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Herbert Stuart MacArthur
Age 52 of McLean, VA died peacefully on Monday, October 3, 2016. He was born in Africa of diplomatic parents, spent part of his childhood in Morocco, and was a long time resident of McLean, VA. Imbued with a terrific work ethic, he retired early as Partner from Booz Allen Hamilton. In recent years he enjoyed more time with his family and built with them, their beautiful camp in the Adirondacks. Instantly helpful and generous beyond measure, Herbert struck everyone he met with his warmth, elegance, and can-do attitude. He showed an early passion for music, nailed Beethoven on the piano as a young boy, and this enthusiasm for artists of all genres never waned. An imp as a young lad, he carried his humor and vibrant spirit with him until the very end. Predeceased in death by his father, Archibald Gordon MacArthur. He is survived by his wife, Lisa Timblin MacArthur, two children, Kate and Christian; his mother, Annerose; siblings, Gordon (Mary) and Edith (Tom) MacArthur. He was blessed with an enormous, broader family whom he loved: the clan MacArthur; family Sprunck; and in-law Timblins, as well as numerous friends and acquaintances. A memorial gathering will be held on Tuesday, October 11, 2016 at 2 p.m. at the Vienna Presbyterian Church, 124 Park St., NE, Vienna, VA 22180. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that memorial tributes be made in Herbert's name to the Adirondack Council. adirondackcouncil.org/Donate-Join/Tribute[adirondackcouncil.org] Giving.
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Memories and Condolences
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Thornton Burnette
October 3, 2024
8 years and the sting is just as painful as it was then. I miss you, Herbie. There's still a huge hole in my life that your friendship filled.
Mark Gerrard
March 26, 2024
This is heartbreaking. I'm in town from Colorado and looked Herbert up to get some dinner at our favorite restaurant, Lebanese Taverna and saw his obituary. Herbert and I met at ROH back in the 80s then he went to onto another company, the name of which escapes me. I then went there too on his recommendation than we both met our respective wives there. My condolences to Lisa and the children and Herb's parent's and his brother Gordon and sister Edith.
Gale Smith
November 6, 2016
I just learned of Herbert's passing and am saddened beyond words. As a former Partner and colleague at Booz Allen Hamilton, I knew him as man of tremendous integrity, compassion, and a drive for highest quality of life for all around him. The world has lost an exceptional human being. My thoughts and prayers are with his family. May he Rest In Peace.
Glen Bruels
November 6, 2016
Deb and I were deeply saddened by Herbert's passing. He was a true partner and great friend who was always upbeat and helpful. He also was an avid fisherman who graciously encouraged those of lesser skill during our annual fly fishing trips. Lastly, he was a man of courage and conviction -- whether in dealing with issues at work or when facing his own illness. Our deepest sympathies to the family. May his deep love for you be in your hearts and carry you in the years ahead.
Patrick Peck
October 25, 2016
Debbie and I are saddened by this news. Herbert was a "huge" breath of fresh air! Always positive, always smiling and always up for a fun time. I enjoyed our discussions - thoughtful, heartfelt and practical. I am honored to have been a member of Herbert's Pinehurst "Big Man" golf games.
Richard Handler
October 17, 2016
Leslie and I are saddened. Our sympathies are extended to Lisa, Kate, and Christian. It was our fortune to meet Herbert by selling him our Upper Saranac Lake home. We were immediately friends, and in so many ways, from music to outdoor recreation, kindred spirits. Wish we had met many years earlier.
Thornton Burnette
October 14, 2016
No words can express the loss of Herbert from my life. He was my dearest, and most loyal friend. I will relish the memories we amassed during his lifetime, and hope to share them with any who want to listen. For those fortuante enough to know him, Herb will always live in our hearts. May God bless Lisa, Kate, Christian, Annarose, Gordon, Edith and the rest of the clan MacArthur during this time, and may you find comfort in knowing that Herbert is most certainly resting with Him. Love and prayers to you all.
William C. Janeway, Executive Director
October 12, 2016
Everyone at the Adirondack Council was deeply saddened to learn of Herbert's passing. We will continue to look to Herbert's legacy for inspiration as we work to protect this place that he loved. On behalf of all of us at the Adirondack Council, I extend my deepest sympathy to the entire MacArthur family for your loss of a dear husband, father, sibling, and son. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and during this difficult time.
October 11, 2016
Dear MacArthur family, I had the pleasure of working with Herb through Rebuilding Together. He was a person of passion and commiment and touched all he came to know. He was a leader and had a vision that made a difference. He was kind and thoughtful. I learned much from him and am saddened that he has been taken from so many who were benefitted by his investment in them. I know this must be a difficult time for you and will keep you in my prayers. Know that he inspired so many and he will be well remembered through those he touched and helped. With a very sad good bye to Herb, respectfully, Debbie Lawrence, Hyattsville, Maryland
Jennifer Hopkins
October 11, 2016
Dear Lisa, Kate & Christian, Words will never be able to express how saddened I was to hear of Herbert's and your fathers passing. I will remember him for his strong spirit, intellect, smile and most important his love for his family. Gone much too soon.
Thinking of you during this time. - Jennifer Hopkins
Janice Daue Walker
October 11, 2016
Dear MacArthur Family,
I am deeply saddened by this news. Herbert and I served on Rebuilding Together's board together. He was the consummate gentleman, who taught me many things. He was kind and generous. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.
With much sympathy,
Kelly Michaud
October 10, 2016
Lisa - I'm so very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your children during this very sad time and sending prayers of comfort to you. God speed.
Anna Fernau
October 10, 2016
Lisa, Kate and Christian, so sorry for this tragic loss. Herbert was a wonderful person and I always enjoyed running into him while walking the dogs. He lived his life with strength and faith and I know from our last conversation that he carried both those things with him. I hope you will also be comforted by faith at this difficult time.
October 9, 2016
I am very sorry, Lisa, Kate and Christian. Herbert was such a kind-hearted person. Seems God always takes the good ones. We are here for you. XOXO
Joyce Doria
October 9, 2016
I was so saddened to hear of the loss of Herbert. I will remember him for his strong intellect, can do attitude, loyal spirit, and brilliant smile. Gone much too soon.
Thinking of Lisa and his children at this difficult time.
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