It is the end of April and we are still having very cold weather. We tried to make it up to the Lakehome, but the weather was not cooperating. I really am anxious to get up there, almost to the point I just want to drive up on my own without waiting for anyone (I might just do that soon). I visited you on Sunday, and sat for some hours talking. I hope you heard me. I know I was asking alot of questions that you probably cannot answer, however a little drop from heaven would be nice. The Doe hung around with me, so I took that as a sign from heaven. I really miss you, especially knowing you would be busy in the yard and doing your usual "puttsing around" to keep occuppied. So often I find myself wanting to call you, and reality hits me square in the face. It hurts!! The family is fine, but I worry for the next dilemma. Mom struggles each day, but we try our best to keep her upright. Help! I better go, I wanted to say Hi and Happy Spring! I love you Dad!
Tschuss!
Jeanine
p.s.
What do you think of this "GERMAN" Pope?? I love it.
Jeanine
March 8, 2005
Hi Dad,
Well, twenty-two years ago today I came home and told you and mom that I had enlisted into the US Army and I had a week to pack. I remember the day like it was yesterday because you were not upset with me, but you felt so bad that I could not afford college. You even tried to bribe me to stay home by telling me I could choose any college of my choice. All in all, I think you and I knew it was something that had to happen and you supported me 110%, as did mom. I will miss your annual phone call on Good Friday before Easter, when you remind me "Remember --years ago today Jeanine, you boarded the plane and left for the Army". I would forget, but you never did. Thank you for that! I wish I could pick up the phone and call you, Dad, and say "Remember --months ago Dad, you got sick but came home well".I know you are well, but my selfish, human nature misses you terribly. I pray for mom and the others more than myself now. Another quality that you embedded into our souls; to care for others. I look forward to the Spring arriving, so I can get your bulbs in the ground and possibly work on that small garden that you wanted. I will do my best to do exactly as you wanted on the flowers and all. A little guidance would be nice. Please send mom another sunflower seed; it meant alot to her. Thank you Dad. I am listening closely for your messages. Ich leibe dich!!
Tschuss!
Beverly Schilling
March 7, 2005
My Love,
It has taken me quite a while to write in this book I tried once but it didn't go thru so I figured it wasn't time yet. I don't need to tell you how much I miss and Love you I'am sure you can feel it.I guess I wasn't ready to let go of you and I still am not ready.Its five months on the 5th and it seems like yesterday when we were together.I can't believe how fast my life changed in a matter of a second. My life will never be the same. I hurt so much that some days its to much to bare.I love you so much and I will always love you with my whole being. You were the best thing that ever happened to me( besides the Kids)I still feel your love for me and I cherish all of the 45 years we had together.The good and the sad. Everyone of those years was what made our love so special.We never gave up and I will never give up until I am with you again. Each day I try to mend a small piece of my heart that is broken but it doesn't fit. You were the only one who could put the puzzle together so I will wait for you. The Kids are the best,we always said that. They are still so sad. You were our strength and you still are. Help me my dear, to make the right decisions that I will have to make.Please stay close to me I need you so much. I still feel your tender kiss each night when I go to bed and some times I can even smell you next to me. So Good Night for now my Love and thank you for the sun flower seed. Help me to be strong and remember we will always be one.
I love and ache for you,
Bev
Todd
March 6, 2005
Hello Dad,
It's after midnight once again and I can't sleep because I just can't "shut down" lately. I have been thinking about you an awful lot lately and it's amazing all of the places where I feel your presence. I see you in the brightest star that shines in the East everyday on my drive in to work, I see you whenever I notice a falcon/hawk perched in a tree or on a telephone wire, and I see you in our backyard everytime the deer come into feed. It would be easy to see you as the buck that comes in because of how proud and strong you were, but I think you really are the doe that is out there with the broken leg, fighting for survival, yet letting the younger deer take their turn at the feeder. That doe reminds me so much of how you always put others ahead of yourself and how your heart was full of goodness and compassion as well. Not a day has gone by since you left us that I have not had thoughts of you and I have come to realize that part of me left that day as well. There was something special that we had Dad that always existed without us even having to put it into words. That's gone for me now and I have a void that cannot be filled. I'm starting to babble so I will end this for now. I look forward to our next discussion...
Jeanine Solberg
January 5, 2005
Hi Dad-
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! Well, we made it through the holidays but it was not easy. Jackie hosted our Christmas Eve and did a fine job at that (she even made sure we had herring). We all attended mass at St. Bernards. The singing reminded me of when we were little and we would get dressed up to sing in the choir for mass. Of-course they sang your favorite Christmas tune; Stille Nacht. It brought tears to my eyes, as I remember it used to bring tears to yours also. I could not help but remember the many, many memories in the neighborhood. It was nice to remember the roots that were planted there, because of you and mom. I am still trying to sort out my feelings about all that has happened. I am working hard to maintain the peace with everyone, but sometimes I just wish you could call us up on the phone and say "It's all okay". Mom has moved into her apartment, and it is comforting to have her nearby. I was up at your lake home and I immediately felt your presence, it is difficult for me to leave. You always loved how peaceful and pretty the trees and lake looked in the winter, I agree.
I still listen for you and watch for any signs. I miss you Dad!
Love and a great, big HUG!
Jeanine
Todd Schilling
December 28, 2004
Hello Dad,
I'm in Florida right now thinking of you. You and Mom were going to be down here next week. I thought about you a lot today and went out and bought a tree in your honor. I planted it in our backyard and it looks great. Anne and Hannah think it looks great as well and everytime we are on the deck we can look at it and think of you.
We made it through Christmas but it wasn't easy without you. Jeanine started a new tradition in your honor at Christmas which was really neat. Everyone enjoyed it very much. Mom is getting ready to move into her own apartment for awhile. We will see how this works out for a year and then decide on future arrangements.
We are taking care of Mom as best we can. Please send some guidance for the decisions we have yet to make. I miss you Dad.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year...
Jeanine Solberg
December 9, 2004
Hi Dad-
Why I chose this day to write...I don't know. I do know that the days are drawing nearer and nearer to the holiday that you loved so dearly. Decorating our trees has been difficult for all of us, especially Mom. We are really trying to carry the tradition of Christmastime that you impressed upon us, but it is very difficult. I do have one request, can you put a word in for us to send some really good snow, this might help, thanks! I am waiting for a "Penny from Heaven", will you send one soon, so that I know we are all going to be able to get through these holidays peacefully. I miss you terribly, and I am always listening and watching for my "Penny" (send Mom one too). Thanks for listening.
Ich liebe dich!
Jeanine Rene
Todd Schilling
November 25, 2004
Good morning Dad,
It's Thanksgiving and I am trying to get myself prepared for the crowd that will be infiltrating my home in a few hours. It will be difficult today without you physically here with us, but I know that somehow you will be present nonetheless.
I went deer hunting in Wisconsin last weekend and left you something in your favorite hunting spot. It was very tough getting ready each morning as I would think about the rituals we used to have prior to going out. It was also difficult as I left the woods each day and I found myself looking back to the woods hoping I would see you following me.
I miss you everyday but I especially missed you on my birthday and while I was hunting alone.
Take care Dad and I will be talking with you again soon.
HAPPY THANKSGIVING
Todd
Jeanine Solberg
November 2, 2004
Dear Dad,
It has almost been a month, and the pain and saddness is greater than ever. Today is Todd's birthday as well as election day. You would have been on the phone with us today for sure, sharing your thoughts and as always great wisdom. I worry about each of us differently, and I still listen closely for your advice and comfort. Todd and Mom are sharing your memories as they try to celebrate their birthdays. Thank you for the wonderful birthday HUG you gave me on mine. I am sure this is why I fell asleep. I miss you and I look forward to hearing from you. Please send me another hug. I love you and miss you dearly.
Jeanine Rene
Dawn Markfort
October 14, 2004
Dad,
That is something that I didn't call you often but I hope that you know, that you are my dad and I love you very much. I could not ask for a better dad, I am going to miss you so much. I am going to miss our talks. Whenever I needed to talk to someone about my problems you were always there. I am so happy that you all had a place in your hearts for me. I don't know where I would be today if it wasn't for all of you. That meant alot to me even if I didn't show it much.
You had such a big heart. You always found good in everyone. You have taught me so much.
Family is the number one thing. You always taught me that family comes first. Also you taught me to respect others and myself.
I am really going to miss that laugh of yours. It was priceless.
I am going to miss you so much.
Love you,
Dawn
Jayne Grout
October 12, 2004
Bev,
You and your beautiful children and grandchildren are in my thought's and prayer's. Keep looking for a rainbow every day. My heart aches for you. Let Jesus carry you through the days ahead. Love to you.
Lisa Sager (Zappa)
October 11, 2004
Dear Schilling Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Tim and Lisa Sager
Shelly Newgren
October 11, 2004
Jackie, I want you to know how sorry I am for you and your family. Whenever you & I talk about our families, you always have a smile on your face, especially when speaking of your parents. It was difficult to see you in so much pain today. I am thinking of you.
Shelly
Elizabeth Larsen
October 10, 2004
To my girlfriend Jackie, (and your entire family)
I just returned from the wake and have read the messages to your father. Although, I never had the honor of meeting your father, after reading the messages to John and seeing all of the photos and memorabilia of his life I feel like I do know him. Thank you for sharing this look into your father's life. Obviously, he was a very fun-loving, kind, gentle, happy person with a great sense of humor that brought happiness to all that he touched. Jack-I now know where you get your awesome sense of humor and fun-loving ways. I love those things about you.
Please know that I am praying for you and your family and that I am just a phone call away...
May you find comfort & peace in the Lord.
Something I read yesterday morning and want to share:
"Eternal Life"
Jesus said to her, "I am the resurrection and the life. Those who belive in me, even though they die, will live, and everyone who lives and believes in me will never die." John 11:25-26
How long is forever? It's a question without an answer that can be humanly comprehended. But, God says that's how long your life will be when you belong to Him. You life here on Earth is just the beginning, just the childhood of your existence. Keeping that fact in mind will make a difference in how you choose to live today. It can help balance your priorities as you consider what will last and what will not. It can alleviate your worries about getting older, because there is a new body waiting for you that will never wear out. It can lighten your heart, because there's a time ahead when tears will be a thing of the past."
CHERYL CHILSON
October 10, 2004
DEAR JOHN
LIFE WAS NOT SUPPOSE TO GO DOWN THIS ROAD FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. THIS WAS JUST TOO SOON. I DON'T UNDERSTAND. I HURT SO MUCH FOR BEV, TODD, YOUR ENTIRE FAMILY AND MYSELF.
I FEEL SO BAD FOR BROCK. HE LOST 2 GREAT MEN IN HIS LIFE WHOM HE ADMIRED, RESPECTED AND WHO TAUGHT HIM THE TRUE MEANING OF FAMILY.
YOU WERE ALWAYS SO SWEET TO ME AND ALWAYS HAD SUCH A BIG TEDDY BEAR HUG FOR ME.
I ADMIRE YOU TREMENDOUSLY FOR THE WAY YOU ALWAYS TOOK CARE OF YOUR FAMILY THROUGH GOOD AND BAD TIMES. I AM SO LUCKY TO HAVE PART OF YOU LIVING IN BROCK.
YOU ARE ONE OF THE FEW MEN WHO WOULD TAKE THE TIME TO CALL ME TO FIND OUT WHAT BROCK WANTED FOR HIS BIRTHDAYS AND CHRISTMAS.
I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER YOUR FUNNY HAND GESTURES, YOUR SWEET SMILE AND YOUR HUGE HEART.
I FEEL VERY BLESSED TO HAVE BEEN PART OF YOUR FAMILY AND TO HAVE KNOWN YOU ALL THESE YEARS.
PLEASE SAY HI TO MY DAD FOR ME AND GIVE HIM ONE OF THOSE HUGS FOR ME AND TELL HIM I LOVE HIM.
I LOVE YOU JOHN AND MISS YOU
CHERYL CHILSON
Jacqueline Jarosz
October 9, 2004
"They Call Me John Jr."
Wednesday, October 6th, 2004
Dear Dad,
Today I came to the cemetery to find a final place for you to rest. It's a beautiful fall day, one that you would mention when I called. One of the things I'll miss most is calling and being able to say, "Hi Dad" in our own special tone of voice & knowing what comes next is your standard reply, "Jackie Lee!" As I sit beneath this old oak tree, I feel you here with me. I'm thinking how proud I am that they call me "John Jr". Most think it's because I have your green eyes & light colored hair. Mom says it's because I am the youngest & she lost her "gene power" by the time she got to me. We look good in red; it makes our green eyes seem greener & takes aways from our deep set lines next to them. (By the way, have I ever thanked you for those lovely lines? They are quite attractive on a girl!) I'd like to think that I am John Jr because:
- You always let me cuddle next to you on the couch when I was 8 and still at 38.
-We both tend to "Over-Feel". You feel bad that we never had the chance to dance at my wedding. But don't. For we'll have the last dance when we meet again. You feel bad for the mistakes you may have made when we were growing up. But don't. I am the person I am today because of each experience I have had along the way.
And I feel bad because, unlike you, I have not always had the strength to fight for what is most important in life. But today I won't. For you taught me that it is never too late for change. It is never too late to go after your dreams and it is never too late to be a better person than you were yesterday.
Before I close, just one more thought: You and mom have always said that you just can't believe how all four of us kids "turned out so good". I never answered you then but here are the reasons we turned out as we did:
-You taught us that to love someone means sometimes having to put their needs before your own.
-You taught us that a man should respect & pamper the woman they love.
-You taught us social graces and that the elderly deserve our respect.
-You taught us it's important to call your mother and call her often.
-You taught us that the holidays are meant for family & family is more important than money.
-You taught us how to desire more for your children than you had yourself.
-You taught us how to tell a funny story & never quite get to the best part before you laugh out loud.
-You taught us how to smile.
But most of all Dad, you taught us how to love.
Until we dance again,
Your pal...Jackie Lee
Diane Lincoln
October 8, 2004
Dear Schilling Family, We are so sorry for your loss.I think of John and I see his big smile.I know he will watch over you all because that what our Dad does for us.Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.Diane&Les Lincoln & Family
Jeanine Solberg
October 8, 2004
My Dearest Dad-
I will miss you tremendously. You were my inspiration and support. I hope I can be half the parent that you were. I love you forever, and I continue to listen for your soft messages of encouragement and advice. Thank you for your life. Many people have been lucky to have been your friend. Mom will be your continued legacy. Send me a huge hug now and then. I will truly miss those. Your loving daughter.
Peace (as you always said)!
Boo-boo
Todd Schilling
October 8, 2004
Dad,
My heart is broken but I know there must be a reason for this. I wish I could understand and I know you will help me to some day. Please know that I will take care of our family as you have done so admirably. You were my inspiration, my rock and my hero. I can only hope that I become half the person you were. Your kindness and caring ways touched everyone you ever made contact with. I look forward very much to many future discussions as I know you will always be near. I Love you Dad and I am very proud to be called your son...
Steve & Earlene Weisner
October 7, 2004
John will be missed. He was always happy to help when anyone asked. Our deepest sympathy to Beverly and the family. Our thoughts and prayers are with them and all who will miss him.
dick slomkowski
October 7, 2004
JOHN,S GREAT ATTITUDE AND LAUGHTER WILL BE MISSED BY EVERYONE. HE WAS AGREAT GUY AND HE IS GOING TO A GREAT PLACE. OUR SYMPATHY TO HIS WIFE BEVERLY AND HIS FAMILY. BONNIE AND DICK SLOMKOWSKI.
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