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CHARLES P. LORD
Died on August 17, 2016 of complications from Alzheimer''s. His spirit was huge and kindness towards every person he met lasted to the very end. His grandchildren called him "Big Guy", a reference not only to his height, but to his resonant laugh and back slapping hugs. He is remembered with fondness by the women whom he served as headmaster at St. Timothy''s School Baltimore and Holton-Arms School, Washington, DC. Charlie graduated from The Hotchkiss School, Yale University and received a Master''s of Philosophy in History from St. Andrew''s University. After college, he served in the Air Force. He became an educator in his 40s after a successful career in international business. He was a pioneer in issues of diversity in independent schools and equal opportunity for women. Charlie''s courage to switch careers in his 40s was an inspiration to his family and to his children''s generation. Charlie was Director of the Washington Bureau of Children''s Express and continued to support educational attainment for children of all backgrounds as Founding Board Member of DreamYard. He also was on the Boards of National Cathedral School and American College of Sofia.Charlie is survived by his wife, Gay; sons, Charles and Thomas; daughter, Deirdre, brother, the Honorable Winston Lord; and beloved five living grandchildren. A service will take place October 29, in New York, NY at St. Michael''s Church. In lieu of flowers, send donations to Cameron and Hayden Lord Foundation, 110 Riverside Dr., 12-C, New York, NY 10024, a foundation honoring grandchildren Hayden and Cameron or to Alzheimer''s Association, Box 96011 Washington, DC 20090.
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Kirsten Schwiesow
February 11, 2017
After reconnecting with a staff member from Children's Express, I searched Charlie Lord's name and found the news of his passing. He had an amazing spirit, an infectious laugh, an inspiring soul and he touched my life profoundly for the better. I thank you for sharing him with Children's Express. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Nell Hampton
December 16, 2016
Gay,
We just learned of Charlie's death from cousin Shelly Barth.
I have such fond memories of you and Charlie at Holton. In particular, our brief show business career with Charlie as Elvis, and you as part of our "Baby Love " chorus line. I cherish our times together. All the best, Nell Hampton
Harvey Doster
September 11, 2016
I just found out about Charlie's death and find myself quite sad. Charlie introduced me to St Tim's in 1984 and I have remained. His heart was huge. He was the grandfather to all the girls at the school. When he retired, his portrait was in the HMAC. I would look at it everyday and smile. His presence was always with me.
Harvey Doster
William Bao Bean
August 31, 2016
Heartfelt condolences. Over the years have bumped into folks across Asia from Hanoi to Shanghai who knew Uncle Charlie and related some very funny stories
Jazzi Rhodes
August 29, 2016
I send my sincerest condolences to the Lord family. Mr. Lord was more than my benefactor and I always looked forward to writing to him. I still keep both of his letters in my backpack and treasure them as if he were a penpal.
Becky & Bill Ross
August 29, 2016
We remember Charlie Lord as a bright,engaging, worldly and valuable addition to the faculty and staff at Maumee Valley Country Day School.
Becky and I are so very fortunate to have known him and his family. We are better people for having him as a friend
August 29, 2016
Dear Gay - So,so saddened to learn of Charlie's death. Many fond memories of the Lords and Morrows together. Our thoughts are with you, and we send much love to you, Deirdre, Charlie and Tim. Hope to see you soon. Fondly, Barbara and Ed
john Horn
August 29, 2016
Dear Gay,
So deeply saddened to read of Charlie's passing away. I remember with great fondness my room mate at Yale and friend from long, long ago at The Buckley. A great man has slipped away. Love to you and to the family. John Horn
August 28, 2016
Dear dear Gay, it is with great shock and sorrow that I received the sad news of Charlie's death. He was such a good, kind, smart,fun, entertaining,and loyal friend, and we were privileged to be in his orbit. You two were devoted friends of my parents until they died, and of course the two of you have meant the world to me! I will cherish all the fond memories and laughs and time spent together. I send you and yours my love and devotion during this difficult time, Barbara Reed (and Tim)
August 28, 2016
An amazing man. Our thoughts are with you.
Tom and Martha
Holly (Smith) Lynde
August 28, 2016
Mr. Lord - as he will always be known to us Holton women - was the headmaster during all my years there. His door was always open to us and I will forever remember him hanging out with us as seniors in our lounge. He was a generous, kind, and gregarious man who had a profound impact on my life. I will always cherish his memory.
August 27, 2016
Please except my condolences. May the God of Creation give you comfort and strength. I know Mt. Lord will be deeply missed.
August 27, 2016
I first met Charlie when he was secretary of the board of ACCION International. He and Gay hosted me many times when he was Head of St. Timothy's School in Maryland. A great friend and an outstanding educator. Betts and I send our sincere condolences to Gay and his family.
Bob Helander
August 27, 2016
My son Levi was so lucky to have been held by the Big Guy just the weekend before he passed. Big Guy's laugh was contagious and thankful Levi has the same trait. You are in our thoughts each and every day.
Love,
Winston Jr., Stephanie and Levi
Grace Downes
August 26, 2016
He was such a gentleman always knew how to make you smile. Will miss his big laugh and serving him at the restaurant as he always call his kitchen.
Gone but will never be forgotten
Mary-Audrey Weicker Mellor
August 26, 2016
So sorry to hear of Charlie's death. He was a great head master at St. Tims and influenced many girls future in the best way. Condolences to his family. Mary-Audrey Weicker Mellor, Class of 1951.
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