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ELISE AYERS Obituary


AYERS ELISE LARKIN AYERS Mother, Daughter, Wife, Sister, Friend, Colleague, Citizen of the World, Humanitarian, Lover of Life Elise was born on September 1, 1965 and left us too soon on November 23, 2014. Elise grew up in Foxboro, Massachusetts and graduated from Foxboro High School. Elise went on to graduate from Skidmore College with degrees in Biology and Psychology, and earned a Masters in Public Health from Boston University. From an early age she excelled in academics, was active, curious about other cultures, and interested in helping others. In 1997, Elise joined the Peace Corps, working in Togo, West Africa. It was a job that changed her life course, and ignited her passion for international health and development. Elise began her service with U.S. Agency for International Development in 2000. She moved to Uganda, and played multi-faceted leadership roles in combatting AIDS. Her work received a "Superior Honor" Award in 2011 for her tireless efforts to improve health and education. In her most recent position as Director of the Office of Country Support in Washington, D.C., she advanced global partnerships aimed at fostering a supportive relationship between Washington and the field. Elise's approach to everything was total immersion, and her personal life was no different. She built a community for herself in Kampala that still centers around her orbit. Her co-workers and friends alike were drawn to her humor, intelligence, warmth, exuberance and ability to cut through to what was most important. It was in Uganda where she met her husband Ben and children Ditton and Lucy. Their family expanded with the arrival of their daughters, first Issadora, then Zalira. Parenting was perhaps Elise's greatest calling of all. Elise delighted in serving as mentor and advocate for her elder kids, and as nurturer and role model for her younger ones. Her entire extended family shined in the bright light of her unconditional love, and benefitted from her sometime challenging and probing nudges to excel beyond what we thought possible. Elise's earliest career endeavors showed dedication to women's health issues, dying with dignity, and cancer prevention. When more recent life events caused her to deal with these issues more personally, she took on the challenge with the same spiritedness and optimism that has been her hallmark. Elise is survived by her husband, Benedict (Ben) Bamulumbye, children Ditton, Lucy, Issadora and Zalira, parents Charlene Kaye (Vince Agostino), Russell Ayers, and Marge McNaughton, brothers Colin (Tanja) and Chris (Kelly), nephews Ian and Lukas, niece Helen and countless friends across the globe. Relatives and friends may call at Collins Funeral Home, 500 University Blvd., West, Silver Spring, MD on Sunday, November 30, from 2 to 4 p.m. with a celebration of Elise's life at 2:30 p.m. Elise requested that we wear bright colors, and come prepared to share memories and music. In lieu of flowers, please honor Elise with a donation to the National Ovarian Cancer Coalition: www.ovarian.org, 2501 Oak Lawn Avenue, Suite 435, Dallas, TX 75219 or a similar charity of your choice. In lieu of flowers, please honor Elise with a donation to the National Ovarian Cancer Coalition: www.ovarian.org, 2501 Oak Lawn Avenue, Suite 435, Dallas, TX 75219 or a similar charity of your choice.

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Published by The Washington Post from Nov. 28 to Nov. 30, 2014.

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Michelle Eastman

November 21, 2023

I still miss you every day
Love
Michelle

Gordon Twesigye

November 20, 2023

I will always remember you Elise for the great work you did in Uganda as part of the US Mission towards addressing HIV/AIDS challenge in the country.

Charlene Kaye

November 20, 2020

As I read through the condolences for my daughter, Elise Ayers I was so grateful for all the people who knew her. Elise was a wonderful person with all of the attributes mentioned. I had the wonderful gift of knowing all the attributes mentioned as I watched her grow into the person written about.She truly was the person written about. As her Mother A day does not go by that I miss hearing her voice which sometimes was full of love and other times, correction for my words, actions. I was as a Mother never offended for her criticism or "MOM!"....
Sometimes she hung up the phone when we were "discussing", She probably was right!! Not a holiday celebration happens without missing her laugh, love and laughter. All children are special to a Mother and Elise was----is--- no exception.

Amy Cunningham

November 20, 2019

Hey my friend! We continue to celebrate your life and think of you often. Love you loads xxxxx Amy,Hey my friend! We continue to celebrate your life and think of you often. Love you loads xxxxx Amy

Beth Mannix Ferrando

December 16, 2016

We were neighbors years ago in Newbury, MA. I always think of the Ayers family and the fun we had together, especially when I go back to visit that area. Was searching to locate and saw the news of Elise's passing. Her obituary is amazing. What a wonderful woman! What a wonderful gift. I am sure she is missed. - Beth Mannix Ferrando

Rhobbinah

February 27, 2016

My dear Elise , you are dearly missed. Rest in peace.

December 27, 2014

So sorry for your loss 1Pet.5:7 "Throw your burdens on God because he cares for you".

Marcus and Deborah Moore

December 4, 2014

Thank you for the kindness,love,support and understanding you have shown people from across the world.....You are truly an angel and your warm spirited friendship will be missed....Love to your family

December 4, 2014

Our condolences from the DePue family in Montana. Keeping you all in our prayers.

Stephanie Madrigal

December 2, 2014

Elise, Izzy and Zalira have been welcome additions to our Girl Scout family over the last year Troop 2894 Silver Spring. Elise will be missed. I know I speak for all the Girl Scout families when I say we hope to see the girls continue in our troop and please reach out to us for rides or other support. It was my pleasure to know Elise even for a short time. I am very sad to hear the news.

December 2, 2014

We are very sorry to learn of Elise's passing but grateful for her service to our nation with the Peace Corps in Togo.

-National Peace Corps Association

Colin Ayers

December 2, 2014

Gordon Twesigye

December 2, 2014

Elise, you will always be remembered by the families and communities of the thousands of vulnerable children that you supported with USG resources to bring back hope into their lives

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Amy Cunningham

December 1, 2014

Elise...I know you are with me so no words needed. But to your family, Ben and the kids...please know that we greatly appreciate the gift of this wonderful, wild and wacky woman! Thank you for sharing her with us. And please accept our deepest condolences. Elise was my colleague but became much more than that - a confidante, an advisor, a role model, and most importantly - a dear friend. She loved all of your fiercely and didn't want to leave you. Or leave any of us. What a great impression she made and what great contributions! To the national HIV program in Ugandam especially the orphan and vulnerable children programs, to the various partners and programs she helped, to all of us - her dear friends, but most importantly her dedication to all of you - her family. I'm sure she is smiling down upon you and all of us right now. Telling us to smile, take a walk, take a break, be happy. Xxx RIP my friend

Alice Giordano

December 1, 2014

Elise, we stood together a lot in high school and exchanged lots of our young, light-hearted jaded outlook on life. You were so damn funny! Gone so young and yet you lived it seems hundreds of years in your pursuits, accomplishments, and apparent love for humanity. I am honored to have been able to call you my classmate. May we all be humbled by the great footsteps you have left behind...

Claudia Hudspeth

December 1, 2014

Elise you were an amazing colleague and mentor. Your loss will be felt by all of us.

Ron Kamara

December 1, 2014

Gone too soon. Rest in peace dear Elise.

Alex Queenie

December 1, 2014

She will always be part of Uganda Ultimate Frisbee community. We will miss you Elise. Rest in Peace.

Jules Musekura

December 1, 2014

Elise I only met you a few times during my holiday visits to my native Uganda and I did not fail to see and feel how you impacted my people and my family. Heaven has indeed gained and we will keep your light shining through the great memories you have left here on earth. Elise my memory of you is seeing pictures of you beautifully clad in a busuti -our traditional garment at Andrew and Patricia Kyambadde's kwanjula. I thought who is this smart muzungu in a busuti? You were fab dear. Ben, the children and your family, it will be well. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Alyce Nakagwa

December 1, 2014

I had heard about you several times! You were an inspiration to my brother Andrew Kyambadde. Rest in Peace Elise!

December 1, 2014

Elise, we miss you so much!!! Rest In Peace angel. Patricia and Andrew Kyambadde, Kampala-Uganda.

November 30, 2014

To the Family of Elise Ayers: May you be comforted by the outpouring of love surrounding the family as you celebrate Elise's life. With great sorry and much sympathy, it is my prayer that God easies the pain and fills your heart and mind with peace as you deal with this loss. - McGrath Jean Thomas

November 30, 2014

May the God of comfort and strength be your source of help at this time.

Michelle Eastman

November 30, 2014

I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. She was such an awesome woman. I will miss her. Much love

November 30, 2014

Charlene, I will always remember how smart and funny Elise was. Your pride in her work and her family was evident as you shared stories with us. My heart is breaking for you and I know you will cherish the time you had with her. I know she realized what a great mother and grandmother you are. Love Margaret Willits

Mr and Mrs Tingira and And family

November 30, 2014

Elise, we will miss u, a true friend, a sister to all. You are with your God, we trust. Mr and Mrs Tingira and Family - Kampala Uganda.

November 30, 2014

With sympathy and love, Barbara Brunner

Peter Cowley

November 30, 2014

Dear Ben, kids and Ayers Family. We know that it is difficult to understand how she is gone. It is also so hard to see how such a generous, kind, witty, dedicated and beautiful wife, mother and daughter can be taken from you and the family she grew up with. Please know that you are not the only ones who were touched by Elise. There are not only her friends and colleagues who give thanks in knowing this true "one of a kind" person, but literally millions of people in Uganda currently benefiting from her professional efforts. You will never be forgotten my friend.

Alison McCarthy

November 29, 2014

So sorry for your loss. She was always a very smart and kind person, so proud of her achievements in her life!

Alison Baker-McCarthy

Jan Blaisdell

November 29, 2014

So, so sorry for your loss. Elise was a wonderful friend to our family. She even threw a surprise birthday party or my daughter, Johann when they were young. She loved going to concerts at Foboro stadium. Hearfelt sympathy to all.

Anne Marie Keller (Green)

November 29, 2014

So very sorry for your loss. Thinking of all of you and sending thoughts and prayers.

Sue Cowley

November 29, 2014

Elise, I am so devastated - you have been taken far too soon. Since your passing my mind has been full of all those wonderful memories we shared, our family camping trips in Nabugabu, vehicles loaded to the brim!! Halloweens spent in Jinja, our running group, badminton and volleyball parties, dinner parties, work gatherings, so many wonderful times together. It has been an absolute honour to know you. Your inner strength, beauty, love and commitment as a mother, wife, friend, aid worker were inspirational. Always striving to do the right thing. You are and always will be an enduring example to all of us left behind mourning your loss. With your 'tough nut' exterior - you weren't fooling anyone - we all knew how much love you had to give. I love you, rest well my friend. Sue xxx

November 28, 2014

Elise, you were such a wonderful young person at St. Mark's. I enjoyed your humor and also your love of all of us, young or old. You will be missed. Nancy Sullivan

November 28, 2014

Elise spent her life in pursuit of improving the lives of others. Very sorry for your loss.

ERS, Chicago

November 27, 2014

so sorry for your loss our condolences / the webber family

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November 27, 2014

My I Iove -girlfriend! You gave us the gift of life- never give up. Our hearts are heavy but we endure with your spirit of eternal optimism. I am forever grateful. With love to your family!

Sarah Margiotta

November 27, 2014

Love and condolences to the family for your loss.

Elise was an amazing woman who touched the lives of so, so many people. She will be greatly missed.

Marc D Dagbovi

November 27, 2014

I'm deeply saddened by the passing of Elise who had served in my native Togo early in her life. Her memory will live on in West Africa as well as East Africa. May she rest in Peace.

Diane Denekamp-Gibson

November 27, 2014

So very sad to hear of Elise's passing. She was beautiful person - full of life and spirit. My favorite memory of Elise was when she pushed Charlene in the lake during a Camp Dennen Memorial Weekend - and Charlene laughed and hugged her and thought it was great. Heaven has gained a real spitfire. Rest in peace, dear Elise.

Jeffrey Ashley

November 27, 2014

Rest in peace my friend. You led a noble, honorable, heroic life and I will always remember you. You were loved and you leave behind a most remarkable legacy in your family, friends and work. Well done, my friend. Well done!

R. Pike

November 27, 2014

My Condolences and Love!

Elizabeth Bristol

November 27, 2014

So, so sorry . . .

Mary Pat Kieffer

November 27, 2014

To the Ayers family and all of those who loved Elise,

I am so saddened by this news and send my deepest condolences. I am not surprised that Elise requested bright colors, memories and music - she represented all of that to those who knew her.

I'm sorry that I can't be there with all of you -

chris damulira

November 27, 2014

Elise, the Lord keep your contributions in Uganda shining,your love and dedication to the health sector stay alive for ever.

November 27, 2014

I'm very sorry for your loss. Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead, and loving memories to forever hold in your hands. May God continue to comfort your family (Psalm 9:9,10).

November 26, 2014

Dear Ayers Family, Elise will be so missed. Our hearts go out to you as you transition without her. Our love, Ken and Marilee

Melissa Driscoll

November 26, 2014

Collin and Tanja, we are so sorry for your loss.

Melissa and Tom Driscoll

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