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Violet Benshoof Obituary

Loving Wife, Mom, Sister & Friend - Age 59 Passed away peacefully surrounded by family and friends after a strong and courageous battle with cancer. Survived by devoted husband of 40 years David, sons Tony (Molly), Geno (Nora), Vince and brother Mark (Sarah). Owner of Josephines Interiors. Certified A.S.I.D., Graduate of St. Catherines College. Visitation 4-6pm Tuesday followed by a 6:00pm Memorial Service all at ANDERSON FUNERAL HOME, 1401 Arcade St. (Hwy 61) St. Paul. Anderson Funeral Home 651-776-2761

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Published by Pioneer Press on Mar. 13, 2011.

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May 21, 2011

David,

I learned of Violet's death yesterday. I was really sad. When I took a walk with her last summer at Danny's she was full of life, passion and excitement; she didn't mention that she was struggling with cancer.

Well, that was Violet, always a winner and larger than life itself. So beautiful and fun.

You must feel really lost with out her.

My condolences to you and your family.

Leslee Simon Johnson Gold

Jackie Heutmaker-Leo

April 2, 2011

David and family.
My deepest condolences to you and your family. Violet was one of the most lovable and loving persons that I ever met. She loved to laugh! Knowing Violet made my life richer. She touched so many people. We are all better people for having known her.

Gail Schaefer

March 17, 2011

I've been out of touch for years, and still my world is a little emptier without her in it. That picture really conveys the personality I remember so well.

March 15, 2011

Violet may be gone, but I will cherish the memories of all of the wonderful times we had at your home when our now grown children were little. I will always carry you in my heart.
Darleen Jorgenson (Olson) Santa Fe, NM

Lisa (Leaf) Hildebrandt

March 15, 2011

Dave and boys,
It's been along time since I've seen or talked to most of you, but time has not faded my memories of Violet. She was one of a kind. Whether she was cruising around the lake in her purple convertable, cooking and talking in the kitchen, her 35th birthday party, going to see the Ice Castle, hanging out at the local pub, either in WBL, STP or the cabin in Clam Falls, she always the life of the party. Vibrant. Hard working. Devoted. Funny. Original. Take care of each other in this time of loss and pain. Thinking of you all.

Lisa (Leaf) Hildebrandt

March 15, 2011

Dave and boys, It's been along time since I've seen most of you, but I wanted you to know I will always have fond, fun memories of Violet. Cruising around the lake in her purple cadillac, her 35th birthday party, sitting in the kitchen talking and cooking, the Ice Castle, hanging out at the local pub - whether it was in WBL, STP or the cabin in Clam Falls. She was always the life of the party no matter where she went. And true to herself. Take care of each other in this time of loss and pain.

Roxi Koons

March 15, 2011

Many years have past since I last saw Violet, but my memory of her is, like Violet was, larger than life! I smile when I think of the fun times we had with our "Tuesday Night Fun League", a bunch of hackers who "tore up the course". She always knew how to have a good time and family was always an important part of the good times. May you all find comfort and strength in her memory.

Bonnie (Benshoof) & Rod Vink

March 15, 2011

Today is a sad day for all of us. For God said "Welcome Home Violet" Our tears silenced the Angels wings that carried her home. Her loving memory will live on in our hearts forever. Dave, Tony, Molly, Geno, Nora,Vince and Mark & Sarah Serchia know that we are greatly sadened for your loss. With love and tears.

March 15, 2011

Vinnie and family,
We would like to express our sincere condolences on the passing of your mother. While we know that no comfort is ever enough to replace the loss of one so loved, realize that she will forever be with you and your family in your heart and memories. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Bruce and Carol Mathews, Aubrey and Redding Pogue

Diane Johnson

March 15, 2011

Dear cousin David and Family,
The last time I spoke with Vi she was telling me about Aunt Vera. Now you all will have a "Special Room" in your hearts for both of them! We send our love and prayers, Diane Gearman Johnson, Tom and Monica

Heather Engstrom

March 14, 2011

Geno, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Sending prayers your way during this difficult time.

Heather "Gutz" Engstrom

Olson Mike

March 14, 2011

Dave, Tony, Gino and Vince,

I am sorry about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May God's grace give you strength.

The Olson Family
Mike, Danyel, Emma and Maggie

SHE IS WATCHING OVER YOU...

JERRY,PHIL NEUMAN,BRUZEK

March 14, 2011

BENSHOOF FAMILY.YOU ARE ALL IN OUR PRAYERS! MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL IN YOUR TIME OF SORROW! NOW YOU HAVE A BEAUTIFUL ANGEL...NEUMANS & BRUZEKS...

Carrie Rehbein

March 14, 2011

Dave, Tony, Gino and Vince,

Your wife and mother taught me a lot about being tough and working hard and being kind and generous. Our families were blended for some years, starting with my aunt Grace Greene as your caregiver, mom as Vi's hairdresser, me as the housecleaner and Lora babysitting and plucking you, Vince from a crib in a dangerous situation. Our entire family family sends our deepest sympathy at the loss of such a vibrant woman. We know that life will enrich you in the future because you have some a powerful, incredible woman watching over you.
Carrie Lunsman Rehbein, Judy Lunsman, Grace Greene (departed) and Lora Lunsman Martinez.

Peggy Gardner

March 14, 2011

We are so sorry for your lost. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Scot & Peggy Gardner

Peggy Gardner

March 14, 2011

We are so sorry for your lost. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Scot & Peggy Gardner

Jana Skradski

March 14, 2011

Our sympathy to you cousin David and your sons. May she be at peace now and in good company. Love and prayers go out to you all.
Jana(Gearman)and John Skradski

March 13, 2011

my sympathy to vi's family and friends, i knew her so many years ago, we grew up across the street from each other. i remember good times. sorry to hear of her passing. Linda (appleton) Charboneau.

Tom/Nancy Zimpfer

March 13, 2011

Not a moment has gone by that we have not thought of you Vi - so many things to remember in the short time we were blessed to have known you. Our hearts will hold a special place forever.

Jim & Kris Novak

March 13, 2011

We are stunned to hear about Vi's passing. We have so many great memories with your family, and are holding you all in our prayers for comfort and peace. She was a one-of-a-kind personality with the biggest heart in the whole world. We are saddened and know the world is a little bit dimmer without the light from that bright smile she always wore. We are here for you. With love, Jim & Kris Novak

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