Stephen Devron Resnik, 72, passed away at home, with his loving family at his bedside, on Sunday, Dec. 27, 2009 after a courageous, hard-fought battle with malignant melanoma.
Born May 30, 1937, in Los Angeles to Morrey and Annette Resnik, Stephen spent his childhood in Bell and West Los Angeles body surfing, shooting pool, playing baseball and delivering newspapers with his father. At Bell High School, Stephen lettered in baseball and football, securing a spot on the 1955 All City Los Angeles football team. Stephen attended Stanford University on a football scholarship, earning a bachelors degree in education and in 1960 his credential and masters degree from Cal State Northridge. Stephen belonged to Beta Theta Pi Fraternity.
On a blind date, while in college, he met his wife of 50 years, Joyce Foreman.
In 1959 Stephen, along with his parents, established the Ventura Walnut Shelling Company in Somis, which later became The Somis Nut House. The walnut processing plant operated for over 30 years, servicing local farmers. As more and more walnut orchards were replaced by other crops, the processing plant became obsolete and the current retail nut store thrived in its place.
In 1961 he and Joyce moved to Camarillo where they started their family and have made their home for the last 48 years. A member of Las Posas Country Club since 1967, the game of golf was a lifelong passion. Many friendships were forged on the golf course.
Carpinteria beach became a second home for the Resnik family where Stephen enjoyed activities with his children and grandchildren and was especially happy when friends joined them there for recreation and companionship.
Stephen was a regular on the local beach volleyball courts actively competing until last year when his cancer prevented him from playing. Stephen was a fan of folk music and was always ready for a sing-a-long with family and friends. He enjoyed strumming one of his many ukuleles from his extensive collection of musical instruments. Additionally, he collected antique repeater watches and 3 weight Vienna regulator clocks.
Stephen is survived by his mother, Annette Resnik Bulen of Camarillo; his brother, Hal of Reno, Nev.; his wife, Joyce; his children, Rebecca Pecsok (Mike), Rachel Miles (Howard), and Jeremy Resnik (Deanna); and his four grandchildren, Michael and Millie Pecsok and Megan and Grace Resnik. Additionally, he leaves his uncles, Sid Kordell (Shirley) and Hershel Resnik, and his cousin, Rodney Resnik (Anne) all of Camarillo. He also leaves behind his faithful golden retriever, Beau.
A proud family man, Stephen will be remembered for his kindness and caring nature. His family is his legacy.
A memorial service will be held at 11:30 a.m. Saturday, Jan. 2, 2010 at Camarillo Community Church, located at 1322 Las Posas Road in Camarillo. A private burial will take place on Monday, Jan. 4, at Conejo Mountain Memorial Park in Camarillo.
Contributions in his memory may be made to The Stephen Resnik Memorial Scholarship Fund, in care of The Ventura County Community Foundation (VCCF), 1317 Del Norte Rd., Camarillo, CA 93010.
Arrangements are under the care of Conejo Mountain Funeral Home and Memorial Park, 2052 Howard Road, Camarillo, 93012, 805-482-1959.
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Beth James
December 24, 2024
Remembering all the fun times we all had in Carpinteria. He will always be remembered.
Anne Miller
January 12, 2010
Dearest Joycie, Becca, Rachie, and JerBear (all names in the neighborhood in the late 60's)~
I was so sad recieving your note, Joycie, about losing your Stephen. What a wonderful man he was. My family has many fond memories of The Resniks and The Somis Nut House (even when it was a walnut shelling plant). I remember Stephen mulching your flower beds with walnut shells!
You kids are so lucky to have him as your dad. You are shining reflections of him. And what a great love he had for his grandkids. The world won't be the same without your Stephen. God bless each of you during this time of loss.
XO Anne Young Miller
January 11, 2010
Joyce and children
Such a sad time for you also. Steve was a dear man --gracious, well liked by Red and myself. My heart is with you all. God bless.
Gail Zehmer
January 6, 2010
Becca and family,
So sorry to hear about your Dad. He was such a nice and loving family man.
Condolences to you all.
Ellie, Jeff, Matt and Andrew Felder
Billy Magee
January 4, 2010
Just read of Mr Resnik,s passing . Have fond memories of the gentleman while coaching Jeremy in the Camarillo AYSO program .My wife and I extend our deepest sympathies to Mrs Resnik and her family.May God bless you all. Billy and Marj Johnson Magee. Cumming Georgia
Jessie & Walt McCoy
January 4, 2010
To The Resnik Family,
Jessie and I want you to know that you are in our thoughts. Steve was one the nicest people we have ever known. And we love you all.
Catherine McCoy-Schini
January 3, 2010
The Resnik Family,
So sorry to hear about your Dad. You are in our thoughts and we wish you much strength and peace at this time.
Deanne Holverson-Ball
January 2, 2010
I Know That He Was Always The Happy 2 See His Customers with A Big Hello If U Need Help Free2 Ask , I will Miss That Smile But Know You His Family Will be There Just Like He Was , GOD BE WITH U ALL
Nina Bagley
January 2, 2010
I never had the pleasure of meeting Steve first hand; it was only a brief nine years ago that I became acquainted with Joyce when she took an art class I was teaching at a retreat in Port Townsend, Washington. Through the years, Joyce and I have grown very close, and she has always spoken with great love and admiration about a husband to whom she was devoted and married for all those years. How often do you hear of that, these days? Love conquered so much for Joyce, and she adored Steve with all of her heart. There are many stories about Steve that she has shared with me throughout the years, and I'm so very sorry that he is now gone. I wish I could whisk myself out to California from North Carolina right now, so I could be there with hugs and cups of hot tea. Sending my love and condolences to Joyce and her dear family... xx
Cheryl
January 1, 2010
Dear Joyce and Family, I am so sorry for your deep lost.I have always been in awe of what a wonderful, loving and truly genuine family you are. Steve was one of the nicest man I have had the pleasure to have met, he will be missed by so many. My prayers are with you with love. Cheryl
Larry & Dorothy Ratto
January 1, 2010
Rebecca & Jeremy, we are so sad and sorry to hear about your dad. He was such a pleasant gentleman. Our condolences to you and your family.
January 1, 2010
Dear Joyce and the entire Resnik clan -
Lisa, the kids, and myself wish to express our sympathy and condolences to all of you.
Steve is such an inspiration to us all. His positive attitude and brave fight will make his memory all the more brighter for all.
Milt, Lisa, Matthew, & Leah Zweig
Jim Newton
January 1, 2010
I remember Steve from the days when we were undergraduates together at Stanford. He was always such a nice guy - good football player, too.
My condolences go to the family at this time of loss.
Nancy Harden
January 1, 2010
So many years ago, I watched you play football at Bell High School and wear your Letterman's jacket proudly. You graduated and moved away. A few years later so did I to Malibu, then Ojai. We met again one day in the 70's as you drove up in a sport's car to the Humane Society in Santa Paula, with a little dog to bring in. We we surprised and of course I had walnut orchards so we went from there. It has been twenty years since I had the orchards and you started the Somis Nut House. R.I.P. from a girl that remembered you in school and we both moved to Ventura Co. and became reacquainted.
Sandra (Hughan) Trenkmann
December 31, 2009
Oh my gosh. I am SO sorry! He was such a sweetheart, I will never forget him coming to my dads funeral, then to my own sons memorial and since he was dressed in a nice suit, I joked and said, well now you are going to have to give a speach, and he did! And it was wonderfull. I will sure miss him! So much! A credit to the nut industry! A wonderful man indeed. I will miss the "gifts" he gave me from the store.
December 31, 2009
I remember Mr. Resnik as a kind and funny man. Condolences to you, Mrs. Resnik, Beca, Rachel, Jeremy and families. I introduced my kids to the Somis Nut House when they were little and it is still a favorite stop when we visit VC.
Best wishes and deepest sympathies,
Heather McAvoy, Bruce Krempetz and family
Dorothy Douglas
December 31, 2009
I'm so sorry to read of your loss. My family and I have been customers for many, many years and Mr Resnik was always so nice and friendly. Then I moved away and when I return to visit, I always make the trip out to stock up on the many favorites. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers at this time of grief.
Ben/Dee Cardella
December 31, 2009
Ben and Dee Cardella and family were sorry to hear of Steve's passing. He had a one way ticket to heaven because he was always there to help someone in need. He was a great father, businessman and friend. Our prayers are with you.
December 31, 2009
Resnik Family, my thoughts and prayers are with you during these difficult times. Your father had a huge impact on many people and will be remembered for his kindness and generosity. He will be missed by all who met him. May God bless you all. The Medlens
December 31, 2009
To the Family of Mr. Resnik,
We had the pleasure of meeting your husband and Father,Grandfather many years ago and he always was the true gentleman. Whenever we stopped at the store and dint see his happy smiling face we always asked about him and Beau.
As we were there recently we were told he was doing well so tis was a shock.
You were all blessed with thisd wonderful and loving man in your lives. We had the pleasure of meeting him and until we all meet again may the Good Lord watch and take care of you all. Death is not the end its the start of another adventure! May you all have Peace knowing you willall reunite.
We both hope that The Somis Nut House stays in the family and continues Stephen wonderful ways. You have BIG shoes to fill.
GOD BLESS
Mr. & Mrs. G. Navarrete
Cassie Scollick
December 31, 2009
I love my cousins so very much! Bompa always made me smile, and I was very lucky to have shared a special moment with him before he passed. I will cherish that moment the rest of my life.
All my love,
Cassie <3
susie becerra
December 31, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Mike and Shirley Shannon
December 31, 2009
Joycie and Kids:
We have had to deal with too much sadness. We can't begin to tell you how sorry we are for your loss.
Mike and send our love and prayers for peace to attend you during this tragic transition.
Harvey Harris
December 31, 2009
Condolences to your family on Stephen's passing and hope the memories sustain you in your time of grief. We do remember both of you fondly from manyyears ago. Jessica and Harvey Harris
December 31, 2009
Rachel,
I am so saddened by the passing of your very special father. Even though I never met him I felt I knew him by your wonderful stories. My condolences to your entire family.
Love,
Diane Moreno
Stacy Phelps
December 31, 2009
I was stunned and saddened to learn of Mr. Resnik's passing. Much love, peace and sincere condolences to the Resnik family.
December 30, 2009
Rebecca & Millie,
We are sadden at your loss. We often stopped at Somis Nut House for treats and Stephen would always welcome us with a warm smile and a golden retriever at his side. He was a very humble loving kind man. God bless you all.
The Cristobal Family-Ed,Diane, E.J. Steven and Mailee
Dick Jaquez
December 30, 2009
Dear Family, Pam and I are sorry to hear of Steve's passing. Our thoughts are with you.
December 30, 2009
I met Stephen Resnik when I first moved to Calif. 25 years ago and joined Las Posas CC. I made many trips to the Somis Nut House and he was always so polite and kind. He donated many snack packs to many of our golf tournaments over the years even after I transferred over to Saticoy CC, he always remembered me. I am saddened by his passing and will miss his kind spirit. My condolences to his family. Joanne Riley
Harriet & James May
December 30, 2009
Dear Resnik Family: I first met Steve in 1970 when I was working for the U.S. Census in Saticoy & Somis. I got lost and found Ventura Walnut Shelling. I was given directions to get to where I needed to go and returned the next day with my husband. We have been customers ever since. Steve was a kind, warm gentleman and will be missed by many. Our deepest sympathy. Harriet & Jim May
Lita Singer
December 30, 2009
Stephen will be missed. His loving energy and sweet nature was an amazing attribute that was loved by all. I express my condolences to Joycie who bravely stood by his side during these difficult times, as well as his beautiful family, his children and his grandchildren. My heart is broken, I will miss him.
Lovingly,
Lita, Santa Barbara california
M Miller
December 30, 2009
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your husband and father. You could always count on a smile and some cheerful banter whenever you stopped in. He was old-school, a good man, a true gentleman. He will never be forgotten. May your memories comfort you at this time.
Tom & Beth James
December 30, 2009
Dear Joycie,
I've known Steven for 50 years and have never heard an unkind remark about him. He will live on in the hearts of all his family and friends.
Craig Robinson
December 30, 2009
We will miss you Steve. I know Beau will miss you greatly. --Craig Robinson
December 30, 2009
Dear Joyce,
You probably won't remember me and my family, but we have been coming to your store for many years. I remember when we would make speacial trips there with family members in town. I will miss Stephens smiling face when we came in. Our whole family sends our condolences to your family. Stephen will be in our hearts forever. Love Barry & Pamela Orr
December 30, 2009
Louie and I send our deepest sympathy on the loss of our dear dear friend Stephen. We will miss him. Our condolences to his beautiful family. We love you all. We share so many wonderful memories, over 50 years. Love, Jackie & Louie
Cuca & Angel Aramburo
December 30, 2009
Joyce,
Our condolences go out to you and the family. I feel like a part of your family, after knowing you since my teen years. I got to know "Esteban" pretty well, in all the years working at the Nut House, along with Angel. We are in disbelief, over his passing. The last time we saw him, when we went to visit at your home, he assured us he was fine. We are deeply saddened. Our hearts go out to you and the family. God Bless You.
December 30, 2009
Joycie dear,
This is such a beautiful tribute to a gentle loving man....
We love you....
Lots of warm hugs.
Annie & Rod
Bob & Patty Taylor
December 30, 2009
Our hearts go out to his wonderful family. May he rest in peace. He was so loved by all who knew him. May God give his family peace and serenity.
Bob and Patty Taylor
December 30, 2009
I remember Morrie and Steve at the country club from 1964-65 when I worked there. They were true gentlemen. I know he is missed dearly. Knowing the person he was, he will be with us always. He is one who leaves lasting memories that time does not erase. Our thoughts and Prayers are with you all in this time of great loss. Grace, Peace and Love. Ted & Julie Jensen
December 30, 2009
Becca and family...My heart goes out to you in this time of sorrow. Please accept my sympathies for your loss, as my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. May you turn to God as your comfort so he can embrace you in your time of need. Gods peace be with you, Diana Zegan-Rillo
December 30, 2009
It came as a total surprise that Stephen had left us for the life beyond. I'm simply a long time customer that experienced his warmth and presence. One must remember it is not only family members and friends that constitute our lives, but the daily contacts with everyone. God Bless. Dick Burrer
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