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Sheila Ann Meyers

1943 - 2020

Sheila Ann Meyers obituary, 1943-2020, Williamsburg, VA

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1943

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2020

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Sheila Meyers Obituary

Sheila Ann Meyers, 77, loving and beloved wife, mother, and grandmother, passed away on November 17, 2020, after a long battle with Parkinson's Disease. Sheila was born on January 19, 1943 to John and Enid Bunker in Maidenhead, England, where the family had been relocated, because of the Blitz, from Upper Norwood, a south London Suburb. When the war ended, the family returned to their home, where Sheila was soon joined by a brother, Ian. She graduated from an English public school, Croydon High School, one of the original Girls' Day School Trust Schools. Despite her academic success at CHS, a university education at the time was not open to her, and she chose to leverage her studies in French with secretarial training. She went to Paris, where she worked for Total Oil, working exclusively in French. In Paris, in December 1962, she met her husband-to-be, Terry Meyers, when the two happened to take rooms in the same pension, at 63, Blvd. de Beauséjour. Though Terry was supposedly studying at the Sorbonne, as the spring went on, the two concentrated their time on the study of contemporary French culture through an immersion in cafés, sight-seeing, museums, and discos. The two parted in June 1963, but soon realized how deeply in love they were. In 1964 Sheila came to New York City, and then to Washington DC, where she worked for the World Bank. In 1965, after marrying Terry at the start of his junior year in college, Sheila moved to Appleton, Wisconsin. Houdini's greatest escape is said to be when he left Appleton, and Sheila agreed, working for an insurance agency whose owner down the road headed up the John Birch Society. One of her co-workers complimented her on how well she spoke English for being a foreigner. Pregnant with their daughter, Deborah, Sheila moved to Chicago in 1967, where she worked for the public relations office of the University of Chicago, helping to support the family through Terry's graduate studies. In 1970, the family moved to Williamsburg, where a son, Blake, was soon born. Sheila continued to work, as a secretary in the William and Mary Biology Dept., even as she began studying towards her BA, in French from the College, Class of 1978. Finishing her degree, Sheila was licensed as a real estate agent, beginning at Murphy and McCardle, a career that led to local prominence both for her success in sales and for her leadership in the local Board of Realtors, where she held a number of posts. She received many awards for sales and for professional accomplishments both from the companies for which she worked and from her fellow Realtors. Sheila was a 50- year member of St. Martin's Episcopal Church, where she served on the Vestry and was active for a number of years in the Altar Guild. She greatly enjoyed her involvement with the Christopher Wren Association in both the French and the Italian Tables. Sheila was predeceased by a granddaughter, Lucy Boyle. She is survived by her father-in-law, Burt Meyers; by her husband; by her children and their spouses and children (Timothy Boyle and Maura, and Graziana Taramino and Camilla); by her brother Ian and sister-in-law, Sue, and their children, Claire and Matthew, and their families. A service and interment of ashes at St. Martin's will be held when circumstances allow. No flowers please. Memorial contributions, if wished, may be sent to St. Martin's, 1333 Jamestown Road, Williamsburg 23185. Bucktrout Funeral Home is assisting the family.

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Published by Virginia Gazette on Nov. 21, 2020.

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John Walters

May 23, 2024

Dear Terry,
It is with great sadness that I have learned very recently of your loss of Sheila. Please accept my belated but sincere condolencies.
I lost touch with you both some 58 years ago, but we had shared some happy times together in a small group of "copains" in Paris in !962/63. As Sheila's obituary aptly described those halcyon days, though you (and a few others including me) were "supposedly studying at the Sorbonne, as the spring went on", we - and Sheila when she could spare her time away from Total Oil - turned our attention to "the study of contemporary French culture....cafes, sight-seeing, museums...".
I kept in touch with both you and Sheila for some years after Paris, and I have recently come across some lovely letters received from both sides of the Atlantic all those years ago.
We last met in about 1966 when I was living in South Worcestershire. Sheila could not accompany you on that occasion, and to my discredit I may have been a poor host. On the plus side, my then new girlfriend Sue remembers meeting you briefly at her ladies' hairdressing shop in Stratford on Avon. Sue and I eventually tied the knot in 1971, and I am naturally sorry that she never got to meet your lovely Sheila.
I will always remember Sheila as a special lady and, with all her sparkle, sense of humour and fun, get up and go , talent and determination, the fact that she enjoyed a long, happy and successful marriage with you and was such a joy to your children, grandchildren and all her friends, comes as no surprise to me at all. For me, it was a privilege to have known her, albeit too briefly all those years ago.
With our best wishes to you and your family,
John Walters

Jane-Mary Gay

April 15, 2021

Dear Terry, Debbie, and Blake,,
I was in the Daniel Island Library this morning when Tim told me of your wife/mother's death. I am so very sorry for you all. Rick and I lived next door to you on Winston Drive from May, 1975 till you moved to Newport Avenue in February, 1979. Sheila and I served on St. Martin's Altar Guild for several years. I considered her a good friend and thoroughly enjoyed hearing of her life in England. When she told me that her mother had had an emergency appendectomy in Williamsburg while visiting you all, I was aghast that such a thing would happen while she was away from home. Sheila laughed and said her mother was thrilled because under the British health care system, she would have had to wait for a good while till she could have her surgery.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers for happy memories of Sheila. May God grant you those sweet memories.

Georgiana Kornwolf

December 1, 2020

I was saddened to learn that Sheila, a beautiful and loving friend, is with us no more. Sheila's presence in Williamsburg was almost legendary, especially in the field of real estate. With her husband, Terry, she was a fixture on the College of William and Mary social scene. Together, they enlivened conversation with witty and thoughtful dialogue. Sheila was caring and kind; she loved her family and was proud of their achievements. Truly, she will be missed. RIP, dear Sheila, you are among the angels.

Larry R. McCardle

November 27, 2020

It is with heavy heart that we will say goodby to a wonderful person who touched so many lives in our City and area. Sheila and I worked together at Murphy and McCardle Realty, later becoming McCardle Realty for many years and I can candidly say that she was the very top of the game when it came to dedication, knowlege, and accomplishment in the real estate profession, having been a winner in sales and listings year after year. She was an inspiration not only to beginning agents but to all who knew and were fortunate enough to have know and worked with her. She will be deeply missed by all.

Page & Ginny Cranford

November 23, 2020

Our sympathies Terry, and to your family, on your loss of Sheila. We enjoyed knowing her as a neighbor, and admired her strength during her illness. Our condolences. Ginny & Page

Michela and Andre

November 21, 2020

Cari Blake, Graziella, e Camilla, vi siamo vicini in questo momento così triste. Un abbraccio.

Jennifer Baker

November 20, 2020

What a beautiful life and admirably-navigated life story, full of the hardest things and the easiest. Our hearts are with you.

Susan Spellman

November 20, 2020

Thank you for writing the wonderful history of Sheila’s life. It brings a smile to remember why we enjoyed being with her. She will always be alive in our hearts!

Nan Piland

November 20, 2020

She was the Queen of Real Estate. One of my early mentors and role models. The consummate professional. I enjoyed learning of her history prior to becoming a Realtor. May peace be with the family.

Charlotte Jones

November 20, 2020

My condolences to the family- Shelia was truly a lovely lady inside and out.

Rev. Cheryl K. Robinson

November 19, 2020

Intrepid Hospice would like to extend their deepest sympathy to the family of Sheila Meyers and to thank you for allowing us to care for Mrs. Meyers during her time of illness. May God bless you, give you peace and comfort during this time and beyond. Our prayers are with you.

Dina Lobo

November 19, 2020

I am heart broken to hear of the death of my friend Sheila. She was a great person, colleague and friend. She believed in moving forward no matter the obstacles and did everything to overcome them. She was always ready with encouragement and comfort for her colleagues and friends!
Sheila loved her family and shared with pride the joy they brought her! Her husband, children, and grandchildren were the light of her life! Her husband Terry was the love of her life and he devotedly cared for Sheila to the very end!

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