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MOORE GEOFFREY H. MOORE 7/25/1952 - 11/6/2008 Geoffrey H. Moore died on Thursday, November 6, 2008 at Virginia Medical Hospital after a sudden illness. He was 56. Born on July 25, 1952 in Thomas, OK Geof was a 1974 graduate of the University of Oklahoma and received his master‘s degree in Japanese Studies from Yale University in 1976. He was a member of Phi Beta Kappa. Geof joined the State Department in 1976 as as a Foreign Service Officer and spent much of his 25 year career overseas, stationed in Panama, Korea, Japan, Jamaica, Thailand and Hong Kong and subsequently retiring in the Arlington, Va. area. In retirement, Geof enjoyed volunteering for the Homeless Animals Rescue Team of Fairfax, VA by serving as a foster parent for homeless pets. Geof married Alice Cook on May 1, 1981. Geof was a loving husband, brother and uncle who treasured his family and friends. He will be sorely missed. Geof is survived by his wife, loving parents Jack and Dorita Moore of Roswell, GA, sister Leslie Moore Gurley and her husband Tom Gurley, Jr. of Lake Charles, LA; loving nieces Jessica Anne Gurley and Stephanie Walters and loving nephew, Tom Gurley, III. Geof also had two honorary nieces, Alison and Jennifer Hight. A memorial mass will be held on Saturday, November 8, 2008 at 12:30 pm at St. Agnes Church of Arlington located at 1910 N. Randolph St. Arlington, VA 22207. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Homeless Animals Rescue Team of Fairfax, VA, www.hart90.org . Funeral arrangements will be by Murphy Funeral Homes of Arlington, VA, 703-920-4800.

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Published by The Washington Post from Nov. 7 to Nov. 8, 2008.

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Marilyn (Magruder) Jorgensen

August 14, 2019

So sorry to hear of Geoff's passing. We went to school and graduated from high school together. We rode the bus to and from Waynesville High School from Fort Leonard Wood, MO. He was so much fun, so smart, and was one of the Kirby Kids. His family must miss him so much. What a great guy and what a great loss.

December 30, 2009

Mrs. Moore,
I'm so sorry to learn of your husband's passing. He will be remembered fondly. I was just looking thru some of my stuff and saw that you had given me some Japanese stamps all those years ago when you were the head of AFS, Kingston. I just did a search just because and found this news. I remember you very well and my prayer is you will draw on the strenghts you have inside and outside to take each forward step. Sharon Parchment-Scott, Jamaica)

Another Santa for his collection

November 30, 2009

Anything for dogs, Santa?

November 30, 2009

Geof LOVED Christmas

November 30, 2009

Geof with Mimi, July 2008

November 30, 2009

On Alice's Mom's porch with dogs - summer '08

June 10, 2009

Putting Mom's grill together - summer '08

June 10, 2009

Bill Sherman

May 13, 2009

Alice, I just heard of Geof's death. I was one of his high school buddies. We had many fun times hanging at each other's houses. I always enjoyed Geof's bi-lingual arguments with his grandmother. I could only follow one side of the gagument but it was always interesting. Good to hear Geof was so well remembered by his friends.

Cherry Blossom Viewing - March 2008

March 26, 2009

Jim and Neevy Van Laningham

March 4, 2009

Dear Alice,

Neevy and I were so saddened to hear of Geoff's passing after learning of his obituary in the Foreign Service Journal. Geoff was a very special person, with whom both Neevy and I thoroughly enjoyed working. I have often considered the Admin team in Bangkok the best we could have possibly had, and Geoff was one of the principal reasons that the team worked so well together. He will be sorely missed by his many friends, and the world is poorer for losing him. You are in our prayers and thoughts.

Charlotte Hill

January 1, 2009

Alice - you are in my heart and in my prayers.

Bill Brown

December 27, 2008

Alice, I just happened to come across this sad news. It must be very hard for you. I hope you are doing OK. Bill Brown (Charlotte's brother, from Korea).

Michael Keays

December 17, 2008

Dear Alice, I send my heartfelt condolences to you and your family. The world is a less cheerful place without Geof. I was one of his students in the 64th A-100 class. His carefree, light-hearted attitude and common-sense approach to issues really helped to put things in perspective. As Jamaica was my first tour, I was all ears about his experiences there. I learned a lot from him, and will miss him.

Al Ishkanian & Ginny Schrenk

December 10, 2008

Dear Alice,
So sad to learn of Geof's passing. He was a forgiving boss and great friend. Regret not seeing more of you two in the last few years. We'll certainly treasure the good times we did share with you and Geof here and in Jamaica. Please stay well & keep in touch.

Santa's Helper in 2007

December 5, 2008

Geoffrey H. Moore, December 15, 2007

December 5, 2008

Ravi Candadai

November 19, 2008

Alice, My deepest condolences to you and your family on Geof's passing away. I, like his other A-100 protégés, benefited greatly from his mentorship. His low-key approach to things and his ability to sense humor in the intransigent bureaucracy made me realize I, too, could make a go of my own career. We will miss him. Ravi Candadai, 58th A-100 Class (1991)

Paul Sigur

November 18, 2008

Dear Alice - I was deeply saddened to learn of Geof's sudden passing. I fondly remember the times we shared with you and Geof in Hong Kong. Our prayers are with you and your families.

Cecilia & Naomi Consular Section

November 18, 2008

Alice,

Our thoughts are with you during this difficult period.

Barbara Zigli

November 17, 2008

Geof certainly brought a lot of happiness and sheer fun into my life, and I see from these comments that he did the same for many, many other people. He had such a great philosophy of life, I just hope to be able to hang on to it, and maybe spread it around a little more, because that would be the best legacy.

Kristin Palm Jones

November 14, 2008

I was another of Geof's students in the 66th A-100 class privileged to get to know Geof and his terrific sense of humor. He again greeted me many years later when I was living in Hong Kong having left the foreign service, as none other than Santa Claus at the Embassy Christmas party! My kids were lucky to meet him and he will be missed. You and your family will be in our prayers.

Colin Furst

November 14, 2008

Dear Alice,

Jenny and I have had such heavy hearts since hearing the news about Geof. He was truly one of my favorite people in the entire Foreign Service: genuine, refreshingly laid back and, let's admit it, hilarious. Please know that we're thinking of you. He will be missed.

John Higi

November 13, 2008

My deepest condolences to the Moore family and kin. I too am saddened to hear that Geof was taken from us so suddenly.

Geof was a great guy whom I had the honor to learn from when he was guiding our Foreign Service 66th A-100 Class in 1993.

His stories about handling crises like hurricanes in Jamaica, or his pithy guidance ("Don't be a jerk") has helped a lot of Foreign Service professionals, myself included.

I suspect that his spirit will live on and, I hope, for a long time to come.

God bless and may you find some comfort in these words which are so inadequate to the task of respecting and remembering him.

Mary Avery

November 13, 2008

Dear Alice: I was so saddened by the news of Geof's untimely passing. You and all of Geof's family are in my thoughts at this difficult time. I was one of his trainees in A-100. His impact on the new FSOs he trained cannot be underestimated. He was supportive and real and gave us great advice which I have passed along many times in the last 16 years.
With sympathy,

Catherine Kay

November 12, 2008

Alice:

Diane Castiglione was kind enough to pass the word about Geof to us. Needless to say, we were shocked and deeply saddened to hear the news. Please know that you are in our hearts and prayers. If there is anything we can do, do not hesitate to contact us.

I cannot tell you how many times over the years I have repeated the story of Geof's wise counsel in A-100: "Don't be a jerk!" It makes me smile every time I think of it.

Russel Brown

November 12, 2008

Dear Alice: As one the many folks in the Foreign Service who benefited from Geof's generous and mentoring spirit, it was a great shock to hear of his untimely passing. Please know that he left a lasting legacy on this career by standing as a model of integrity and forthrightness for an entire generation of FSOs. He will be missed.

Raymond Hotz

November 12, 2008

Dear Alice,

I was deeply saddened to hear of Geoff's passing. Please accept my deepest sympathy. Geoff was my A-100 course coordinator. His kindness, friendship, and wisdom were a welcome introduction to the strange new world of the Foreign Service. After almost 16 years, the opportunity to learn from and work with Geoff, John, and Diane remains one of my greatest privileges. His simple advice -- "Don't be a jerk" -- remains the mantra for his pupils, keeping us on track or helping us to correct course when needed. He will be missed.

You and all Geoff's family are in my prayers.

Warm Regards,

Ray Hotz

Mark Johnson

November 12, 2008

"Don't be a jerk". Words to live by in this career and others. We are all much better officers and people for having Geoff as a mentor.

Judy Dominguez

November 12, 2008

Dear Alice,

We were deeply saddened to receive your news about Geof. He had such a marvelous outlook on life and always made us feel welcome at your home wherever you were both living at the time. Prayers for Geof will be heard around the world. May you find strength in his memory. God Bless. Warmly, Frank and Judy Dominguez -Bangkok, Thailand

Raymond Kengott

November 11, 2008

Alice: I was so sorry to hear of Geoff's passing. He was a great supervisor and friend during my tour in Hong Kong. I learned a great deal by talking with him about how he dealt with problems and by observing how he interacted with everyone in the Consulate. He was kind and considerate to everyone, from the front office to the Char force who cleaned the offices. Geoff was just a very special guy. Geoff and you will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Ray and Kit Kengott (Singapore)

Joyce Li and Lily Chan

November 11, 2008

Dear Alice,
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow. We'll miss Geof and his warm smile.

Maryellen Reardon

November 11, 2008

Dear Alice: I did not know Geof although I wish I had after reading all of these beautiful words about him. The reference about Geof using the phrase of "Revolution from below!" reminded me of your father's comments that "There will be none of this after the revolution!". As I say, I did not really know him, but I always knew that Geof was special because you chose him. May he rest in peace.

Philip Skotte

November 11, 2008

Dear Alice:

Please accept our condolences on Geoff's passing. Geoff provided my introduction to the Foreign Service and he made it more human than I expected from a big government organization. His mantra "don't be a jerk" is one I still repeat to new officers that I manage. And when, one week after the start of A-100, I sheepishly asked him if I could miss a few days of A-100 for the birth of our first child, he told me to "get outta town." I appreciated his warm human feelings, his infectious laugh and his passion for the work he prepared us for.

God be with you during this time of sadness.

Phil and Maribeth Skotte

Karin and Steve Lang

November 11, 2008

Alice, it is so moving to see how many people's lives Geof touched and how much he is mourned in so many places. All of us who served with you and Geof in Bangkok have such happy memories of him. Apart from being a great guy to everyone in the Embassy, I recall that as HR officer he brought a sense of humor and perspective to the EER process that it sorely needed. In fact I can't think of a memory of Geof that doesn't involve laughing over something. He was just such a great guy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Erin & Steve Sibinich

November 10, 2008

Dear Alice
We are so saddened by your loss. Geoff was such a kind and caring man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Marie Damour

November 10, 2008

Alice, I was so very sorry to hear about Geoff's death. I will never forget the line Geoff and John Limbert preached to our A-100 class almost 16 years ago, "Revolution from below!" I've tried to preach that in turn to the officers I've worked for and with since that time. He was not just a great teacher for new officer, he was a very good man and a wonderful example of service. He will be missed.

John and Parvaneh Limbert

November 10, 2008

Dear Alice,

Please accept our sincerest condolences. The news came as a terrible shock, particularly since we had seen the two of you in October. It was privilege to have known Geoff and to have worked with him at FSI.

Alaina Teplitz

November 10, 2008

Alice,

Geof was my A-100 coordinator and he left a lasting impression on our group. We selected our class motto, "Don't be a jerk," based on the practical wisdom he imparted and the good humor he exuded. I'm so sorry to learn of Geof's sudden passing. We're all certainly richer for having known him. May he rest in peace.

Kelly Shoup

November 10, 2008

Geof, your physical presence was sorely missed on Saturday but all of the volunteers felt you in spirit. It was not a somber day, but one of celebration for a great volunteer who has crossed the rainbow bridge to meet up with many of our four legged friends. We'll be thinking of you fondly.

Patrick Quigley

November 10, 2008

Dear Alice -

Please accept my condolences. Geof was my A-100 coordinator more than 15 years ago, but I still remember him and his "war stories" about Foreign Service life. He will be missed.

L. A. Eldemir

November 10, 2008

It is very sad to hear that Geoff has left us so early. He was a wise and worldy person who successfully shepherded hundreds of us into the Foreign Service. We will always remember his guidance, kindness, and humor.

Scott Hamilton

November 10, 2008

Dear Alice:

Please accept my most sincere condolences. Geof was my first boss in the foreign service when I started the A-100 class in late 1992, and I will always remember with fondness his dedication to ensuring that we had a good experience during the months we spent together. He had the class laughing numerous times, especially when he made a show of welcoming those of us who had joined the service from legal practice. He always said he was on a personal crusade to cut down on the number of lawyers in the country, and any lawyer who could be enticed to leave legal work was a big plus for him. Throughout the time we spend in A-100, Geof could always be counted on to give us a straight answer to questions, interpret rules in light of his own experiences, and in general made us enthusiastic about the profession he had enjoyed so much. He is already missed.

Mary Ann Cover

November 10, 2008

Dear Alice,
Although we didn't get together often, I remember our time spent with you and Geof fondly. Standouts include the Jamaica gathering with you two, Jane C. and me at the Grand Lido resort. Geof always seemed to go with the flow and add to the fun. The last time I saw him was an Easter visit. He dog sat while we went to buy a new jacket for John--a major bargain!! I hope you can find some comfort in knowing he will always be fondly remembered and is now at peace. My love and prayers--M.A.

Samuel Dykema

November 10, 2008

Dear Alice - As one of Jeffs many 63rd A-100 admirers I am doubly saddend to hear since I would have so liked to have gotten back in touch and regailed him with stories of the Jerks I have met (and sometimes been). His legacy was as a caring and sharing person rare in our fast world of superficialities. You have my deepest sympathy. Samuel Dykema Embassy Ashgabat

Judy Reed

November 9, 2008

Dear Alice,
I wish I could express my condolences in person. Geof was a great friend to Mike and I know he is missing him terribly. I am sorry, deeply sorry for your loss. May God give you the strength you need in this difficult passage of life.

Michael Reed

November 9, 2008

Alice,

It was in Hong Kong where I had the chance to spend time with the both of you. Even after his retirement I could call you both friends and was able to stop by a couple of times to see you both.

I will miss him dearly for he was a friend to me and all others that had a chance to know him. He will be greatly missed by us all. He will always be with me as I travel the world.

Richard and Tacla Boohaker

November 9, 2008

Dearest Alice,

Our sincere and heartfelt condolences for your loss. We have fond memories from our time together in Bangkok. - It was a shock to hear of Geof's passing. Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this sad time. May God rest his soul.

Chrissy Costis

November 8, 2008

I was saddened beyond words to hear of the loss of Geof. He was sorely missed today at HART by four legged and two legged friends alike. My thoughts and prayers go out to Alice and the family in this difficult time.

George & Ellen Haines

November 8, 2008

Dear Alice,
We will always have great memories of our time together in Jamaica, even though we are "jerks" for not getting together here in Northern Virginia. Now we have run out of time. Love and best wishes,

Jay Anania

November 8, 2008

Dear Alice, Dorita and Jack,

We share your sorrow and shock at Geof's untimely passing. All of us have so many happy memories of spending time with Geof. He was always ready to share his warmth, smile and love, and always a true gentleman. Nicholas and Michael will always think of him as Uncle Geof, and Nicholas mourns the loss of his godfather.

We miss him deeply and will always remember him with love and affection. We will be at mass here in Berlin during your mass in Arlington, and you will all be in our thoughts and prayers. We wish we could be with you during this time of sadness.

With all of our love,

The Anania Family

CARMEN CALONGE

November 8, 2008

Dear Dorita, Jack and Alice,
I understand your great sorrow, and I am also very sad. I have offered my Mass for Geof this morning. May it confort you to know that I am remembering you fondly and prayerfully.

Bart Cobbs

November 7, 2008

Dear Alice, We were shocked and saddened to hear of Geof's passing. His humor and kindness will endure in the memories of all those whose lives he touched. May God bless and keep him. Bart, Liz, and Kenneth Cobbs

Carol Leventhal

November 7, 2008

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Cheryl Finn

November 7, 2008

Dearest Alice,
We were so very sorry to have learned of Geoffrey's sudden illness and death. Please know that our family shares your sorrow, and will continue to remember you in prayer. I know that my Mom, Hazel, will be standing there to welcome him home. And I'm sure your Dad and he have already shared a good smile or two.
With love,
Cheryl and Charles Finn & Family

Juliana Wong

November 7, 2008

Dear Dorita: I offer my prayers for
Geoff and am with you spiritually in
these moments of sorrow trusting in
the love of our Heavenly Father.
Love to all the family. Juliana

Mary Dolan

November 7, 2008

November 7, 2008

I will miss you dearly. So glad we had a chat on Tuesday morning.

Miss Mimi

Cathy Haffner

November 7, 2008

Dear Alice,

I was so shocked and devastated to hear of Geof's passing. He was such a bright star in this world and all his friends at HART (2 and 4 legged) will miss him dearly. You are both about the nicest people I have ever met. I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers in this time of sorrow.

Michelle and Tony Bernier-Toth/Toth

November 7, 2008

We have lost Geof but will always remember the times well spent in his company. Our thoughts and prayers are with Alice and Geof's family.

Mary and George Bell

November 7, 2008

For All of Geoff's Family and Many Friends:

We are very sad to lose Geoff. He was a joy to be with and always made you feel better for having shared some time with him. He will be missed by all who knew him.
May he rest in peace.

Dawn Santiago

November 6, 2008

Even though I had not seen you, dear cousin, in so many years, I will miss you, the eldest of the Moore grandkids. I will always remember when you and Leslie met me at the Atlanta airport on that last meeting, and then our phone conversation from a few years ago when we finally touched base one last time. May God bless your soul and keep you safe in heaven.

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