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FRANK CARMEL

1954 - 2021

FRANK CARMEL obituary, 1954-2021, Washington, DC

BORN

1954

DIED

2021

FRANK CARMEL Obituary

CARMEL FRANK J. CARMEL Frank Joseph Carmel passed away on March 20, 2021, at the age of 66. Frank was the son of Melvin and Sylvia Garfinkel Carmel of Hampton, Virginia. He is survived by his wife, Debra Ellen Carmel, and his children, Mason Carmel and Spencer Carmel Worrell and her husband Justin Worrell. He is also survived by his sister Susan Carmel Wishnow of New Jersey and Leslie Carmel of Florida. Frank was born in Hampton, Virginia on May 11, 1954. He graduated from Kecoughtan High School in Hampton in 1972, from Virginia Polytechnic Institute with Distinction in 1976 and from the University of Virginia School of Law in 1979. Frank lived in Great Falls, Virginia from 2015 to the present. He was a gifted real estate lawyer who worked with several law firms in the Washington, DC. area before starting his own law firm, Carmel and Carmel, P.C. in 1984. Specializing in unique mixed-use properties, high end resorts and amenitized communities, Frank worked with the most prestigious developers, production home builders, hospitality companies and lenders through out the world, and was the leading expert in advising both domestic and foreign developers, lenders and investors in the legal issues involved in the marketing and sale of real estate in the U.S. Frank served on the Board of Directors of the American Association of Retirement Communities and was a long-term Board Member of the former National Land Council. He was an active member of Urban Land Institute and on the Recreational Development Council, the American Resort Development Association, the Association of Real Estate Licensing Law Officials and a number of other industry trade groups. Frank was well known for his warmth, kind spirit and keen sense of humor. A Renaissance man, he had many interests and hobbies. He was a passionate lover of music. Throughout his life and all the way to the present, Frank played keyboard in many bands and could perform on almost any instrument. His love of music was matched by his passion for Golf. While a hole-in-one at age 44 was certainly a highlight, there was nothing he loved more than playing 18 holes with his son, Mason. Frank was a world-class traveler and liked few things more than time at the beach with his family or time on the water. And his youthful spirit drove an insatiable passion for quirky gadgets and an endless love of animals (Frank always seemed to be flanked by his dogs). Frank was selflessly devoted to his family and friends, and his legacy includes a deep sense of the importance of family and friendship that he instilled in all who knew him. His very special quality was being "Uncle Frankie," as every child he came in contact with was charmed by this wonderful man. Services private. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests memorial donations to the Anti-Defamation League at https://www.adl.org. Sympathies may be shared with the family via the following website: Legacy.com. Services private. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests memorial donations to the Anti-Defamation League at https://www.adl.org. Sympathies may be shared with the family via the following website: Legacy.com.

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Published by The Washington Post on Mar. 25, 2021.

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Alan & Carol Schlaifer

August 3, 2021

Just learned about Frank's passing, and totally shocked and saddened. A true rock star - in so many ways - is gone, far too soon. If there were a lawyer's Walk of Fame, Frank's star would be on it, sparkling like his wit.

Heartfelt condolences from us to Debi and Frank's entire family.

jeff oettinger

April 13, 2021

I was shocked and saddened to hear this and will keep the Carmel family in my prayers. He was always kind to me and while our relationship was on the lighter level, he was always keeping me up to date on his family and children's lives and asking about mine all the same. He will be missed greatly.

Dwight Bush

April 13, 2021

My sincerest condolences on the loss of Frank Carmel. I was a frequent player of golf with Frank at Bethesda Country Club. I always looked forward top playing with him because of his easy going manner. Most importantly, we shared an interest in classical rock music. We could both sing the words of really obscure classics roach songs that no one in our groups knew, and we would then share a laugh. We also often talked our families, and he greatly loved you all. I will miss Frank greatly. May he Rest In Peace.
Respectfully yours,

Ambassador Dwight Bush

Susan Scharbach

March 31, 2021

While working in NYC regulating timeshares I met Frank and also his family many years ago at ARDA and Land Council meetings. He was kind, funny, informative and sharing of his knowledge of the industry. He had a great sense of humor and, in advocating for his clients, was always knowledgeable, creative and hard working. He was also considerate and supportive of the attorneys who worked for him.
My condolences to his family and friends. I am sure he will be greatly missed.

Janis Ehlers

March 29, 2021

I was so saddened to learn about Frank's passing. I admired him so much. We meet at an AARC conference many years ago and he was so gracious to me. He always extended an invitation to come and have lunch when I was in the area. It was so amazing he found time in his day to simply get together with someone and learn about them. I also thought it was so admirable that his professional career didn't define him as it does for many lawyers and he had so many other interests and talked about how much he enjoyed playing in a band. His loss is a tragedy.

Simone Taylor

March 28, 2021

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of God,family and friends. Please except my condolences.

David Lazarus

March 28, 2021

Frank was my favorite uncle. I was his eldest nephew. From the time I was single digits, I realized that Frank was great with kids. I always had fun with him when he was around. He would tickle me, tell jokes, let me ride on his back. He even let me drive his car as a young kid while sitting in his lap. Having said that, I remember a time when Frank took Matt, Judd and me to a store. He had us wait in the car. So, we decided to play a joke on him by moving the car into a different parking space. I honestly don’t remember the outcome. He probably wasn’t happy, but took it in stride nevertheless. I also remember a couple of occasions when Frank brought fireworks to his parents’ house on the fourth of July. While he set off the more elaborate ones, he would let us kids fire off bottle rockets. We also had great fun at his parents’ pool in the summer. He would “rock the pool” with us by making big splashes jumping off the diving board. He was always jovial and larger than life.

Frank was a legendary joke teller. He knew all sorts of story jokes. The kind I could never remember. They were always hilarious. I would beg him to tell me a dirty joke as a kid and he finally obliged with, “A white horse fell in a mud puddle.”

Frank introduced me to two of the best progressive rock bands back in the early 80s. The first being Yes. Then, after pleading with him to tell me of another keyboard player as good as Rick Wakeman, he introduced me to Emerson Lake and Palmer. As I recall, Frank also introduced me to King Crimson. Frank and Debi attended a King Crimson concert with me in 1995. If memory serves, they also both attended an Emerson Lake and Palmer concert with me in 1992. I still very much enjoy their music to this day as well as a whole host of other progressive rock bands. Thanks to Frank, progressive rock is one of my favorite genres.

While visiting Frank as a young adult, I always had great fun playing his synthesizer and grand piano. Though I mostly noodled around, Frank was always quite tolerant. He even tolerated my singing. Frank and I always had great conversations on a variety of topics. Though, since we both loved music, many of our conversations were about bands that we both enjoyed. Later into adulthood, Frank and I butted heads on a few occasions. However, I loved him very much and Frank will always be my favorite uncle. I already miss him dearly.

Ray Oneglia

March 28, 2021

Enjoyed many days of humor and friendship with Frank at the Golden Door. He truly was a unique individual in so many ways.

Ruth and Richard Crone

March 26, 2021

We were shocked so sadden to read about Frank's passing. We so enjoyed you and your family as neighbors on Clearwood Road for many years. Hard to believe that your wonderful children are all grown up and Mason is married! We are now in Virginia Beach. Our daughter was a teacher at Kecoughtan H.S. the year we arrived. Small world. Please know that we are thinking about all of you and send our sincere sympathy. The obituary was beautiful....a life well lived. Love Ruth and Dick

Kevin

March 26, 2021

I never had the pleasure to meet Frank but I have worked with Debi when she has volunteered for the organization for which I work. Debi is a cherished volunteer and has helped so many. She spoke highly of her husband and how his work helped inspire her interest in volunteering with us. For that I am eternally grateful. I am saddened by this tragic loss and have Frank, Debi and their family in my thoughts and prayers. There are no words that can truly comfort when a loved one is lost but Debi, I want you to know that myself and the victim advocates that you help support are here for you.

Robert Mills

March 26, 2021

We were good childhood friends. We played baseball in Phoebus Little League and went through school together, graduating from Kecoughtan High School. We also attended Virginia Tech together. It has been a great joy to be in communication with him the last few years. Always a great spirit. My condolences to the family.

Alaha Ahrar

March 25, 2021

I want to express my condolences to Frank's wife Debbie and his entire families.

Best regards,
Alaha Ahrar

Marta Bleich

March 25, 2021

Frank came into my son Keiran's life as his boss, but became his greatest mentor and friend. I have the greatest appreciation for all the time, help and experience he shared with a young college student starting out and growing into an accomplished lawyer. Without Frank's guidance it would certainly been a much more difficult path. Thank you Frank and Deb, Keiran still talks of you all often and his many years with you..thinking of you and sending love from the Midwest..

Pam Hale Johnson

March 25, 2021

My deepest sympathies to Frank’s family and all who loved him.

Maureen Makarechi

March 25, 2021

Debbie and family. We are heartbroken for you over the unimaginable loss of Frank. Such a great man! He will be missed by so many. Our hearts go out to you. Sending Love, Shadi and Maureen Makarechi

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