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1962
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2014
Paul Latourell Obituary
It is with deep sorrow that we announce the death of Paul Robb Latourell born March 15, 1962 in Ontario, Canada died in Denpasar, Bali February 17, 2014.
Born to Ralph and Myrna (Robb) Latourell and spent his early years on the Latourell family farm in Kemptville. In 1967 the family immigrated to Ventura County, settling in the Ventura Pierpont neighborhood. He graduated University California at Santa Barbara. In the early 1980's Paul's love of surfing drew him to the Island of Bali, Indonesia, eventually to become an expatriate. For 10 years he operated a seasonal Christmas store Mustika Gifts featuring Balinese arts and crafts in numerous Ventura County Mall's. Paul's spirit of generosity helped many of his Balinese friends with employment and education. He taught English language to local hotel workers and did volunteer work for the World Health Organization.
In Bali Paul was a well-known community activist involved in fund-raising for a Kuta medical clinic treating HIV/AIDS patients and Yayasan Bali Peduli - a foundation providing assistance and care to HIV/AIDS patients. Paul's name in HIV/AIDS world in Bali means: sincerity, integrity, equality and humility. To the community who provides funding for the clinic through an annual dinner party, they only participate with the fundraising events because they trusted Paul overseeing the funding implementation. Paul touched so many and worked so hard to make sure Bali was HIV free.
Survived by his father Ralph (Patty) Latourell, sisters, "Rose" Lynn husband Rob Garven, Karen Latourell and stepfather Jerry Knott. Paul was preceded in death by his mother Myrna Robb 2009.
A memorial gathering is planned for March 16 at The Knights of Columbus, 39 Figueroa St, Ventura at 3 p.m. Donations in Paul's memory may be made to Bali Peduli via Rotary Club Ubud Foundation website: balipeduli.org or email [email protected]
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Memories and Condolences
for Paul Latourell
Karen Bednorz
March 27, 2014
Dear Ralph, Patty, Rose & Karen,
We are so very appreciative my husband Gary & myself were able to attend the memorial service for Paul, and bring the flower arrangements to the venue.
The service & everyone who spoke remembering Paul were all touchingly beautiful.
I am very grateful I was able to assist your family in my own significant way, & Karen thank you for honoring my request. xo
Below is my personal message to your family that I now share with all who Loved Paul:
I have been grief stricken since hearing of your (ours, anyone who knew & Loved Paul) tragic loss.
Paul was one of my "runners" at Casa Maria, along with Shrimpo. My daughter's daycare provider was JoMama of Pierpont. Often after working a late shift I would go to Paul's, it was so close to Jojo's, and we would talk, sometimes for hours. He knew I hated waitressing and once he told me of a story of how his Mom didn't tip. I was horrified, but then he told me why.
Paul knew I could change my life if I would go back to school. How satisfying to be able to tell him in person years later just how profoundly he touched my life. There were other friends who also encouraged me to continue my education, making the tapestry of Love that has supported me over the years, but Paul has always stood out in my mind & heart.
During those chats I also learned just how wholesome & just Paul was at such a young age. He would share with me of others behaving in dubious ways, and although younger than I, he opened my eyes.
And, anyone in need, I include the link that accompanies the grief booklet I gave to you, written by my long-time best friend of over 40yrs.
http://www.howardlunche.com/
I send thoughts & prayers to each of you for sweet time, compassion, understanding, truth, and if at all possible, peace of minds & hearts.
From my own heart,
Karen (Miller) Bednorz
Ian Michael Casey
March 19, 2014
God bless you.
Shelley & Dean
March 15, 2014
So sorry for your loss Karen and family, wished we could have met him. Sounded like a wonderful person.
Herb Smith
March 13, 2014
Paul and I met just a few years ago and I was immediately taken by his warmth. It is so sad he is no longer among us.
vicki hood
March 13, 2014
Karen, Rusty, Jerry and all, Memories, tears, thoughts of happy times. I am so sorry. Love you all and think of Myrna and Paul cuttin'up today tomorrow and always. Vicki Hood
Rick Thompson
March 11, 2014
Sending my sincere thoughts and prayers to the family and friends of Paul. I remember him from my days at Ventura High and all those PPR parties. R I P Paul.
Misti Hood
March 11, 2014
Ralph, Karen and Rose so sorry for your loss. It was always a comfort to think of Paul embracing the world with the joy, spark and love that was his way. I have thought of all of you often over the years. I cherish the memories of all the crazy fun we had when I stayed at your house. My thoughts are with you.
dave weiss
March 7, 2014
I have not seen Paul since I moved from Ventura in '79. I remember him well and he was always a good sole. It seems that he left a positive footprint on this planet and we need more folks like Paul. My thoughts and prayers go out to Ralph and Rose.
Aloha Ke Akua
Dave Weiss
Maui
Colleen Distin
March 6, 2014
Paul was one of a kind. A special person. Someone you would never forget, once you met him. A wonderful kind and endearing man who left too soon. His laughter was contagious. His smile, hugs and humor where just who he was. Wonderful. Living next door to him in Foster Park as he grew from a late teenager to the man he became was a delight I got to share with the family. I love you all . Ralph, Patty, Rose, Karen, I am here for you. You have been part of my extended family and I know how hard this is for you all. Paul was a great human being who cared so much for others, which showed in his humanitarian work. I love you all. May he rest in peace and be in a place of eternal love, joy and happiness.
Kymberly Schultz
March 6, 2014
Just re read last email from you, sorry we won't be having that drink together and playing "fashion arrest" You will always be "the kid" since I used to pick you up at Foster Park to take you to Tura. Bye for now "favorite" only you will get that. Big Love to your family, miss ya Love Schultzy......
Anji Mitchell
March 5, 2014
Paul always brought sunshine and fun into the room! What a special person he is. Rose, we are so sorry and we love you!
Kellsey O'Hagan
March 4, 2014
Paul, I will always remember you smiling. I will always remember your presence; it is as if you filled every room you walked into with joy, your smile a contagious all-consuming whirlwind of delight. So supportive, so innovative and so humble in your approach to living-out-loud in your life. Paul knew how to reach people just by being himself. He lived beyond the boundaries of a mundane life; he did it with courage and strength, softness and light, a perfect blend of humanity, humility, spirit and pride. I did not know the last time I saw you, would be the last time I saw you… I thank you now full-hearted for the hug; it was so casual a moment filled to the brim with love. You leave behind a legacy of always bearing gifts, the gift of friendship, support, humor; compassion and kindness are at the top of the list…
You will be missed deeply and remembered sweetly.
Heather Happy
March 3, 2014
I wonder if Paul knew how many lives he touched and how many people truly loved him. I hope so. My thoughts and prayers are with you Uncle Ralph, Patty, Rose & Karen.
Melanee Happy
March 3, 2014
Ralph,Patty,Jerry,Rose,Rob and Karen. Please know that we are thinking of you all and praying for your burden of sorrow to lighten by knowing what an impact Paul had on all the people that he met. He had close family ties and a strong circle of friends.
Paul always had a way of making the person he was talking to know that they had his interest and undivided attention.
I will be thinking of Paul on his birthday and the next day as you gather to remember his life, lived his way. I will miss him with that quick smile and quick wit.
His life will not be defined by this tragic end but in the tragedies he prevented by his tireless work in Bali.
Aunt Pat
March 3, 2014
Ralph, Patty, Rose and Karen...my heart goes out to you at this time. We all loved Paul, eve if we hadn't seen much of him the last few years. I will always remember his present to me when he was at the Farm and just a little guy..he reached in his little pants pocket and pulled out a handful of earthworms, holding them out to me...I still hate earthworms.
Margarert Lambert
March 2, 2014
I lament the loss of lovely Paul. He generously invited us to visit him in Bali. I support him on his new astral journey, and hope his family is comforted. He was an inspired being striving to make a difference and create community.
Laura Dimse-Dahlgren
March 2, 2014
Paul, remembering your fun loving spirit, enlightening smile,and all the fun of our crazy teen life in Ventura. You have touched the world and made it better. Your smile and giving spirit will be forever a light in this world.
Laura Monahan-Dickinson
March 2, 2014
Paul was a friend of my entire family, and his tragic death is a shock to us all. To my sisters he was the bestest of the best friend. To my children he was "The Cookie Monster" who was gonna get them and tickle them! I remember his laugh and his big ole smile. Always bright. Always full of sunshine. Will miss you so much Paul. Prayers and love to your entire family.
Donna Linderman
March 1, 2014
The world has lost a truly fine and special person. The sun was brighter when Paul was present and life was just better. A free spirit, great friend, wise man, wicked wit, kind hearted soul. I met Paul in high school, he helped me move to New York City, and we had many great times together....hanging out and traveling to amazing places and having great adventures you can laugh about forever. I had so much respect for the work Paul in Bali, admired the life be made in Indonesia, and will deeply Mis his great warmth and kindness. My heart goes out to everyone who loved him... Family and family of friends. Love you forever Paul.....fly wih the other angels.
walter stowe
March 1, 2014
Although I have not seen Paul for many years, I'll never forget his great sense of humor and that unique laugh. Rose and Karen, I'm deeply sorry for your loss.
Mary Monahan
March 1, 2014
What a great loss to one of the most caring people on earth. He did a lot of great work where he lived in Bali. His work will continue in heaven.
Love, Mary and Vickie
Ziah Von Heyneman
March 1, 2014
I never really know the right words to say in a situation like this, but I know Paul was a very good man with a loving and thankful heart. He got along with everyone. I always had fun dancing with him when our friends across the street would have gathering at their place. He was a good dancer. I also enjoyed his store Mustika Gifts when it be at the Pacific View Mall. He always sold such beautiful things there. I miss you Paul.
Diane Pieser Diesh
March 1, 2014
I remember Paul from the old Pierpont crowd. He stood out as an incredibly warm, kind-hearted guy. He obviously took that compassion and made it his life's work. My sincere condolences to his loved ones.
Lolly on the beach
Mark Maxwell
March 1, 2014
March 1, 2014
Dearest Paul, seeing you was always one of the highlights of Christmas. Peace to you and all your loved ones.
Remembrances of you at our beach.
Diane Von Heyneman
March 1, 2014
I am so very sorry for the loss of Paul, our lovely laughing Lolly. He gave a lot to this world through his jovial spirit, his entrepreneurial business sense, and caring soul for humanity. This is indeed a sad loss for this world and those who knew him. My blessings of peace to all who mourn his loss.
Eddie, Lesa and Paul. 1977
Lesa Young
March 1, 2014
Traci Greene-Gates
March 1, 2014
Sweet, sweet Paul. Such a vibrant soul. Didnt see him often but always had time to chat and catch up when we ran into each other. He was just Rusty's little brother when I hung out at their house on Pierpont. He grew into a amazing man. So proud to have called him my friend. Rest peacefully Paul til' we all meet up again. Much love :)
Roger Carey
March 1, 2014
Knew Paul in the growing years in Pierpont and with the original PP Rats... Paul we will rest easier knowing your spirit has been set free...
Debora Zoe
March 1, 2014
Oh Paul. It was such a shock to hear of your tragedy. You were one of the most non violent happy people I ever knew. Rose, I'm truly saddened by your loss. We had so many good times on Greenock Lane and Foster Park. Moonlight surfing and all of the parties. Every time I think of you I will remember your cherubic happy face. XO
Jeanne Cartier
March 1, 2014
I did not know Paul personally but have heard of the wonderful things he was doing with his life. He truly is an inspiration. I am so sorry for your loss and pray that all of you find peace at this difficult time.
Andrew De Jong
March 1, 2014
Andrew De Jong
March 1, 2014
NO more words needed Bali's heart has been broken and its still in Shock
Andrew De Jong
March 1, 2014
Joanne Monahan Stetson
February 28, 2014
I will miss my good friend Paul very much. A man with a wonderful, thoughtful heart and soul. Love to you my friend. Hugs to Ralph, Patty, Jerry, Karen, Rose and Robby. You are all in my prayers
Lesa,Paul and I, Ventura High School,1978
Mary Squires
February 28, 2014
Paul Latourell had the biggest and best personality of almost anyone I can imagine. Since he moved to Bali our time together was once a year at most,but during that times we caught up he made you feel like he was your closest friend-the stories and secrets he told you were in such a conspiratorial tone,you were sure they were for your ears only. Since I was in 8th grade and he in 7th, he was my angel on one shoulder,my devil on the other,the perfect blend of really bad ideas and outrage at how the world treated the poor and marginalized. I regret all the years we were not close, and all the years where I will never see him again.
Heidi Wagner
February 28, 2014
A kind and gentle soul with just the right amount of crazy, always smiling or laughing. I believe that now his soul will spread out and keep making this world a better place to be....but I wish he could have stayed with us, in this world. I'll miss you Paul, this world will miss you
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