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Fred Bruder Obituary
FRED E. BRUDER
It is with deep sorrow we are announcing the passing of Fred Bruder on November 25, 2022 after a long valiant battle with lymphoma.
Born in Washington, DC to the late Wallace and Helen Bruder. He then moved to Arlington, VA in 1953 and lived in the same house until he passed away at the age of 76. Fred is deeply loved and sorely missed by his dear sister, Virginia; brother "Artie"; nephews, John and Mike; nieces, Cathy and Lisa and cousins, Pat and Lynette.
Fred attended Yorktown High School, followed by carrying newspapers for five years, and mowing lawns for many years. Then carrying the US Mail for 35 years. He developed many priceless friendships!
Fred was a man of deep faith and lived it! Also, he was wild about Corvettes, Lionel Trains, all kinds of music, long walks, and Thrashers fries.
Fred's deep rich contagious love, laughter, unending kindness and generosity is his living legacy that lives on in the many beautiful hearts he has so powerfully touched. There will be no service per his request.
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Judi and David Ballard
December 5, 2025
It is so hard to believe Fred went to live his Savior two years ago. So often a memory of Fred is enjoyed by David and me. Sharing a ride, yup, 3 of us riding in his Corvette, trips to York, PA and ice cream cones on the way back, his trains, playing pool in the basement and so many more. God blessed us with Fred and for that, we are truly grateful. Love you Fred! See you in Heaven. Judi and David. 5 November 2025
Walter Gose
December 7, 2023
Fred was a very special person in so many ways. He was loyal and compassionate to the ultimate. He had a big heart with no acrimony towards any one. A great neighbor and friend. Miss him like a brother.
Christina Ziegler
March 3, 2023
Fred became a wonderful caring friend to our family when he was a mail carrier in my parents neighborhood. We continued the friendship after my parents death. Fred always was upbeat and welcoming. Never said a bad word about anyone. He had a fantastic work ethic and a fantastic role model for the young and old. He will be missed by many and will always be in our hearts.
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Taneen Carvell (Coach T.)
March 3, 2023
Fred became an adopted member of the running team I coach after getting to talk with him week after week on his early morning walks around the Yorktown track over these past few years. We shared our passion for cars and he loved talking about his trips to see his family who he cherished so much. He looked after the team and helped cheer them on throughout the workout and always gave this coach needed encouragement as well. He made standing in the cold at 6am so warm and bright and we miss him dearly.
Joanie and Walter Gose
March 2, 2023
Fred was a great friend, he visited us in Winchester more than once a year and played a great game of pool! Obituary was right on target. Have been trying to find him for several weeks. Will miss his smile and attitude! We were in HS together.
Billy and Teresa Brooks
December 16, 2022
Fred was a one-of-a-kind, caring and considerate individual with an admiration of hot rods and trains. Bombing around in his Vette w/ the top down in cold weather, remembering he was once bestowed the asserted name as the Mayor of Arlington County. We lost a true friend.
David, Judi and Travis Ballard
December 14, 2022
God blessed us when Fred came into our lives. He was a devoted Christian who loved life, and his family and friends. Fred will be missed by all and will live on in the many memories we made over the years. Rest in Peace.
John and Elvira Busardo
December 13, 2022
I have known Fred since the 60's we were good friends the entire time and did many things together. We both will miss him, he has been a part of our lives. I consider Fred one of my best friends, not as a rankung but because he was one of the best people I ever knew
Joe and Tina Earman
December 11, 2022
Fred made friends everywhere he went. He was
that kind of guy. We will miss him very much.
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