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Dr. Robert A. Joy

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Robert Joy Obituary

GRAY, Maine -- Dr. Robert A. Joy, 87, died Oct. 29, 2009, at his home.

He graduated from Harvard University in 1943 and Boston University Medical School. His pediatric fellowship was at Boston Children's Hospital in Massachusetts. He served in the U.S. Army, discharged as a captain in the Medical Corps.

He was beloved by three generations of patients.

His practice, for 35 years, was at 32 West Webster St., The Manchester Pediatric Group in Manchester, N.H. He retired for two years and then went back to work part time for the Hitchcock Clinic in Manchester, N.H.

He held offices of president of the medical staff, Sacred Heart Hospital, and Catholic Medical Center, president of the Manchester Pediatric Group, and director of cystic fibrosis, state of New Hampshire.

He was married to Nancy M. Lewis for 10 years, she succumbed to cancer. He has been married to Joan P. Fader for 55 years.

He was predeceased by a son, William A. Joy, who died in Vietnam Aug. 11, 1968.

Other family members include his children, Margaret A. Bell, Robert P. Joy, Stephen C. Joy, Patricia Stewart and Susan B. Joy; nine grandchildren; and four great-grandchildren.

SERVICES: A funeral mass will be celebrated Saturday at 1 p.m. at Saint Catherine of Siena Parish in Manchester, N.H., followed by interment at Pine Grove Cemetery, Manchester, N.H. Calling hours will be Friday from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. at Wilson Funeral Home, 24 Shaker Road, Gray, Maine.

Memorial donations may be made to Boston Children's Hospital, Boston MA or Barbara Bush Children's Hospital at Maine Medical Center in Portland, Maine.

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Published by Union Leader on Nov. 3, 2009.

Memories and Condolences
for Robert Joy

23 Entries

Diane

June 30, 2022

My sister and I had Dr Joy and we absolutely loved him. My mom used to tell how I sat on the table and I'd talk to him the whole time he was caring for me. I saw him as being like my grandfather. God bless Dr. Joy and all his friends and family.

Susan Joy

November 15, 2009

Thank you everyone for taking time to write such loving words about my Dad. I printed your memories for my Mom and me, as we will cherish them.
My Dad was one of the best men I've ever known, and I am lucky to say that he was one of my best friends. He and I shared decades of love, fun, laughter, and you name it, that I will take with me for my life time. For the reasons you have stated, and so many more, I always have and always will be proud to say I am Dr. Robert Joy's daughter. He helped so many people because he truly cared and wanted to make children well, and their parents feel at ease.
I love you always Dad, and I will forever miss you. You will live in my heart and soul as you always have. I will take you where ever I go in my life, and you will journey with me until I am back with you. Sue Joy

Susan Joy

November 15, 2009

Thank you everyone for taking time to write such loving words about my Dad.
I printed your memories for my Mom and me, as we will cherish them. My Dad was one of the best men I've ever known, and I am so lucky to say that he was one of my best friends. My Dad and I shared decades of love, fun, laughter, and you name it, that I will take with me for my lifetime. For the reasons you have stated, and so many more, I always have and always will be proud to say I am Dr. Robert Joy's daughter. I love you always Dad, and I will forever miss you. You will live in my heart and soul as you always have. I will take you where ever I go in my life and because of this you will journey with me until I am back with you. Sue Joy

Susan Joy

November 15, 2009

I wanted to thank everyone who took the time to write such loving words about my Dad. I printed these pages for my Mom and me to have your memories with us always. My Dad will live forever in the hearts he touched and loved, for he was one of the best men I've ever known. I will always be thankful and greatful to have had him be such a big part of my life, and to be my Dad. He will live in my heart forever, and will always be missed. Thank you again everyone. Sue Joy

Karolyn Gomes

November 12, 2009

When my three sisters and I was growing up Dr. Joy was our doctor. We loved him dearly as a doctor. When we think of Dr. Joy when have only good memories. Please accept our deepest sympathies and I know he has a very special place in heaven because he was a special man

Tom Reed

November 8, 2009

Dr Joy as you are reunited with your son Billy(Doc Red)let him tell you how he won the Silver Star and be forever proud to spend eternity with this hero

Mike & Lee Ann Roy

November 6, 2009

Dear Joanie and Sue-
As Lee Ann and I have come to know You both and Dr. Joy, we will always be grateful for the time spent. The warmt of his smile will be with us always. God has blessed Bob through his wonderful family and many friends.
God Bless & Love

Andrea Stergiou O'Hair

November 5, 2009

Dear Mrs. Joy, Patty and Susan,
Please accept my heartfelt symapthy on the passing of your husband and dad. Dr. Joy always treated us with such compassion and thoughtfulness. Who else would make a housecall on Christmas Eve before Santa would come?

Janice & Mark Constantino

November 5, 2009

Dr Robert Joy was the epitome of a perfect Pediatrician. He was a warm, sincere, one of a kind physician who was loved by his patients, parents, nurses and staff. I had the pleasure and honor as his nurse @ Manchester Pediatric Group for a short time. We were very lucky to have Dr. Joy with us in the delivery room when my first son was born 26 yrs. ago. I looked forward to his & Joanie's Christmas card every year. We will miss his happy smile & warm heart! Our deepest sympathy to his family. May he rest in peace.

Lisa Varkas

November 5, 2009

Mrs. Joy and Family,
I am very saddened with the passing of Dr. Joy. May his memory be eternal.

At this time of sorrow,
May these truths sustain you ...
Your loved one will always
Be as close as a memory,
And the God of all comfort
Will always be as
Close as a prayer.

Lisa Varkas, or as Dr. Joy often referred to me.. "Left" (Left Ventricle)

Melanie Joy-Bruner

November 5, 2009

Grandpa's sense of humor, bright smile and warm heart will be missed for years to come. The first bird I saw this morning was a blue jay. It's going to be a good day. We love you!

Melanie, James and Dylan

November 4, 2009

Dad, Your smile, bows on your head and the love you had for my children will be deeply missed. Your favorite daughter in law.

Donna Palmer Morse

November 4, 2009

I was sorry to learn of Dr. Joy's passing. He was my three children's pediatrician throughout their adolescence and I was glad he was always there for them. I graduated from high scholl with Dr. Joy's daughter, Peggy, and am sorry for her loss and the family's loss. He was a great man.

Carol "Christmas" Hiller

November 4, 2009

The great memories of working with Dr Joy at the Hitchcock Clinic. We would all hope to be his nurse on the days he worked. The families and staff loved him. He will be deeply missed. My sympathy to his wonderful family.

Carol "Christmas" Hiller

November 4, 2009

The great memories of working with Dr Joy at the Hitchcock Clinic. We would all hope to be his nurse on the days he worked. He had nicknames for all of us. The families and staff loved him. He will be deeply missed. My sympathy to his wonderful family.

Dan Miles

November 4, 2009

May my good friend Dr.Joy now rest in eternal peace. He will continue to share in the love of our Lord in Whom he placed his daily faith and trust.

I feel privileged to have known him for many years, and often reflect on traveling with Bob and Joanie to many interesting and historic places around the globe.

His kind spirit and great knowledge in the medical field served his many young patients well. His warm and gracious personality, laced frequently with great humor, will always be remembered.

Vaya con Dios to my good friend Bob from Gray, Maine,

Corey Joy

November 3, 2009

Grandpa Joy we are all going to miss you and your great smile. Love you...

Corey, Patience and Portia Joy

TCE

November 3, 2009

So sorry to hear of Dr.Joy's passing. I had him as my pediatrician. He was such a wonderful person and doctor. My thoughts and prayer for his family.

E I

November 3, 2009

I am more than middle aged now and had the privilege of having Dr. Joy as a pediatrician when he was in practice with Drs. Costello and Jalbert. He was kind and so smart. Even as a child I could figure that out. He personified what his generation was all about..dedication and love of his profession was evident. May he rest in peace.

peter gabrielli

November 3, 2009

Fond memories of my early childhood doctor...May you Rest in Peace Doc Joy.

Marjorie Palmer

November 3, 2009

Dr. Joy was our children's pediatrician from the time of their adoption. His quiet voice was assuring and he delivered expert care with confidence and empathy. Our sympathy to his family.

Mr. & Mrs. P, Derry, NH

J V

November 3, 2009

So sorry to hear about Dr. Joy's passing. He was a wonderful doctor; he was finally the one who was able to get me well!! Prayers for peace to all who loved him.

David & Terry Brinkman

November 3, 2009

Joanie and Sue

We will hold him dear in our hearts and recall the thousands of laughing moments he sponsored. His faith has marked his journey well.
Love.

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