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Stephen R. Palmer

1945 - 2019

Stephen R. Palmer obituary, 1945-2019, Omaha, NH

BORN

1945

DIED

2019

Stephen Palmer Obituary

Steve Palmer, 73, passed away on Saturday, April 20, 2019 with family at his side. Born October 30, 1945 in Somerville, MA and soon after moved to Woodbury, VT where he lived throughout his childhood and through high school graduation in 1963. He voluntarily joined the U.S. Army in January 1964, serving for three years in Germany before settling in East Hartford, CT. Steve married Elizabeth "Betty" Gilman on October 2, 1967. They lived in Connecticut until 1979 before moving their family to New Hampshire and spending nearly four decades in the State that he forever considered his home. In retirement, they moved to Lincoln and lastly to Omaha, Nebraska to be closer to their children- Steve and Melanie. He was truly a character with a sharp wit, great sense of humor and a knack for telling stories. If Steve had an opinion on a topic you could be sure he would share it and you would know exactly how he felt on that topic! He was a friend to many and his sometimes-gruff facade hid (or so he thought) a warm spirit and kind heart. Anyone that heard him proudly talk about his grandchildren or his pet cats knew that he was genuinely a caring man. To the end he remained a diehard Boston sports fan for the Red Sox and Patriots as well as a longtime fan of UCONN Women's basketball. He loved the fact that this past year saw a World Series and a Superbowl win by his favorite teams. His proudest accomplishment in life was being Betty's husband for over 51 years. He truly loved her and whether in New Hampshire or Nebraska, he would have followed her to the ends of the earth. Steve is survived by his wife, Betty; son, Steve (Karen) Palmer; daughter, Melanie (David) Hall; grandchildren, Alex (Katie), Brooke, and Courtney Palmer and Brandon and Brittany Hall; sisters, Kathy (Bert) Morin, Linda Marden, Deb Sinclair; brothers, Matt Palmer and Donald (Irene) Palmer; as well as many extended family members including cousins, nieces, and nephews. He specifically requested no formal services and simply asked his family to get together for a barbecue to tell stories, remember the good times and enjoy each other's company. In lieu of flowers, family request that you consider a donation to a charity such as the American Heart Association or the Humane Society in his memory.

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Published by Union Leader on Apr. 28, 2019.

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Dennis Murphy

February 18, 2022

Sending my deepest sympathy

Melanie (Palmer) Hall

May 9, 2019

Thank you for the condolences, they are much appreciated by all of us. We especially love hearing peoples memory of my Dad. I've come to realize that he touched a lot of lives over the years.

April 29, 2019

To the Palmer Family:

On behalf of a grateful nation, and the VFW Auxiliary/Post #4485 in Somersworth, NH, we wish to express sincere appreciation for the honorable service given by your loved one, and send our deepest condolences on your loss.

VFW Auxiliary President, 2016-2018
Cathy Burns

David Murray

April 27, 2019

Sending my deepest sympathy from RIVERHILL. Steve surely will be missed

Alexandria Palmer

April 26, 2019

We will miss you so much Uncle Steve❤ You will never be forgotten and I will continue to keep my hands on my hips!!

Heather Tobine

April 26, 2019

I am so sorry for your loss. I only met Stephen once but he made me feel like he knew me all my life. I enjoyed his great sense of humor and quick come backs. Keep all the special memories close and he will always be with you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Jay Maillet

April 26, 2019

Steve was a truly unique and outspoken character full of life and vigor. He will truly be missed by everyone he touched. Even though we haven't worked together for almost 20 years, I still remember the pointers he gave to a young, rookie truck driver. Rest in peace old friend.

American Heart Association

April 26, 2019

May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.

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