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Frank Charles Carlucci III
On Sunday, June 3, 2018, Frank Charles Carlucci III, age 87, died peacefully at his home in McLean, VA. He was the beloved husband of Marcia Myers Carlucci, loving father of three children, Frank Charles Carlucci IV, Karen Romano and Kristin Carlucci Weed and grandfather to Joey, Marina, Anna, Amelia, Charlotte and Grayson. A Celebration of Life Service will be held on Wednesday, June 27, 2018 at 11 a.m. at the National Presbyterian Church, 4101 Nebraska Avenue, NW, Washington, DC 20016. Interment Arlington National Cemetery on Tuesday, June 26, 2018 at 1 pm. Please enter through the Memorial Gate". In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Carlucci American International School, C/O American International Schools Foundation, PO Box 5910, Princeton, NJ 08543-5910. Online condolences may be made at: www.murphyfuneralhomes.com
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for FRANK CARLUCCI
Frank Finelli
June 25, 2018
"Mr. C", we can never adequately thank you for your leadership and mentorship over decades. We praise God for the time we were blessed to share with you and keep your family in our prayers.
June 22, 2018
It was my privilege to work for Secretary Carlucci twice. He was such a gentleman and statesman. Condolences to the family.
June 18, 2018
Psalm 90:10 says that the days of our years are 70 years, And of because of special mightiness they are 80 years. May the memories of the wonderful times you shared together bring a smile and joy in your heart.
June 17, 2018
My condolences to the family. May you have many fond memories that bring you comfort in your time of grief. Romans 15:13.
June 17, 2018
Those who pass on God Keeps in his memory because he cares for them. Sorry for your loss.
June 17, 2018
May the God of all comfort strengthen the family during this time of deep sorrow. Those who pass on, God keeps in his memory because they are precious in his eyes. My sincerest condolences. (Psalms 116:15)
Lou Goeringer
June 11, 2018
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Frank's passing.
We were friends since 8th grade at Wyoming Seminary in Kingston, PA and we were both 5-day boarders.
Frank would often come home with me to Lake Louise for the weekend and my parents always looked forward to seeing him.
I followed his unbelievable career over the years with great pride for all his accomplishments, and the many honors he received while serving under five different presidents.
I will miss him very much and express my heartfelt sympathy to his loving wife Marcia.
Lou Goeringer
Jenn Weiss
June 9, 2018
Wishing you peace at this difficult time. I feel lucky to have known Frank and love every member of the Carlucci family.
Alan Weinberger
June 9, 2018
Dear Marcia- I consider Frank to be a special friend for many years, which developed as we partnered on the tennis court, a true love of his, perhaps over 150 times over the last 10 years. He wanted to win, but win or lose, he treated those two imposters both the same , as any true gentleman would.
Jim Thomason
June 8, 2018
Dear Marcia,
I just learned today of Franks passing on June 3rd, and I want to express my deepest condolences, and those of my wife Lan as well, for your and your familys loss. I considered Frank a dear friend, and have a great many fond memories of him, on the tennis court (with you and with others), at his and my private lunches, and concerning his great help to me in building a strategic risk assessment approach for national security prioritization (which we call IRAMM). I miss Frank a great deal, and I want you to know how much I cared.
If there is anything I may do to help at this difficult time, please dont hesitate to let me know.
With all best wishes,
Jim Thomason
9525 Baccarat Drive
Fairfax, VA 22032
703-389-1314
[email protected]
Reagan White House National Security Council
Jacqueline Tillman Harty
June 5, 2018
Frank Carlucci was my boss when he served as President Reagan's National Security Advisor. He taught me about the importance of rigor. "This is the last stop before the Oval Office," he would admonish, "we have to get it right." And we often did. He was pleasant, humorous, accomplished. May he rest in peace. My deep condolences and prayers for Frank and his family.
Anita Downey
June 4, 2018
Anita Downey
June 4, 2018
Marine security guards <br />Portugal 1977
Anita Downey
June 4, 2018
Anita Downey
June 4, 2018
My late husband Thomas l Downey and I had the honor of knowing Frank and Marcia in Portugal.
Tom was a young Marine with the awesome task of Marine secure guard for the embassy.
We quickly became a family in very difficult times. Franks dedication to the important mission at hand inspired many young Marines. My family knows all the good times we shared. Casino nights, dinners and movie nights.
Heavens gates welcomed a wonderful person, father and husband.
steve roberts
June 4, 2018
Rest in Peace, you served your county with honor.
David Brych
June 4, 2018
Rest in peace Frank - you performed as an officer and gentleman throughout your career. Thank you for your friendship through the years.
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