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Jeffrey Kantor Obituary

DUNBARTON - Jeffrey S. Kantor, of Dunbarton since 1995, was born in New York City July 15, 1943, and died peacefully on July 29, 2015, after a courageous battle with prostate cancer, surrounded by his loving family. During his life, Jeff lived in the Bronx, N.Y., and Dumont, N.J., moving to New Hampshire in 1961 to attend New England College in Henniker. Midway through college, Jeff enlisted in the U.S. Army Security Agency, spending three years in Germany and was honorably discharged with the rank of Sergeant. He returned to New Hampshire to complete his college degree, forging lifelong friendships.After college, Jeff worked in Boston for a short time before returning to New Hampshire to start up an automobile recycling business in Manchester with his college roommate. In 1977 he became sole owner of Murray's Auto Parts and in 1979 purchased Simano Auto Salvage in Candia which later became Car World Used Auto Parts. He became active in the industry on a national basis, holding many leadership positions and heading up many committees. He was recently awarded the U.S. EPA Lifetime Achievement Award for 40 years of service, aligning government and industry. He worked passionately as the president of the New Hampshire Auto and Truck Recyclers Association for over 20 years.As a longtime member of the New Hampshire Prostate Cancer Coalition, he was instrumental in raising awareness and money for research and education. In acknowledgment of Jeff's dedicated efforts, a fund was established in his name, The Jeffrey S. Kantor Research Fund, at the Norris Cotton Cancer Center at Dartmouth, and $10,000 has already been donated.Jeff was instrumental in starting the Manchester East Soccer League and was the fundraising chairman, helping to build the fields and installing lighting. He coached the Central, West and Memorial ski teams as a volunteer when funding was suspended by the city.Jeff was an avid Patriots and Red Sox fan, enjoying "Patriots Sundays" with dear friends. His passions were skiing, boating and hiking with his wife, kids and grandchildren.He is survived by his beloved wife, Evelyn, of 28 years; three children, Crissy Kantor, Matthew Kantor and Debra Kantor Blahitka and husband Steven; and his only sister, Henni Kessler, and her husband, John, of Palm Beach, Fla. His six grandchildren include Sawyer Phaneuf, Dante Brown, Myles and Madison Kantor, Maikayla Desjardins and Maive Blahitka.Jeff will be fondly remembered for his eagerness to "micro manage" anyone and everyone, his profound kindness and generosity, endless energy, constant optimism and sense of humor. His business skills were both stellar and cavalier and his good natured personality was a treasured asset. His generosity and eagerness to help everyone touched many. It was a privilege to have had him as a husband, father and friend.

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SERVICES: Calling hours will be Tuesday, Aug. 4, from 4 to 7 p.m., at Phaneuf Funeral Home, 243 Hanover St., Manchester, NH 03104. A celebration of life will be Wednesday, Aug. 5, at 11:30 a.m., at the Executive Court Banquet Facilities, 1199 South Mammoth Road, Manchester, NH 03109.The family requests that in lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the New Hampshire Prostate Cancer Coalition at nhprostatecancer.org, or to Chill Cares Inc. at chillcares.org.To share a memory or offer a condolence, please visit www.phaneuf.net.

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Published by Union Leader on Aug. 2, 2015.

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Gail Sanderson

July 27, 2024

I think of you often. He was a very special man. Prayers to his family at this time of remembrance.

mike kovacs

July 27, 2021

A simple slow salute to a fellow veteran. Rest in peace.

NEC _ SAB 1962

Gail Sanderson

July 27, 2020

Jeff, I wish you peace, I hope your boat is as nice as the one you had here on Earth. I miss your smiling face.

David

July 27, 2020

I would like to say that Jeff Kantor was one of the greatest men I have ever had the pleasure of knowing .it started out as Boss and employee but quickly turned into a friendship he was always there to help me When I need it whether it was money or just Advise. I truly considered Car World as Family and it saddens me that had to end . Jeff Kantor know this I truly miss you and hope to see you again in that Great Car World in the sky.Heaven is truly blessed to have you.

September 11, 2017

Jeff has been in my thoughts over the years sometimes on a daily basis. Jeff gave me my first real job in 1978 when I landed in NH at the age of 18. I had no tools and he handed me a $100 bill and told me to go to Sears and buy these tools. When I broke my front tooth at work and had no dental insurance he sent me to a dentist in Manchester and paid to have it fixed. I was at his new house the day the well drillers drop an explosive charge down the well to try and increase the amount of water. His generosity, sincerity, compassion, and sense of humor will always remain profound in my heart. God bless. John Swenson

Bruce Pierce

March 22, 2016

To Jeff's family my heart goes out to you all. I work for Jeff in the late 70's at the circle and found Jeff to be a kind heart felt man. I continued to do business with him at Car World which he was very proud of his state of the art yard. We have all lost something when Jeff passed. He . was a good ma and I miss him.

Pete & Michelle Jukoski

March 12, 2016

Ev, Our hearts are filled with sadness today as we learned of Jeff's passing. We sincerely hope your event was a huge success today. Jeff's smile, sense of humor and gregarious laugh will always be remembered. XO

March 11, 2016

Evelyn and the entire family....

It is with such sadness that I just learned of Jeff's Passing Janice and I had such fun out on the Bay with both of you in recent years. He had incredible determination to beat it...and became so involved in the cause for the betterment of others. His Legacy will carry on forever. If there is anything we can do for you please do not hesitate to call.

Tom and Janice Griffith
Greenland NH

Redmans Automotive

August 31, 2015

Our sincere and deepest sympathy to the Kantor family. After many years of doing business together, we can say the world has lost a great man. Your legacy will live on.

Julie Stahly

August 24, 2015

Thoughts and prayers to the family! Jeff was a great person and will be missed by the industry! Julie Stahly, Director of Publishing, Recyclers POWER SOURCE

don martin

August 12, 2015

the world lost one of the best god be with you my freined

don martin

August 12, 2015

to all the kanters jeff was the very best matt you know how close your dad and iwas the world lost the very best

Bruce Crawford

August 12, 2015

Jeff brought the auto recycling business to a new level, not only for himself, but for auto recyclers all over the country. His leadership earned auto recyclers respect from regulators and legislators far and wide. He was one of a kind and he is missed by all. We offer our heart felt condolences to his family.

August 10, 2015

My heartfelt thoughts and prayers go out to all of Jeff's family and friends.
As a teacher at Moore School, I knew Jeff when I brought my 8th grade students over to Car World to take a tour of their state-of-the-art recycling program. Jeff was so animated and informative as he talked with all my students about the fine details of recycling every car part - solid, liquid, gas. He was so energetic and full of life. That is how we will remember him.
Sincerely,
Judi Lindsey

Sherry

August 9, 2015

My sincerest and deepest sympathy to your friends and family during this very difficult time. Over the years we had heard what a wonderful, kind, and caring man Jeff was through his mother-in-law, Irene. Jeff did so many wonderful things and was a very good business owner who had an outstanding reputation in the community over the years.

Linda Lalancette

August 8, 2015

I just learned of Jeff's passing - my God felt condolences to you Evelyn and your Family. You are all in my prayers. Jeff was a real gift from God, and I am thankful for meeting him Evelyn. If there is anything I and do please do not hesitate to reach out to me.

Deb Croteau

August 8, 2015

Sending our deepest sympathy to Crissy and Dante during this difficult time. Bill & Deb Croteau

Lynne Telfer-Tuzik

August 6, 2015

I remember Jeff from
Dumont High with his dark hair and very wonderful smile. He seemed quiet and shy then, but what wonderful things he's done since that beginning. He was certainly someone you would remember and like.

August 6, 2015

Ev, Crissy and family, Jeff was an all around great guy, full of humor, wit and kindness. My deepest condolences on his passing.
Lisa Hirsh

Mark and Marie Lovski

August 5, 2015

Our deepest condolences to the Kantor family from all of us at Autoshop Services and Second Car Center....

Maria Miller

August 5, 2015

Jeff,
You were definitely one of the last few "good ones" and your friendship was very much appreciated. ARA and Staff wish to send Evelyn and family their heartfelt condolences and sympathy. May God bless you and keep you in His care at this difficult time and always.

Bill

August 5, 2015

Jeff was an a close friend, a boss, a teacher, a father-like figure, an inspiration and a mentor. He helped me be a better person in this world.

Thank you, Jeff for everything you have given me in life, as well as being a part of it. You meant more to me than you'll ever know.

Bob and Heidi Jordan

August 5, 2015

Our Prayers are with Matt and the entire Kantor Family , Gods speed our dear friend .

Bob and Heidi Jordan

August 5, 2015

Heidi and I are saddened to hear of Jeffs passing . He was a valued friend and business associate , Our prayers are with the whole Canter Family , Gods speed my friend !

August 5, 2015

Crissy, I am so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Christina

August 5, 2015

Our deepest sympathies to your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Vis and Christine Tsourvakas

Michael & Doris Sorel

August 5, 2015

We are so sorry and shocked to realize that Jeffrey Kantor is no longer with us. We wish to extend to the entire Kantor family our expression of sympathy. A forty years of friendship and business relationship is gone. Jeffrey's high ethical standards and staunch business principles will be long remembered. His loss will be sorely felt

Fred Hebert

August 5, 2015

I worked for Jeff many years ago when he owned Murray's Auto Salvage in Manchester. He was a great boss & Friend. I am very sorry to hear that a good man like Jeff has passed. He will be missed by all!! Rest in piece Jeff.
Fred Hebert

Charis Lloyd

August 4, 2015

My condolences to the family and the automotive recycling industry. Jeff was very respected and will certainly be missed by many. During my 30 years with The Locator, I enjoyed many visits with Jeff at conventions. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Ginny and Mark Knoettner

August 4, 2015

Dear Eve
Mark and I are saddened to learn of Jeff's passing. Please accept our deepest sympathy as our thoughts are with you Eve and the whole family.

Missy Rosenberg

August 4, 2015

I've only met Jeff a few times, but he was nice and caring and loving of his grandchildren. He took my son along with Mykes & Maddison to Car World and they had a great time there. My thoughts are with his family

Edward MacDonald

August 4, 2015

How very sad. My heart goes out to you and your family Evelyn.Jeff was always one of my most favourite persons in the recycling family and I had always felt most welcomed by you both.
And ,let it be known that he really showed me how to ski in Breckenridge a few years ago.
Truely, a loss of a wonderful person.
Ed Mac Donald

Sarah Gilman

August 4, 2015

Crissy,

Your father was "one of the great ones"! My thoughts are with you and your family. xoxo

Al Sewell

August 4, 2015

I had met Jeff through various NEC alumni activities and his sincere generosity, love and support could be felt was immediate. My sympathies for your loss. May you find comfort and warmth at this difficult time. May Jeff RIP.

Scott Lathrop

August 4, 2015

50 years ago we met. Can't believe the changes we've seen and from your eyes - all good. Now you make me remember all our the times of these years and I can't remember one that didn't include smiles and laughs. You left a trail, goodbye my friend.

Wells Family

August 4, 2015

I have fond memories of Jeff taking my kids on dinghy rides under the state pier in Portsmouth at low tide and stopping by the office occasionally just to say hi.
Jeff was a true gentleman in every sense of the word. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Mark & Lucy Thompson

August 4, 2015

Evelyn,Every time I saw Jeff we would kid how tall he was with his new hips, our thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time, Jeff was a great guy, we will pray for you.

August 3, 2015

I an so sorry for your loss, Jeff was a great guy and I remember him fondly.
May your memories bring you comfort.

Michael Sabbarese NEC 1965

HENRY

August 3, 2015

Jeff thank you for all you did for me you were a great man friend and boss and hope you rest in
peace loved you and will miss you to the family my prayes and thoughts are with you amen

Thomas Hankamp

August 3, 2015

Have many fond memories of time spent together in ARA over years
Tom Hankamp ARA Past Pres

August 3, 2015

Chrissy,
My deepest sympathies for your loss.I had the pleasure of meeting your father many years ago. May God give you the strength to get through this difficult time. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Georgia Tzimopoulos

Gail Sanderson

August 3, 2015

Ev, Everyone who knew Jeff loved him. I,m in Florida and can not come up for the service, but my prayers and thoughts are with you and the family.
I have nothing but great loving thoughts of Jeff. I remember watching him and Myles snow skiing when Myles was only 3. Also, Jeff being at Myles Basketball games and other games when he was up to it. He was quite a man and will be greatly missed by all who knew him

Gail sanderson

August 3, 2015

David and I send our love to you, my Polish friend...Jeff was the best....we are so sorry for your great loss...

August 3, 2015

Evelyn, Crissy, Matt & Debbie, As you know your Husband/Dad was truly AWESOME. He had the ability to make everyone get involved and make you be the best that you could be. He got things DONE. Thank you for all the great memories. Every time I ski I will make some runs for you Jeff. Love you all and my thoughts and prayers are with you.

-Ross Boisvert

August 3, 2015

jeff was a real friend and I will miss him every time I am at the auction make sure they do it well up there

Kash & Steve Zorawowicz

August 3, 2015

Dear Evelyn, Chrissy & family,
Steve and I are saddened by your loss. Please accept our sincere heartfelt sympathies. He will live forever in your hearts.

Linda Pitman

August 3, 2015

Evelyn,so sorry for your loss. He was a good man and always a good friend to me in our times with ARA. I will always remember the times with him and you and his willingness to share his knowledge and friendship.

K Gagne

August 3, 2015

Jeff was the most caring, compassionate guy around. He was always there wth a smile & a funny story. Even though he knew the odds were stacked against him his strength was astonishing. Fly high, my friend.

August 3, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Wonerful memories of days at NEC.
Rick and Betty Norton

August 3, 2015

Having just returned to Israel 32 years after traveling there with the Kantor family, I was thinking of all of you. Jeff was a fine person and will be missed. My thoughts are with Evelyn, Crissy and all, Judy Clayman

Janet Rosoff

August 3, 2015

Crissy, I am so sorry for your loss. My love, thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

Jay Coffey

August 3, 2015

Jeff- I am so sad to hear this news. You had such a big heart. I always admired your drive and enthusiasm for the NHPCC and I always enjoyed working with you. My best to your family at this difficult time. Rest easy, my friend. ~Jay

August 3, 2015

Evelyn, we are so sorry for your loss and want you to know that our thoughts are with you. Jeff was a good soul and will live forever in many hearts.
Love, Mike and Helene Sullivan - Parrish, Florida

August 3, 2015

Mr. Kantor was truly a giving man. He treated his employees with respect and dignity. He also supported Boy Scouts of America Troop 120 of Candia he helped supply our troop with a 14 foot trailer to house all of our troop equipment and supplies. He is by far the most caring person I know. Mr. Kantor has provided me with many fond memories of employment and also many weeks of High Adventure trips with Troop 120 of Candia. Our thoughts and prayers to the family. Bob, Lisa and Jaymin Martel.

Sue & Dave Winters

August 2, 2015

A profound loss for family, friends and the community at large. His legacy will live on and he will be always present in the hearts of those he loved. His zest for life, generosity of spirit, and joyful sense of humor will continue to be seen in the smiles of his children and grandchildren. We are truly sorry for your loss.

Terry Courtemanche

August 2, 2015

Our fondest memories of good times include hanging out with this wild and crazy guy at Badger's Island Marina! Jeff was so good natured and could give and take a joke with the best of them! He was a great yachtsman and we counted him as a friend! One of my top ten stories of all time was told by Jeff Kantor as he recalled a harrowing experience while moored overnight in Maine one stormy evening! Horrifically funny!
Evelyn, our thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time. When I see him again I will give him a bear hug!

August 2, 2015

Such a great man!! You will be so missed

May Brown

August 2, 2015

Crissy I am so sorry to hear about your dad..I am sure you don't remember me but I use to baby sit you when you were very young. Jeff was a great man even back then..he definitely had an impact on my life and will never forget him. He use to call me Meg...

Patty Eastman

August 2, 2015

My heart is saddened by the loss of my uncle Jeff. He is the biggest part of my memory's growing up!! He was our father figure when we didn't have one and we looked up to him. Thanks to my uncle Jeff I have so many family memories that will last forever!! Thanks to him I had the best times growing up with my cousins his 3 children Crissy, Matt , Debra...when me and my 2 sisters and my 3 cousins were together it was crazy fun he was hands on and provided a beautiful life for his family:) I am extremely blessed he was my uncle. And I'm happy I got to hug you and say I love you one last time before you passed. I no you will be watching from above. I love you Uncle Jeff :)

August 2, 2015

Jeff was one of the sweetest, nicest human being I have ever met.
I remember when he and Evelyn first started going out. They had a friendship and love you rarely see in this day and age
I would see him in Boston year after year at Dental Meeting with Evelyn and he always had the biggest grin and that big fur coat :)
He will truly be missed by so many
Marion Farrell Miller

David Callahan

August 2, 2015

Jeff I want you to know you were the greatest boss ever and most importantly my friend although we did not spend anytime out of work you always made me feel important as you did everyone you came in contact with.You will truly be missed but by no means forgotten . I owe you for all I have today and for that I will be forever grateful. Goodbye for now my friend until we meet again .All my love and prayers for you and your family.

Amy Hebsch

August 2, 2015

Jeff you were always concerned about other people. You had such a great upbeat personality always joking and having a great time. The Spooner Family and Hebsch Family has always had the highest regard for you.
Our hearts reach out to all of you in this time of loss. God Bless
Amy Hebsch and Family

Kimberly Cronin

August 2, 2015

I will miss your big hugs! I will never forget how kind you were and took me under your wing after losing my own dad to this disease. Your legacy will go on in so many ways. Rest in peace xoxo

Mike Little

August 2, 2015

Jeff was one of a kind, the best!

Arthur Carakatsane

August 2, 2015

So very sorry to hear the news. Jeff was a very, very good and nice man. We're all better to have been in his company.
Harbour Hill Condominium

Mary Strickland

August 2, 2015

Crissy, I am so sorry for your loss and you and your family are remembered in my thoughts and prayers.

Elizabeth Vermette

August 2, 2015

Evelyn,
My heart broke when I heard the news about Jeff. In an industry full of amazing people he was still one in a million. I will never forget the kindness you both always showed me and how welcome you always made me feel. He was always willing to answer a question, be there to provide support and he always made me smile. In fact, I don't think I can think of him without smiling, even today with some tears.
Please know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers.

August 2, 2015

Tom Scaramella

August 2, 2015

Crissy and Family, so sorry to hear about the loss of your Dad. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

Jeffrey Luebkert

August 2, 2015

Jeff Kantor was a great guy in so many ways. I spent many years playing soccer in the Manchester East Soccer League in no small part because of his many efforts. Thank you Jeff for the many great years and for sharing your life with our community, we are forever indebted to your love, kindness, and friendship. We will all miss you dearly. G-d Bless.

Linda Castagna

August 2, 2015

I had the pleasure of knowing Jeff and his best friend and wife Evie for over 30 years. So many laughs and good times I shared with them over those years. I will miss him greatly.

Joe & Gloria Johnson

August 2, 2015

Fair winds and calm seas, Capt. Jeff

Fair winds & calm seas, Capt. Jeff

Joe & Gloria Johnson

August 2, 2015

The crew arrives in FL

Joe & Gloria Johnson

August 2, 2015

Capt. Jeff at the helm

Joe & Gloria Johnson

August 2, 2015

The "J-Crew" 2003

Joe & Gloria Johnson

August 2, 2015

David Callahan

August 2, 2015

Jeff what can I say you were not only my boss but a great friend and taught me so much. You helped me so much and I will always be grateful I had the honor of knowing you.Rest in Peace my friend til we meet again. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

Laura Gilman

August 2, 2015

A loving soul and a kind kind man. I will take an extra run for him everytime i hit the slopes. Love to his girls and family Xoxox

Ron and Joyce Doucet

August 2, 2015

In the forty years I have known Jeff, I can honestly say that I have never met a finer person. Jeff personifies all the traits we find attractive. He was generous, kind, loyal and loving to all of his family and friends. Jeff would light up a room with his larger than life persona. Joyce and I will miss him and think of him often, and know that our life was made better by having known him.

August 2, 2015

Jeff could brighten everyone around him with his personality and wit!!He gave countless hours of his time to the community. It will truly leave a void in the lives of his friends and family. He was an incredibly gifted skier who I had the good fortune of skiing with!!He will be greatly missed on the race course at McIntyre. Ray J

August 2, 2015

Thank you Jeff

Jane Archibald Askeland

August 1, 2015

Sweet memories of a good friend. Heaven has a new angel.

Mike "jr" Folsom

August 1, 2015

Jeff you were the best boss ever I learned so much from you.you taught me the customer is always right. You also taught me how to shake like a man. Thank you for being grandpa jeff love you will always remember what you have taught me

Darlene Schmidt-Brandt

August 1, 2015

It was an honor and a joy to have know Jeff. He was truly one of a kind. Jeff's sense of humor never failed to make me smile. He will be forever missed but never forgotten. My deepest condolences to his family.

Sheila & Ira Evans

August 1, 2015

We will miss you Jeff.
NEC 1965 & 1966.
For all the good you did we know you went directly to Heaven.

August 1, 2015

David A. Frank '63 A sad day.

mike kovacs

August 1, 2015

Live well lived. Thanks for the service brother.

Lorraine

August 1, 2015

I'm so sorry for your loss my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Concord High School Appreciation Award

JC

August 1, 2015

The Goodbye Car World, Hello LKQ Dinner

JC

August 1, 2015

Manchester Fire Department Training

JC

August 1, 2015

With Steve Ladew, NHPCC

JC

August 1, 2015

With the State Representatives

JC

August 1, 2015

Recognized by NH ESGR

JC

August 1, 2015

March, 2012 Posing for an ad

JC

August 1, 2015

Jeffrey "JC" Collupy

August 1, 2015

Jeffrey was one of my best friends ever, and the best boss anyone could ever have. I'll miss him dearly...

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