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James Duffey Obituary


James Donald Duffey  
It is with great sadness that the family of James Donald Duffey, Jr. of McLean, Virginia announces his passing on September 10, 2019. Beloved husband of Deborah Duffey; father of James Duffey III; son of the late James D. Duffey, Sr and Gertrude (Scully) Duffey; brother of Kathy Whelan, Stephen Duffey, Brian Duffey, and the late Megan Smith and Alexandra Duffey. He is also survived by many nieces, nephews and cousins.Mr. Duffey enjoyed a long and diverse international career. Most recently he served in the cabinet of former Governor Bob McDonnell as Secretary of Technology for the Commonwealth of Virginia. He began his career as an attorney as a litigator for Department of the Navy in Washington, DC. From there he became Legal Counsel at Electronic Data Systems in Virginia and London. Being fluent in both Spanish and Italian, "Duff" spent the next 12 years as Managing Director of EDS Iberian, Italian, and Asia Pacific Strategic Business Units. At the Iberian division he and his team designed and implemented the NET Result for the 1992 Barcelona Olympic Games. On his return to the USA, Mr. Duffey and his family moved to Dallas, Texas EDS Corporate Headquarters. There Mr. Duffey was responsible for Sales and Business Development Worldwide.After three years, Mr. Duffey returned to Washington, DC as SBU President of Public Sector overseeing federal, state and local, civilian and military.Mr. Duffey had an active role in the Northern Virginia Technology Council serving as a Board Member and Vice Chair. He served on numerous Boards including George Mason University Foundation, the Kidney Foundation, Wolf Trap Foundation, AFCEA International and Hoop Dream Scholarship Fund. He worked briefly as VP and GM at Dell Computers. He earned Juris Doctorate at New England School of Law, following a Bachelor Degree from University of Virginia.A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at St. Theresa of Avila Parish, 2078 Centre St., West Roxbury, MA on Friday, September 20 at 10 a.m. followed by interment at Old Mt. Calvary Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Mass General Hospital Pulmonary Critical Care or Spaulding Rehabilitation Center, Boston MA. Online condolences and fond memories may be shared with the family at: www.moneyandking.com and Gormley Funeral Home, West Roxbury, MA.

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Published by The Washington Post from Sep. 15 to Sep. 17, 2019.

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Jeanne Knight

September 20, 2019

Dear Deborah and Jimmy,
I am at a loss for words after hearing this sad news. However I have wonderful memories of Duffy and you and our wonderful years in England. I still have my perfect wedding gown that Duffy picked out for me on that crazy day in London. My love, thoughts and prayers to you!! Love Ted and Jeanne

N. S.

September 17, 2019

My deepest sympathy to the family of James Duffey. May you be comforted in knowing that our Heavenly Father cares for you. He will give you strength and courage to cope with your grief. Psalm 94:17-19

Hunter Richards

September 16, 2019

Dear Deborah and Jimmy,

Words cannot express the sadness I feel upon hearing of the passing of Jim. We were roommates at UVA my fourth and his third year and his friendship left an indelible impression upon me. He was one-of-a-kind and I treasure our times together.

My prayers go out to you both in this time of sorrow and I hope your recollections of Duffey will be as fond as mine.

Sarah Shlakman

September 16, 2019

It was obvious from the outset of his career with EDS as a lawyer that Duff could achieve success in that role, but more so, very substantial success as a business leader. His engaging personality, his natural leadership skills and being the person in any group who was looked to for direction and inspiration, his ability to balance risk and reward in any transaction, and his passion to succeed in both job and family so brilliantly balanced, singled him out as a future business leader. He left us too early, but for those who knew him, he left us enriched for the experience.

Jim Murphy

September 16, 2019

Deborah and Jimmy
There are no words to express how I feel along with all the Murphy's. I try to move on with good memories and hope you can too. He was truly loved and appreciated. Sending my prayers and love to the two of you.

Billy Chorey

September 15, 2019

Jim will be missed by many many people especially his brothers of Phi Delta Theta fraternity from the University of Virginia. He was just with us a couple years ago in Atlanta and his passing makes us all realize the incredible brevity of life. Deborah, James, and family, please know that you all are in our prayers.....He was one good man....

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