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Charles Edward Silva II

1952 - 2022

Charles Edward Silva II obituary, 1952-2022, Washington, DC

Charles Silva Obituary

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CHARLES EDWARD SILVA II "Chuck"

Passed away peacefully on April 4, 2022, in Richmond, VA, surrounded by his family. He was born December 30, 1952, in Houston, TX, to Ruth Sheets and Theodore Deane Silva. Born into an Air Force family, Chuck lived all over during his childhood; moving from Houston, to Omaha, Sacramento, Aguadilla, PR, and Holyoke, MA before finally settling in Alexandria, VA, which Chuck always thought of as "home". There, Chuck made many lifelong friends and graduated from Fort Hunt High School in 1971. Chuck attended the University of South Florida and earned a bachelor's degree in Civil Engineering. Chuck would also go back to school to earn two master's degrees: one in National Security from National Defense University and one in Public Administration from George Washington University.



After graduation, Chuck moved to San Diego to work for Naval Air Systems Command and enjoyed the CA lifestyle windsurfing and scuba diving. He moved back to Alexandria, VA, serving in many logistics capacities for NAVAIR, among them as Director of Logistics for the V-22 Osprey Program. Chuck then became the Director of Integrated Support for the Office of the Secretary of the Navy and finally Senior Policy Analyst for the Office of the Secretary of Defense. Chuck had 30-year distinguished career as a Civil Servant, earning two Department of the Navy Meritorious Civilian Service Awards. After retiring from Federal Service, Chuck had a 13-year career at CACI as a Consultant, Program Manager and finally Senior Principal Acquisition Analyst.



Chuck also served for 27 years as an Officer in the United States Navy Reserves, specifically with the 23rd Mobile Construction Battalion Seabees, where he rose to the rank of Captain. In 2000, under his command, NMCB23 was awarded the RADM John R. Perry Award.



Throughout his life Chuck was an active volunteer. He raised funds for and served on the Board of the Seabee Memorial Scholarship Association. He was on the Vestry of St. Luke's Episcopal Church, sang in the church choir and stepped up to help anyone in the community.



At an Oktoberfest in MD, he met the love of his life, Meg. They began dating shortly after and were married in 1988. Chuck and Meg were blessed with the joy of their lives, sons Christopher and Patrick. The Silvas made their home in Alexandria, VA, before Chuck and Meg ultimately retired to Richmond.



As a husband, he was a steadfast, loving, and loyal partner and enjoyed immeasurable happiness in his marriage to Meg. As a father, he was devoted to his two sons and strived to give them the best life possible. He taught them many things, but particularly emphasized the value of a life of kindness, hard-work, and service to others. Chuck had an immense appreciation for life and all that it had to offer. From music to sports, the love of a good meal to the love of a good laugh, from moments of sadness to those of visceral happiness; Chuck recognized that all things had their place in life and made sure to savor every moment of it.



He is survived by his loving wife of 34-years, Meg Murtaugh Silva, his precious sons, Christopher Silva and Patrick Silva, dearest brother Theodore "Ted" Silva II (Gabriela) adoring in-laws: Mindy Murtaugh, Mary Murtaugh Shaw (Henry), Frank Murtaugh, Christopher Murtaugh; special nieces and nephews, Emily Murtaugh, Moira Murtaugh, Stephanie Hohlweg, William Murtaugh and Russell Buhr.



Chuck's Celebration of Life is Thursday, May 12, 2022, at 2 p.m., Saint Luke's Episcopal Church, 8009 Fort Hunt Road, Alexandria, VA. In lieu of flowers, Chuck would be honored by donations to the Seabee Memorial Scholarship Association, where a scholarship has been established in his name www.seabee.org/donate (designate CAPT Chuck Silva as the honoree) or to CLL Leukemia Society www.cllsociety.org

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Published by The Washington Post on Apr. 29, 2022.

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Elizabeth Shevock

April 25, 2023

We loved being your next door neighbors and miss you every day. Love, Elizabeth , Bob, Ben, Alex and Nick (and Lila and George)

Curtis Ayers

April 23, 2023

Chuck, it's been a year my friend since the Lord took you Home. I sure do miss you and look forward to seeing you again in Paradise.

Kevin and Glenda Kiddoo

May 16, 2022

What a joy it was to share a babysitter and a friendship with the Silvas! So saddened by this news and sending prayers for peace and comfort to Meg, Chris, and Patrick.

Debi Lynch Sorber

May 11, 2022

We were neighbors on Blakiston Lane in Stratford Landing, during our Fort Hunt High School years! Our parents were close friends - I was blessed having Chuck as a friend and neighbor, since we were only one year apart. Sending love & prayers to Chuck´s family-

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Curtis Ayers and Veronica Ayers

May 4, 2022

Meg, Christopher, Patrick and the Silva and Murtaugh extended families, please accept our condolences and love during this difficult time. Some of the best memories I have are with Chuck who I considered one of my closest friends and my mentor on the EA-6B and V-22 Programs. He was smart and confident and always so positive and was a great leader. Chuck was a great guy and he will always be a special part of my life. Meg I will continue to send his big box of birthday Jelly Bellys to you and your sons. Since heaven doesn´t have Fed Express, you all can enjoy them in memory of Chuck. He was the ultimate Southern gentleman who enjoyed his life and dearly loved his family. My wife, Veronica, met Chuck and you when we attended Chuck´s retirement ceremony at the Pentagon. We enjoyed that time with you and Chuck at his retirement luncheon where he was surrounded by family, colleagues and friends. Chuck was one of a kind that had charisma and never met a stranger with that big smile of his. I will miss him.
Until we meet again my friend...

John W. Eggeman

May 3, 2022

My most sincere condolences to the Silva family. I was a classmate of Chuck´s way, way back in the Fort Hunt HS days; sadly lost touch over the decades but remember those HS days & Chuck quite well. He was a good friend, always upbeat, cheerful - had a great sense of humor. He did some very funny impersonations ergo, Howard Cosell, John Wayne. He was also a serious student, very bright, hard worker, enormous potential - he had a plan way back then. Its no surprise he had such an enormously successful career in civil service & Naval reserve. We had conversations at reunions over the years & it was good to see him & others at those gatherings...latest was just a few years ago. Again, my condolences. I am deeply saddened at this news & know how much he will be missed.

Dave Marasco CAPT (Ret), CEC, USN

May 3, 2022

My sincerest condolences to Chuck's family. It was a pleasure serving with him during our tour at Second Brigade.

Frank Giordano Cdr. CEC, ret.

May 3, 2022

My sincerest condolences to the Silva family!
I met Chuck as Ensign Silva many moons ago! We crossed paths numerous times during our navy careers! From first we met through all our both careers I find Chuck to be a true professional with shining attributes of honesty and integrity!
Besides all that he was a great guy to be around! Always upbeat and fun to be around!
I am truly sorry to learn of his passing. He will be missed by all of us!
Rest In Peace Captain Silva!

Paula Brown, RADM (Ret), CEC, USN

May 2, 2022

Condolences to Meg and family; a loss too soon.
Chuck was a consummate professional, full of inspiration and had a smile for everyone. He exemplified the Seabee "Can Do" spirit. I will always have fond memories of serving with Chuck.

CAPT Rich Kinard, USN (Ret)

May 2, 2022

Chuck was "one-of-a-kind".... Professional, hard-working and always dependable on the job. Personable, fun-loving and sincere off the job. It was a pleasure to work with and relax with Chuck. We´ll all miss him.

Colleen Fitzgibbons-Talarico

May 2, 2022

To the entire Silva and Murtaugh families,
I´m so very sorry for your loss of such a wonderful husband, dad, uncle and, to our family, friend. So many wonderful memories we all share and cherish. Love to all of you.
Colleen

Debi Burns Sommer

May 1, 2022

Dear Meg, Christopher, Patrick and extended family, God bless you and keep you close. God certainly gained an angel , what a marvelous legacy ! My deepest sympathies for the sadness of his loss; may You feel Gods comforting arms around you and may you find comfort in all your wonderful memories. With much love The Burns Family Carmen Rosemary Debi John Linda and Cheryl and families

Philmaine Burks

April 30, 2022

sending my love and sympathy to the family.
God bless you all and wrap his arms around you in this time of sorrow.

John and Noreen Thomas

April 30, 2022

Meg , we are so sad to hear of Chuck´s death . I was so pleased to have some time with you and Chuck at your Mom´s memorial . No words make much sense now , but to know you will always feel his love and presence in your heart . Love to all , Noreen and John

William Stahler

April 29, 2022

I had the dual honor of serving with Chuck at NAVAIR and of being an ICAF classmate. He will be missed.

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