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Alan & Carol Schlaifer
August 3, 2021
Just learned about Frank's passing, and totally shocked and saddened. A true rock star - in so many ways - is gone, far too soon. If there were a lawyer's Walk of Fame, Frank's star would be on it, sparkling like his wit.
Heartfelt condolences from us to Debi and Frank's entire family.
jeff oettinger
April 13, 2021
I was shocked and saddened to hear this and will keep the Carmel family in my prayers. He was always kind to me and while our relationship was on the lighter level, he was always keeping me up to date on his family and children's lives and asking about mine all the same. He will be missed greatly.
Dwight Bush
April 13, 2021
My sincerest condolences on the loss of Frank Carmel. I was a frequent player of golf with Frank at Bethesda Country Club. I always looked forward top playing with him because of his easy going manner. Most importantly, we shared an interest in classical rock music. We could both sing the words of really obscure classics roach songs that no one in our groups knew, and we would then share a laugh. We also often talked our families, and he greatly loved you all. I will miss Frank greatly. May he Rest In Peace.
Respectfully yours,
Ambassador Dwight Bush
Susan Scharbach
March 31, 2021
While working in NYC regulating timeshares I met Frank and also his family many years ago at ARDA and Land Council meetings. He was kind, funny, informative and sharing of his knowledge of the industry. He had a great sense of humor and, in advocating for his clients, was always knowledgeable, creative and hard working. He was also considerate and supportive of the attorneys who worked for him.
My condolences to his family and friends. I am sure he will be greatly missed.
Janis Ehlers
March 29, 2021
I was so saddened to learn about Frank's passing. I admired him so much. We meet at an AARC conference many years ago and he was so gracious to me. He always extended an invitation to come and have lunch when I was in the area. It was so amazing he found time in his day to simply get together with someone and learn about them. I also thought it was so admirable that his professional career didn't define him as it does for many lawyers and he had so many other interests and talked about how much he enjoyed playing in a band. His loss is a tragedy.
Simone Taylor
March 28, 2021
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of God,family and friends. Please except my condolences.
David Lazarus
March 28, 2021
Frank was my favorite uncle. I was his eldest nephew. From the time I was single digits, I realized that Frank was great with kids. I always had fun with him when he was around. He would tickle me, tell jokes, let me ride on his back. He even let me drive his car as a young kid while sitting in his lap. Having said that, I remember a time when Frank took Matt, Judd and me to a store. He had us wait in the car. So, we decided to play a joke on him by moving the car into a different parking space. I honestly don’t remember the outcome. He probably wasn’t happy, but took it in stride nevertheless. I also remember a couple of occasions when Frank brought fireworks to his parents’ house on the fourth of July. While he set off the more elaborate ones, he would let us kids fire off bottle rockets. We also had great fun at his parents’ pool in the summer. He would “rock the pool” with us by making big splashes jumping off the diving board. He was always jovial and larger than life.
Frank was a legendary joke teller. He knew all sorts of story jokes. The kind I could never remember. They were always hilarious. I would beg him to tell me a dirty joke as a kid and he finally obliged with, “A white horse fell in a mud puddle.”
Frank introduced me to two of the best progressive rock bands back in the early 80s. The first being Yes. Then, after pleading with him to tell me of another keyboard player as good as Rick Wakeman, he introduced me to Emerson Lake and Palmer. As I recall, Frank also introduced me to King Crimson. Frank and Debi attended a King Crimson concert with me in 1995. If memory serves, they also both attended an Emerson Lake and Palmer concert with me in 1992. I still very much enjoy their music to this day as well as a whole host of other progressive rock bands. Thanks to Frank, progressive rock is one of my favorite genres.
While visiting Frank as a young adult, I always had great fun playing his synthesizer and grand piano. Though I mostly noodled around, Frank was always quite tolerant. He even tolerated my singing. Frank and I always had great conversations on a variety of topics. Though, since we both loved music, many of our conversations were about bands that we both enjoyed. Later into adulthood, Frank and I butted heads on a few occasions. However, I loved him very much and Frank will always be my favorite uncle. I already miss him dearly.
Ray Oneglia
March 28, 2021
Enjoyed many days of humor and friendship with Frank at the Golden Door. He truly was a unique individual in so many ways.
Ruth and Richard Crone
March 26, 2021
We were shocked so sadden to read about Frank's passing. We so enjoyed you and your family as neighbors on Clearwood Road for many years. Hard to believe that your wonderful children are all grown up and Mason is married! We are now in Virginia Beach. Our daughter was a teacher at Kecoughtan H.S. the year we arrived. Small world. Please know that we are thinking about all of you and send our sincere sympathy. The obituary was beautiful....a life well lived. Love Ruth and Dick
Kevin
March 26, 2021
I never had the pleasure to meet Frank but I have worked with Debi when she has volunteered for the organization for which I work. Debi is a cherished volunteer and has helped so many. She spoke highly of her husband and how his work helped inspire her interest in volunteering with us. For that I am eternally grateful. I am saddened by this tragic loss and have Frank, Debi and their family in my thoughts and prayers. There are no words that can truly comfort when a loved one is lost but Debi, I want you to know that myself and the victim advocates that you help support are here for you.
Robert Mills
March 26, 2021
We were good childhood friends. We played baseball in Phoebus Little League and went through school together, graduating from Kecoughtan High School. We also attended Virginia Tech together. It has been a great joy to be in communication with him the last few years. Always a great spirit. My condolences to the family.
Alaha Ahrar
March 25, 2021
I want to express my condolences to Frank's wife Debbie and his entire families.
Best regards,
Alaha Ahrar
Marta Bleich
March 25, 2021
Frank came into my son Keiran's life as his boss, but became his greatest mentor and friend. I have the greatest appreciation for all the time, help and experience he shared with a young college student starting out and growing into an accomplished lawyer. Without Frank's guidance it would certainly been a much more difficult path. Thank you Frank and Deb, Keiran still talks of you all often and his many years with you..thinking of you and sending love from the Midwest..
Pam Hale Johnson
March 25, 2021
My deepest sympathies to Frank’s family and all who loved him.
Maureen Makarechi
March 25, 2021
Debbie and family. We are heartbroken for you over the unimaginable loss of Frank. Such a great man! He will be missed by so many. Our hearts go out to you. Sending Love, Shadi and Maureen Makarechi
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